Make Him Fall For You With One Of These 6 Scientifically Proven Ways

Make Him Fall For You With One Of These 6 Scientifically Proven Ways

Want to know a secret about making guys fall for you?

Most of the time, when a guy falls for a girl and really likes her – it’s for one of a few basic reasons. Pretty much every time.

That’s the power of psychology for you.

And if you want to be able to make a man fall for you like you’re pushing a button – you need to know what makes a guy fall for a girl – and how to control it.

Want to know the good news for you? It’s not that hard to melt his heart.

All it takes is the initial attraction. After that – if you want a real relationship with him – he has to want to connect with you.

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That’s where these 6 ways to get him to fall for you come in.

Here’s exactly how to forge that connection with him and build a relationship that stands the test of time.

1. Build His Adrenaline

The secret to getting a guy to fall for you might be through his heart – but not in the way you’re thinking.

If you get his heart pumping like he’s been on a roller coaster, it tricks his brain into thinking his excitement is actually arousal at being with you – and creates a much deeper connection between you than you’d think (1).

I’m not telling you to jump out of a plane with him (even though you could!) but if you do anything that’s at least moderately exciting to him, it’s going to stimulate him – and make him find you more attractive.

What To Do:

This one is pretty simple. It doesn’t have to be bungee jumping – you could just do a sporty activity with him like play pickup basketball or tennis.

Or, if you’d rather relax, a scary movie can get the adrenaline flowing – as could a super-competitive board game. Whatever it is, get his heart rate up, and watch the sparks fly (2).

2. Up The Body Contact

Want to know why the early parts of a relationship are so good? It’s because at that point, the relationship is all about lust – and the corresponding chemicals that get released in the brain.

When people are in ‘lust’, their brains get flooded with dopamine – which is incredibly pleasurable, as well as addicting. It’s what makes you want to think about him all the time (3).

Unfortunately, that lust filled, dopamine flooded phase can’t last. However – you can keep those lusty chemicals flowing in his brain… if you know what to do.

What To Do:

Try cuddling a lot with him – and keeping the body contact high. Cuddling is a way to get his brain to release dopamine and make him feel warm and close to you – building intimacy.

Plus, it will also release another chemical in his brain, called oxytocin, which boosts his attraction for you. If it seems like you lose guys after a few weeks or a couple months – this is the method for you.

3. Share Secrets With Him

If you want to create a feeling of closeness and intimacy with him – one of the best ways to do it is to reveal secrets about yourself.

Telling him secrets implies to him that you trust him – and also unconsciously pushes him to reciprocate and trust you back. He’ll feel like if you’re comfortable sharing secrets with him, he should be comfortable sharing secrets with you.

Now, it doesn’t even have to be a secret – even talking about yourself and revealing parts of what makes you really you will work to create this intimacy.

Remember – be careful with this approach. Information overload right from the get go could have negative consequences – and do the opposite of what you’re looking for.

What To Do:

Try talking about yourself more – especially if you just met him. Share things with him, like what you like, what you don’t like, where you’re from, and the basics. Remember to leave him space to tell you the same things!

As you two share more and more, it will naturally move to deeper and deeper territory – which will promote more and more powerful feelings of intimacy and trust with each other.

4. Frequently See Each Other

The more you see each other and run into each other, the more comfortable with each other you’ll be.

Sounds simple, right? It’s the reason why the first time you saw each other you might have admired him from afar, the second time you might have sent each other smiles, and the third time you could have struck up a conversation.

Basically, the principle goes like this – the more frequently you see someone, the more attracted you are to them.

What To Do:

Try to run into him often. If you know that he goes to the gym, or to a coffee shop, or if you know where he works, try to make sure you run into each other.

Remember, the more you see each other, the more attracted to each other you become, and the more likely he is to fall for you.

5. Mirror Each Other

Want to know one of the most important aspects of attraction? It’s similarity.

People like people who are similar to themselves. Ever talk to someone and find out more and more about them – and start getting butterflies in your stomach? That’s because you’re finding out that you’re more and more alike.

If you haven’t met him yet and are going to meet him for the first time – try mirroring his body language, movements, and gestures to show him you’re interested and get him to like you.

If you have met him, find common ground that you have with him – like shared taste in sports, movies, books, music, anything!

What To Do:

If you’re out with him and he takes a sip of his drink, wait a few seconds then take a sip of yours. Or, match his posture, or otherwise mirror his body language. Another tactic is repeating a word or a phrase he used earlier in the conversation.

And if you’re trying to find common ground between your personalities – don’t worry if you like different things. Really, what’s important is that you’re open and receptive about the things he’s interested in. It’s not about being head over heels in love with the same things – it’s about sharing the things you love with someone else.

6. Woo Him With Body Language

When you first fall for someone – chances are you didn’t fall for their personality.

That’s because first sight, and first impressions, are super important. It’s all about initial attraction – and physical attraction plays a huge role.

However, it’s not all about having the perfect body. In fact, there are plenty of physical cues that have nothing to do with how you look, and everything to do with making him feel attracted to you.

For instance – pheromones (meaning how you smell) – play a huge role in attraction. It’s totally unconscious – but it can spell the difference between a “hello” and something that lasts longer. So can another powerful tool – body language.

What To Do:

When we’re more excited, our bodies compensate – by blinking faster. Get my drift?

Try batting your eyelashes at him – and blinking more than you often would – to signal to him that you’re interested without saying anything at all.

Another way that people signal attraction is whether you lean towards him – or he leans towards you. People will lean towards the person they’re most concentrated on – and it’s a great way to indicate you’re attracted to him while unconsciously priming him to be attracted to you.

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In summary…

Scientifically Proven Ways To Make Him Fall For You

  1. Build his adrenaline
  2. Up the body contact
  3. Share secrets with him
  4. Frequently see each other
  5. Mirror each other
  6. Woo him with body language

ways to make him fall for you

31 comments… add one
  • Marylouise February 8, 2016, 4:23 pm

    Stellar work there eveyrone. I’ll keep on reading.

  • Dinah Ford November 12, 2015, 9:59 am

    Great tips! I am going to use these next time I am looking for a cute guy.

  • Crissy Williams November 12, 2015, 9:50 am

    Basically, if the guy is going to flirt with you, send the flirt back and that should send a clear signal, don’t you think?

  • Beverly Churchill November 11, 2015, 8:42 am

    I do not care what anyone says, body language WILL get attention :)

  • Tiffany Cherry November 10, 2015, 9:51 am

    I can appreciate these tips. But I do not feel that these alone will do the trick for guys that I like.

  • Jean Thompson November 9, 2015, 9:46 am

    When I met my husband, we spent every single day together. We were both without partners for a few years and it was just a matter of our work schedules working out the best for us. Things are great!

  • Maria Comeaux November 8, 2015, 12:10 pm

    I think you have to be careful when sharing secrets with him. You do not want to do it too early as you might not be sure the type of person this guy is and the secret might end up on the evening news.

    • Jimmy Malley November 11, 2015, 8:54 am

      This is a good point and it works the other way around, too. Guys need to keep a lid on things until they are sure they can trust the person they are spilling secrets to.

  • Janet Luciano November 6, 2015, 9:59 am

    Falling for a guy, or a girl, is not something that you can plan, in my opinion. I have experienced this first hand, but it just happened, out of nowhere. I think that makes it more genuine.

  • Anne Sanmiguel November 6, 2015, 9:46 am

    Spend as much time as you can with him. That will show him that you are interested in him and in most cases, he will drop everything else to do the same.

    • Robin Cooper November 7, 2015, 9:46 am

      That is what I have been doing. We see each other so much that we are thinking about moving in together. Is that a good situation to be in?

  • Carol Musselman November 5, 2015, 9:08 am

    I would love to have a guy fall for me, but I do not want to encourage it to happen. I just want it to happen on its own.

    • Courtney Brock November 10, 2015, 10:01 am

      Me too. I want to know that a guy is going to do it because HE wants to.

  • Thelma Dever November 5, 2015, 8:56 am

    If you are going to up the body language than you better be ready to commit. You will be sending a message that he might take too far.

    • Elsa Maggard November 7, 2015, 9:57 am

      Yes. There are many woman that mean to be flirty and over bearing with the body language, but they have no REAL interest in the guy. Then they are shocked when the guy tried to make a move.

  • Shawn Lamb November 4, 2015, 2:36 pm

    I would like to chime in here and say that these are great ways to get a man to fall for you. Now, each of them is different, but these tips would have me falling all day long!

  • Laverne Gonzalez November 1, 2015, 5:33 pm

    If you pull out your best body language act, you are going to get a guy heated up very quickly.

    • Jaleesa Washington November 9, 2015, 9:56 am

      You got that right! Most of the guys that I am with crumble when I get close to them!

  • Marie Smith October 31, 2015, 9:17 am

    I have tried to find out what this guy at work likes to do on the weekends, but there isn’t anyone that knows. How do I go about finding out so that I can “bump” into him on the weekends?

  • Leigh Davis October 31, 2015, 8:52 am

    I have noticed that the more I bump into a guy that I have been spending time with anyways, the relationship seems to move a little faster.

    • Samantha Cannella November 8, 2015, 12:19 pm

      This is very true. I have also noticed that when a guy does not have a bunch of friends getting in the way, things move along good as well.

  • Chelsea White October 30, 2015, 3:02 pm

    I found that seeing each other at least one time per weekend is a great way to keep the fire burning throughout the week that you might be apart.

  • Amy Chase October 29, 2015, 9:31 am

    Great! I have been trying to hard to get any guy to like me that I think I push them away as soon as they want to get a little closer. I am going to have to follow this advice.

    • Deb Denton November 1, 2015, 5:54 pm

      Hey, I am in the same situation as you. Good luck! I am also going to follow this advice!

  • Linda Hafner October 29, 2015, 9:19 am

    Scientifically proven, LOL. I think any of these would work just fine, regardless of the type of guy or if science is even really included in the test.

    • Ann Kaplan November 1, 2015, 5:45 pm

      Well, sometimes, these types of things get the chemicals going inside your body and that would be science, right?

  • Carey Lindsey October 24, 2015, 9:13 am

    The way guys are around me, body language would easily turn things up a little bit.

    • Rita Edwards October 30, 2015, 3:12 pm

      That is because they are immature teens probably :)

    • Ami Andrade October 31, 2015, 9:06 am

      I was thinking the same thing. Just need to grow up a little.

    • Delma Santos November 4, 2015, 2:51 pm

      I am with Rita. Something this simple can turn on the most immature man. Just like when they were boys :)

  • Shirley Starnes October 24, 2015, 9:01 am

    I like the idea of getting his adrenaline going. The first thing I thought about was getting close to him, but then I read about the sports and stuff. That makes sense too!

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