This article is going to change your entire view on sex. You will understand why at the end. Just be patient.
Having an amazing sex life filled with variety and spontaneity is the key to making a relationship last, having fun when hooking up with new people and enjoying sex as much as possible.
The fact that you are here right now reading this mean you already have an advantage. Why? Because you are open minded and want to learn.
Well, you are in the right place because I’m going to give you an overview of some of the best sex positions that both women and men love.
Since mutual satisfaction is the ultimate goal for any sexual encounter, you will really want to go for positions that drive both of you wild.
Remember: Pleasing the woman they are with and giving her an orgasm is one of the biggest turn-on’s to most men.
Luckily for you, you do not have to go memorize porn or read the Kama Sutra in order to have some sexy-sex-positions in your arsenal.
Enough foreplay, though, here are the ten best sex positions guaranteed to enhance your sex life:
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These are in no special order, all are equally “good.” The best sex position simply depends on what your preferences are and the mood you’re in.
The 12 Best Most Pleasurable Sex Positions
1. Classic Missionary Position
This classic position is often considered to be “vanilla” and “too boring.” Since when? This is a classic position for a reason.
He is in control but you’re also able to spice things up by grabbing him and bringing him deeper into you or digging your nails into him to make him feel you want more.
Another benefit is this position is, well, comfortable. And you can make eye contact, adding to the intimacy. Looking into each other’s eyes while he is inside you adds to the romance as well.
tip: Use a prop such as a pillow to prop your hips up and so that he will be able to thrust deeper.
2. The Frog
This is a variation of the missionary position your legs are wrapped around his shoulders. Wrapping your legs around him is a simple way to drive him crazy. You will probably feel sexy doing it.
3. Prone Sex
If you enjoy being submissive and feeling him on top of you… this is a delicious position for you.
You will be lying on your stomach and he’s behind you on top of you. He will enter you from behind.
As he enters you from behind, don’t hold back: if you feel like moaning as he does it, go for it. If it feels best when he enters slowly (since it will tease the hell out of you) tell him how turned on that makes you.
You can even tell him to kind of go in and out, gently teasing you as you get wetter and wetter. He will feel how turned on you are and when he does fully enter you, it will feel so insanely good you won’t know what to do with yourself.
Bonus: This position is very pleasurable for both of you… and his hands are free to touch your clit, which will heighten the experience even more.
4. Spooning Sex
This is a romantic sex position that will make you feel both comfortable (i.e. this is not a lot of work for you) and connected to him.
This is great for early-morning sex, when you are just waking up. Most men are extremely turned on when they first wake up.
If you’re still kind of sleepy, you can indulge in this position and have a natural glow on your face for the rest of the day! :)
Here’s what it is:
You’re both lying on your side. He enters from behind. He can kiss you on the side of your neck, which will most likely send chills through your body… the combination of him being inside you and kissing you makes most women feel like they are in a romantic movie (well, sort of).
The point is this is a very intimate and connected sex position.
Bonus: Both your hands are free to enhance the experience, meaning you can touch yourself along with him, guiding his hand and letting go of your inhibitions.
He can also play with your breasts, enhancing your entire experience.
5. Doggie Style
This is popular and well known for a good reason: it’s hot.
To sum it up: You are going to be on all fours, spreading your legs as wide as you can, giving him an amazing view. Key is to pop your ass up and out so your guy is able to enter.
It’s quite easy and a position men love.
Doggie style can have variations. For example, it can either be done with you keeping your waist straight or completely bending your waist into the full “doggie style” position. You can also do bedside doggie on the side or edge of the bed.
The key here is to let your inner exhibitionist free; don’t hold back and allow him to stare at your body and really love it.
6. Classic Cowgirl, Woman On Top
Men love when a woman is on top. First, it allows him to relax and not do all the work. Second, the view is simply spectacular. Third, well, aren’t these two reasons enough?
Body insecurity is the most common reason most women shy away from fully embracing being on top, going wild and taking control.
Tips: Don’t go too fast or too crazy because you think it’s going to result in the best sex. Sometimes starting slow and gently moving your body up and down so he feels you putting him in and out can be a deliciously tantalizing experience for both him and you.
This position is an extreme turn on in so many ways for men and women. If you want to really make him nuts, forget about any insecurity you might have about your body.
Forget about what you think you look like and pretend you are on another planet. Literally do not let your thoughts invade the experience.
If you do this, you will free yourself and give him a view that will make his brain shut down and his body react.
If you’re comfortable and let him watch you take control as he simply lays back, you will seriously be shocked at how intense of an orgasm he has and the things he says.
7. Reverse Cowgirl
To sum this up: You’re on top and facing away from him.
What happens when you blend two positions… classic girl-on-top with traditional doggystyle?
Amazing things happen, which is why men love reverse cowgirl. You’re still in control but unlike the typical girl-on-top position, here you are going to be gives him a view he can’t get enough of.
What you do is: he should lay on the bed flat but have his feet touching the floor. His lower legs will be off the bed. Once he is in this position, you get on top of him facing away from him. Then, place your hands on your man’s thighs or on his knees.
Be sure to kind of position his penis kind of downward. Then you can decide how fast or slow you guide him inside you.
Remember… you will be on the bed toward the edge as he grabs your butt and you will be facing away from him. A benefit of this position is it’s excellent for hitting the infamous G-spot.
And men really do love it.
It’s also kind of more sexual and less intimate, which can be fun. Let yourself bask in the pure pleasure of it all.
Sex does not always have to be romantic; it can be raw, animalistic and intense too. In fact, this is often the kind of sex that leaves men satisfied.
8. The Pancake
This one is kind of specific and I am simply mentioning it because it is out there as a good sex position to try.
Begin with your torso vertical and your legs on his shoulders. He will then descend slowly until he is folding you in half.
Put your legs on his shoulders. The core of this one is to make sure your legs are on his shoulders.
9. Spread Eagle
This one is not easy. If you are not limber and up for some work, you might not want to attempt this one. If you want something new and are not afraid of some work, this one can be extremely sexy.
You should be lying on your back and put your hand on your stomach. Your legs should be up, straight and spread wide.
He will be on top of you, using your shoulders as support. His legs will need to be bent and his palms on the floor. He is going to be on all fours in this position.
For this position, he should bring you to the edge of the bed and place you on your side. One of your legs will be held up as he penetrates you.
You will be laying there, your breasts in full view, and your body in a very “flattering” position (since you are laying down). You can squeeze onto his hand and grip his hand tighter as the sex intensifies.
This is going to probably make him more turned on because men love making a woman feel pleasure! As he penetrates you, one of your legs is going to remain stationary while the other shall be seductively placed above his shoulder.
11. The Viennese Oyster
Warning: This one is difficult and often uncomfortable. If you are not flexible, I wouldn’t even recommend trying this out.
What you do is grab your legs and put them behind your head while spreading them. Your ankles should be wrapped above your head.
He can go deep inside you in this position but you need to make sure he goes slowly because it can be very intense. You can place your hands on top of your legs after your legs are far back enough to keep them in place.
12. The Magic Bullet
This is very comfortable for you and is good for those who are not in the mood to work very hard or who feel insecure about not being in the best shape.
What you do is lie down, put your legs straight up in the air and spread your legs a little bit. He can then sit on his knees in front of you and grab your legs as he gets inside of you.
This is a great position because it accomplishes two important things: 1) G-spot 2) He can kind of push your legs together, which will feel tighter for him.
The sensations he experiences will be surprising and intense.
The Most Important Thing To Remember About Sex
Now, I have to be honest with you. I described some of the best sex positions but to use the word “best” and categorize a bunch of different positions using labels and fun names does not capture the essence of what good sex means.
Don’t want to memorize a bunch of sex positions? That’s totally fine because the best sex is the spontaneous kind, the one where your body guides the interaction and you allow yourself to move freely, inching closer to more intense pleasure with each change of angle and placement.
Your body and his body will unite and work in sync—the “sex position” name will not matter; as long as you free your mind and let your body become one with his, focusing on nothing but pure pleasure and the sensations pulsing through your body, you will be able to have the best sex of your life.
To be honest, focusing too much on the names of positions is not the best way to make the man lose his mind with pleasure; letting yourself explore your sexuality and do what feels natural is.
Being comfortable with how turned on you are and letting this sensation consume you is actually the best route to turning him on. He will respond to your energy. No words can describe this intangible feeling that you will experience when you are truly lost in a moment.
So whether it is you climbing on top of him and slowly inching his penis inside you… or climbing on top, feeling his body as you work your way up and down his penis teasing him before sliding down and using him as your “sexual object…”
Or whether it’s laying down on top of a pillow, grabbing his body, bringing him towards you because you are unable to imagine existing without him entering you…
Or whether you bend over, pop your butt up as if you are in a hip-hip rap video and give him the view of a lifetime as you teasingly touch yourself, inviting him to enter you…
Or whether you want to go into the kitchen, create a scenario with chairs and all that jazz…
Whatever position you end up in does not matter because you will be too consumed with the experience.
Sex is not something you learn by reading about it, to be honest. Sex is purely instinctual.
We’re all wired to have sex.
Love it, don’t make it into a chore you have to “figure out.” This is the best advice I can give you.
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