Exactly How To Know FOR SURE If A Guy Likes You

Exactly How To Know FOR SURE If A Guy Likes You

ok – so you’re really into a guy, but you don’t know if he feels the same way. Or maybe you caught a guy checking you out and felt like you had a “moment” and you’re wondering if he’s actually interested… , or if he was just bored and it’s all in your head.

Look, it doesn’t matter why – what matters is whether he actually likes you or not .

Here’s exactly how to tell:

1. Watch His Body Language

You can tell a lot about what someone is thinking and feeling just by watching their body language carefully.

In fact, here’s something that most women don’t realize – while women have more than 50 different body language signs that they’re interested in a guy… guys only have about 10 (1).

So what does that mean for you? It means you can pretty easily tell whether he’s interested or not just by watching for a few key signs! All you have to do is know what you’re looking for.

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One of the most common signs is that he looks at you a lot. I mean, like a lot . If you catch him raising his eyebrows when he glances at you (usually lasts only a fraction of a second) then that’s a huge sign he’s interested.

If he’s looking at your face a lot or making a lot of eye contact, that’s a sign. Also, if he’s leaning towards you or positioning himself close to you, it’s a major sign.

Want to know if he’s subconsciously interested? Watch his hands, feet, and legs. If they’re pointed or angled towards you, it tells you a lot about what he’s really interested in (2).

When he first sees you, does he groom himself? Does he straighten a tie, or fix his shirt, or smooth down his hair? Pretty dead on sign that he’s thinking about his appearance while you’re near – because he wants you to find him attractive.

Watch his sitting positions too. Men who sit with open legs or with their hands on their hips are trying to impress – and are usually interested in the woman they’re talking to.

2. Eye Contact Eye Contact Eye Contact!

Eye contact is one of the most important things to notice about a guy (3). Many guys will try to secretly look at you when he thinks you’re not watching – so if you catch him looking away when you glance over at him, that’s a good sign! More assured and confident guys will actually make and hold eye contact. It’s true.

If you want to “test out” whether he’s attracted to you, try this: Look over his face for around 3 to 4 seconds (don’t make it awkward and hold it too long!) and then look away. After a second, look back at him – if he holds eye contact with you he’s definitely interested. If he glances towards your mouth he’s really interested. However, if he breaks eye contact and looks away, he’s probably not into you.

If you catch him looking left, then looking right at your face, then looking right – congratulations, he’s very attracted to you. But be careful – don’t confuse a shy guy’s reluctance to make eye contact with a disinterested guy’s. If he’s shy but attracted, he’ll keep looking over at you, you just have to wait and see if he does it.

Let’s say he’s around you and some other people and he makes a joke. Even if everyone laughs, his eyes will still flicker towards you to check if you’re laughing – that’s a sign he wants to impress you!

3. Listen Carefully To Him When He’s Talking To You

So what do most guys do when they like a girl? What do most of them talk about?

It’s pretty simple actually – they talk about themselves. Lots of guys feel like they have to prove themselves to a woman they’re interested in, so they’ll start bragging (or humblebragging) about themselves during conversation.

One good way to see just how interested he is in you is to watch his body language during conversation. Try saying something softly. Does he lean in to hear you? Great! Does he stay closer to you after leaning in, or does he retreat away from you?

Keeping an eye on how he positions himself during conversation will help reveal how interested he is in being with you.

4. Watch How He Feels About Body Contact

Touching someone else and being touched is a super important way of gauging how interested and how intimate he wants to be with you – and a great way to figure out how he feels is to watch how he reacts to touching you and being touched by you.

Guys who are interested will generally find excuses to touch you – like touching your hand when he laughs, or brushing your leg with his without moving it away, or even giving you hugs for the flimsiest of reasons.

Next, watch what happens when you touch him. If you brush your hand gently against his neck or hold his arm gently with your hand – does he flinch away? Does he move his hand away from yours if you touch him? Or does he move to stay in further body contact with you?

Here’s one thing to remember – if he’s typically a shy person, he might jump a little bit when you touch him. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you – keep watching him to see the truth.

5. Does He Treat You Differently?

When a guy is interested in you, he might start behaving differently towards you, especially in a group. If he starts acting “protective” towards you, like shifting himself closer to you in any seating arrangement, or putting his arm around the back of your chair, it’s a sign that he’s interested.

One interesting tactic that some guys take is to start flirting with other girls when they’re actually interested in you. A guy will do this when he wants to see your reaction to him flirting with other women – so that he can tell whether you like him .

It’s pretty easy to spot this tactic though – watch him when he’s flirting with another girl. If he keeps trying to sneak peeks at you to check your response, you can be reasonably confident that he’s doing it to get a reaction out of you.

Try leaving to go to the bathroom or get something from outside, then see if you can find a sneaky observation point to watch him. If he stops flirting with her when you leave the room, that’s a dead giveaway that he’s just trying to see what you’ll do.

6. Does He Act Interested In Things You’re Interested In?

especially if he’s never acted interested in them before!

Look for him to start acting interested in things like a band that you’re into or a tv show you like. If he starts talking about how a band you like is in town in the near future – he’s trying to give you something that you like! He’s interested in you!

Especially keep an eye out if something you brought to his attention becomes his favorite thing. Like, let’s say you told him to watch a tv show because you love it. If it becomes his new favorite thing, chances are he’s interested in you.

7. Does He Look Nervous Around You?

Does he nervously laugh whenever you’re near? Does he get sweaty palms when you’re together? How about – does he take deep breaths? Does he fidget? Does he look away really fast when you see that he’s watching you?

All of those are strong signs that he’s attracted to you.

Guys aren’t nervous around women they aren’t interested in (most of the time), so if he’s nervous around you, that’s a good thing. It means he’s probably worried about making a good impression on you to get you attracted to him as well.

8. Watch His Friends Closely!

If he’s interested in you, he might have told his friends. Or, they might have guessed it from him in the first place.

Whatever the reason – when you’re around him and his friends, watch his friends closely. If they start making subtle jokes and making fun of him, and the thrust is that he’s interested in you – then he probably likes you!

Watch them when you’re with him and his friends. Do they smile when they see you? Do they smirk at him when you walk into the room – like they know something you don’t?

One thing to avoid here – watch out if one of his friends tells you he likes you when you haven’t gotten that vibe from him at all. His friend might be looking out for himself – to your detriment!

9. Watch His Actions – Does He Copy You?

A very good subconscious sign to look for is if he’s mirroring your actions back at you. This is often an unconscious tell that people have that they’re interested in someone – he won’t even know he’s doing it.

If you make a gesture, and then notice he makes the same gesture soon after, it means he’s probably interested in you. A great way to let him know you’re interested too (subtly) is to copy his actions as well! Touch your face after he touches his, smooth your hair when he smooths his, and so on.

This one is kind of obvious – but if he follows you around, he wants to be close to you and therefore he’s interested in you. If he sits down at the same table as you for lunch, or follows you to the break room at work, he wants to be closer to you.

10. Does He Gently Tease You?

If he teases you at all – definitely pay attention. Is it a fun, gentle tease? If so, it could totally mean that he’s attracted to you. Be aware – younger guys are the most likely to use this tactic to demonstrate interest.

However, if he teases every girl he flirts with, it might just be his style. But if you’re the only girl he teases, chances are that he’s got feelings for you.

11. Does He Playfully Punch Your Arm?

This falls under the category of “finding excuses to touch you.” Playfully punching your arm is a way for him to act manly, but still get to touch you – without revealing that he likes you.

If a guy notices that you don’t flinch or pull away when he does it, he’s going to escalate it to finding gentler and more intimate ways of getting in contact with you.

However, if he actually hurts you (jerk!) you shouldn’t take that crap from him – tell him it hurt! If you don’t want to hurt his ego, you can tell him that you don’t mind him touching you – as long as he doesn’t hurt you!

If you’re the kind of woman who doesn’t mind dishing out a good knock when she gets one, you can try play punching him back. Be warned that he might interpret this as – “you’re my friend and I’m putting you in the friend zone”… or he might see it for what it is – an excuse to touch him!

12. Does He Notice When You Change Your Look?

Change your look recently? Maybe you changed the way you do your hair, or put on different makeup, or even changed your hair color. Whatever it is – if he notices and compliments you on it, it’s a big sign that he’s interested.

That’s because if he notices – he’s paying special attention to how you look, which means that he’s attracted to you. If he compliments you – even better, that means he’s trying to get closer to you.

If the guy you like is demonstrating some of these signals – congratulations there’s a good chance that he’s interested in you! The best way for you to demonstrate your interest is to be receptive to his signals – and to look for excuses to spend time alone with him. Good luck!

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  • SomeGirl March 18, 2018, 3:59 am

    Okay so I like this one guy but I don’t really know if he likes me. I mean I think he does because his friends told me he does , but they play around a lot so I don’t know if It’s true. We sit next to each other in lunch so I guess that’s a sign. He laughs every time I do something. I’m starting to think he does, but I’m not for sure. Plz HELP!!!!

  • Bianca March 12, 2018, 4:15 am

    So I have this coworker and he jokingly asked me on a date, and he hugs me and calls me cutie but he jokes alot. So I am not sure

  • David March 7, 2018, 8:21 am

    Im a male. I searched this so I can observe my self if I do this things. Most of them I do it…….

  • Amy March 5, 2018, 9:46 pm

    Two peeps actually…

    1. He’s super nice to me in PE… and my friend said she heard him say he likes me… but sadly, that friend lies a lot lol. Also, he actually might like someone else. (also, we were friends in kindergarten).
    2. The second one I like… he’s nice to me but doesn’t talk to me THAT much. That same friend that lies a lot (Haley) said she heard him say he likes me in study hall. But, this time, another friend that also goes to study hall that period (Beverly) said she might have heard it too :/ . Idk i thought he liked someone else too… but you never know lol.

    Please respond this is taking over my LIFE!

  • Annie March 3, 2018, 12:31 pm

    He likes me back. I’m so happy!

  • k February 28, 2018, 1:19 pm

    Band…..I think he’s pissed off….at everything I do. Tried to be nice at first but as time goes on—he clams up. I actually think he hates me. He was late—I was okay with it—he tried to be late again—the director said something. We are in this play together in percussion. I think we’re one step away from an argument. I say Hi–he’s okay with that….but anything else he doesn’t want to talk—but I know we’re in percussion–you can’t talk much. We have to share parts-I know he likes bells/xylophone but that’s mine in act 2–you have to share. But he was acting weird even before Act 2 came about in practice. I’ll just say he’s controlling maybe? I wish he’d relax a little –it’s supposed to be fun…..but yes, it’s also a lot of work.

  • kitkat555 February 24, 2018, 11:45 am

    theres this guy I like but its very complicated. earlier I heard from one of my friends that he “might” like me but later on she claims that the girl he likes isnt me but her. shes best friends with this guy and apparently told her that theres a girl he likes which is really surprising cos he’s never shown interest in any girl before and hes not the date-and-drop kind. the both of us now are trying to figure out which one of us he likes, hopefully me cos my frnd doesnt like him back. we’ve come up with equal arguments for both possibilities but it seems to me that it could be her because one of her other friends who knows who the girl is made fun of her with him out of context. but he gives me these signs too.

  • Lily February 17, 2018, 4:34 pm

    That awesome moment when your crush’s crush is you.

  • Unknown February 11, 2018, 1:17 am

    hey laddies theres something i need to confess im in grade dead and theres this that really hot and his name cole sprouse and i just marry but i cant cause hes dating betty and im just so jealous and i just to make out with him and kiss and marry him can someone please help me in the comments below. help would appreciated immediately (riverdale lol)

  • Kitty February 6, 2018, 9:47 pm

    So there’s this kid in my grade at school. He’s different. (I’m not sure if he has an actual diagnosis or not.) He carries all his books, his coat, and his clarinet around with him all the time, because he’s a little insecure to leave anything in an unlocked locker – no locks at my school. His excuse is that he “forgot” where his locker is, but there clearly is a security issue. At lunch, he sometimes runs around at top speed for apparently no reason. The table he and his “friends” sit at is next to mine, but we can’t see each other from where we sit. Mostly they just huddle together and look at memes and dumb videos on their phones. In class, he absently imitates sword-fights with pencils, and plays paper figurines he makes himself. He’s really smart, too; he has all A’s.
    This year, we have five classes together, including band. We are really close in age, only a month and a few days apart. (I’m older, if it matters.) We both LOVE Star Wars: canon, legends, books, all of it. In History, we’ve sat by each other for several months now. He sometimes makes Star Wars puns, writes them down on index cards, and gives them to me to keep. Also, one day when I was upset, he gave me a whole bunch of Star Wars drawings from his “special drawings folder” to try to console me, I guess.
    At the Christmas band concert, we were hanging out together, but we didn’t really want either of our parents to see us. He told me that if his parents saw me with him, they’d think he had a girlfriend. So it kind of has that “forbidden love” feel. Well, his parents found us and I got to meet them.
    Our Science teacher saw us together at the concert and made us lab partners for third quarter, which means we have to sit together at a small table. Our first lab was to create a baby by flipping a coin for different genes. Of course, this was pretty awkward for both of us…ugh. The kid had some pretty weird looks, so he was threatening all along to name her “abomination”. Anyway, it’s now an inside joke between us; today he started flipping a coin to make another kid. Also, in science, we both uncapped our highlighters at the same time once, and now he does it on purpose so he can freak out about “the curse”.
    Most of his actions seem like friend things, but sometimes I get the idea he likes me a little more. To apply this to your list:
    1. He asks me if his hair’s okay, I’ve caught him staring at my chest and my face a couple times.
    2. He makes frequent eye contact with me.
    3. He talks about himself a lot. He’s told me about his family, showing me pictures of his parents, his brother, and his dog. Also, the other day he told me that his mom expects him to get a girlfriend, knowing that my parents won’t let me date.
    4. He always touches me on the arm to get my attention when he wants to tell or show me something. Today I was wearing a shirt with little button/sequin things on the sleeves, as he went to tap my arm he started absently playing with one of them.
    5.-6.-7. He doesn’t exactly treat me differently because he doesn’t have many friends, and he and I already have true common interests (Star Wars and other nerdy things). He definitely fidgets and acts kind of nervous around me, but he also can be totally cool.
    8. I’ve only seen this once, but one of his friends made a subtle reference to his possible crush on me, and they started play-fighting.
    9. He totally copies me! The whole highlighter thing.
    10.-11. He’s super gentle, he wouldn’t dream of ever teasing or even play-hitting me.
    12. He hasn’t really done this, but once I wore a shirt that showed a little shoulder and he joked about “dress code violation”, even though it wasn’t. (We have a really strict dress code at our school and it’s become a source of inside jokes for us.)
    Other: We went on a band day trip, and at the place we went for lunch, he conveniently ended up sitting across from me. My friends say “everyone” thinks we’re a thing, but we don’t think we are. I’ve told my best friend about most of this, and we have a codename for him: “my darling lab partner”. (*sarcastic, just to be clear)
    Also, my parents have no idea. They are pretty strict about me not dating, I can’t text boys unless it’s a big group text, and I get punished if I talk about boys a lot. I’ve hidden everything he’s given me where my parents can’t find it. On Thursday, there’s parent-teacher conferences. When I found out about this, I put my head down on the desk and groaned. We joke about me “only having two more days to live”. (To clarify, we jokingly worry that teachers will tell my parents that I’m friends with him and I’ll get in big trouble.)
    To sum up, we’re quite good friends now. I’m pretty sure I’m one of the only (if not the only) real friend he has. I really like this guy as a friend, maybe a little more, I can’t even decide for myself. I’m not sure if he likes me as more than a friend, but he sure acts like it sometimes. My crush just got a girlfriend, so I guess I’m available. The problem is that if I identify us as a couple, I’d have to keep it a secret from my parents.
    Sorry I wrote so much, trying to be clear. Please help me!

  • Robin Floor February 6, 2018, 6:28 pm

    When I was 15 I began working at a supermarket and met one of my best friends there, also the one I now have a crush on, and I’m not sure if he likes me after one year and a half. But I do know he liked me in the beginning because he showed interest in me and tried to come closer to me by finding out our similarities. I didn’t notice at that moment though, I just figured he was a nice guy who wanted to be friends so I befriended him without a second thought of maybe liking him. I am really happy we turned out to be great friends and all, but I found myself thinking about him more often than I normally think about someone and actually feeling the urge to be with him more often. After a few days of fully acknowledging I liked him I started wondering if he still liked me like he did before, and come to think about it, he never changed his attitude towards me in our whole friendship. He actually grew closer to me than I had imagined and we share a lot of private things with each other, and we meet up a lot for two people who don’t attend same schools and both live in a different city than the other. I also quit my job because I moved to another city. I’m not sure if we just grew closer as really good friends or as something more, he is a shy guy so doesn’t show the initiative side of this list which makes it more confusing for me. And if he does still like me like in the beginning, I can’t help but feel sorry for how long I was blind to it and must’ve ignored all his actions and replaced them by the excuse of being a nice, good friend.
    please help me I am so confused and don’t know what to do.

  • Elizabeth January 31, 2018, 10:08 pm

    Hello, everyone, just saying be aware ‘cuz this is gonna be awhile.

    Ok, so, one day at our school we had someone in our grade “shadow” or show the visitor around our school, while doing there daily classes. The visitor was a boy in our grade, he’s honestly like so cute, he’s such a nerd, but he’s REALLY shy. So, one of my friends was shadowing this guy and he was in our Science class sitting at our table. [Just to be clear, I was at this table with them.] So, my friend who was shadowing the visitor, myself, and another one of my friends were all sitting together. We had a great time. I did see him smile A LOT though when I was there. And he did laugh, which was honestly so cute. And then, a few weeks or so after he visited, he started to go to my school. So, now I have study hall and tech with him. A couple of weeks ago, one of the teachers brought him to the place where we would meet up to do study hall. And I noticed that he was kinda clumsy, at first I thought, “OK, he’s clumsy, I am too, no biggie” but then… He’s started to be MORE clumsy. And mostly whenever I’m around. So I waited for him to pick up whatever he had just dropped, and started to talk to him. [Because, I know how he felt, to be new, and fitting in and all that jazz.] But, I asked him stuff like, “What are you into?” “Do ya play any sports?” Ya know, just basic questions. But then, I was kinda surprised by this, not gonna lie, but he REALLY opened up to me! Like, he told me he likes soccer, he liked this video game, and that book. Another example is when he sat with me and a few other people at the same table, for like, 3 times or so. But then, he moved to another table. Another thing, just yesterday, we were in the Science Room, [where all students go to in the morning to wait to be released,] and the bell rang, and everyone was rushing to the doorway to get out of there and go to there lockers and all that, [he was standing right by the door,] and so we locked eyes with each other, and I swear to God, it was at LEAST for 3 SECONDS!!! It was SOOOO weiiiirrrddd. But, yeah, I think I like him. But I honestly don’t know how to get to know him more, but any advice anyone? Do y’all think he likes me??

    • Cindy Wang February 6, 2018, 5:41 pm

      He definitely likes you. Since he’s the shy one, you should be the one to tell him you like him. Be straight forward and try to get him alone without anyone near because he might respond differently. But if he doesn’t like you, you should still tell him about how you feel. I know this because I’m that one person who knows everyone so I’m the one who has to hook everyone up.

  • Selena January 29, 2018, 5:14 pm

    So I’m in seventh grade. There’s this guy that i’ve had a crush on since the beginning of the year. He doesn’t talk to me very much, or at least, not directly to me. He complimented me a few times, and they weren’t little ones. He said I had a beautiful voice and amazing artistic skill. He brags about his soccer skills whenever I’m around. Also, in class, there are these kids that ship us, and whenever he hears it, it blushes, smiles a bit, and looks away. He says stop once or twice, but doesn’t ever say he doesn’t like me. I really, really, REALLY like him but I’m afraid to be rejected. Please help!


    • anon January 30, 2018, 9:57 pm

      It seems like he definitely likes you. I used to have a crush on a guy in orchestra because of the simple fact that I admired him for his skill and personality. It might be like that for him. A guy in my art class would compliment me… and apparently he liked me as well.
      If he compliments you on your voice and artistic skill, it’s probably true and a part of why he likes you. Please tell him!

  • Emily January 28, 2018, 4:50 pm

    Hey, so there’s this guy from church who I’ve known for all my life and I don’t know if he likes me or not. Last year, after a skating trip we all went to a coffee shop, but I was walking at the back listening to music and he joined me and we talked a lot. Just us two. But, this year, normally I have a “clique” we hang out in, and his younger brother by one year is one of my close friends. He’s kind of off by himself. But, when his friends are around, then he’ll talk a lot. Now, I always see him looking at me, and he attempts to talk to me, I guess, but I don’t know how to act. So I kind of don’t answer. However, when I initiate a conversation with him briefly he kind of looks at me, looks away and mumbles something. Though he will talk to me, at times. I always see him looking in my direction but when we almost make eye contact I look away. I don’t know what to do.

    • Cindy Wang February 6, 2018, 5:44 pm

      When he tries to make eye contact, LOOK BACK AT HIM! Basically you are telling him that you don’t like him.

  • Ty January 27, 2018, 4:29 pm

    I’m a junior in high school and there’s this guy that I’ve liked in my 1st period class and I really don’t know if he likes me or not, just this week he’s been doing things to get my attention such as funny dances and I catch him checking me out and sometimes he says little small things to me but he caught my attention when I was pouting one morning and he said I should smile, I was blushing so hard but I didn’t really know what it meant. But anyways, I told a friend about and she suggests that I talk to him through social media but I don’t have a phone right now! So what do I say or do about him?

  • Ashlyn January 26, 2018, 10:16 pm

    There is this boy that I like. He just came to our school in August 2017. Everyone knows when I someone, because my poker face is terrible. Anyways, I think I embarrassed him by liking him because he won’t talk to me anymore.

  • Hopeless January 25, 2018, 7:02 pm

    So there is this guy I like… a lot. And last year we went to a small carnival together and spent the day there. At the end of the night we got it the car to take him home. We both sat in the back and he ended up getting closer and closer until he was right next to me. He was trying to hold my hand and we ended up holding hands for abt 20 ish min until he got dropped off. Last month was the first time I first time I talked to him 6 months. We started talking and my friend sent him a text saying that he should go out w me. Obviously he texted me very confused. I answers but nothing happened. I asked him for his snap and we started talking on there as well. I asked if he had a gf He said yes. That was last month as well. With Valentine’s Day coming up I sent this thing abt me being single for yet another one and he said yea same lol.. and I was like well don’t u have a gf??? And he said nahhh I dumped her. And we have been talking more frequently but I’m usually starting the convo. I really like him but idk if he feels the same way anymore. Any advice???

  • Ariya January 25, 2018, 1:35 am

    Can i ask you something i been confuse nowaday I have a crush on this boy he is my classmate well he sit in front of me we talk much but mostly he like teasing me But he also call me beautiful before but the one thing is he treat other girl gentle but not with me I wanna ask he’s interesting in me or just think me of his friend?

  • Annabel January 23, 2018, 1:57 pm

    Basically I’ve had a crush on this guy for nearly six months now. I started high school in September and have met loads of really awesome people. At the start, though, I didn’t know anybody apart from one girl who had gone to my middle school; she wasn’t even in any of my classes. On the first day I felt pretty alone because there was nobody for me to talk to. In form class I was put beside this guy who I instantly kept glancing sidewards at because I thought he was handsome. He seemed very confident and funny as he talked to his friends. At one point when I was glancing at him he saw me and winked. I laughed awkwardly and looked away. “So, who are you?” He said. We talked for a while and I told him about myself. He seemed to notice that I was shy and nervous so he tried to make me feel better by being really chatty. We went out for break and when we were outside I made friends with this group of girls so I didn’t feel as alone anymore. This meant I was more confident whenever I was back inside. We talked a lot and I told him more about myself but in a chirpier way. I asked my new friends about him and they all said he was the school jock from their middle school, apparently really popular\all the girls had a crush on him. I realised I had no chance with them, but we may as well be friends. I thought this because no boys had really taken interest with me before, and I had only received one very disgusting kiss in my life. Basically as the weeks went on and I was settling into high school he was always there, supporting me. I started to develop a major crush on him but didn’t tell anyone apart from my best best friend who went to my middle school (she sadly didn’t go to my high school but knew my crush through athletics). She told me that he talked about me sometimes and she thought he liked me. As time went on we always had weird flirty conversations and awkward encounters. There was a mean, popular girl in my class who everyone thought that he liked (sorry this is actually so cliché I didn’t even realise lol). She liked him and always tried to flirt with him endlessly. I ended up becoming sort-of friends with the girl so she told me that she fancied him so much. I pretended as if I didn’t like him and even “shipped” them together. That was all before Christmas break but ever since we’ve been back after winter vacation the two of them don’t really talk anymore, I have a feeling something happened between them. She doesn’t talk about fancying him at all. As I said, we aren’t super close so I can’t really ask if she still likes him because that would just be awkward. I talk to him quite often now but sometimes he calls he friend zones me like calling me “buddy” or “pal”. My best friend (from high school) and his best friend go out together. Sometimes the four of us go out together and have fun but we never really label it as a double date. When we’re around others he completely acts as if he doesn’t really like me and we’re just friends. Tho we always make long eye contact in the corridor or at random moments. Sometimes I look up and he’s staring at me but then quickly looks down. My best friend told me that her boyfriend (who is also my crush’s best friend, as mentioned) says that he thinks my crush likes me. I honestly don’t know what to do and I want to make a move but I am absolutely, solemnly, positively terrified. I don’t want to ruin our friendship yet I don’t think I can go on only being friends with him. AHHH

    • Loza January 24, 2018, 5:35 pm

      That’s a toughie. Maybe ask your best friend to let her boyfriend know that you have feelings for his best friend. So then he can drop little hints such as “I think she likes you”. That way the ball is sort of in his court. If you’re scared about ruining a great friendship, just leave it be. There’s still plenty of time and things may just fall into place all in due course.

    • anon January 30, 2018, 10:00 pm

      He’s staring at you, he likes you. That’s what I say.

  • Trinity Ostberg January 18, 2018, 4:37 pm

    I’m in highschool- a Freshie -and I like a guy, but I don’t know if he likes me back. We exchange playful banter and tell each other to f*ck off a lot because of it, but that’s just me being paranoid, right? Well, in PE he throws dodge balls at me and then runs down the hall, making me chase him. Still nothing? He asks me if I’m going to get back with either one of my exes at least once a day. Nothing? My friends think he likes me, too.

    Please help! I’m so confused!

    • Loza January 24, 2018, 5:32 pm

      Sounds like he likes you. He’s taken an interest in your love life, continuously checking to see if you’re still single. Go for it gurrllll.

  • Elia January 16, 2018, 7:42 pm

    I’d say think about both of them, don’t just rely on your nervousness. which guy does your mind wander to the most? Which guy are you better friends with? the best relationships come from friendships (: Which guy do you find the most physically appealing? and finally, which guy has friends that you’re friends with?

    • Hopeless January 16, 2018, 9:16 pm

      im better friends with one but the other has mutual friends. They’re both cute in their own ways…. And I don’t know how I feel about either now…. Thanks for the advice though. It I’ll definitely help

  • Booklyn January 13, 2018, 3:46 pm

    So this boy named Axel is in 3 of my classes and in art he said when he once said “I’ll paint you!” and then I said “OK go ahead” and he did a small dot on my arm and my friend said the same thing and he gave her a giant line on her arm! And then in December we started singing how the Grinch sole Christmas, and my friend dared him to say Brooklyn’s a Grinch and he said no. And that sent a warning sign to me…….HE LIKED ME!! When I told my friend she died laughing.

  • Maesi January 11, 2018, 11:24 am

    So, there’s this guy I think I like. Yeah, THINK. I have a huge celebrity crush ’cause duh, I’m in middle school. During vacations and weekends when I don’t see my crush, I think a lot about my celebrity crush. But of course, he’s freakin’ 8 years older than me, so ya, THAT AIN’T HAPPENING. Anyways, I never told anyone that I like that person because I feel awful about liking him. He is the cousin of my best friend. People used to tease them for hanging out together even though they were related, at that time I didn’t like him like this. Whenever someone brings up his name my best friend gets irritated and annoyed, she’s probably heard enough of his name every day. I feel terrible about liking him, but I think he likes me too. He’s literally in only 2 of my classes at school, so I don’t see him often. Really awkward stuff happen between us, for example. We always make eye contact in the halls when we pass each other or something, and I try to ignore it since I’m always with my friends. Just two days ago, we had P.E. We, of course, had separate places for boys and girls, but my teacher that I used to like, had to choose a handful of students to go do some sprinting with the boys. I then thought she was insane. And guess what, she picked me first. It was so awkward since the boys were watching, including my crush as I gaped. I had no choice but to walk over to them, my other best friend got chosen as well. This person thinks that my crush might like me, but she doesn’t know he is my crush. We awkwardly went to them and had to run with our shorts outside with them. I’m not a person who likes to show off their body too much, especially my legs. Arms, in my opinion, are okay. Anyway, we had a double period, so I was in trouble. The two periods were the awkwardest two lessons of my life since I had P.E with my crush and a few other girls I knew. Let me just say, he was friggin fast. Anyways, I think the fastest I sprinted in the whole two lessons was when I was dashing towards the girls changing rooms as I felt the awkward strange stares coming from the boys. Also, today. We had a form activity competition. We basically had to decorate a display board about inequality and see which one is the best. My crush is in the same form class as me. So, our teacher picked out groups and we were surprisingly in different groups. I just went outside to glue something onto the display board, when I rushed in due to hearing the end of the school bell ringing loudly. Guess what? I tripped over his foot and fell. Well, not really. By instinct, I grabbed the closest thing near me to prevent me from falling. And it was my crush’s shoulders. So I gripped them, not knowing who he was. He even gripped onto mine, also not knowing who I was. It was really awkward since we just stared in horror at each other for a moment. He let me go and so did I. Luckily my teacher was outside on the display board and no students saw. I just quickly muttered ‘sorry’ to him and ran away awkwardly, not even sparing a glance at him. This literally all happened today. This, of course, I had to tell one of my friends, the one who was also picked with me to sprint with me and other girls with the boys. She obviously ships us, but for some reason, it makes me blush in embarrassment thinking about him. Since he always stares at me, we made up a codename for him since we’re freaks. We call him ‘Penguin.’ So like, whenever my friend sees him staring then she goes like, “THE PENGUIN IS ATTACKING!” very loudly in my ear and I freak out. Anyways, that’s my story. I’m taking a day off tomorrow since I’m ‘sick,’ and I really don’t wanna face him next week on Monday. But, I guess I don’t have a choice. Alright that’s it, Imma stop talking now. Sorry for wasting your time since this was very long XD.

  • Elizza tj January 7, 2018, 6:36 am

    So there’s a guy whom i like since quite some time… We both used to go to the same church… Although at that time i felt he also likes me a bit through his eye contacts and facial expressions but we never ever really talked to each other… After i moved out of the city… One fine day i texted him a casual morning msg which he replied later arousing my excitement….then after we started regularly texting each other… He even told me about his girlfriend…about whom wen he talks i feel a deep love between them but at the same time he indicates me that he likes me a lot and would like to be with me….he even notices small things and remembers whatever i would have said before….the girl to whom he is committed is muslim….so i feel he is confused about his future with her… But eventhough i pity him but i feel my feelings are being unnecessarily aroused….im not pretty sure about what should i think or do about a man who is so already committed…im confused… I would really like someone to help me with this..

  • Sandra January 5, 2018, 3:34 pm

    So there’s this guy that I kind of like. In class when I look at him, he looks too. But all the other girls in my class complains that he’s a creep since he stares at everyone, soo idk. We were friends last year, we used to talk every day, and I would help him with homework and he would help me. My friend said I should stop helping him since he was just using me. He used to tease me all the time and sometimes be a little rude, but just joking. But now he is just rude, and honestly i think he likes this other girl in my class. They’re really good friends. One time I was hanging out with him and his friend and my friend, and that was pretty fun. But I honestly had to talk to him and convince him for a week to come to my house. So I know we don’t have an connection anymore and that he doesn’t like me, but I want to know how to be friends with him again. I don’t want like, talk to him and that shit, cause it’s not that easy.

  • molly January 4, 2018, 10:32 pm

    So there’s this guy that used to like me last year, but I didn’t like them back because I honestly don’t really know, but wasn’t ready to really like anyone. But a month or two ago this year, I started to become interested in him even though he was in a relationship with someone else and I haven’t tried to flirt with him because I know that’s wrong. However, he just broke up with his girlfriend a few weeks ago because he stopped having feelings for her but they kind of talked a little after there break up, but now they are officially over. But the day after, he went to go hook up with a girl, but he was not in the right state of mind. But we talked about it afterwords and told me himself that it was a one night stand. I am not 100% sure if he likes me, interested in me, or just wants to hook up. We have good conversations and talk everyday at school and on snap-chat. Sometimes he gives me some flirty comments or signs after I say something to him in a conversation that could be taken as flirting or a funny joke because we joke a lot. Anyways I’m not sure what to do because I can’t tell if I should try to keep liking him and figure out if he likes me too or lose hope.

  • Help pls December 30, 2017, 1:23 am

    In the cafeteria on the same day we were
    Sitting at different tables and I caught him
    Looking at me but when he saw me looking
    At him he looked away.And coming out of the
    Cafeteria he was behind me and my friend.
    And my friend knew I liked him so she would
    Stop in the middle of the hall and stick her butt
    Out at me to try and make me run into it.
    Every time my friend did that he would laugh
    Idk weather it was a good laugh or not.

  • Help pls December 30, 2017, 1:12 am

    I like this guy and I meet him while talking to
    his friends.2 days later I was early to school
    and sitting on the hall floor when he walks by
    me and just keeps on starring.A week later I
    knew I liked him so I told my friend.We were
    Going to the gym for recess where he usually
    Plays sports,but it was closed. Walking back from the gym we were walking in on direction he
    Was going the other.I looked up at his face
    And I saw that he was looking at me from head
    To tow and blushing. That night my friend
    Asked him on a scale from 1/10 what he rated
    Me he said -68. I am confused cause he blushed
    But he told my friend that he hates me??
    What does it mean??

  • Jennifer December 29, 2017, 11:47 pm

    So well I met this boy a few weeks ago we were coming out of the school bus and he just started talking to me and had this friend with him and he was like oh my friend’s afraid of firecrackers so if you hear a firecracker burst don’t be afraid and I was like ok… So we had to wait for the same bus to go home which I didn’t know so we sat down bedside each other and he was like don’t you have a lover and I said no he asked why and I said idk just like that then he was like okay well can I please have your phone number and I said yes and I gave it to him so a few days after I realised he started acting I kinda distant and he can’t watch me in my eyes and he’s kinda quiet around me and when he sees me his eyes looks all over and he he was saying a love song in the bus but I didn’t know who was singing for but I felt good anyways I try to get closer to him by texting him but he doesn’t really answer me neither does he message me first please help me I really like him I fell in love with him and I want to tell him bit I want to make sure that he likes me because I’m afraid of rejection.

  • Talon bekalu December 28, 2017, 8:54 pm

    Hi girls there is boy in my class I am grade 8th.. He is 15and I am 14we were so peace…….. We were so close… But when his friend stop talking with me he also stop talking with me….. Why…..before he stop talking with me he always call me when they is any thing happened in the class… Also he was asked me to kiss me he was stares at my lips when I talk he begged me so much to kiss my lips by I don’t agree actually I love him so much but I am afraid to tell him….. By the way he has girl friend but she is not in our class……. Currently he is only talking with my own best friend…. He always tell her that she is pretty to make me angry you can guess what I feel at that time….. But until now he stares at me when I talk with others…. When I turn to his eyes he also stared at me and he sick his lips…… I don’t know whether he love me or not pleasegirls tell me….

    • tsion bekalu December 28, 2017, 8:58 pm

      U are like me I think he has feeling for u. I f he has not anyfeeling for u he don’t stares at u…. Try to be more attractive try to change it styles to get his attention

    • A friend January 4, 2018, 5:22 pm

      Hi. I feel like that he doesn’t really like you, no offense but from what you said, I think he might be the kind 0f guy to flirt around with girls because since you said, he has a girlfriend, but if he would stare at you or show any of those signs, makes him a guy who doesn’t really love his girl. He probably wants to touch you. This is just an opinion.

    • Ann January 7, 2018, 11:15 pm

      He really does love you, and he definantly wants to kiss you apparently, but anyway, if a guy stares at you, you can tell he is starting to like you. Don’t worry, I would know, I have to live in a house with a bunch of boys, and all my neighbors are boys too. (My cousins are my neighbors)

  • Alfo December 28, 2017, 1:25 pm

    There is this guy who use to look at me secretly. When i turn towards him he often looked away. There are times i feel liked i am being watched by him. Like these it goes on. Please does this means he liked me too

  • Siel December 27, 2017, 7:52 pm

    And last year, he cornered me in the band room, and just stared at me…wtf? We’re both in band and when putting our instraments together, we happen to be in the same room, and when i wore a dress or something other than jeans we would compliment me. I need help…

    • A friend January 4, 2018, 5:24 pm

      Maybe he treats you like a bestfriend, you know where he teases you, makes fun of you…

  • Celine December 27, 2017, 8:39 am

    Okay so, there’s this guy in my class, and we really are good friend and we have a strong connection, but he started to be really touchy and I like it, but he has a girlfriend, and I don’t understand if he has feelings for me or what, because everyone else says that the way he treats me is not friendly at all, it looks like we are a couple, but you shouldn’t act like this with another girl if you love your girlfriend right? I really don’t understand men sometimes.

  • Chloe December 25, 2017, 3:59 pm

    So there is this guy who is 22 (I’m 18) and we have a lot in common both our moms are Chinese and our dads are German. We went out to dinner all together and when we walked back home we had the best conversation ever like it’s so easy to talk to him and I enjoy spending time with him. He has a girlfriend so I’m thinking for now just to be his buddy but I’m still curious if he is a little interested in me? I know i should backoff and I will because he is in a relationship ( no one wants to be the other woman) but still he is so perfect

    • A friend January 4, 2018, 5:27 pm

      He probably thinks your his good friend because of the same connection you have.

  • Dorina Yana December 22, 2017, 1:54 pm

    So. I have this guy, he’s the same age as me, but we’re not in the same class. Tho. Everytime I walk out and see him, he looks at me and such. We have religious classes together with our friends. Even if we are in a big group of friends, he only stares, only talks and tells jokes to me, he sits almost beside me, he shows me pictures on his phone, stuff.. his cousin, one of my friend’s told me he told her that he has a crush on me. I was very surprised, but it was in fifth grade, and his full class has been teasing us with me and him together through years. But sometimes, he teases me, BUT sometimes he is mean to me.. like.. I don’t know. Is he just trying to act cool? Does he like me? Because I like him now for years, and everyone rumours it that he has a crush on me. He even blushes. He quickly looks away.. The whole class ships us, but.. I’m not sure. I’d like to date with him and everything..
    (I’m a 13 years old Hungarian girl, sorry if I made any grammar mistakes..)

    • Indiana December 23, 2017, 1:29 pm

      yeah he definitely has a crush on you. i have been in the same situation before and his friends told me he like me in that sort of way and my friends (who i told i had a crush on him) told him and his friends. the problem was we were in the same class so we got teased all the time. That was like 4 years ago and even now (still in the same class) we are still a little bit awkward around each other… Some times they be mean to you to cover it up but my teacher told me “If a boy is mean to you, he likes you” and it is true…

      • Dorina Yana January 16, 2018, 12:18 pm

        Aw, thanks for telling me! It helped me with my thing.. Actually.. Sometimes I don’t even know how to feel towards him.. I feel like… I like him but.. at the same time I’m very afraid that if I’d ever tell me, he would actually reject me..One of my bestest friends told me that I should try and make the first step, but I think the boys should do it.. I just.. don’t know. :( I’d be heart broken… I don’t know.. the school will mock me about how i tried to make it first.. But mostly, I’m afraid that this will break our friendship..

  • alexa December 22, 2017, 12:53 pm

    there’s this kid I like and I asked him out today during lunch at school and he smiled but he didn’t answer I’m scared for what his answer is going to be what do i do

  • Yote December 21, 2017, 11:11 pm

    I have a crush from my school and he’s always looking away when I catch him looking at me & this other day he had that moment whereby we looked at each other for some seconds, so I took his phone contact from my friend thinking he likes me. The first time I texted him he seemed excited but he has never texted me first. I just don’t understand him

  • Crystal December 20, 2017, 11:46 pm

    So, there’s this guy in one of my classes and we sit in rows. He sits diagonally in front of me and we make a lot of eye contact and stuff. But I’m not really sure if he’s a little interested or not because he’s just a really outgoing person. Plus, his friend sits diagonally behind me, so he could just be looking at his friend. Sometimes he’ll turn to the side and just stare. But I’m too scared to look up. How can I double check if he’s interested?

  • Emily December 17, 2017, 12:55 pm

    So there’s this guy,I like him,he likes me,but lately he talks to a lot of girls,and he asked me out and I said yes,but rn,he’s acting like an asshole,and talking to other girls and not me,the past three days he hast texted me at all and leaves me read.what should I do?help?

    • Crystal December 20, 2017, 11:33 pm

      Honestly, if he asked you out and decided to ignore you for three days straight then he isn’t even worth your time. If he truly was interested he would be calling you and talking to you more often. PLUS HE IS TALKING TO OTHER GIRLS!! Drop him and he most likely thought it was a game. YOU deserve better not some guy who ignores you after asking you out.

  • Lydia December 13, 2017, 8:23 am

    So my crush is a really good person. His past relationship wasn’t a healthy one and he was verbally and emotionally abused. And now I’m pretty sure he’s afraid to really like fall in love again. He says he trust me and always tells me about all these girls he likes. He jumps from one girl to the next and I believe he really doesn’t want to love again for the fear that the same thing will happen again. He always says he’s fine but he’s happy in person but he seems really upset over text. The other day we got into a deep conversation and he just stopped talking as I tried explaining he deserved better and needed to know it. I wish he knew who really cared about him. These girls he tells me about always just leave him for someone else, I wish he’d just realize I care a hell lot more than I let on and he knows I care just not how much. He’s my best guy friend but I feel like I can’t talk to him about anything emotionally because I’d let out too much and he’d find out how I feel. It’s not like I don’t want him to know, but I feel like if I tell him, he won’t want to be my friend. He only trust me because he thinks I don’t like him that way. I always find him these nice girls to talk to only because I feel like he wouldn’t be happy with me.. I just want him to be happy so I’m trying to be happy too:):

  • Trey_Obe December 12, 2017, 1:25 pm

    So there’s this guy I like and he knows about it. I talked to him about it and he asked for a couple of days to think about it. That was four days ago….were still talking ,but not about me liking him. What should I do??? I’m so confused!!

  • New York City Girl December 11, 2017, 8:00 pm

    A kid told me that he wated to be my boyfriend at recess. Now things are king of awkward between us, what do I do?

    • Hello December 16, 2017, 8:57 pm

      I don’t think you should date him. You are too young to be making these type of decisions. Just tell him that you’re not interested and move on.

  • Insecure AF December 9, 2017, 2:18 pm

    Um so there’s this guy that I’ve liked for about 2 years now and he really confuses me. Sometimes he talks to me a lot and smiles at me and stares at me. Sometimes he even teases me but other times he doesn’t. I mean obviously he doesn’t have to do that 24/7 but I mean he stops for like a week so…? Also I think whe might like another girl but he still gives signs that he likes me. I’m too insecure to ask him out and also his sign is Gemini and they’re known for being flirtatious so I don’t know if he actually likes me or not….?? Help.

  • lvaloy2610 December 6, 2017, 4:40 pm

    So I really like this boy and I think he likes me his friends are always like when are you going to ask her? Or did you ask her yet? I feel like asking him out myself but I get really nervous around him. He already knows I like him but I am trying to figure out if he likes me back before I try to ask him out

    • Indiana December 23, 2017, 1:34 pm

      Make a move. Sometimes guys like the girl making the first move.

  • jeff November 30, 2017, 5:06 pm

    my name is jeff

    • Ali November 30, 2017, 10:34 pm

      Hi Jeff

      • Insecure AF December 9, 2017, 2:19 pm

        Hi Jeff

    • Hello December 16, 2017, 8:58 pm

      Hi Jeff

  • summer November 29, 2017, 1:14 am

    I initiated our first date and he did get nervous around me, we smile together, we had a long chat more of exchanging each other’s info, he even told me about his family members and his dream to work temporary in another country.. usu I text him and he always replies.. can assume we do like each other, right?.. but almost a month and no next date?.. is it I was like often ‘around’ him so he doesn’t seem to ‘cherish’?.. Capricorn guy is slow to react is that so true?.. should I ask him if he wanna be more then friends?.. what to do to speed up our relationship?.. I’m not a 20+ young gal to waste anymore time.. thanks..

  • Star November 26, 2017, 6:49 pm

    try liking a guy for 3 years and out of nowhere have him taken away. we still talk all the time(he stares at me a lot and when we talk he’s fr cheesing and blushing and laughing to my not-so-funny jokes and i’m confused. any advice?

    • Elizabeth January 31, 2018, 10:12 pm

      Yep. He likes you.

  • Ludmila November 25, 2017, 8:06 pm

    I like a guy. Should I tell him?

    • summer November 29, 2017, 1:17 am

      i think u can give obvious hint like asking him out..

      • Ludmila December 20, 2017, 11:12 pm

        Yes, maybe. Thanks

  • Adreamisawishurheartmakes November 24, 2017, 11:51 am

    YOu know that song that goes: A dream is a wish your heart makes, when your fast asleep. well i had a dream that me and my crush were holding hands! and eversince thanksgiviving break started i kept thinking about him. To everyone hes not the gushy and extremely happy person,but he teases everyone. I feel like he likesme!when he heard somewhere that that i liked him he still talked to me!!!

  • Help November 20, 2017, 7:39 pm

    So I have this crush on this guy and he is in a few of my classes and we are good friends. I think he likes another girl possibly. He is in my 6th hour and on the way to 7th hour we walk together, and there is this one spot in the hallway where it is very crowded and he and I kinda squeeze together and after that, he keeps bumping me and I think it’s an “accident”. He teases me a little on the way to 7th hour and jokes with me, but my best friend HATES him, but she knows I like him. I think he likes me. What do you think?

    • Emily December 17, 2017, 12:51 pm

      I think he does like u,but there’s a percentage he may not,just hang in there(:

  • Help November 20, 2017, 7:38 pm

    So I have this crush on this guy and he is in a few of my classes and we are good friends. I think he likes another girl possibly. He is in my 6th hour and on the way to 7th hour we walk together, and there is this one spot in the hallway where it is very crowded and him and I kinda squeeze together and after that, he keeps bumping me and I think it’s an “accident”. He teases me a little on the way to 7th hour and jokes with me, but my best friend HATES him, but she knows I like him. I think he likes me. What do you think?

  • Mackenzie, CA November 20, 2017, 6:39 pm

    There’s this boy, and I really like him. He’s in a couple of my classes and we talk sometimes. We became friends this year, and we even have a special name for each other. He always goofs off whenever I’m there and he does stuff I think is funny. Me and my friends are trying to find out his crush, and it lowered down to 2 of my friends and me. I just dont know if he likes me.

  • ‍♀️ November 17, 2017, 10:21 pm

    So there this guy in my history class and i never noticed him till the day i caught him staring at me in class. So after that we kept making weird eye contact and i didnt think much of it cause i had no time to think about it but then i realized it. And we stopped making eye contact so often, but the other day i had my friend add me on snap cause i needed notes for that class and i got them and didn’t bother starting a convo, but the day after we made eye contact and he made sort of a happy facial expression but not a full smile. But we haven’t made eye contact since and idk . I really don’t think he likes me and i feel like he’s probably already talking to someone else cause he seems to be on his phone a lot:((

  • G November 17, 2017, 2:36 am

    So this boy in my 7th hour he is always acting weird around me like actully laughing at my jokes when nobody does. I find him staring at me sometimes. I sometimes think he likes me but he says hes dating someone which i belive i see them together. Uh yeah though

  • Naomi November 15, 2017, 8:12 pm

    ok so i may only be 11 but i know what its like to be in love, i see my parents everyday! anyways, i told my sister i liked this guy. my dads friend is actually his dad so i see him whenever my dad wants to hang out. my sister one day through me under the bus and started giggling and singing our names he looked at me and said you like me back? i mean you like me? a year later hes been kind of quiet. i dont know if he still likes me :(

    • HEY! November 25, 2017, 10:17 pm

      Don’t freak out LMAO. He probs got embarrassed, i mean who wouldn’t after making that mistake “you like me back?” if i were u i would confess that i liked him, you never know.
      Good Luck! :)

  • Lzz November 11, 2017, 12:50 pm

    Also I forgot to say. Supposedly in my 2nd I sit by these girls where talking to this guy and they were talking about how the guy I like broke up with his gf and the guy that was talking to the girls in my class said that he was gonna ask the guy I likes ex gf out soooooo. I’m so confused

  • Lzz November 11, 2017, 12:36 pm

    Okay so I like this guy(obviously, i mean why would I even be here,right) and he’s in my 6th hour. We always laugh and joke around in class even though most of the time we aren’t supposed to talk. We walk out in the hallway together and I normally kick him in the shin(not hard tho bc I’m not that mean)(I do this cause I’m a little bit shorter than him) and he normally trips me but yesterday he threw his arm out as if he was gonna catch me if I fell. We continued down the hall and his class was on the same side of the hallway but on completely opposite sides of the hall and he just continued to walk with me. Sometimes I see him in the hallways anyother time and he either tries to talk to me or I slightly hit him with my shoulder(playfully). So what do y’all think?

  • May November 8, 2017, 11:10 pm

    Ok so my crush may like me but I don’t know because my friend asked him. He said yes but she said it seemed lime he wasn’t being serious. And another one of my friends said that he hates her and won’t talk to her. And when she told him his jaw dropped and kept on making eye contact with me the rest of the day. I have 3/6 periods with him at school help. I’m in middle school ans have no experience.

  • confused November 4, 2017, 10:02 pm

    this is gonna be really long!so, this is myfirst year going to middle school and 3 schools join to make that middle school…i really like this boy that i just met.were really shy with eachother.in ela one day i got a chance to sit next to him so i did he was staring at me and i said what like rude WITCH I WISH I DIDNT and then playful he said look left right up down and stuff so i looked right and stared at him making eye contact and i said i forgot an then we laughed and went back to work.hes like the class clown but he dropps stuff alot so he cant get it usually on the side of the desk but i sit far from him and nobody listens to him so i always get up and help him.one day his binder dropped and everything came out me and another girl (who likes his and is from the same school) and a boy helped him out teacher made 2 ofus go sit the girl did but the boy was about to but then it would be obc that i liked him so i sat.i would say were friends now but in math we make eye contact alot and laugh i recently got moved behind him and he jokes around but i got moved again and he doesnt really joke anymore.hes really popular and im not at all.he ignores my snapchats most of the time.idont know what i should do.in ela 2 girls sit in front of him facing him and one is from my school butthey always lip talk to eachother and he play punches her.he doesnt like me i feel but i realllllly do like him were in different lunch periods too.PLEASE help me and giveme tips (ive never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone )

  • Shh November 4, 2017, 3:44 pm

    I’ve have this HUGE crush on this guy for about 6 months now and I have no clue if he likes me or not . He sometimes try and touch my arm and he touched my leg a couple of timesin the past. He tries to makes eye contact with me but I’m too shy to look at him back lol.

    I have to sit in front him in maths and he sometimes puts his feet on my chair and when I look back at him he just looks away and smiles.

    Theres also been instances where he tapped my nose and he tries to make me laugh.
    He also opened up to me about stuff that’s
    happened to him in the past (it wasn’t anything too serious)
    However I still don’t think that he’s interested…

    • cleo November 13, 2017, 9:28 am

      he mighty like you…don’t lose hope

  • Lia November 1, 2017, 10:17 pm

    I have a crush on this boy and he’s in three of my classes. I’ve known him for 2 school years and he’s always awkward around me, as i do the same. He had a girlfriend last year and i think he’s still dating her but a couple of my friends told me he was trying to get into contact with me without me knowing.I always catch him at staring at me in one of those weird ways… and I he always made eye contact with me but was confident about it. The thing is now he’s kinda behaving like he trying to get over me but I’m afraid that he’s playing me. Like I said, i think he has a girlfriend and honestly i don’t know how to talk to him…PLEASE HELP .. i love hoe sad music plays while I type this.

    • Bailey November 15, 2017, 8:07 pm

      Okay Lia you should give him little signs like asking him out of no where how is your relationship going? he will either say its fine its bad or im not in one, theres your chance to get in his life some how. and dont put him in a friend zone, if he does like you it will be over in his head.

  • Vane October 28, 2017, 1:42 am

    I have a crush on the other boy in grade 10 he’s so cute, he likes staring at me, whenever I’m talking to him he always smiles. So on Wednesday I told my bestfriend about this then she said “what?” I looked at her and ask why she was wondering, she replied saying”I also have a crush on him” I was like confused I ask her that “does he know u” she said “no” she asked me “how did u know that boy” I explained to her, she said “does he know u” I said “yes” then she was very disappointed…I don’t know wh…

  • Need help October 23, 2017, 7:41 pm

    I don’t know if my crush likes me. I meet him 2 weeks ago. He was nice and adorable. We went home together (with few other people) and he told me to text him when I get home, so I did. And the other day he asked me if i want to come meet him. He said he’ll text me the time and the place, but he didn’t. I don’t know if that’s bad or good.

    • random person October 27, 2017, 8:13 am

      its a bad thing ofc cuz if he was interested in you he would showup in time

    • Me November 4, 2017, 12:15 am

      Good thing , you shouldn’t just meet a guy who you just met two weeks ago, he could be dangerous

  • Person October 19, 2017, 6:43 pm

    My sister has a boyfriend who has a brother. So I had never met him up until last week when we had a gathering at our place and when I saw him I was like hot damn he cute. So throughout the night I was acting all smart but I noticed that he didn’t really talk to me. However when they left my mum said he kept staring at me and trying to talk to me so maybe I was ignorant. Then throughout the week my parents kept teasing me about him and his parents teased him. My sister’s boyfriend (his brother) teases me aswell. So last night they came over for a little party that we had and he was shy and awkward at the start. I was sitting on the couch in between the two brothers and he was so stiff and awkward. Later on the night I would engage conversation with him and he wouldn’t look me in the eye and was just shy and I think I even saw him blush. Anyways when he did get sort of comfortable he did talk to me and look at me but still we couldn’t really talk much at all. We went to eat and he saw my glasses on the table so he just picked it and put it on and I just found it so adorable. He kept kinda teasing me throughout the night. So then he left after a while. Overall I don’t know if I got any signs from him because I don’t know but I really like him but I don’t know if he likes me. It makes me want to see him everyday but i feel heartbroken that he would never like me

  • Eva October 10, 2017, 3:29 am

    OK so i like this boy his name is dylan and like i love him sooooo much like alottt like i cant even explain anyway i asked my friend to talk to him and ask him his name so he asked for her name and never mine but somehow he knew and my friend never said my name once which is really weird my friend asked dylan if we could sit with him he was yea thank you i was like awwww. so the second we sat with him my friend left me with him for like 10 mins and i made straight eye contact with him for atleast 10 or 20 secs then he said hi i sadi hi really quiet and usually im loud thats a HUGE sign i like someone anyone who knows me knows that. so i dont know what happened but we just stopped sitting with him i was sad but when he found out i liked him i was sitting at a table behind him at lunch and he was facing the other way and i was talking to someone and he kept turning away to look at me and i thought it was so cute it was like every 30 secs. then today well yesterday cause its 12 i thought he was asking my friend out i was about to cry then she told me he thought that she liked him but then she was like oh no i dont like u she does and he was like o really in a good way and i was so happy. so one thing is i’ve never actualy talked to him like ever he will leave all of his friends just to talk to me but im still trying.does he really like me? thanks for reading this whoever finished this you deserve a cookie or whatever u want but seriously tysmmmmmm

  • Person October 8, 2017, 4:50 pm

    So there’s this guy i really like and he gave me his number and we were talking like everyday we don’t talk as much now but we got eachother presents over the summer from our holidays. His friends keep coming up to me and saying he likes me but he keeps denying it and making out that he’s annoyed with them. He always comes over to my table in class and talks to people but I really want to find out if he likes me. I’ve tried doing it through other people but they could never get it out of him. How do I find out if he likes me??

    • Eva October 10, 2017, 2:49 am

      Last year that happened to me it turned out he liked me we stopped dating over summer break because someone told him i was lesbian and i was sad and mad why would someone break up because of that even if i was he should’ve been supportive of it. But any way its in between if he likes you or not just wait an see try to talk to him. I like to mess with my crush so i can touch/hold his hand or he puts his hand on mine because i use his mouse sometimes to look at a really funny pic him, his hands are so soft. i think he likes me…

  • Unkown October 6, 2017, 1:42 am

    SO my crush found out I liked him and in pe I was chilling with my friends at the bleachers/benches and we were watching them play and out of no where he is sitting at the bottom bench of me when he had other spots away from us to sit and he was acting funny and chill but i made myself look like I didn;t care

  • Kacey September 30, 2017, 7:41 pm

    Well, I don’t know if he likes me for sure but he is always staring at me which I find quite odd sometimes. I remember wearing a skirt one Friday cause I always wear pants to school, he just sat there staring at me as I walked from class to the cafeteria. Keeps me wondering if he is undressing me in his mind.

    • Julie October 3, 2017, 11:10 am

      I think he’s attracted to you, he may not be crushing, but he’s interested.

  • Eva Love September 26, 2017, 7:40 pm

    Have all this attributes but still is say a lot about his ec

  • DariaC September 23, 2017, 7:22 pm

    So theres this guy in my school that I really like. 2 years ago he kept saying that we were going out and I kept saying no. He then said that he wants to be friends. Obviously it hurt coz I actually started to like him. Last year we were put in the same Spanish class and we sat close to each other. (He sat behind me) my friend kept saying we would make a great couple and he started saying he wants to go out but I kept rejected him coz I thought and still think it’s all a joke. So school started 3 weeks ago and we got put next to each other on lesson. We talked and joked around. we kept leaning overto over to, layed on me, made convo (w eye contact) and pinched my leg(near the knee ) and touchedmy touched my hand. He touched my stuff pencil case etc. He accidently pushed me which resulted in me punching the back of my head on the wall. He kept apologising and stroked my face. After that he kept leaning towards me. I don’t know what to think. I have this feeling he might like someone else. Help? Does he like me? What are ur opinions?

    • Adriana September 25, 2017, 11:30 pm

      Yes he does! If hes doing all tht its obvious signs he likes u and if u really like him tell him! But make sure hes serious about u if he loves u he cant just say it he gots to also prove it you know

  • Olivia September 19, 2017, 10:50 pm

    There is this guy in school who is older than me and I have no idea who he is. And one day his class and mine joined together and I caught him staring at me for the entire period. Now when I see him in the hall he aleast seems to be staring at me or glancing

  • Miss.AE September 19, 2017, 5:44 pm

    I totally think he likes you! If you guys text a lot but don’t talk much in person, I think you should schedule a meet up but not a date. Just act casual and talk more until he opens up and begins to talk to you in person too. And after that, give him sutle but NOT obvious hints that you like him, he may just be shy so try to talk to him more when your hanging out with your friend group ;)

  • Albina September 17, 2017, 5:24 am

    I really like a guy bt dont knw he likes me or not. We are good friends bt dont knw……might b he dont feel the same….i think,”he dont feel same as i do”…… bt i cant control this feelings …. i am literally into in him………. i even cant express my feelings……if he got angry n stop talking then …….so wht to do ……..??

  • Laura September 15, 2017, 9:56 pm

    -where we live. He literally asked me more then 10 times during school if I was going and thag I should go because him and his friends were going. Then when I told him I couldn’t go because I worked the next day he kept saying that I should call in sick and go to the concert. Everyone wanted me to go since they all know I like him. HE knows I like him so wouldn’t it make sense that if he liked me he’d just tell me since he already knows I like him? Idk help me.

  • Daisa September 11, 2017, 4:20 pm

    So recently this guy is in my class has been acting werid a couple of weeks ago the guy and I play Chinese air ping pong then all of a sudden when I falls on the floor to grab the ping pong ball she suddenly looks and me and says “are you alright?’ And of course I say yes and yesterday in English he decides to tickle the side of my rib and show me his pickaxe scar in his eyebrow then out of the blue he tells me that I’m weak and then when it’s lunch I’m hanging out with my friends in this room and he suddenly comes in takes a seat right next to me and as I’m eating I’m having a conversation on how my only food that I’m eating is jats then the guy suddenly takes his chips out and gives them to me of course I’m having thankful he gave them to me but it’s werid how he’s acting towards me.

    • Tati September 11, 2017, 5:43 pm

      He might like you.

  • Sage September 8, 2017, 12:30 am

    Okay, so I need advice. This guy says he likes me, and that he is interested, but he has baby mama drama,( she wants them to still work, but he has assured me that it’s not going to happen, and I’ve heard him tell her that)and I get that. But even though I understood he’s in a complicated situation, I can’t help but feel if he really liked me, he would make it happen already. Plus he tells me to text him, but i don’t want to because his child knows his password and he tells it to the mom. And they live extremely close, so she can get his phone very easily. And has actually tried texting me, pretending to be him. So we pretty much only talk in person, because I don’t want her harassing me. I know he doesn’t want to be with her, at least from what I’ve seen, but he lets her get in the way of everything. Because she will hold their child against him, and he loves his child more then anything which is amazing, but now she knows that she can cross certain boundaries and get away with it. My advice is how do I put in a nice way that I want to get to know him better, but I’m not the type to sit around and wait for forever. If I were to stop talking to him I would be extremely upset, but knowing that his baby mama controls our friendship ( we aren’t dating yet for obvious reasons) really upsets me. I want him to know this, and I just want to tell him but i don’t want to be that other clingy girl in his life.

  • lili September 4, 2017, 11:20 pm

    OK girls I need advice I feel like this guy likes me he sales stuff in a flea market and so does my aunt so I see him often when I notice he always stared at me I was like does he like me I couldn’t tell?eventullay I stop going to the flee market for like 5 MO. I went there yesterday and I caught him staring at me like always but I also notice his eyebrow was raised up too.When I was leaving we made eye contact and held it for few good seconds it seemed like he wanted to say something but I quickly ran outta there lol! Do u guys think he intrested?

    • T. Girl September 6, 2017, 8:29 pm

      Yes. Yes he is. Girl, I think you’ve found yourself a BF

  • T.girl August 28, 2017, 5:30 am

    Would you like it if a girl you hate takes your guy away from you

  • T.girl August 28, 2017, 5:24 am

    Girls, girls. It is no big deal
    If a guy likes you, it’s nothing. I like this guy and he is really cute. And we have a lot of things in common. How about you, Emily?

  • madri August 27, 2017, 4:10 pm

    I like a guy since last year when we were in 11th grade I m from India I m going to complete my 12th within 4 months it’s about more than a year I like that guy I proposed him once last year but during that time he wasn’t interested because he hardly knew about my existence but since I had proposed him he has started noticing me and has started showing concern I have seen him staring me many times he becomes shy when I stare him back he never had a girlfriend throughout he never used to attend physical classes but after I proposed him he has started attending physical classes even throughout our school timings he is around me I don’t know what should I do should I propose him again or go with the flow and let him come this time because I think like he has also started liking me

  • Bree August 23, 2017, 7:08 pm

    I met this guy my sophomore year when me and him first made eye contact from that day on we would always there each other or I would always catch him staring at me and he would pop up places that I’m at and be around and at first I didn’t know if it was just a coincidence or not so one day I was walking down the hall and he was at his desk and the hallway and I looked up and seen him staring at me because he looked up from his work instead at me in the eyes and he held it the stare and I broke away first look down at my phone look back up and he was still staring at me also he teased me like faking as if he told the bus driver to leave me and when I left school early that year my friends told me that he complimented me on something I had done so now it’s my junior year and he is acting a little standoffish he still stares but I kind of feel like sometime he’s trying to avoid me Loki but for the eclipse we were all outside and my friend had pointed him out and he was to the right of me and he was standing towards me but talking to a group of friends and watching me and this guy talk then that’s when his friend came over and told the guy that likes me to leave me alone because I don’t like him I don’t know why he said that do you maybe then we go to walk into the building after the eclipse is over he’s walking beside me and then in front of me and then he looks back and sees me so he stops walking walks and start having a random conversation with someone while watching me walk through the door so I wanted to ask do you think he still likes me or is he trying to avoid me or does he not like me anymore please and thank you

  • Charie Buendia August 23, 2017, 6:46 pm

    I have a crush to a Grade 10 students, btw i’m already in 12th Grade. I don’t know if he likes me but I can observe that somewhat he does. He looks at me sometimes and when I am not looking my friends so him glance at me. Then one time my friend told me that I think his in love with you because he keeps on staring at you. There’s this time that he always notice my Red lipstick and then told me your lipstick are very RED that it seems that he don’t want me to wear those lipstick. I also remember when he asked me ” Did you cut your hair? He really kept asking me if I do , then I told him I didn’t then I saw him disappointed and a little bit sad. He also kept teasing me and wanted me to help him and support him. I’m just asking if that means he like me or he didn’t and he is just using me?

  • Trinity August 2, 2017, 12:17 am

    Start giving him body language and doing all of this stuff if he is acting wierd like trying to get away from u he probably doesn’t like you, but if he starts showing more affection then msg him on a friday that you lke him

  • Guy05616866 July 26, 2017, 12:06 pm

    As a guy reading the first few paragraphs of this article, I felt compelled to share my opinion. The author’s understanding of men seems limited. Granted, I didn’t read the whole page so I could be wrong. I’m studying for my BA so I do read, thank you. The problem with “signs” is that it lacks a criterion and is a mere assumption. Personally, when I like a woman, I completely ignore her and I notice many women do the same. (queue laughter) When you encounter someone who is your kryptonite, you’re afraid to make mistakes and become extremely self-conscious. They completely distract you from any given task at hand and you cannot function properly due to the elevated emotions and increased neurological activity that overwhelms your ability to operate. You get clumsy and weak. Some of the “signs” mentioned in this article are what I may exhibit when I “like” someone but have no interest in actually pursuing. Sometimes, I exaggerate and force the emotions because there is nobody more attractive nearby and I need to feel love. That doesn’t mean I’m THAT into you. Women need to avoid that. I usually befriend the girl I actually want and pursue her friend because I know the friendship with the former will last.

    • Huber August 14, 2017, 9:54 pm

      As a guy how do you read a guy that I was with a couple of months ago and told me that he fancied me. We never exchanged numbers as we thought we would meet again soon, anyway didn’t happen for a few weeks. He’s very friendly and smiles, makes eye contact and waves, has spoken to me a few times but as he’s usually in company there hasn’t been an opportunity to talk, he only comes to my area once every few weeks. He makes sure to say “hi”, chat if he can and acknowledge me when leaving, always in a different area of bar but is he just not interested or why does he continue to smile, make eye contact and talk if chance arises?? We have only been in same place 3 times since. Just forget him?

  • Starcrossed July 26, 2017, 12:04 pm

    We weren’t in the same class ever except some activites.

  • Jessica July 14, 2017, 1:33 pm

    Okay so, I need advice. I like to go to bingo and since the first day I went a guy keeps looking and smiling at me now I’m falling hard for him but I don’t know if he likes me or he’s just being friendly.. he always smiles at me stares eye contact and do sweet short talk

    • Guy05616866 July 26, 2017, 12:16 pm

      Hey Jessica, he definitely thinks you are pleasant. But that does not mean he is really attracted to you or has feelings. I sometimes do this to the cute old lady at work because she is wholesome and always smiling. It makes ME feel good to engage in small talk with her and I enjoy the vibe she gives. You need to differentiate between this type of interaction and one that involves love. Smiling means very little and eye contact could mean you remind him of his sister. You could also be looking way too much into this. My advice would be to get to know him, as a friend. Don’t use the “friend” word though. The more you interact with him, the more intel you’ll receive and obtain a better understanding of what his intentions or feelings are.

    • Someone October 1, 2017, 2:52 am


  • Evelyn July 10, 2017, 12:56 am

    So I’m going into 8th and I’ve liked this boy since 5th, and at first it was just a “I want to hang out around him” sort of crush but now it’s stronger, and I want to hang out with him a lot more and I just want him to talk to me more… we’re good friends but we just hang out with different friend groups. He’s really funny and sweet and he does show some of the signs previously stated but I’m just not sure if he likes me back. I haven’t told anyone except my best friend who doesn’t go to my school that I like him.. I’m so torn whether to tell him or not Please help!!!

    • capybaralover August 16, 2017, 5:49 am

      i would tell him in case he likes you back. personally i think you shouldn’t tell anyone else but him because for the 4th time in a row someones had to yell out to the whole class that i like someone (soooooo annoying but whatever)

  • The NeonFox July 5, 2017, 8:42 pm

    There is this kid in my class( or used to be because I’m on summer break ) that I have a crush on. It started in the middle of the year, kind of low-key, but now it’s unbearable. Sometimes I wish that I had the courage to tell him… But now I think my chances are ruined. I haven’t even told my friend I liked him, but she always ships us together. One day, she actually SAID I liked him. His reaction wasn’t as bad as I thought, and afterwards he acted as though nothing happened. We mess around all the time, making inside jokes and laughing like hyenas. Our teacher always had to tell us to knock it off. But we never did. And he shows just about all the signs listed in the article. But it’s kind of on and off ( mostly on, I might add). I think I’m being mislead.

  • Lia July 1, 2017, 2:29 pm

    I’ve had a major crush on this guy for ages… let’s call him Sam. We’re close – nearly best friends. At the beginning of the year he was dating this other girl who I used to be friends with before she had a major personality shift and we started arguing. Now they are broken up, and I’m friends with both of them. The thing is that Sam keeps sending me really mixed signals, one minute flirting and lying on me and talking loads, the next treating me the same as any of his other friends. I know he knows that I like him, but he’s being really sweet about it and not mentioning it or pulling away. Now I’m not going to see him for the whole summer, but we still text loads. I want a relationship but I have no idea about him. Any ideas?

    • imnottellingmyname August 5, 2017, 9:55 pm

      Well first of all what do you talk about? think about things to talk about that you are both interested in so he will want to keep the conversation going for longer (texting, phone, face to face, etc.) you say he knows that you like him, him knowing that will make him be less nervous if he likes you back because he won’t hold back meaning if he is interested most guys would be scared to make a move because they are unsure of the girl’s feelings. it sounds like from what you said that he is at least interested. Make sure that before the actual liking part you put the friends part first in any relationship. Good luck!

  • person June 23, 2017, 6:06 pm

    that moment when he does half of these things, but half of them aren’t present so you are crying in a dark corner debating.

    • capybaralover August 16, 2017, 5:53 am

      yeah that is exactly what im doing right now…

  • janusha June 20, 2017, 5:00 pm

    I have a crazy thing a boy says he like me and he said he like someone else but before he say that I start to like him but now he always copy me and the way of he looking at me it’s very different and when I get near to him he feels like very nervous and when he is with his friends and I walking he stop talking and try to stop me too but I still didn’t understand he likes me or not? please help me!
    thanks you

  • emily June 13, 2017, 4:16 pm

    well there is this boy who i have a huge crush on. at the start of the year he said ‘i really really like you’, but i didnt really care. now he is dating someone else but i started crushing on him. is there a chance he still likes me? i am shy so idk if he likes me or not.

    • Guy05616866 July 26, 2017, 12:18 pm

      Leave him alone. He has found someone who appreciates him and it is not fair to start tugging at his heart now when it is at your convenience.

  • Anon June 7, 2017, 10:51 am

    I have a crush on this guy named Zeus, he’s my classmate and we both are boy scouts (in my place girls are allowed in boy scout) I have a ctush on him since we becamr classmates. Sometimes when teachers told us to pass paper, because he’s always the one we pass papers on I often touch his hand and sometimes I became numb. I also saw him stiffened a little bit like he was uncomfortable. Because he was at my back, I always look at the left side and glance at him and he’s looking at me too. When we’re on a recess, he keeps following me… when I go back to our classroom, he would do the same or sometimes he would touch my arm and say ‘Hi’

    • Foxy June 18, 2017, 2:09 pm

      I really think he likes you

      • capybaralover August 16, 2017, 5:55 am


  • Olivia June 3, 2017, 10:41 am

    But just yesterday he said “I don’t want to play your games, I am trying to focus.” When I was just doing what any girl with a crush on a guy would do fool around.

  • Lazuli_Subica June 1, 2017, 2:12 am

    OK So after my 1 week High School trip, I was talking to my Sister who’s like the same age as me (Crystal) and like she told me she had a crush on this boy named Austin, who was the boy I used to talk to…And son on. But at the public pool, the weirdest thing happened…these jealous-of-me gossip girls (Yuriah & Catherine) were throwing water at us, and trying to pull us underwater and etc. So, My sis and I went to get support with our (Friends/Boys) and so we got them back, big time. After that, I started talking talking to Austin? Yeah. It was kinda awkward talking to my sis’s crush when I could literally see she was trying to get close to him, what bothered me was when he said to her “Get out of here Nobody likes you Crystal”…So I got that feeling. I started hanging out with his friends-pushing each other at the pool. I noticed, he kept trying to push me, but his touch felt almost gentle, and careful. At the dinner hall, I keep noticing he stares at me across the tables with pink cheeks, and I’ve heard him talk about me to his friend and smile when he looks to me, but I get the feeling I like him. I just don’t know if he likes me. And my sis would get pissed if she noticed we would like each other? Yes…please reply me i need help is he into me?

  • Janine May 28, 2017, 4:32 pm

    I have this crazy crush on a guy at work. It is extremely difficult to not want to tell him! Its actually affecting my focus on my work :( He is a mentor, super intelligent, caring, textes me when Im not in the office, walks home with me etc… I feel like he is into me but I will NOT tell him or approach him unless he does first. So confusing these feelings are. We are both single, but office romance could complicate things.

  • Anon May 28, 2017, 12:15 am

    So there is this guy at my school and recently he had started treating me differently from before he is being more close and we went together with some friends and I sat one seat away from him (because my girl friend was in that seat) and he told me to get on the seat next to him and he was really close there was even a moment were he rested his head in my shoulder.
    And when I saw him he greated me with a kiss in the cheek, and also while we were walking he hugged me from behind and keep hugging me for quite a long time enough time for my friend to take a picture. I really don’t know if he likes me but I have kinda got the vibres that he does.

    • Ruby June 1, 2017, 1:49 am


  • Cherry120 May 23, 2017, 11:56 pm

    Hey I have a question for you .i like this boy my mum and he’s mum are friends that’s how we actually met like 2 years ago but i am far away from him studying medicine initially I didn’t like him cause he’s mum has been trying to match make us together but slowly has we started to chat and talk on the phone unconsciously I started liking him I see him like twice of once a year but we text each other every day . The last time I came home I had soo much fun he took me around and on the last day I had to sit him down to just ask what are we doing I had started liking him then and I needed him to say he’s mind without pressuring him cause he’s mom is already enough pressure but at the same time I needed him to define our status . He said he likes me from what’s he’s seen for far he really does but he wants to take things slow for now he doesn’t want to rush anything I understood him thou cause if we should get into a relationship is going to be long distance we still talk everyday he’s a sweet person but do you think long distance relationship can work

  • Lyra May 22, 2017, 10:09 pm

    There is this guy in my math class. We sat next to each other in a table of three and another kid. One day, I was on my phone before class started and he said to the other kid at our table, “wow, she’s cute.” I fidn’t think he was talking about me. But at the beginning of the next week we had a test, so our seats were in rows instead of tables. One of his friends sat in front of me and it was super blatant he was taking a picture of me, but I didn’t really care. He turned to the guy and was pointing to his phone and saying his name. So, naturally, I began to be suspicious. We moved seats since then but his seat now is pointed directly at my seat and I can see him staring at me but… I don’t really know. We talk every once and a while, but it’s usually abiut pointless things.

    • imnottellingmyname August 5, 2017, 10:25 pm

      He likes you or at least he thinks you are hot. Do you even like him? If so, make a move or tell him something cute, like:

    • imnottellingmyname August 5, 2017, 10:30 pm

      He likes you or at least he thinks you are hot. Do you even like him? If so, make a move or complement him, like tell him he’s hot, or tell him something that is little like idk “i like your eyes” or something like that cause the little things count to. He already thinks your hot, so what the problem. Become good friends before you become anything more than that ause the friendship in each relationship is the key part.

  • siena May 22, 2017, 7:58 pm

    (please help me, i need a reply!)

    sooo…there’s this guy; let’s call him Steve. Steve sits behind me in English, and we have a million inside jokes, and laugh a lot together. Some days he acts like he’s completely into me and we talk all the time, but sometimes we talk once and he hangs out with his friends. It feels like…he avoids me at sometimes, and it has been happening lately. One time he’s completely into me, and sometimes he’s not.

    help me!!!


    • Lillie May 24, 2017, 8:35 pm

      He probably likes you. Either that or you are very good friends. I had this problem with a friend also. If you are super close, just talk to him about who he likes/thinks is attractive. You could also work up the nerve to tell him you like him.

      • mollie June 4, 2017, 4:04 pm

        its TRUE he might like you but you should tell him how you feel about him because he might feel the some way.

  • Jane May 21, 2017, 2:55 am

    ok I don’t know there is some older guy in my job and for while he was my mentor, at first I was aloof because I am bad at reading “the signs” but once when I was drunk with my coworker we was talking about older guy and I said something like ahh yes now I need his help so I will ask if he helps me, coworker said…Yea he is great at this… but you know if you woud ask for something more… so from that day I have little crush on him, and than I started seeing that older guy that he stares… really really long stares once I was outside and were talking to other guy co- worker and the older guy was comming with his car and when he drowe aroun me he wasn’t watching the road but me insted he was lucky it was straith, whenever I am with him in one room he always smile, when he talks about what I am doing wrong (and thats when he iritate me) he ALWYS talk about that HE doesn’t like it not in general but just HE doesn’t like it, without asking he sometimes helps me and once when I was looking for something and we was alone in room he helped me find the thing and then he smiled sisn’t go aout just stood there stared and smile ad me… It is just my brain imagination or something IS going on? Needles to say he have already girlfriend and even so I crushing on him so badly in last few weeks I will not atempt anything just if he is in to me I’ll try to avoid him or something until one of us will cool down, don’t want to destroy his relationship

    • Jane May 27, 2017, 8:48 am

      so.. is he in to me? If that was just my mind I woud do nothing about it, I can handle it but if he is also I just alter my sty… so is he in to me?

  • xyz May 9, 2017, 2:25 am

    he is in my class and i don’t know wether he likes me or not but he really gaze at me sometimes and sometimes not so…… i am totally confused. what to do???

    • Lillie May 24, 2017, 8:37 pm

      Girl, just ask him. If you like hom, yell him or get a friend to. When he stares look for the signa that are listed above

  • Hatty May 8, 2017, 12:45 pm

    Hi, I like this boy and he keeps on staring at me but when I catch him looking he looks away. He was flirting with another girl but he kept looking back at me. I’m in secondary school and he sits next to me in a lesson. I want to ask him out but I’m scared. Should I ask him out? If I should ask him out, what should I say? Please help me.

    • Naomi May 8, 2017, 4:52 pm

      go for it girl!

      • Lillie May 24, 2017, 8:38 pm

        Just tell him how ypu feel

  • XYZ May 5, 2017, 10:56 am

    Here is this guy in my office,actually he is my senior and even he was my mentor to guide me. Also he is the team head at our office. During his mentorship with me, we accidentally got attatched with each other. I started having a crush on him, and then after few days his behaviour also changed, he started staring from distance, I noticed him gazing at me many times. He even tries to be near me many times and pays special attention to me. While addressing the whole office crowd, he keeps major eye contact with me. He even tends to smile sometimes while staring. Is this a sign that he likes me??

    • Cat May 16, 2017, 6:53 am

      I’d say a strong yes.

  • Curios Me April 28, 2017, 12:45 pm

    So I like this guy and he says he likes another girl but he doesn’t show much interest in her. He shows interest in me and my friend…. my friend likes him too and they spend more time together because they go to the same school, and I don’t. I want him and I don’t want my friend to get him because he shows interest in both of us. Please HELP! And tell me what I should do. He also used to like her, but he said that I was hotter than her and the girl he likes. AHHH! And when I wouldn’t text him he begged me to text him.

    • darleen December 14, 2017, 11:56 pm

      ummm…….. he most likely likes u and jus tryna make you jealous by hanging out with other girls go for it take the step and ask him out

  • Joyleen April 25, 2017, 3:18 am

    I messaged this guy one time about a year and a half ago and we kinda hit it off, I guess you could say we had an emotional connection. Prior to that, however I had told him that I don’t like his personality and he kinda flipped out and told me not to talk to him which I didn’t and then he’s the one who started talking to me and asking me quite constantly if I was OK, at the end of that day he asked me if I had changed my opinion of him and I said yes and it seemed like we were all good but then I talked to a few people a couple of days later asking about him and whatever and most people said that that’s how he is with all girls and its intentional so that they fall for him and he just owns it I guess. I got mad at that cause I find guys like that so unattractive, so I started ignoring him but then he started doing things like opening the door for me and all that, we would message once in a while but it was mostly to tell each other our problems but we never really spoke in school. He kind of opened up to me in a way that I didn’t think he was capable. We tend to share quite a lot of eye contact which I think sometimes I imagine. He has a girlfriend at the moment, but I still don’t understand what our relationship actually is. His previous girlfriend before her he kinda told me about her but I guess that’s cause I didn’t know her his current girlfriend goes to the same school soooo. Because I don’t know where I stand I’ve tried to cut him off but he keeps worming his way back. On my birthday, we were sat next to each other in math and he didn’t talk to me for half the lesson and then halfway through he says happy birthday Joyleen and he smiles but he doesn’t look at me, Its only when he’s done that he looks at me. I don’t really know where I stand. HELP.

  • Rebeca April 22, 2017, 2:21 pm

    I seriously need help I already like my coworker but there’s always a girl coming to see him like 2 times a week. He says he does not like her but I just get so jealous seeing him with her. But I’m not sure if he likes me ? He teases me and mocks me at whatever I say and he also calls me nick names and tells me I’m pretty. He used to take me out to lunch and kiss my lips but I’ve been under a budget that we hardly go anymore. He also had to compliment my butt He makes me feel happy but also confuses me at the same time

    • Ruby June 1, 2017, 1:56 am


  • Ali April 21, 2017, 8:36 pm

    So this guy litteraly stares at me, but the weird thing is, is that when I look over, he doesn’t look away, and he asked me if I’ve ever given headbut if I catch him looking at me, I will look at him, so we both end up staring at each other, then he will laugh and look away, but SOMEONE PLZ HELP ME

    • Menu May 5, 2017, 10:46 am

      Jeez poor thing… maybe talk to him about it

  • Cara deli ins April 20, 2017, 8:57 am

    So one day I was walking out from science class and this guy I like he was the class next door and so I walked out and put my books in my bag and put my bag on and I flicked my hair out of my face while walking out the class he was there waiting for his friends in my class and he was just staring at me for about 5 sec and I just peeked to see if he looked and I just went downstairs… In English for period5 he’s next door too and after English I went out and put on perfume and he was starring at me and like smiling and raising his eyebrows cause his friends tell me that he talks about me a lot and sooo HE LIKES ME AND I LIKE HIM YAYYYY

  • Amgel April 20, 2017, 8:56 am

    So one day I was walking out from science class and this guy I like he was the class next door and so I walked out and put my books in my bag and put my bag on and I flicked my hair out of my face while walking out the class he was there waiting for his friends in my class and he was just staring at me for about 5 sec and I just peeked to see if he looked and I just went downstairs… In English for period5 he’s next door too and after English I went out and put on perfume and he was starring at me and like smiling and raising his eyebrows cause his friends tell me that he talks about me a lot and sooo HE LIKES ME AND I LIKE HIM YAYYYY

  • Rhythm April 17, 2017, 5:10 pm

    There’s this guy I have a crush on. We were in the same class the year before last and the teacher made us sit together. We were good friends and talked a lot. One day during class he asked me if I liked him!!! But I was uncomfortable and kept shushing him. And then the teacher yelled at us for talking. We pretended like nothing had happened after that and were still good friends. The next year we weren’t in the same class. But then during the final examination we were in rooms next to each other. The teacher who was taking the exam liked me and always told me to get stuff. And then she told me to go get a stapler from another class. So when I got to my crush’s classroom I asked the teacher for the stapler and then caught sight of him as soon as he saw me looking straight at him he looked over his shoulder at his friend and smiled and then kept staring at me and smiling until I went back. Also forgot to tell you that that day when I was going to my class he was going down with his friends and I was going up. When he saw me he said to his friends “that’s her!” (while pointing at me of course) now this year we’re in the same class and he does all these things except the eye contact and staring thing.
    What should I do I know he likes me

    • Rhythm April 21, 2017, 7:34 am

      Today he was showing something in his notes to the teacher and when the teacher was reading he was staring at me

    • Rhythm April 21, 2017, 7:38 am

      Also his friend sits behind me and today I thought someone was looking at me from behind and I glanced back and saw him look at me (smiling) and then look at him

  • angel evans April 17, 2017, 1:56 pm

    sorry if i copied th link to many times i accidentally clicked it to many times! LOL

  • angel evans April 17, 2017, 1:44 pm

    there’s this one really hot guy thst rated me 7 and a half in my class but idk if he likes me or not.

    • Julie October 2, 2017, 11:27 am

      I don’t think so. If he liked you, he would either rate you very high or very low.

  • Juliet April 17, 2017, 10:41 am

    Need help. I like a guy who is medical practitioner.he is complicated may b shy an introvert. I know him since three years being his patient though officially on paper m being treated by his senior. V meet occasionally say three times in an year( dat too health related) and v communicate online but That too 99% health related. I want to know whether he likes more dan his patient i will Tel u how he interacts wid me u judge.
    1 he rarely makes eye contact wid me but does wid his mates. Twice i saw him lukng at me wen i was busy doing something at d desk & sudnly lukd upto him
    2 his diction is not clear while talking to me bus is clear wid his mates
    3 he always help me sometimes even goes out if so way
    4 though it is me who asks to meet always rgdng health prblm ( though not serious) but he never turns me down.
    5 always turns up at his work place solves my prblm
    6 sometimes he wishes me festival prior to me wishing him but sometimes never even revert s
    7 remembers every detail of conversation v have
    8 while talking to me looks down at d desk, his diary, fidgets wid his cell phone, starts scribblin in his diary etc while d conversation is on. Never at ease at stagnant position, sometimes slouches on d seat sometimes sits straight
    9 sometimes he shares his personal life wid me wen i ask dat too not much
    Few things he does which being a guy human being anyone will do like being a good medical practitioner but few other things he does which make me think dat he likes me for eg. Going out of the way to help me, wishing me on occasions etc.
    Plz help me and give ur point of view on whether he likes me or just takes me as a random patient?

  • stephen April 10, 2017, 4:05 pm

    in the beginning of this school year i really didn’t have an interest in him i thought he was annoying and he was always calling me names then he stopped for a while… so a few months later and i started liking him, he eventually found out and ever since he has been playing around with me more than usual for, some reason the teachers always sat us next to each other so now that sit being him he is always touching my legs, my stuff and stretching back so at the end im always smelling his hair bc thats what he wants… but if someone asks him if he will ever date me he stays quiet or and says no i have no idea if he likes me HELP.

    • Julie October 2, 2017, 11:29 am

      Try to hang out with him after school. Say that you just want to be good friends and if he has social media talk to him every once in a while.

  • unidentafied April 8, 2017, 2:21 am

    i have a friend who is shy but he says hi in the halls and us and somefriends went to main event and his friends ceepd smerking also i find him staring at me when i am at cheer

  • Kathleen April 6, 2017, 7:45 pm

    So I like this guy and we have study hall together, and we can do anything in study hall. So there is a bunch of us that just sit in this group and the past week the guy I have had a crush on for a year now always sits by me and the past couple of days he has moved his chair right next to mine, and we always match up our feet and yesterday he put his whole leg up to mind and just leaned into me. And I leaned in back. Did I mention he has held my hand in class before? Yeah well, he did…. I don’t know if he likes me back…. so I had one of my friends text him and tell him I liked him and he never said if he liked me back or anything he just said “really??? She does?” I think he said that because I’m pretty popular and he isn’t that popular. But all I want to know is if he likes me back without making our regular study hall period awkward. HELP ME PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I DO?

    • unidentafied April 8, 2017, 2:28 am

      just saying i am almost a socially unacceptable person but i have friends but you are lucky that a guy even does that

  • Lily April 4, 2017, 6:04 pm

    They are both very popular. LIke the most popular. :/

  • Someone who could use help.. April 1, 2017, 11:03 pm

    Okay so there is this guy I have liked for 4 years now. He’s very popular and I’m kind of in the “middle class” in terms of social status at highschool. We talk a lot, and we always are teasing each other and playing around. A lot of people say that he likes me but I think that they are just saying that to be nice. I don’t know what to do because it is impossible for me to get over him (trust me I’ve been trying for a long time). I think he may have liked me at one point, but when he found out that I cannot text/date guys or have social media I think he gave up on me because I’m not allowed to do anything. I see him everyday at school and I can’t stand being stuck in the “ol friend zone” because I have strict rules. Does anyone have any advice for me?

    • unidentafied April 8, 2017, 2:26 am

      trust me my parents have strict rules on me two and that hasent caused anyproblems with friends so i say comfront him

  • Bridgit Boteng March 29, 2017, 5:33 pm

    So I like this guy a lot, and I know that he doesn’t like me back. Every time when I see him I always stare at him, and I can’t stop looking at him. I know I like this person a lot because I am always having these day dreams about him. Sometimes I do fear that if I tell this person I like and he doesn’t like me back, then our relationship now of being friends might be weird or ruined. Or if i tell him that I like him and he likes me back, then we become a “couple” or something, but if we end up breaking up, we won’t be friends anymore. All I really want is our friendship to last forever (thick and thin), no matter what the situation is. Want I really want is a answer to my problem

  • Yossi March 28, 2017, 5:36 pm

    my friend have a guy she likes and that guy looks everday at her when they are at the church every minute and when he is around her he starts to show or impress her about himself and sometimes he flirts with girls but he have never talked to her or something and she thinks its so weired?

  • Hailie March 26, 2017, 12:23 am

    There’s these two boys that im really good friends with. They tell me all their secrets and get super close when they talk. One of them playful hits me sometimes. Im really confused. Do they like me or not? Also they say they like other people but I have heard some people say that they like me.

  • Hania Mahmoud March 22, 2017, 3:26 pm

    I had a crush on a boy in my class we don’t talk much he always asking me for charger or a pen so we always talk in a serious way we are not friends but we are a classmates only no more I can’t talk to him I’m trying my best to let him know that I am in love with him ,I had a problem that I can’t express my feelings easily I can’t tell him that I love him I am not courage enough and I want him to start talking to me and if he is in love with me how I will know that and in the same time we don’t talk always and daily I am so confused what to do to let him love me or if he love me how I can make him tell me that he loves me

    • sej March 27, 2017, 6:38 pm

      start by at least trying to get friendly! if you become friends, and he starts talking to you, it is a good sign and then you can try to make a move… if he doesnt make it first!

  • Lucy Madsen March 21, 2017, 11:36 pm

    I’m in 10 grade and their is this guy that I have gym and band with and he is looking at me and one time for attendance we had to say our crush and when it was his turn to share he said “A girl down the hall” and in the middle of his sentence everyone else said my name and made kissing sounds. What should I do should I ask him out or wait for him to make the first move?
    A couple weeks later my friends all aggre the he and I would make a cute couple. What should I do?

  • A student in love March 20, 2017, 12:11 pm

    Hey! I actually really need help! I’m in love with a guy, He is one year older than me, and our classes are close to each other so whenever the bell rings I catch him staring at me and we maintain eye contact, and even when his teacher comes and tells him to get into his class he just refuses to, and keeps checking if I am still out of class, and every time he finds me out of my class he asks his teacher to go to the bathroom as an excuse to get closer to me, this has been going on for a couple months, he plays soccer so during recess I go and watch him play, and just doesn’t seem to be able to stop looking and admiring me, me and him never talked, but I have this strong feeling he likes me so what do you think? Does he like me? I NEED HELP ASAP plz!

    • Destiny April 3, 2017, 1:57 am

      He TOTALLY likes you I think you should one day ask ur teacher if you could go to the bathroom one day and awkwardly ask him out

  • J Dhillon March 17, 2017, 10:16 pm

    A guy in my sixth grade class was leaving the school and I hated him. My friend asked him if u r leaving and he said yes. After she told him that I am so happy that u r leaving, he was going to whisper this to himself but said it out loud, “Why doesn’t she like me?” I was really defended by that. He is a calm and a nice guy to be friends with but to have a relationship I don’t know. This other guy in my class always flirts with me. My cousin was in my class and once in class my cousin by mistakenly said my nickname and after that the guy kept calling me by my nickname.At recess he always comes where I am and starts a conversation with me. I try to ignore him but he doesn’t stop. The guy in the starting is a nice and calm human being but the other one in a monkey. The second one is so stubborn I dissed him, embarrassed him and also sweared at him but he still doesn’t stop. What should I do?

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  • Maddie March 15, 2017, 12:54 am

    I’m really afraid to talk to him

    • Matul March 20, 2017, 1:15 am

      Me either, Maddie! I hope he will start it first.

  • Maddie March 15, 2017, 12:53 am

    So I like this guy name Ryan he was in my class in sixth grade the teacher put us together to work on a project he was super nice to me and helpful and when it was my birthday he told everyone at four squares to sing me a happy birthday and every time I play four squares with him people tells him to get me out but he always says nothing she’s a nice person and I won’t get her out even in four squares he never wants to get me out. I like him so much even now we’re in middle school I have no class with him I think he doesn’t like me anymore I’m not sure cause every time I’m with my friends he’s always staring at me then when I look he turns around I always say hi to him he says hi that’s it but when I’m just laughing with my friends he’s always pretending to laugh too he’s always smiling at me when I’m with my friends what should I do I like him a lot can anyone help me

    • Brent Walker March 21, 2017, 10:27 pm

      It’s the hormones flooding into him. Don’t worry. just ask him out

    • Maddie March 25, 2017, 9:29 am

      Guys on Thursday my crushes friend texted me and said you like Ryan I told him how do you know he said he just know and told me to ask him out he’s a nice guy and won’t try to hurt anyone’s feelings I really want to tell him I like him but I want to see if he could make the first move what should I do

      • Kathleen April 6, 2017, 7:50 pm

        Just ask him out it shows the guy you aren’t afraid to make the first move in a long-term relationship. I have done it and it worked out so you should just do it ask NIKE says!

  • Tegan March 14, 2017, 3:19 pm

    Hi I like a boy and the other day his friends said he used to like me and I still I’ve him btw we didn’t have a realationship or anything but we were kinda best friends and I really fell for him then one day we had an arguement and then we had a rocky friendship from then and now we barely ever talk then this morning someone told me that he was looking for me and he wanted to talk to me. I was supecshocked what should I expect and then in he say I saw him flirt with my best friend (girl). Does he still like me ??? Help me please I need to know so I can move on or hold on… thank you please help

  • Sarah March 14, 2017, 5:00 am

    I have had a huge crush on a guy. We are classmates. He recently broke up with his GF and I seriously want the seize the moment just if i know he likes me or not. Usually in class I stare at him and he stares at me back…like EYE to EYE contact…and I always feel he’s looking at me. He keeps teasing me and he’s the one who keeps on giving me new names. Few days back he said that I was looking ‘sexy’. He keeps pulling my pony and keeps on kinda irritating me…and I don’t see him doing all this to any other girl. AND YEAH…when he sees me talking to a guy he teases me and says we both..(that guy and me) look good and all that!
    Do u think he likes me? I guess I love him….(blush..blush!!)

  • sally trash March 13, 2017, 6:47 pm

    theres this guy whos super hot and always stares at me, but he recently just blocked me on instagram, snapchat, and deleted my number when i tried to talk to him. does he like me? he still always stares and teases me….

    • Naomi May 8, 2017, 5:14 pm

      blocking u on social media es definitely not a good thing

  • Taylorde March 11, 2017, 2:14 pm

    Hi so there’s this guy named Cody. He is not in any of my classes, but whenever I see him, he sees me, and most of the time, at the corner of my eye, Cody is looking at me, and it’s ALWAYS eye contact. Sometimes I wear white headbands to go with my dark hair, and he notices me immediately. We are the same height, and he always looks at me. I told a friend recently that I like Cody, and she accidentally told a friend of Codys, and I think he might have told Cody. Now I am the only thing Cody looks at all day. And whenever I say something, Cody always looks at me to understand the conversation.

  • A band dork March 9, 2017, 5:34 pm

    So there’s this guy that I kind of like. Im in band and he’s in orchestra. I met him through jazz band last year and we didn’t really talk then and we don’t really talk now. But I always see him staring right at me during lunch and Whwns I look at him he goes wide-eyed and looks away. He also stands by my path to my class in the morning and stares at me when I go by.

  • asf March 8, 2017, 2:11 pm

    I am a married woman with a son having a strained married life. I am in a relation with a married man, whose divorce case is in court. Our relationship started even before
    he got married. Once he texted me that he loves me. After few days he said that message was sent when he was drunk and does not remember
    When I questioned him whether he has
    any such feeling for me he simply
    ignored my question and said he loves my son. What does it mean ? He calls me daily. But ignores me a lot when he is busy with his friends and family. I dnt know what he actually have for me ?please help

  • Janice March 7, 2017, 10:05 am

    I had a crush on this guy since last year. I dont think he noticed me that much and we’re not even friends. I was pretty sure he was totally not into me back then because he was rejected by a girl. Well screw that girl for hurting his feelings. Unfortunately, things got complicated when my friend revealed that she was crushing on him too. I decided to keep mine as a secret. My friend told me to help her and my crush, yes I was willing to help cause that time I was about to give him up. Yet, things became 100 times more confusing. Me and my crush were in the same van, when we got back from school, he sat beside me and soon he slept by his head on my shoulder. To be honest, I enjoyed it so much. Secondly, Is it just me or both of us keep on meeting each other coincidencly? I mean, everywhere I go, there must be him in front or behind me. Thirdly, he ALWAYS ignore or avoid me. Whenever I saw him, he would just walk on the other way from me. I’m so sorry for my broken English but help me please ╥﹏╥ !! And if you have any tips to make a guy fall in love w u, please help too! It wwould meant so much for me :)

  • Alisa March 7, 2017, 8:29 am

    I have met a guy for 5 months, but we didn’t talk lot until last Christmas. He texted me to say hi and merry Christmas. Then we started texting everyday in morning and evening. Sometimes he asks for hugs or kisses through the text. When we met he usually gives me hugs and pinch my face or touch me hair, tickle me . He always say* you are beautiful or you are cute”. Although we just start texting for three months but we feel close to each other we share everything even our secret. however once time he told me he has girlfriend but they are in complicated situation and he sees me as sister. I am so confuse that he likes me or just put me in the friend zone.
    Please .

    • Rere April 13, 2017, 10:15 am

      Obviously, family zone . You need to move he just playing w/ you

  • Stephie March 7, 2017, 3:47 am

    There’s a guy that I have a crush on and Ive caught him stare at me a few times. Hes in my wellness class and when we had to walk a mile I would be on one side talking/laughing with a friend and I saw him across the gynasium looking at me. He always sits near me in class either near my side or right behind me but not next to me. He sat a seat away from my left a couple days ago and there were times where he would loudly tap his hands on the desk. I dont know if this is a sign where he was trying to get my attention or not? He never did that in class before. Sometimes when class ended, he would linger around a bit instead of leaving right away and then leave once I leave. Today, him and his friend walked in front of me after class and walked pretty fast. But then I saw his friend look at me and smile. Then he said something almost looked like he was whispering to him something. I’m not sure if he likes me or not. We haven’t had a conversation because lots of his friends and my friends are in the class. Do you think he may like me or am I just being crazy? If he does why doesnt he say anything? Is there anything I can do to suggest to him that I like him without literally saying I like you?
    Please helpp :(

  • Person March 3, 2017, 7:42 pm

    So uh there is this guy, he is like the cutest guys in the whole school, I have avery big crush on them and they know it.. My bestie asked if he liked me or not and she said he laughed nervously. Idk if I should believe her.. I looked at everything on this list, and I just dont know… If they said something that didnt sound ANYTHING like what they told me they had said but I didnt hear, is it a sign???

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 12:56 pm

      Person this is clearly a sign he totally likes you and if he didn’t he would have complained and said of course not but he didn’t so my advice is
      Try and get close to him and at the right time tell him you like him and if he says he doesn’t like you too just tell him you understand and oh if he doesn’t like you he’d be a total jerk I feel like I know you already and I can tell you’re a very interesting person so don’t let him get to you too much if he says he doesn’t like you

  • Ebi March 3, 2017, 3:05 pm

    I like this guy at work, who is my senior and is kind of my boss, let’s call him Bari. We met about 1.5 year ago and I started dating another guy, some months after I started working with Bari and during this period, on some occasions, Bari asked questions about the other guy, like he was trying to confirm that I was with that other guy. The other guy broke up with me and I still hadn’t thought about Bari in romantic way but we went on a professional trip together and there he tried to stay near me during meetings or lunches, etc. We had a walk together too, tried to sit near me in every gathering, even he offered to walk me to the place I was staying at, etc. At a restaurant, someone tried to tease me and Bari replied harshly to them on my behalf, like trying to save me and I liked it. I haven’t met many guys with this protectiveness and this is something I like in a guy. We came back, I was with my colleague and Bari wrote me as soon as we were back to know if we reached safely. After that, I had my birthday and I had told him the birth-date an year ago but he still remembered and wished me. Then I went to him to say good-bye for holidays and he hugged me for the first time, for no reason since he knows I am not a hugging person. He didn’t write to me at all during the vacations and I decided to stop all this since he’s my boss, I have to work directly with him everyday and it can be very complicated. I tried to distance myself from him, even though, I wasn’t sure even if he was interested in me or not! He tried to do the same after being back, tried to stop enabling me and he’s still trying to contact me only if necessary. But I can’t stop thinking about him, whenever he goes somewhere for a few days, I miss him. I want to make sure that he’s interested in me or not anymore? What should I do? Can anyone help me? I am a book reader, whenever I start a new book, he notices. Also, before going on any professional trip, he comes to my office to say good-bye(but I share office with a male colleague, who works under Bari too), so I am not sure what should I consider as a sign and what should I consider normal? Is he interested or just a decent guy with ethics??

    • Ebi March 6, 2017, 3:23 pm

      Help me, I really want to know!

      • This Girl March 10, 2017, 6:19 am

        Aww girl, sounds like you’re in a rather complicated situation. Have you tried talking to him about how both you and him feel? That might help clear things up

        • Ebi March 13, 2017, 3:31 pm

          Hi. No and I can’t. He’s back and I see no sign of interest anymore. Now it’s time to move on but thanks anyway :)

  • Verna March 2, 2017, 1:04 am

    Well there was this guy in my math class who
    I met. I thought of him as a friend and we talked for a bit. Then I introduced him to my friend. We all started being friends, then I noticed he was was starting to act a little weird around me. I thought it was maybe because he thought I was annoying. I was so confused! It was hard to read his intentions. But now, him, me and my friend talk a little more and he actually has opened up to me a little more. But the thing is he’s never nervous around my friend or anything, he talks to her causally. But he’s always nervous to say hi to me. Usually I’m the first one to talk to him. But today we were laughing and he was doing all of these things ! Like he was raising his brows, leaning in, and his feet were pointed towards me, he noticed how I looked today because I wore some pretty lipstick and he was staring at me for a long time. lol he’s making me develop feelings for him too. I like him now ! :) he called me feisty, but he seemed to like it. I was kinda talking with him too much that I didn’t realize I was talking over the teacher. lol I felt bad for doing that because that teacher is so nice. Anyways, I hope he gets the nerve to ask me out or something because he looks interested and if he does i will say yes and I will just kiss him right away haha

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 1:01 pm

      Verna there’s clearly no excuse he totally likes you so all I have to say if tell him you like him too

  • Regan February 27, 2017, 3:14 pm

    I see this guy on a Monday morning in the libary at college I’ve bumped into him twice one time he caught me doing star jumps and said hi and asked if I’m oright lol but he tends to look at me from a distance but other days he does not notice me even if I walk by him today he came to the libary with his mates and a girl they were doing math together we were sat opposite I was sat near my friend drawing but I could feel him looking at me we did stare each other in the face but he quickly looked away I think he likes me but then I don’t I get butterflies whenever his around it makes me not want to be in the room because I feel so nervous and sick but then I look forward to next Monday when I see him again which is crazy because i barley know him or his name what should I do any advice appreciated thank you :)

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 1:15 pm

      Regan I think this guy sort of kinda likes you but hasn’t noticed it yet so my advice is give him time and before you know it he’ll start hanging around you

  • Saniya February 26, 2017, 9:56 pm

    OK um the thing is there’s this boy in my class and I really like him.
    He always talks to me and makes jokes. But during class his eyes are on me.
    Then when I look over we look at each other for 1 second. When he wants to talk to me he touches my hand two times. My birthday just past but before that he was like.
    “Saniya do you have anymore invitations?!” When I say no sorry he’s like darn it I wanted to come!!!. While we where reading I kept on looking at him then once he looked at me I looked back in my book than from the corner of my eye I saw him looking me!!!! HELP

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 1:17 pm

      Saniya all I have to say is that he totally likes you simple and short.

  • Beatriz February 23, 2017, 7:19 pm

    Well, there’s this guy in my class (I’m in grade 10) that I think he likes me. And I kinda have a crush on him. I’ve noticed that he’s always staring at me, like everyday. And this girl in my class was flirting with him for the past two days. And honestly I was a bit jealous. So I decided to make a “move” I walked up to him and as a coward I only said, “Tokyo Ghoul” (that was the book that we was reading at the moment) After I said that his friend asked me if I liked the book, and I nodded and walked away nervously. Then I heard his friend say to him “See she likes that” After that he’s been staring and me more than usual. And he’s even moved seats so now he’s closer to me. And occasionally he would take out the book and place it close to me. And sometimes when I glance at him when he’s staring, he would look away smiling. I don’t know if I have something on my face or if I look funny but I really need some advice

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 1:20 pm

      Beatriz he totally likes you I think you should stop being so nervous around him and talk to him so that you two can get close to each other

  • Nicole February 23, 2017, 10:27 am

    hey look i have been talking to Jake for about 6 months we bonded btw he is my ex from when i was smaller yesterday i tod him about a guy and how i want to communicate with him not just by message but also by calling eachother.I hinted it was hi i was talking about because in the past when i confronted directley i got hurt or humiliated. Jake asked me if ‘the guy’ told me he liked me and all he knew i was taling bout him but why would he ask that question? better yet if he knows that im talking bout him. I told him i didn’t like this guy in a boyfriend way but he just kept focusing bout this guy liking me and what i think it was an odd pattern tbh than he aid that me and you are still small i mean just by telling him that i want to talk to he he is acting as if i asked him to be my boyfriend which is totally not the way i want it to be . Now when we previously dated when i asked for his numer he said not now u know he said that he will give it to me later i saw a relation between the 2 times i noticed that maybe he thinks by giving his number and moving to the next step (calling ) would be commitial in like a bf and gf way i need help pls .

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 1:24 pm

      Nicole I think you should definitely make it clear to jake that you don’t like him and if you do just ask him if he wants to get together

  • Mari February 23, 2017, 10:19 am

    I hope you can help me with my problem, so… I’ve been liking this guy for about 2 years now, We’re schoolmates, I am 1 year ahead of him and I am 2 years older than him, he’s cute, witty and funny. I like being with funny people and I think that’s one of few reasons why I like him. We were close when I was in Year 9 and he was in Year 8 (that was last last year) we even had a group chat on facebook and we treat each other other like our own family well, he’s an exception… we’re close to each other personally but we don’t always chat. He knows that I have a crush on him but he didn’t changed, he’s still talking to me, he doesn’t seem to care though. I am the one who became so distant and now, we’re in the same acting group and we always see each other everytime we have practices and he told my bestfriend that he has a crush on her and he also has a crush on me but he likes my bestfriend more than me, that’s kinda childish right? And before I graduate, I wanted to confess… will you help me?

    • sani February 27, 2017, 11:32 am

      Hello Mari,
      I know nothing about you but i feel sorry because the same thing happened to me. I liked this guy who’s a year younger than me and it was two years ago. I felt like he was into me but that’s just bullshit. When you have a relationship with a younger boy, it’s so hard to find he’s into you or not. Like does he take you as a big sister or not? Anyway, We couldn’t keep in touch and i see him everyday passing my house but we never really look or say hello. And if you really like this guy, like really, just take a chance. You’re not going to end up dead so just tell him how you feel, because it’s a human right to reveal how you feel. Best of luck!

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 10:02 am

      Mari you say this guy likes you well what I think here is that he’s using your Best friend to make you jealous if he looks at you and looks at you a lot with a worried look when ever you’re talking to another guy it means he likes you
      So my advice is to just tell him how you feel

  • Wolfie February 20, 2017, 2:39 pm

    There’s this boy in most my classes, and occasionally i will look over at him and he looks at me, but i always look away cause i get scared…. is this a sign of him liking me? he has a girl friend but she is cheating on him…

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 12:45 pm

      Wolfie I think that this guy is starting to develop feelings for you and if he’s girlfriend is cheating on him I think he deserves to know and if he gets sad you know don’t go in too fast on him give him some space and let him think then that when you see he’s getting better you step in

  • Jane February 18, 2017, 7:47 am

    There’s a partner by partner activity in our school. You will do an interview by each other. One of my question is “How do you define true love? ” and he answer it by “By looking at you” I asked him again to clear what he exactly he said and he answered it “Looking at you” I’m waiting for the continuation of his answer but instead he still staring at my eyes. So I move on to next question. What’s the meaning of that?

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 12:50 pm

      Jane you are officially the luckiest girl in the world come on wake up and smell the waffles
      This guy totally likes you I mean come on my advice is work up the courage and tell him you like him too
      Yours adviceful,

  • amara o February 17, 2017, 6:01 pm

    okay so im in grade 11 and im so confused right now. the guy i like we don’t talk like at all but we’re in the same biology class. but in the mornings when im walking to my locker, he always looks and stares at me while im walking. our lockers are pretty close so i always see him glancing in my direction when i look at him. even in our cafeteria, he’s always glancing back and looking at me and really looking at me for a long time. i know this may just be a coincidence but it happens like everyday. but we don’t really talk but we sit near each other in bio. i need advice! like how can i start talking to him because i wanna get to know him more because i like him alot and i know nothing about him. thanks :)

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 1:30 pm

      Dear amara o,
      This is totally dayjavou am having the same problem well here a hint he really totally absolutely likes you how you may ask I know that well let’s just say the guy I said we had the same situation well he told me he likes me all you need to do is just talk to him and before you know it he’ll tell you he likes you

  • Briana February 14, 2017, 12:28 pm

    okay all started we work at the same job and he asked me for my facebook before in the fists place he became friends he liked me i liked hem more he wanted to be my friend with benifits told hem no im like that weeks past we had sex very private at work was not really telling anyone we was together everyone new i denied it and he works more hours then me time to time i have to hit hem up for us to talk or go out or we chill at hes house and just have sex then before he wanted a relationship i told hem i needed time for myself because of the effort he replyed and said thats a good ieda but he says im hes friend and i have feelings for hem but he does not have the same feelings for me what do i do what are ? im not happy but i love hem but hes not ready its been a year in a half and im confused whats going on

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 1:34 pm

      Brianna I think this guy really loves you I think he’s just hurt that you didn’t want to be in a relationship with him right away my advice is just talk to him about how you feel open up to him and hell open up to you too

  • Rhea February 12, 2017, 1:37 am

    So I’m in gr. 11 and I really like this guy in my new class who was also in 1 of my classes last year! Last year, he used to look at me and 1 time he stared at me until I looked away. He also is into jokes and stuff like that but one time he bumped into me and said “Sorry, I love you” (obviously he was joking but what an interesting set of words…). Also, when he was in my group we were watching something on an iPod on the desk to the left of me (he sat to my right) and he leaned really close to me-our heads we’re nearly touching! He also (I think) used to playfully touch me like pat my head or high-five me while smiling! Now, just the other day-on the 1st day of class-he walked in and sat behind me. Then, at the end of class, everyone went to the front door waiting for the bell (except me, I stayed at my desk) and then I saw him talking with the teacher by the front door. And then I pulled out my iPod and started looking at whatever and then I noticed (from the corner of my eye) he was standing right next to me at my desk?!?! Why would he walk all the way over to me without his friends near him or anyone around but me, right? So then there was a paper half-on my desk and the other half was hanging down and he lightly pushed it with his hand to keep it from falling!! Omg, I should’ve said thank you or at least looked up and smiled but then the bell rang. Please help!! I WANT TO NOW IF HE ACTUALLY LIKES ME OR IF I’M OVER-MY-HEAD;()

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 1:39 pm

      Rhea its obvious he totally likes you so please try to keep your head on your body and stop freaking ojt

  • Madi February 11, 2017, 7:18 pm

    So me and this guy have been friends for a few years and we’re really close. I have a huge crush on him but he considers me as a sister. I see every other one of my friends like brothers and sisters but not him because I have a huge crush on him. But lately he hasn’t been talking to me, I am always the one texting him now instead of him, he never tells me what’s going on. And lately he been hanging out with another girl and it seems like he likes her. First I thought I had a chance with him but it seems like not any more. Plz, tell me what u think I should do?

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 1:44 pm

      Madi sorry to say but if he sees you as a sister and hangs with another girl I clearly think he doesn’t like you so I think you should get over him and give your self time to get over him

  • Alea February 9, 2017, 4:47 am

    So, I have this friend, whenever we talk, his face is really close to mine, and I tend to get conscious but he doesnt seem to notice that our faces are just inches away from each other, i feel like he tends to lean in really close (maybe because i have a small voice) And it seems like I can see him around me always. BUT, sometimes when we see each other, he would just stare and not talk to me, or not meet my gaze. Why is he doing this? Im so confused. He is a good friend, and lately it seems like he is acting weird towards me. Or is it just me?

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 1:46 pm

      Alea I think this guy is starting to see you as more than just a friend so you should totally tell him you like you and if you don’t just be honest with him

  • Kat February 8, 2017, 4:49 am

    Ok I have large problem so j really like this guy but i dont talk to him much and on day going into class everyone started saying that he likes me and stuff. So i just passed it off as some kind of joke someones playing on me, then the next day before pc a girl in my class that talks to him was like he wants to talk to u and stuff but i thjnk he was too shy so he just kept on talkin to his friends, then in class that day i could hear the girls behind me like u have to ask her out now or after class but they were laughing so …. i thought it was a joke again but then he came and sat next to me and i got a little frustrated cause it was annoying that they were doing this then he went away and yer but sometimes wen im staring at the window i glance over and i can see him looking at me. Its just the way he looks at me it makes me think he likes me but i dont know wat to do…. does he like me? Or maybe its just a game and wat should i say wen he does ask me out, cause mm if i say yes then it could be a joke and if i say no then maybe he really does like me then i destroy me chances with him…. also i dont know if this means anything but one of my trusted friends overheard him and his friends talking and they said ” you like kat dont you” so yer idk…. pls help!!!

    • Rhea February 11, 2017, 7:52 pm

      It sounds like maybe he’s shy but want to make a move. Try to see how he acts when his friends aren’t around to see if it’s serious. If he stares at you, stare back and even smile. If he does ask you out (in private) maybe say “Seriously?” In a surprised, polite way and if it sounds legit then say “Ok”. Also, next time he sits beside you try to talk to him… Say “hi” or if you’re reallyyy shy like me, ask if you can borrow his pencil or say “when does this class end again?” Make yourself look good too:) Try different hairstyles and wear some lip balm or lip gloss. Maybe even try to follow him on social media? See what happens, good luck!!!

      • Kat March 8, 2017, 5:49 am

        Thanks for the advice i think i will definatly give it ago but also i did the worst thing in the world i got my friend to ask him out for me and i regret it i just got s ok nervious and wanted to know so badly but he said no well he shook his head and then nothing happened i thought he would tell his friends and then i would be a luaghing stock but nothing happened… so now hes started talking to my friend but she has a really difficult name and we both were surprised he new it but he turned around one day in class and asked my friend a question about something rude and then he asked wat my friend wat my name was but i wasnt showing any intrest at the time wen he was talking so he then asked me the question (i couldnt work out if he said my name in the past then how come he didnt know it then?) But yer my brother says he becomes friends with the girl he likes best friend…. im lost rn my friends say he prob likes me but is just playing dumb or trying to get to know me but then its kinda like if he likes me then y didnt he say yes? Arrghhh men!!!

    • Malaikasummer March 6, 2017, 1:52 pm

      Kat I think the guy likes and really wants to ask you out but is too shy soo if he does ask you out say yes if only you really like him just go for it ☺

  • Girl in love February 7, 2017, 12:01 am

    Ok…so I have this friend..right?
    I know him since middle school. He freaking says he likes me but wants to be friends for now…we flirt and whatever but I need to know how to make him say he wanys to date me…im very confused. I want him only…I fell in love with him but he cant love me quite yet Help plz…some advice would be nice

    • Yura February 7, 2017, 3:01 pm

      Try pulling away from him.. but if he straight out told you he only wants to be friends, he’s not that into you. Move on. Go date other guys, enjoy your life. Trust me. If a guy is REALLY interested in dating you, he will make it happen. Don’t flirt with him or give him attention. Don’t text him first. Don’t call him first. Just respond in a timely manner. Focus on YOUR life. Go to school, hang out with friends, go on dates!!!

  • Midnight February 5, 2017, 11:07 pm

    Ok so theres this guy and he’s 3 years older than me and i know his little brother from cooking,but recently he joined our school’s golf team.We kinda of knew each other then we just started to talk.I’m for real a really shy person,but he tries to get to know me and talk to me a little.And sometimes he looks at me when I’m swinging the golf club,and we just kinda of look at each other sometimes.And now I think I’m crazy about him,but I’m not really sure.But I think its kinda of negative because I’m 3 years younger than him.HELP ME!!!

  • I wanna know! February 2, 2017, 1:35 pm

    So there’s this guy I like. He’s a regular customer where I work. Meaning he comes in constantly and we all know what his usual order is. I’ve liked him for a while but I’m not sure whether or not he likes me back. He talks to me differently than he does all of my coworkers but I personally think it’s because we’ve known each other for two years. When he comes in he’ll ask me how my day is and things like that and for as long as I can remember, whenever he knows I’m working he’ll come in. When he knows I’m not working there’s no guarantee that he will come in, but I’m not sure because if he does like me, then why hasn’t he made a move? According to my friends I definitely show I’m interested whenever he comes in. He isn’t shy because he doesn’t have a problem talking to me….. if you were in my shoes what would you do? What should I do?

  • Diya February 2, 2017, 1:02 pm

    Heyyy….Thanksss soooo much for this page ! I was a little bit underconfident as I have some friends who like my guy and so they put me down. Now that I know He likes me ….I mean a lot as all the conditions matches , I am gonna make my move !!

  • Paige January 28, 2017, 10:31 am

    Hi im paige I’m 12 and I have a huge crush on a boy in the year above me he’s cute I see him every day but I’m too scared to talk to but when I go to stare at him I catch him looking away wot do I do!!!

  • Hemma Kim January 27, 2017, 9:03 am

    In my class there is a boy who has Gf but i love him very much… and i wanted to know if he really loves me too, this boy is sometimes nice and sometimes mean. he would like to touch me and play with my hair but doesn’t seem very interested i told my friend about him and she told me that he has feelings for me i told her back i thought he only loves his Gf and she said he doesn’t love her(his girlfriend) any more
    Once i saw him with his Gf and when he knew that i was watching him he started to hug and be more closer to her…he is doing this with all girls when he see me. is he trying to make me jealous? or does he want me to know that he’s interested in other girls?

    • meh February 16, 2017, 9:09 pm

      “One interesting tactic that some guys take is to start flirting with OTHER girls when they’re actually interested in you. A guy will do this when he wants to see your reaction to him flirting with other women – so that he can tell whether YOU like HIM.”

  • Mali January 26, 2017, 10:37 am

    There is this boy in my form class in high school and I see him and his friends. Today it was at break time and my friend said to me that the boy likes me and I was very shocked and I never believed her. In class he came in science and he was fixing his hair up and looked at me and I was what is happening. At lunch he came past me with his friends and they were like laughing and smiling. I do not know what to do or if he really likes me or not???! Plz help!

    • Paige January 28, 2017, 10:36 am

      Try to catch him alone and ask him out on a date or just to hang out if he gets enthusiastic or try’s to act cool then you know he likes you otherwise befriend each other and friendship will soon turn into love I think

  • Her January 25, 2017, 6:21 pm

    Ok so there is this guy that I have know since about fifth grade, and he happened to be a previous crush of mine, but I moved on once I go to middle school and there were a ton of fresh faces. I still had classes with the same kid and he often called me by my legal name while everyone else called me by a nickname. My last year of middle school we had a ton of classes together. He was always nice to me and his friend never really seemed to care when I was around. Me and this kid had to sit next to one another in a couple of classes and we honestly had some of the best conversations. One time this kid who is really tall was being a pest by moving my chair with his legs and so I kinda kicked him (he was fine) and the guy (previous crush) tried to stop me by putting his legs over mine and so we basically stacked our legs on top of one one another until we were just tangled in a mess of legs. We ended up sitting like that for about 20 minutes until he had to present. His friend came over and asked what happened with our legs and so I told him and he just looked at his friend (previous crush) and said “outta all the things u could have grabbed, u grabbed her legs?” And I just looked at him and my previous crush was just like “what else was I supposed to grab?” And his friend just squared down and pointed to my booty. A couple weeks after that his friend tried to get him to touch my but until I walked away. My previous crush made a joke that we were dating and so I honestly thought that it was funny. He started calling me “baby” or “babe” and telling people that I was his girlfriend. I thought it would be funny to play along and just ignore everything. I later ended up having to take a break from my phone and so I had a friend keep my Snapchat streaks and she said that everyday he asks “when are u coming back? I miss you” We still talk and stuff and my friends say that we should date and that he likes me, but I just don’t know. Like nothing major has happened. Like we haven’t kissed or anything but i know that he hated it when I brought up one of his previous crushes and asked how she was and stuff but that was before he moved on. Before he had moved on it almost seemed like he didn’t like talking about it. But when my other friends asked, he didn’t care. I just don’t know if he likes me. I mean I would defiantly like this person back, but I just don’t want to get myself thinking about something that isn’t possibly true.

    • A smart Person January 31, 2017, 2:00 pm

      You guys are dating now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Alley January 24, 2017, 9:34 pm

    There’s this guy I have liked since last May but i never have enough courage to ask him out. He and his girlfriend broke up and my friend and I were trying to cheer him up and only my attempts work. When we’re about to leave to go home he used to sit somewhere where I could not see him now he sits by me, sometimes he plays with my hair, teases me, and we have a more contact type relationship. Earlier this year he said we were just friends but our relationship grew and now I feel like we have sparks.

    • Alley January 24, 2017, 9:37 pm

      I don’t kno what to do. Plus he kinda cheated on his girlfriend, but he had two other girlfriends and he didn’t cheat on them

  • girl January 24, 2017, 6:59 pm

    help i can’t find a way to tell a boy that i like him iwas thinking i could write a note but how would i say it

  • girl January 24, 2017, 6:49 pm

    please help ther is a boy i like and a few years ago he said he liked me but at that time i didn’t like him and now i like him but i don’t know if he still likes me, he likes plants and i like science and bugs we are a perfect match.please help we were even supost to be born on the same day but he was born 11 days early and i was born a day late + our dads are freinds

  • J T January 23, 2017, 5:50 pm

    omg so theres this awkward thing going on. before i liked and dated my current bf, i liked his close friend but things didn’t work out. i never told him what happened and assumed he’d never find out, but now he knows about it and its soon awkward!!!! i can tell he doesn’t like but idk what to do. someone please help me and gimme some advice! I’m 16 & in hs!!!

  • Kamia Waddell January 18, 2017, 7:21 pm

    Gosh hes sleep next to me couch surfing until rush hour ends we been 2gether everyday for a month or so we never plan it out it just happens

  • Cierra January 17, 2017, 12:35 am

    So recently I started really having strong feelings for a guy who has recently gotten out of a relationship… He says he doesn’t have feelings for his ex, but I still feel that he isn’t over her yet… I’m not sure if I should follow my heart and pursue this.. I don’t want to get hurt, and I know he likes me back. I’ve NEVER felt this way for anybody before… Any advice? I’m 21 btw.

  • Rachel January 15, 2017, 4:42 am

    Theres this guy i’ve known since the start of highschool and we were just friends but in year 11 i noticed he seemed a little different towards me. We go to college now and we go together on the bus, he does rick a lot of the boxes above but he doent tick them all; he is a really good friend and he is good looking, but if he doesnt like me that way i don’t wanna ruin our friendship… Should i get more information to see if he likes me first or meet him and try one of the listed examples ??

  • Yvonne Njoki January 14, 2017, 5:23 pm

    There is this guy we are in the same grade but am older than him am 14 and he is getting 14 on March 8 ,sometimes if we are playing kicking game he likes kicking me with a ball,and he sometimes he always look at me but am shy looking at him back. can you help me please

  • Serinity January 13, 2017, 8:28 pm

    Okay so there’s this guy at school who really likes me and I really like him what should I do I’m really shy when it comes to asking someone out that I like. What do I do?!?!?!?!

    • Crystal January 28, 2017, 8:42 pm

      I would just have a friend that you trust alot and have them ask him out.

  • Denise January 13, 2017, 4:28 pm

    There’s a guy I work with and we talk everyday. He shows signs that he’s interested but I’m not convinced. I want to tell him that I’m feeling him but I’m terribly shy. Any advice?

    • Me January 13, 2017, 5:53 pm

      Actually I’m so shy too but I think you could just go tell him that both of you should hang out more and if he agrees and ask to go on a date again so he’s definitely interested maybe telling him that you like him (bc yolo) he might also be attracted to you
      Idk anything and this advice is from a 14 y/o so think carefully before doing anything of those^

  • Hannah January 13, 2017, 4:03 pm

    At school theres a guy who’s 2 years older than me. Ever since the first day of school we’ve been glancing at eachother like 4-5 second glances. But lately his friends and my friends push us to eachother at different times, and today after school I was on the bus, and he saw me, pointed somewhere around me, and started talking to his friends again. Another time I walked passed him and he looked at me again. Then I heard someone nearby say “There she is go talk to her.” Advice please?

    • Rhea February 11, 2017, 8:26 pm

      Omg, he totally likes u! Try looking at him and don’t be the 1st to look away! Try going around him and walking by his desk and stuff, btw ur so lucky u have all those signs! I wish my crush would talk to me, he does hang by my desk tho snd try to get close to me and help me with little things like when smth is falling off my desk, he’ll “rescue” it!

  • Confused January 13, 2017, 5:27 am

    I have this male friend that i met at work. We casually hung out from time to time, but now its like we are constantly hanging out, talking ect. If i ask him to help one of my friends move stuff he helped that day. He calls me every day after he gets put of work, asks how i am and asks if i can come hang out or come have a drink. When ever we hang out i catch him looking at me and as he is looking he has a slight smile, which when i catch him i quickly look down then back up kinda blushing, and as i look back up i ask what he says nothing as he looks away and grin gets bigger. He is always finding a way to touch me, for example : if his hands are cold he puts his ice cold hands on my waist. Or i will pick on him as he is covered up playing video games and playfully take his blanket of and as i do he pulls it harder pulling me on him. One of my friends caught him looking at me when i wasnt looking and she told me he was looking at me like a kid about to open a bunch of great christmas gifts. I need help. Does he like me more than a friend, or concider me one of the boys?

    • Helper January 17, 2017, 2:15 am

      Yes,he totally likes you and he looks like someone to keep don’t loose him

  • Georjette January 9, 2017, 11:18 pm

    ok I’m confused on something so I’ve been liking this guy from school for three years I understand I am only 14 but I’m not sure if u can help me he tell me I’m cute and says other compliments about my feature but we never really talk in person if we do we only say hi and that’s it but we talk more on a website called hangouts, like all the time but one day I asked if he likes me and he said he doesn’t now I told him how long and why I liked him but he said he does not now if he likes me please help

  • Nicole January 7, 2017, 8:41 pm

    There is this guy in my grade and I just moved here this summer befor school started. We’ve become really good friends and talk all the time. He’s shy around most girls and I catch him staring at me and whenever I walk into the room he has a huge smile (which can be kind of dorky but in a cute way) and sits up straight. One time, with a group of friends, we went ice skating and I held his hand to try to teach him how to skate. It was cute and he blushed. We talk all the time and like to make each other laugh. We hang out a lot in group of friends and always have a great time. He playfully like to tease me too and he remembers the little things I tell him about myself. Does he like me?

    • Holly January 9, 2017, 8:22 pm

      Yes!! Definitely

      • Syd January 12, 2017, 7:50 pm


  • Someone January 7, 2017, 4:09 pm

    So there’s this guy in one of my classes and we both liked each other and he asked me out but later that day he told me that he couldn’t date bc his parents won’t let him. It’s been about 2 months and we haven’t talked to each other but he is giving me a lot of signs that he still likes me. Does he still like me?

  • Danielle January 5, 2017, 9:43 pm

    This boy he’s really cute and he shows some signs I took the test and answered honestly and it said he like me!!!!im so happy and I like him can’t wait til school starts back on the 1/9/17

  • A dude January 5, 2017, 6:56 pm

    No shit he likes you

  • A dude January 3, 2017, 10:37 pm

    He might have a mild crush on you. He thinks you’re beautiful and no one can argue. He likes you

  • A dude January 3, 2017, 10:14 pm

    Go with him. He want some to protect you. Everyone loves you but he would physically stop you from harming yourself. Even I don’t want you to. I used to cut but I don’t know why I did. It doesn’t help. He will.

  • A dude January 3, 2017, 9:59 pm

    He has a mild crush on you. That doesn’t mean that he doesn’t like you, but you should just get as close as you can to him, figuratively and literally or just ask him out. It’s a bold move that’s worth it

  • Me January 3, 2017, 1:30 pm

    Theres a boy that I like and he shws some signs but that is his personality

    • A dude January 3, 2017, 9:54 pm

      Try flirting harder. He will become shyer if he likes you. You will have nothing to lose.

  • Girl January 2, 2017, 12:53 am

    There is this boy in m class and i know he really likes me. But, I don’t have a crush on him. He really tries to talk to me to get to know me, because it is his first year at the school, but I like someone else that I have known for two years. I don’t know what to do because my friends tease me about a boy liking me. I am just so nervous.

    • Danielle January 5, 2017, 9:45 pm

      I know the feeling there’s this boy that has liked me since this summer only one of my friend know but she don’t tease me

  • _themenace December 30, 2016, 10:19 am

    I love Emily Gourdin Bischoff and want to have an affair with her. She is the most perfect girl for me I’ve ever seen.

  • Sharma December 30, 2016, 12:10 am

    There is this guy I work with, he’s shy and so am i. I catch him staring at me alot, and smiles when we around each other. He laughs at my funny jokes and craziness. He knows I like him but the shyness is overpowering us.but I should make the move, because I really like him.

  • Me December 26, 2016, 9:08 pm

    So there is this boy in most of my classes. He stares at me in like every lesson and sometimes teases me. But there is also another in my netball team who he flirts with too. They r good friends and we aren’t. But he gives me lots of hints. The other day in maths he sang a song and kinda put his head on my shoulder. Last year also he leaned his leg onto my leg and left it there for the whole assembly. I’m a really nervous sort of girl tho and the other girl isn’t. WHAT SHOULD I DO PLS HELP? I’ve liked him for 2.5 years!

    • A dude January 3, 2017, 9:53 pm

      He does. I’m a dude answering questions, and though the creators of this page are sexist pigs, some of their advice is good. If he used to like you, he still likes you. It will brighten his heart to know that you’ve liked him this whole time.

    • meh February 16, 2017, 9:35 pm

      he’s trying to see your reaction if you like him or not by flirting with another girl

  • Ktra December 23, 2016, 1:46 pm

    Ok so there’s this guys I like. We’re basically BEST friends. I tease him and he teases me back. I don’t want to do anything to ruin what we have so I’ve been trying to find out if he likes me. His brother said he had a crush on me a LONG time ago but I don’t know if he still does. This one time I was drawing a picture of myself for art and when I was doing my bangs he said,’Your bangs don’t look like that!’ So I pulled my bangs out a bit and then he realized they do and went back to his sketch. Then this one time we were talking and he suddenly just looked at me and brushed my bangs back a little and said. ‘You know they really do look better like that’ DOES HE LIKE ME!?!?!?!?

    • emily January 12, 2017, 6:35 pm

      well duh!

  • Aphmau December 22, 2016, 10:28 pm

    A boy in my class does all of those signs and he playfully punches me in the arm he is protective and does not want me to get hurt and he stands up for me.

  • Maggie December 20, 2016, 5:35 pm

    So this guy in my science class and my math class is insane. He sits next to me in math class. We have to work with each other a lot in that class on stuff. When I’m working on a math problem, he’s staring at my hair, and once I SWEAR he sniffed my perfume and I felt him exhale on my neck. He’s hilarious in science. He sits at the table across from me and we both have very clear views of each other. Once, my sconce teacher told all the girls to stand up for a game thing, and he stood up smiling at me like an idiot, and when I smiled back he stopped smiling and he just starred at my eyes and my lips with his mouth open. And when the teacher told him to sit down, he blushed and sat down. WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW!!!!!!!

    • Cyn December 22, 2016, 9:20 pm

      He definitely likes you if he smells your perfume, and it’s a clear sign he likes you if he stares at your eyes and when he stares at your lips with his mouth open he might be thinking about kissing you..? Idk I’m not an expert but I’m sure he does like you…

  • Maggie December 20, 2016, 5:25 pm

    So this guy I like, is in every class with me. And the seating chart makes me sit at the same table with him in every class! And once in math class, he touched my knee with his hand, and then the next class he took my books and sat on them, and every other class after that, he’s been acting so weird and when he cracks a joke that I laugh at, he grins like a stupid idiot and looks at my lips. W

  • Emily December 16, 2016, 11:28 pm

    So, this boy I like, we went out to dinner with his family and mine. I met him through my brother’s boy scout troop and we became best friends. We’re both young (I’m 13, he’s 15) and when we we’re riding in his mom’s car with my mom, my brother, him, and me, he put his head on my shoulder. Then, he said he felt bad, picked up my head, put his arm around me, and put my head on his shoulder. Does this mean he likes me?

    • Audrey December 17, 2016, 10:37 pm

      Ok so I have a huge crush on a really popular guy and he looks at me and smiles at me ALL the time!! Once when the class was in the computer lab he kept whispering my name and when I looked at him he smiled and blushed!! But he’s dating the most popular girl in my grade but he still does it. And honestly I’m kinda jealous…

  • Eve December 16, 2016, 6:11 am

    There is this guy named JJ and we live in the same neighborhood, go to the same school, in the same grade (7th), and we sit on the bus together. I told him i like him and he says he likes me too. When he walks past me in the hallway he is talking to a friend, but he always looks back at me and gives me this irresistible smile and i always grin stupidly back at him. The one day on the bus, he gave his $100 watch to take home and keep for the night. I dont know what i should do! I wanna take it a little farther because we have stuff in common, but im so anxious.(im 13)

  • Ariana* December 15, 2016, 8:49 pm

    So, i like this guy and he is in my 5th period class (science) he used to sit next to me and we would play a lot, like make each other laugh. He would make it fun most of the time xD. His best friend told me that he liked me, but i wasnt sure. Now we sit apart from each other. He looks at me when he thinks i dont notice, i notice. I smile to myself and point the middle finger at him. He turns right around. On Monday i had new shoes and i put my hair into 2 french braids. He was playing with a handball, he turned around and stared at me like if i was the most beautiful thing ever. I noticed him by the side of my eye. Does he like me?

    • Ally December 17, 2016, 10:51 am

      I think he really does like you if all that is true! Ive been in a similar situation, but I blew it off as nothing and now me and him never talk at all, a few glances every now and then, but I really don’t want that for you! Please talk to him, ask him who he likes if not if he likes you too! Hope all works out well <3

    • A dude January 3, 2017, 10:05 pm

      He likes you, but he’s sensitive. Really don’t be so rough because he likes you and is afraid of you. Please don’t abuse this power. Men are normally more sensitive than women. I am one.

  • Gabi December 15, 2016, 8:09 pm

    I like this boy who sometimes makes eye contact and teases me a little but I’m a tomboy . Does he like me or just think that I’m one of the guys? It also appears that my friends don’t approve. Because he’s a bit nerdy but he plays football and I really like him. What do I do? I’m only 13 should I just move on?

    • A dude January 3, 2017, 10:06 pm

      You should probably move on

  • Lunetta December 14, 2016, 9:48 pm

    Okay so my story is a little different. This guy and I began training together from day 1 at our new job. He is very charismatic and very selfless for most part. From the beginning both of us had an instant connection having the same sense of humor and enjoy very similar things in life. I always found him very cute , quite handsome actually but never as a partner because I was with someone when we first met so I just thought of him as a friend I could rely on. Even when I was with my ex he’d always ask me how my day was going or how I felt or just simply checked up on me and we had our gossip as usual lol. I just saw it as a very friendly approach until I became single he began holding my hand as he’d speak to me and hangout with me in his for hours just talking , exploring music and having a good time together. And then we had a movie “date” not really cause we work part time at the movies so we usually watch movies together but this particular time was different. He held my hand and played with the inside of my palm and just caressing me. I felt this huge explosion inside, it was pretty amazing. Then he leaned close to me and I leaned close to him holding his arm with both my arms. Afterwards we went to get a pizza and whilst waiting for our order, I opened snapchat to take a picture he immediately leaned unto my shoulder and took a video doing so. I know the songs are obvious but I just want to know if he’s serious about me ?

    • A dude January 3, 2017, 10:08 pm

      Know him more. You’ll know if he’s serious then

  • Naomi December 14, 2016, 1:53 am

    There’s this guy in my class that I think is really cute. I think about him a lot and bummed if he’s not around. But I’m not sure if he feels the same towards me. Whenever he’s around we do laugh a a lot, and when he’s not we make a lot of eyecontact. I think he’s kinda shy towards girls though, although he’s okay with his friends. He does look at me a few times when we’re sitting with a few classmates as he talks, even if he doesn’t he does. But i’m not sure if that’s a sign though, it could also just be a coincidence I guess but it happens way too much. What do you think?

    • Chloe January 5, 2017, 1:06 am

      Hi Naomi your gut feeling can say a lot, if he is making eyecontact as much as he does there is a great chance that he is interested. Is he shy or nervous when just you and him are around are there any situations where just you and him are present for example walking past in the school corridor,s or walking past on your way to class, if you make eye contact then, he might be interested. Its a good way to find out.

  • linsey December 13, 2016, 10:15 pm

    So there is this guy i like he is my senior and we rarely see each other and whenever he passes by pretend not to see him cause my face shows up it turns red n hot….. but my friends says that he looks at me when he passes by and if we happen to be sitting or standing near each other my friends says he constantly looks at us…. we chat through social media though…. news are there that he kind of likes someone else…. i dont know why i’m being like this like i have all the reason in the world to give him up but i dont want to…. the only thing i want from him is to like me back…. are there any chances he would like me back?

  • Magen December 13, 2016, 6:58 pm

    So there is this boy that I really like but I don’t know if he likes me back. He is so cute and when he looks at me he smiles but I don’t really know him. At the school dance my friends tried to get me to talk to him but i was to shy. He already knows I like him and he called me cute but he still he will not talk to me but everytime he goes to put his plate up at lunch he walks by me and makes eye contact with me. I tried to give him a note today but i could not do it. I think about him every night and day but i still dont know if he likes me or not and im to scared to ask him.

    WHAT SHOULD I DO???!!!

    • Josie December 13, 2016, 8:02 pm

      It definitely sounds as though he likes you. Throw caution to the wind and go for it. What’s the worst that could happen? I deeply regret letting men who liked me ‘get away’ because I was unsure whether they liked me, then found out later that they had. Go for it. Smile back, talk to him. Feel the fear and do it anyway.

      • Magen December 15, 2016, 7:41 pm

        Your right i’m ganna go for it. Thank you soooo much.

  • Unkown December 10, 2016, 11:20 pm

    There is this guy I like and he knows I like him. My friends were asking him if he likes me and he said no, but he always texts me first and I always catch him glancing at me. Does he like me?

    • A friend :) December 12, 2016, 5:19 pm

      He probably is interested in you and wants to get to know you better so you should ask him to hangout sometime or something sorry if this doesn´t help :(

  • Paige December 8, 2016, 11:55 pm

    Please help. I really like this guy named josh. Josh is smart and funny and playfully teases me. We play the computer together in 4th period. I really like him and I just wanna know if he likes me back….

  • Destiny December 7, 2016, 6:14 pm

    I’m a sophomore and I have a boyfriemd for the past 3 months and I have began to lose feelings for him due to some of his actions (extremely clingy) but I was thinking about breaking it off. Some of my friends tell me I should. But, I’m friends with this one boy and Im gaining feelings for him. He is kinda sending me mixed signals so I just need some advice. What should I do so I know?

    • Assumedbobcat December 13, 2016, 1:22 pm

      Firstly you need to sort out your feelings regarding your current boyfriend. If you just don’t feel for him anymore then it’s only fair (on both you and him) that you end that relationship first and athough it may seem like a difficult thing to do initially it will be significantly better in the long run especially if anything happens with the other guy.
      As for the other guy it really depends but I wouldn’t end the relationship with your current boyfriend because of him especially if he’s sending mixed signals. You should only end your current relationship because you feel it’s the right thing to do however if you are becoming interested in other guys then this could maybe be a sign that your ready to move on? I hope this helps x

    • A dude January 3, 2017, 10:12 pm

      Don’t be a slut. Though men are sensitive, you should hold off from that new guy for a few days, note the patterns so that your boyfriend uses and then break it off.

  • Tiffany Wilson December 5, 2016, 4:33 pm

    The guy at my school he looks at me all the time and yesterday be said I was fat but that was the first word he had ever said to me and his mum and my mum are best friends so does he like me cuz I have a huge crush on him and I don’t know if he likes me back if he called me fat

    • Emily December 16, 2016, 11:33 pm

      If he called you fat, I don’t think he likes you. He might be trying to push you away, but I don’t think its normal if a boy likes you and calls you fat. I’m not sure though, everyone has their own ways of coping with their emotions.

  • Chen December 5, 2016, 5:58 am

    That’s like the story of my life hahahaha, I also like a boy that I met in a church and I allways see him on sunday. Also I’m kinda boyish too. Being in a similar situation I would say that you’ll have to talk to him. For me it was hard at first but you probably are like me and have an advantage: you share lots of his interests. Things he won’t find in any other girl. That really helps, trust me.

  • Alexis December 4, 2016, 11:49 pm

    Hi, I’m a junior and I have a boyfriend. The thing is though, all my friends say he doesn’t deserve me and that I should leave him. I can see why, I mean… he sometimes hits me. But I stay with him because I love him and can’t live without him!

    My best guy friend, Conner, had a crush on me but idk if he does anymore… I like him, but am afraid he doesn’t like me back.

    My boyfriend always apologizes after hitting me and everything but then does it again. He’s almost always putting me and what I like down. I think I want to break up with him, but idk how. I’m terrified of him!

    He’s gonna like kill me if I break up with him!

    He lets me over at his house, but only if I promise to be a ‘good girl’. To be honest, I am freaking terrified for my life :(

    WHAT DO I DO!?!

    • Lilly December 6, 2016, 1:05 am

      I’m so sorry, Alexis, that sounds super tough. Please know this: your personal safety is indisputably more important than pleasing anyone. You deserve nothing less than to be safe and truly, unconditionally loved. Is there an adult whom you feel safe confiding in? It could help you lots to have emotional and practical support while you figure out the situation. Either way, you might find some comfort and ideas from calling the national domestic violence hotline at 1-800-799-7233, or visit their website at http://www.thehotline.org/. Hope everything works out okay. <3

    • kasha December 9, 2016, 9:23 am

      Look sorry to say that but that Guy is a jerk. Why does he hit you. Break up with him so that he Will see that he deserves no one but you. U should be bold u know. Tell him if hé doesn’t change you can’t be with him. If he doesn’t, Well this realy means you shouldn’t be with him.

  • Le December 4, 2016, 1:06 am

    So there’s a boy that’s in my group of friends I hang out with. His bestfriend is my bestfriend and we spend like everyday together with 2 other of our friends and his bestfriend drives us sround everywhere. This boy I’m talking about, he’s amazing. But there’s times when I doubt he even likes me anymore. Then again I have anxiety. And I’m scared I’ll loose him. He’s the best. We take lots of pictures together and we are always walking with each other like on Halloween it was us and about 4 others but it seemed like it was only us because he was walking by my side. Everytime I talk to him or about him I smile alot and so does he. He always makes eye contact with me. I also catch him looking at my scars every now and then.. But he has said he has noticed my eyes changed colors. Andm he makes me happy he really does.

    • A dude January 3, 2017, 10:19 pm

      He doesn’t exactly like you but doesn’t want you cutting

  • Ashlie December 4, 2016, 12:55 am

    Sorry it duplicated my comment.

  • donnie December 3, 2016, 10:27 pm

    ok their is a boy I like his name is Jarrod he is really cute we always stare at each other at lunch the hallways recess and by the water fountain but I think someone else likes him and I hate that espically when that gurl is pretty cause he’ll think I’m the dork and she’s the popular gurl . well I just need help and yes I know I have school to worry about to but I luvvv him so much thanks guys this website is like a older sister luvv bye

  • Paige December 2, 2016, 11:12 pm

    Hi. Theres this guy that i like and i think he likes me too. He kept looking at me and smiles when hes around me. I do that too to show him i like him too. And i think we are both just waiting for each other to say it first. But we are not friends. We are just schoolmates. And i really like to be in a relationship with him. What should i do?

    • John December 3, 2016, 3:14 pm

      I’m the guy in that situation right now. I’m shy, if it seems like I’m looking at you, chances are I’m definitely looking at you, it might be because you’re very attractive to me. We’re not really friends more so schoolmates.
      I get nervous around you, and I act completely different from around everyone else. Hell, the first time I laid eyes on you as you walked in, I just had to look at you and quickly glance away! You kinda did the same as well.
      At first I thought you didn’t like me for some reason because you avoided talking to me. But that wasn’t the reason at all because the reason I didn’t really talk to you is because I get nervous around you. So there ya have it. Put yourself in my shoes and basically you got your answer. I would love to be in a relationship with you! He wants you to tell him. He’s just shy, approaching attractive women isn’t easy.
      Good luck!

  • Luna December 2, 2016, 9:27 pm

    There is this boy in my class and he always looks at me.when im practiceing a class song there he is looking right at me.when class is over he would tell me jokes and stuff.his friend says he likes me

  • Confusedgurl December 2, 2016, 4:30 pm

    Well, there is this guy I work with for almost 5 years now and the first time I saw him was like wow he’s the one. I swear I had one of these crazy feelings inside me like I know he is the one (hahahha omg so stupid) first we used to be normal workmates. Then about a year ago we started to get friends. He had a gf this time. He teased a lot like every day and talked to me about his problems and stuff. Well few months ago he broke up with his gf. After a while i told him i need some space and he should stop being close to me and stuff bc of the way I feel about him. I knew i dont have a Chance so i said it.Well he wasn’t happy about it. He didn’t say anything about his feelings you know. I gor confused like what did it mean? Then we didnt talk for like a month. Suddenly we started to get close again and teases me EVERY DAY. Calls me by my nickname so awkward hahah helps me alot. Touches me very often. Always asks me of im ok when im down. It seems like he really cares about me. But I don’t know whether as a friend or as someone he has a crush on or something. Please help me!!! Sorry for my Englisch haha

  • confusedhb December 2, 2016, 1:58 pm

    so i am a 17 year old girl and i kinda like this guy the thing is it seems like he flirts with a bunch of girls recently he broke up with his girlfriend but even before they broke up he would still talk and flirt with me he would try to spark conversations with me. well recently i have noticed that he has been close to me when he gets the chance the other day i was walking to a class we share and he was like 2ft behind me and when i walk to my next class it seems like he’s right behind me as well. today however he was really close to me it seems as if i was anywhere near him he would get up and come talk to me and playfully push me which i would push him back. then i noticed that his eyes would look different from when was talking to me from when he was talking to another girl. i really don’t know if he likes me or if he is just flirting with me like he does with every girl.

  • Unknown December 1, 2016, 7:25 pm

    I honestly think he is a player. If you dont know what that is its basically a boy that just goes from girl to girl and doesnt care. All the things you said he was doing is flirting he is being cool about it but he’s flirting. And if that girl is really your friend she wouldnt go with the boy because you like him and you even said you loved him so yea. Just watch him he doesnt seem very loyal.

  • Confused girl November 30, 2016, 10:15 pm

    Hi i’m in seventh grade . I like this guy and he stares at me during class once i look up to see if he is doing anything stupid his cheeks turn red and he looks away but sometimes he looks into my eyes i feel like he is trying to say something but he never does . Then yesterday i got in trouble with the teacher so i had to move right behind him he wouldn’t stop knocking off my homework and the most amazing thing happened he turned around and touch my hand as if he wanted to hold it . today in class i moved to my original seat and he noticed i moved he looked desperate for me to sit there again . Tomorrow i always say i will ask him but im scared that he might say no. Because we have dated in the pass and he was a man-whore and liked to cheat on me . the only time me and him have ever had a great relationship was when we first dated i broke up with him because i was stupid now i miss him. should i ask him out ? Or not ?

  • Naomi November 29, 2016, 4:32 pm

    So I’m in the 10th grade and there’s a guy in my class that I have a crush on but not a big one, and last week he kept on looking at me when he thought I wasn’t looking and there’s this one moment where this other guy he was sitting next to made a really bad joke and I asked him to explain and my “kind of” crush looked at me and started shaking his head and then he winked at me. The problem is that now I don’t really see him looking at me that much and when I talk too him doesn’t look at me as much and his always talking to my best friend about latin class (which I don’t have so I feel totally excluded)but I don’t think he has a crush on her and I’m not really sure I like him that much well that’s what I try to tell myself.
    PS: he has dark hair and blue eyes so I love it when he looks at me!

  • A lonely girl November 28, 2016, 9:54 pm

    I really like this guy but I wish if I kno he liked me back..

    • Unknown December 1, 2016, 7:20 pm

      I think for advise you shouldn’t go back out with him because I have seen situations like that and they don’t really turn out well. And yes I know you like him and he might like you but just so you don’t get hurt again I think you should just find someone else. If he happens to ask you out and you feel like he has changed for the better then if thats what you want you can go out with him but I think you should just nicely and simply say no. Not to hurt his feelings or anything but just so you don’t get hurt. There are always gonna be other people that will and want to make you happy. So don’t rush to be in a relationship you have all your life to worry about dating and if that person will treat you right. Also if you ever have second thoughts or doubts about this person then this person most likely isn’t gonna treat you right. You would want someone to treat you like a princess and not trash or a side chick.

  • A confused middle schooler November 24, 2016, 1:05 am

    If you can, please reply. I go to middle school, and there is a gu y at my school who I like. He asked me out once, and I dont think he meant it at the time, and he started calling me babe until a few months ago. Recently, I left a worksheet in the computer lab and he brought it to the class I was in. At the end of that day, he told me to ask the teacher for another packet be cause I left one in the computer lab also. He doesn’t really try to be around me, though. I was choking at lunch, once, and he sat in the chair beside me, asking if I was okay. Also, during a fire drill, I was walking to the nurse where I fell and got a few cuts on in my knees and he asked me where I was going. I told him that I was going to the nurse, and he told me to be careful . He just confuses me. I really wanna make a move, but I dont know how or when. If I up, the entire school will know, and they will tease me. They tease me still about the last time it happened. If he likes me, I want to know, so I can get a chance. We’re both single, and he added me on Instagram. He liked only ONE of my photos. He’s not bad looking and I really like him. How do I do This and not make a mistake?

    PLEASE HELP ME! I’m desperate for help!

    • A dude January 3, 2017, 10:31 pm

      He has a crush on you, but he doesn’t know what love is. Don’t worry, just tell him that you like him. He likes you too

  • Alexia November 22, 2016, 9:42 pm

    Okay, so I’m in seventh grade. There’s this guy I know that I knew since first grade. We use to be really good friends, and always just tease each other. But after that, we never got in the same classes again and for some dumb reason just started to “hate” each other. Which, now greatly confuses me because every time we’re somehow sitting next to each other, it turns into either a hilarious coversation or a random play fight. But then the next day, we completely ignore each other even though I realized recently I do wanna hang out with him more. As, he somehow earned all my interest. So, as I said we both “hate” each other. I act like I don’t like him for various of reasons and only a few people I trust knows I do kinda have a crush on him. But I realized everytime I glance at him, most of the time we ALWAYS catch eye contact but then quickly look away from each in some classes we do have together. Art, Swim, Gym, etc. But today was a bit different, first my friend Ashley who knows my feelings and yeah. Was grinning like a idiot towards me saying that my interest who we will call “H,” actually looked towards me with a small smile on his face apparently. (Might I add, this was in art and he sits at a table by himself. So I know nobody told him a joke or something.) I was a bit embarrassed to hear that, but literally at that same exact minute. I glanced towards him, and he was looking DIRECTLY AT ME! Difference is, he was actually trying to keep both our eyes on each other. He didn’t look the other way. But, my dumb heart that felt extremely nervous at the action. I legitimately, sunk into my feet. Using my hands slightly to cover my eyes.

    Please, tell me. What the heck is wrong with us!?

  • JAMIE KEVINS November 22, 2016, 4:44 pm


    • A dude January 3, 2017, 10:34 pm

      I am

  • A senior November 20, 2016, 1:31 am

    So there’s this guy that I work with and he’s only one year older than me and we both have the same sense of humor, we both like the same music, movies, everything. We have each other’s numbers for work and I’ve been wanting to ask him to hang out just to start but I also want to know if he likes me. He laughs at my jokes, calls me cute names, we make eye contact and we’ve touched each other’s hands and had a moment. He’s mentioned a movie he wants me to watch and he’s even offered to watch it at his house but I don’t know if he was joking or not. I’ve also seen him watching me when I was talking to another co-worker, also a guy, and I couldn’t tell if he looked jealous or not. All my friends tell me to just ask him to hang out but I’m scared of what he’ll say and of how to deal with it after. It’ll be awkward to see him at work if he says yes or no. What do I do?

    • Jen November 20, 2016, 12:32 pm

      It sounds like he is definitely interested and has already done the hard work and asked you to ‘hang’! Try bringing the offer up casually in conversation when you next have the chance and see how he reacts, based on your post you’ll probably be able to organise a time to go to his place to watch the film. See how the film goes, and hopefully you will have another moment ;)

      Good Luck!

  • A confused girl November 19, 2016, 10:35 pm

    So ive known this guy forever. we have been going to the same school and in grade since kindergarten and my school is really small, only 40 people in my grade so. I never thought i would like him. i recently went of a trip with my whole grade and we just came back. but on th bus ride back we were laying on the floor beacuse the seats were uncomfortable and he put his arm around me and the whole time we were cuddling while sleeping. but before all that he told me i was like his little sister. im really confused. I dont know if it changed because he told me that before all that happened but idk.

  • Holalala November 19, 2016, 10:11 pm

    The shit is that in grammar school when guys say: “I love you” its usually that they are pulling a prank on you. (Im a High Schooler).
    Me and my guy friends say that all the time as a joke. Now if he goes out of his way too usually “Unfreeze you” and people say he said he likes you, thats a good sign. See if he looks at you a lot or tries to talk to you. It seems like you might be at a good start. Do you like him?

    • An 8th Grader November 19, 2016, 10:50 pm

      Actually, yes

  • Alex November 19, 2016, 5:57 pm

    I know a guy in my middle school who I THINK likes me. The other day, I was in my last class an d be he brought my work from where I let it in the computer lab. When I was with my friend, he approached me saying that I also left my story from reading class in there. He told me to go tell the teacher that she might give me another one. He asked me out once, which I dont think he was being serious at the time, so I said no. He started calling me “babe” for a few months. Once, I was sitting alone since my friends got upset to throw away their trays, I started choking on air. He was sitting at the table behind mine, so he came over to the seat behind me when I turned to the side, coughing. He kept asking if I was okay. Once I said yes, he left to his table. The same day he gave my work to me, I rode the bus. He was trying to touch the face of the guy in the seat behind him. I asked “uhh, whats going on?” And he said, “sup” as the guy behind him said “help” do i sai d “I wouldn’t help you if I could, and sup” the guy beside him goes “(my name)!” Enthusiasticly. The guy who have me back my work asked me what I was listening to, since I had ear buds in my ears. I told him what I was listening to and he said “cool” and turned back around. Does he like me?

  • JAMIE KEVIN November 16, 2016, 5:05 pm


    • A dude January 3, 2017, 10:43 pm

      Omg this is amazing. Their grammar is atrocious

  • chrizobell November 16, 2016, 3:45 pm

    I can help with people who have crushes,wen u hv a crush on someone there a high chances he also has it on u because when u hv a crush its mostly body language that communicates so watch the body language of your crush and the way he treats uu then u will get ur answer

    • Makayla November 16, 2016, 4:22 pm


  • Emily November 16, 2016, 9:00 am

    I really, really like him and he is very kind! :) I’m really shy though and I don’t know if I can talk to him like he’s one of my other friends! Any more advise? Today we were picking groups in 1st hour, and he came up to me and asked me to be his partner!!! What should I do- like what kinda thing should I say to him to start a conversation?

    • Emily November 16, 2016, 11:06 am

      Another thing…. yesterday when he handed me a worksheet, his friend said “Awe, how cute!” :)

      • Rhea February 12, 2017, 1:17 am

        Omg, that’s so cute;) Just talk about normal things but don’t go all crazy asking him his fav colour/animal etc. Let him start the conversation if you want. Just be polite and smile and look at him, also don’t turn him down when he asks to be your partner and stuff cuz if the guy’s brave enough to do that then you can at least encourage it by accepting it instead of making him look stupid:()
        Good Luck though!!! You’ve got a great guy!

  • Tishonna November 15, 2016, 7:20 pm

    There’s this dude he’s super cute he is everything I want in a guy. He always messes with me just to get me to talk to him so he can ask me something dumb( but in a cute way). And it always makes laugh and my friend told it was obvious that I liked him when I told her that I did. So what does any of this mean ? p.s. Where both in night grade he’s just older by a few months

    • Emily November 15, 2016, 8:39 pm

      Tishonna, I think he likes you back. If he makes excuses to talk to you, it’s a huge sign. I would ask him who he likes… quick question- does he ever blush and/or look away shyly? I’m also in ninth grade and this is just my advice… you can choose to acknowledge it or not but please answer the question???

  • Hope Jean Cronix November 15, 2016, 8:39 am

    I’ve liked this guy from my school, although we were never classmates, we never talked, I saw him last year and found out he was really cute and liked him. When there was a graduation party last year for our batch I noticed he kept on looking at me, but I felt as if maybe he was just looking at me because I was looking at him. Fast forward to now, I still like him (although I stopped then I liked him again) but my friend told me that his friends told her that my crush liked her. So I was pretty sad and said I would move on (which was like three days ago so I haven’t really). When we used to see each other, we would just glance then immediately turn our attention away from the other. And that’s basically it. But then yesterday (monday), his friends asked my other friend who had a crush on him since he knew somebody had a crush on him that they knew but he didn’t know the name. So my friend told them it was me, but they forgot my name so they came back and asked her again who it was, and I wasn’t there so they knew nothing again. But then during lunch time, they went and I was there, and I knew two of his friends before, and they started jumping up and down excited and like asking me “do you really like him?” And “do you really?” In which I denied, but it was pretty obvious. He was outside too, but didn’t show his face, and I really couldn’t see what his expression was. One of his joker friends was like “hey, he likes you too” but I didn’t want to expect so here I am.

    After that, when I was about to go home, me and another friend of mine hung out on one of the benches. I was still embarrassed about everything so I told her “if you see him, tell me fast okay cause I’m leaving” A few minutes later, he came, and I saw him, and I rushed to get my things and immediately left. When I had talked to that friend of mine later on, she said that when I had left, he stared at me with like a shocked/expressionless/hard-to-read face and he stared at the seat I was sitting at before and glanced at my friend.

    Basically that’s it. I came her because I need help from you guys. If I believe in this and assume that he likes me, he may not and I would be sad and disappointed. All that drama up there happened today, so I’m not really sure what’s gonna happen to me tomorrow. So what do you think? Does he like me or should I stop assuming?

    Wish me luck tomorrow and the next following days thoo ;D

  • Noela November 14, 2016, 10:33 pm

    There’s a boy at my school that I really like. My friends have gone up to him and tell him but I pretend not to notice. I’m in middle school and we don’t have lots of classes together. Please help me! I’m lost and confused!

    • Emily November 16, 2016, 11:14 am

      Does he ever show any signs of liking you? If so, what?

  • Faith November 14, 2016, 3:02 pm

    The age difference shouldn’t matter, you’re not that far apart. From what I’ve read he most definitely likes you, try making a move and you’ll find out for sure.

  • Joy November 13, 2016, 8:22 pm

    There is a boy we are not in the same class but whenever we meet he always find an excuse to touch me,he once told me that I am beautiful and ever since then I started liking him,his friend told me that he has been telling him to talk to me and now in school he call me his wife and when my friends get to know they started calling us couple, I really likes him and I don’t know if he like me too PLEASE HELP

    • Emily November 16, 2016, 11:16 am

      I think he likes you! If he finds excuses to touch you, that’s a big sign! Go for it!

  • JAMIE KEVIN November 12, 2016, 4:53 pm


    • miracle foster November 13, 2016, 3:26 pm

      what yous
      should do is to ge.t to talk to him.ask him do you mean enything too him and see what he’s reply will be. then tell him your mind.

      • A dude January 5, 2017, 6:57 pm

        You do realize this is a joke, right?

  • ariaaa November 11, 2016, 5:57 pm

    there is this guy at my middle school and were bffs, i have had a crush on him for a while now, but he dosn’t know. he calls me babe alot, but he is a joker and i cant tell if he is joking or being real. i know who he likes but im not sure if its a cover crush. but he has been giving me mixed signals and im totally lost, and confused.

  • Brooklyn November 11, 2016, 11:04 am

    So there is this kid at my middel school and we have gym together and today I am getting his number he always looks at me when I am not looking

    • A dude January 5, 2017, 6:58 pm

      Is this Anya. Sorry

  • Praavinaa November 10, 2016, 3:00 pm

    Soo there is this boy on the bus who I always see everyday but we have never spoken. He always turns around to look at me when we are in the bus. One day when I was getting off the bus he gave me eye contact and fixed his hair up. I really like him so is that a sign that he likes me too

  • Audreyyy November 9, 2016, 6:27 am

    I’m not over my ex, and he defiantly doesn’t do any of this to me How can I even build up the courage to talk to him? I want him to love me again!!! ❤️

    • Confused girl November 30, 2016, 10:20 pm

      Try to be yourself and if he wants you he will come

  • ALM November 8, 2016, 1:26 am

    There is a guy at my middle school who I THINK likes me. Last year, he asked me out, and after I said no, he started calling me “babe”. Also, my friends got up to throw away their trays during lunch, and I was stuck there by myself, but I was choking on the air. He came over to me and say behind me asking me if I was okay. Soon he left back to his table. Finally, the other day, I was going to the nurse during a fire drill be cause I had got hurt outside. As I was walking towards the school, he was practically yelling from across the parking lot. He asked me where I was going. I told him that I was going to the nurse. He had told me to be careful. This guy really has me confused. Does he like me?

    • Audreyyy November 9, 2016, 6:29 am

      Ummm yeah girl he likes you!!! It’s so obvious!! He really cares about you!!

  • Lexi November 6, 2016, 7:56 pm

    I’m about 90% sure he likes you. Some people might just be like that with their friends but the odds are that he does like you. He might’ve been trying to make you jealous when he looked at that other girl and was looking back at you to see how you would react. I also think that he said what he did about you and the other guy to see how you’d react as well. I do believe he likes you and if you like him (which I’m assuming you do since you’re asking about this) you should go for it!

  • Lexi November 6, 2016, 7:50 pm

    Hi! I’m in eighth grade and I like this guy. A couple different times I’ve caught him staring. He’s also defended me before when he found out another guy hurt my feelings. We used to talk a lot before our teacher moved us away from each other in the only class we sat next to eachother. In the hallway, he still hasnt approached me, I’m too scared to approach him, and we don’t have lunch together. There are still some signs he likes me though. One time when I walked my friend to her class (which he was in) he got up and was looking at me for a second before his friends started laughing and told him to stop staring at me and he sends me charming smiles. I’m still not sure though because it could be a joke or I could be reading it completely wrong. Can anybody help me?

    • miracle foster November 13, 2016, 3:38 pm

      yea dere he realy likes you.if he one day ask you out pls dont say no he realy likes you

  • Eechy Nening November 6, 2016, 4:29 pm

    Not all of the tips are happening to me. But the way he looks and action makes me realize that he look like likes me and makes me likes him alot. He is younger than me but I know he is not the type of playboy guy or teasing a girl. Also, he is not a guy who will take an action first but he got a nerve to looking back, stares and hold a gaze to me. I won’t admit I likes him, recently he notice my change look and he stares me for a long way time. I don’t spying him cause I will not meet him anymore next year and I won’t likes him! But that makes me regrets a lot. It happened to me already. Now I look like a stalker cause I ask about him with his classmate. And now I just hope my feeling will gone to him. I wish to! May be he likes me or likes me not?

  • Robbi Grace November 5, 2016, 10:32 pm

    Ok so there is this guy that I really like and he always stares at me and when I look at him he holds his gaze and one time I dropped something and he picked it up and I said thanks and we hugged. And everyone says they think he likes me but there are some other girls that like him too and talk to him and I just really need some help. Does he like me?? And is there anything I can do to get him to notice me more? PLEASE help someone!!

  • Jamity V. November 5, 2016, 1:18 pm

    Those tips you said was really effective because I experienced it also and it is confirmed that he likes me, but then unfortunately, I am attracted to someone else. This man is very joyful and naughty. Sometimes when I looked at him he also do the same thing but because I feel awkward with it, I always looked away first. There are also instances that he uses “Uy Pres!” just to call me without any no reason. I thought it would be the start but it stopped. It was really frustrating to realize that he like somebody else and I have a friend who also like him. Until now, I do not know what to do with my feelings. I just wanted to get an advice from someone who is expert about love, if it is just okay. Should I stop this useless feeling or just let it it be and see what happens? I just dont want to get hurt again…

  • Jamity V. November 5, 2016, 1:14 pm

    Those tips you said was really effective because I experienced it also and it is confirmed that he likes me, but then unfortunately, I am attracted to someone else. This man is very joyful and naughty. Sometimes when I looked at him he also do the same thing but because I feel awkward with it, I always looked awat first. There is also instances that he uses “Uy Pres!” just to call me without any reason. I thought it would be the start but it stoppegjjd. It was really frustrating to realize that he like somebody else and I have a frirnd who also like him. Until now, I do not know what to do with my feelings. I just wanted to to get an advice from someone who is expert about love, if it is just okay. Should I stop this useless feelings or just let it it be and see what happens? I just dont want to get hurt again…

  • Rayla November 5, 2016, 10:31 am

    Heyyyy :) thanks in advance for the advice
    So I’m a teen and there’s this guy in a few of my classes. We sit next to each other at lunch and he’s really sweet and considerate (in general not just towards me). We share food at lunch and joke around a lot. Sometimes our legs will touch under the table and he doesn’t move his leg away until I do.
    This still happens but a few days ago, I told him I liked him. He told me he needed some time to think about it and that he was too young to date but flattered. But he didn’t give me a direct answer as to whether he likes me. Idk what to think/do. We’ve got nicknames for each other and stuff, and even after I told him he’s been really nice (except both of us are quieter than normal at lunch). Halppppp!

    • Audreyyy November 9, 2016, 6:31 am

      You know he likes you when he gives you food ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ BUT if he says no, it will ruin the friendship and be akward… so this may be a slightly difficult situation…

  • *name November 4, 2016, 6:28 pm

    Oh god. Yeah save the dating for later but it never hurts to flirt at a young age…

  • *name November 4, 2016, 6:26 pm

    Lol same age as you. A lot of similar stuff happening with me too, except that both of my crushes think I like them because my “friend” betrayed me and my first crush and I are always playing the “I hate you but I’m gonna keep smiling anyway” game and my second crush and I are playing the “I’m gonna smile at you 24/7 and tease you but never make a real move” game.

  • *name November 4, 2016, 6:21 pm

    Oh wow….
    I thought my life sucked.
    Cause my friend who also likes my first crush told him that I like him so I spent three months convincing him and his friends that I don’t like him.
    And then she told my other crush.
    who already thought that I like him.
    And my best friend Cheryl also likes my second crush.
    I’m too young…
    Well I suggest that you try to find a way to talk to him and stuff and later talk to your best friend? Idk.

  • *name November 4, 2016, 6:18 pm

    OK so I used to hate this guy last year but everyone in my grade was like “OMG U TWO ARE FERFECT” but we like hated each other but then later into the year I realized that I like him and my friends were like “OMG WE KNEW IT.” But I think he still hates every inch of me. we’re constantly exchanging glares and crap. And then this year there’s this other kid that i also like and we are always always always staring and stuff but lately stuff with the first kid is all aghghghhg and then my friend was all like “omg they both totally like you” and i was like “prove it” and she made this whole goddamned list and now i dont know…
    first boi:
    He always stares at you
    He defends you
    Sometimes when you’re not looking at lunch he gets up he kinda just glances at you and then sighs
    He gets reasons to talk to you
    There are different ways he looks at girls he likes and doesn’t like. When he sees me he literally just frown like”why are you so quiet its annoying” and when he talks to other girl he doesn’t hesitate when he throws and insult. With you, he kinda plans out how you’re gonna react and then insults you, and during the whole time in science he was doing his work but his hand is like twitching and i’ve observed that he does it when he’s nervous and yeah. But honestly its so funny because when you two catch eye contact he smiles but when he catches eye contact with a girl he doesn’t like he frowns. Well he doesn’t smile. He just looks less hostile. For him thats smiling. Like honestly if he looks at me his reaction is “um…ew”. It hilarious .
    I can tell he compliments you behind your back because when people make like REALLY bad ships like you and (this ugly guy), he literally is like you deserve better.
    Gets jelly when you talk to (crush number two)
    Pretends to dislike it when he’s in your group for projects and crap but cant hide the smile that tugs at nhim IVE SEEN IT
    Texts you when hes studying do you really think hed text (another dude) or someone back if they texted him

    and this is for crush number two:
    Stares during reading and social studies NO LUNCH IS SEPERATE
    Stares during lunch
    Staring contests
    Smiles at you for me its like that “ew..” face untrue yeah it is
    Gets jealous when (crush number one) talks to you
    Ok, so remember when he put my name first for the project. So, if you were in that situation, you would obviously put your crushes name second because you dont want it to be too obvious so you put the person who you absolutely dont like first. The reason why he didn’t put his name first is because then ur crush would think yourself centered so yeah. *drops mic*

    Her words, not mine, now help plzzzzzzzzzzz
    I’m too young for this drama
    Yo tengo doce anos!!!

    • cheeese November 4, 2016, 6:47 pm


  • ??Chloe lol November 4, 2016, 3:26 am

    So I like a boy at school but im to in barest to ask him out what do ??

    • *name November 4, 2016, 6:32 pm

      Try making friends with his friends, or with him. That’s a good tactic for like anything

  • april November 4, 2016, 2:04 am

    okay so there is this guy.. who i have a crush on since last year (im a senior now) and i had never talked to him before until we got a class together. I never talked to me.. until one day he asked me a question and i helped him but after that we started to get closer and closer. when we were studying for our midterm, he asked me if i was studying with someone else and i responded with “no, im studying by myself”.. he then asked if we could have a study session and we worked on it together, after a while i gave up since he is one of those “cool guys”, later on, one day i tried to dress nice and he notices.. a few days later i did the same thing but that day he straightened my hair and put on makeup.. he kind of teased me and said “there is something in your hair, lol jk you look nice” . he also looks at me a lot and we have these moments where we just stare at each other and then i make weird faces and we laugh.and he also touches my side a lot trying to make me laugh or smile at least.. i havent heard that he likes someone, but the way he acts around me.. makes me wonder if he likes me..


  • Chloe lol November 3, 2016, 6:34 pm

    I love a boy

  • Chloe lol November 3, 2016, 6:33 pm

    So I like a boy at school but im to in barest to ask him out what do I do ?

    • katie November 16, 2016, 6:04 am

      Just go for it girl ask him privately and the tell him

  • Lily November 3, 2016, 12:00 pm

    Soooo good tips!They really do work…Girls look out for them!

  • selena jeans November 3, 2016, 10:57 am

    i like this guy i dont know if he likes me back look i try everything new hair look new clothing i dont know WHAT TO DO!!!!!! tell me what to do pleace tell me i dont know what i feel eney more about him and i feel butterfies in me all the time when i see him
    WHAT TO DO!!!!!!

    • *name November 4, 2016, 6:22 pm

      Oh god never change yourself for a guy trust me, it is not fun. Cause you might just end up devoting all of your time to making sure you look right for him and end up changing your whole entire self and become one of THOSE girls. I think you should just be yourself, but try to initiate conversation with him.

  • Chole November 1, 2016, 11:55 pm

    So i have this friend who told me that this guy likes me I thought she was lying at first but he is showing signs and at first I didn’t like him but I think i do know we are friends but the last time I was in a relationship I screwed up pretty bad I don’t want to make the same mistake trying to like ask him if he likes me because last time we kinda just dated and I didn’t like it I hated it I don’t want it to happen again but I want to know if this guy really does like me because I really like him

  • Julchen Beilschmidt October 31, 2016, 9:41 am

    Hi. Uh, firstly, this is a really good article, I know I’ll find this useful at some point.

    But anyways, I need some help. I guess, well, I fell in love with one of my best friends. He’s an absolute sweetheart, kind, caring, a gentlemen. We have many common interests, and dozens of people think we’d be perfect together (including my dad and sister XD).

    However, I’ve no real idea whether he likes me like that or not.

    I have caught him staring once or twice in orchestra, but rather than look away, he’d be more likely to smile at me, or pull a face. There was no real contact, I mean, he had hugged me once or twice, but that was ages ago, however more recently at a church youth event, he brushed up against my shoulder more than a couple times, and he threw himself dramatically over my legs after a joke (it was a good joke too). I can’t get up the courage to see where he’s staring when we’re face to face – I find it hard looking him in the eye, let alone checking if he’s staring at my lips. He does try to make me laugh sometimes, but he does that to everyone. Also, he always calls me by my name, but again he does that to everyone. He doesn’t text me – but that’s more my fault, since mum takes my phone away from me 80% of the time for no reason, and when I do have it I’m not used to texting, and extremely anxious and awkward. He used to text me, though. I just don’t know what to do anymore. The thing is, he’s very good at putting on a kind, good boy facade, although I swear I saw him get jealous when I said I knew an Asian language and he assumed it was Japanese. (He’s Korean, so there’s the whole cultural thing there, and he assumed from the one time he caught me with my anime. I actually am learning Korean. Don’t tell him it’s for him though XD)

    I hope you can help me with this…
    – Julchen xox

  • Sarah October 29, 2016, 9:21 pm

    Okay I like This guy from last year and he has given me a lot if signs that he likes me. Like looking at me when he makes jokes getting close to me and just always treating me super difficult from others I guess he is a little softer with me . But then this thing happens last year where we got mad a each other but we talked it out in from if to teacher and everything. But he would not say anything mean to me but also he kind of changed like he wouldn’t be so easy for him and me to go to each other and start talking. And I think it’s because maybe he really realized I like him and it’s kind of awkward for him . But this year we don’t talk to each other like before and but he looks at me secretly sometimes he holds the contact when I catch him. IDK what but this year I think we are more closer to each other than last year even though we don’t talk. I find him looking at me more and going in my way trying to touch me or talk to me.like walking really slow in front of me and turning back , giving me no space when walking or passing by my locker. He has that look in his eyes that I feel like he wants to be ready close to me. However sometimes he just didn’t even look at me and just walks past by or quickly looks down. IDK I get confused if he likes me when he does that and he is not a shy guy. Should I talk to him. How should I talk to him where it wouldn’t feel awkward. And most importantly does he have any feelings for me?

  • Lecia October 29, 2016, 3:51 am

    Its completely normal to be scared and he is probably waiting for u to make a move he could most likely be one of the boys that wants the girl to make the first move for example I was friends with my bc and he kept holding my hand and he had this family problem he told me first b4 he told his friends and one of my friends asked if he liked me he answered back with a yes she asked him to ask me out and he said he wanted me to do it and I wasn’t quite ready bc I didn’t know him that much and after two weeks I asked him out and we’ve been good except I’m not official bc he doesn’t want to be

    I hope this help u

  • Katie October 27, 2016, 9:55 pm

    There is a boy in most of my classes that talks to me a lot and I think he likes me. I don’t like him that much. Once he said something that to me sounded like he was saying I’m cute. Also, today was the Halloween dance. I went with friends but he still came up to me and talked. Also when I was trying to find one of my friends, he suddenly grabbed my arm and then he just waved and said hi. I’m so confused. Does he like me?!? And what should I do?!?

    • *name November 4, 2016, 6:24 pm

      I don’t really have anything to say except he’s probably as confused as you are.

  • Francisco October 27, 2016, 8:12 pm

    Go after him!!!! He’s obviously into you and he probably LOVES to make you jealous by cuddling with those other girls!

  • Adora October 26, 2016, 11:56 pm

    I’m not sure how many of you guys can relate to this, but he is really hot and epic and increibly popular. There is this other popular girl who acts fake, that follows him a lot.She copies his gestures a lot. They look like friends, but I dont think he is really interested in her, coz once she leaned on to him and he politely went to sit somewhere else. I keep on thinking that he is looking at me and I catch him rarely though. He ignores me but talks to other girls and teases them, and I definetely know he doesnt like THEM. I think its coz he thinks im awkward but idk. He might be interested in me but I AM SOOO CONFUSED! He smoothed his hair once when i was near him. IDEFKKKKKK

  • Emily October 24, 2016, 8:26 am

    Ok so there’s this guy I like. We used to be close last school year as friends (and I didn’t know I had feelings for him until now). And ever since we got into high school,I haven’t talked to him bc I never had the chance to. I’m pretty mad with him now bc every time I tried talking to him he never looked at me. Currently,Every time we see each other in the hallways he always looks at me but I don’t look at him. We have gym and health together and he always stares at me. I catch him staring at me from the corner of my eyes. And when he’s with his friends he always turns to look at me or when I’m far from him he always looks for me. And once he finds me,he looks at me sometimes until I move. He talks to this girl I met in that class and one time she called him over(she didn’t know I knew him) and he barely walked over when he said. “She fake, she doesn’t talk to me anymore” but she ignored him and kept talking with him. I looked away from him and he said the same thing again to her. But she didn’t say anything to him. I just walked away and left the two alone bc I think she likes him too. Idk of he wants to be friends again or if he likes her more than me. What should I do?

    • Francisco October 27, 2016, 7:51 pm

      you just have to talk to him!!! Nothing will ever happen if you don’t, and you’ll always regret not making an effort to talk to him.

      • Maddison Harold November 17, 2016, 9:06 am

        I Realy like this boy Named mason but idk if he likes me he gently through a ball at me and he act sorta differnt aroudn his friends hes mean around me he is nice WHAT DO I DOOOO

  • Linda October 23, 2016, 7:16 pm

    So there is this guy that I really like. We’ve been talking/flirting for over a year now. But there is a prob, he is one year younger than me. Age use to be a huge issue for me and I always said that I would date a guy that is older or the same age, but it has come to a point where I don’t care if he is 1 yr younger. I enjoy spending time with him. I’m usually shy to the point where I can’t contribute to a convo but with him the conversation is always flowing and I’m always laughing. He makes me feel beautiful and special. Months ago he asked me to be his gf but I didn’t give him an answer, I just joked it out because I wasn’t ready for a relationship bcz my last relationship was horrible. Now that I am ready I wish he would ask me again I would definitely say yes. But I’m wondering if he still likes me, he still flirts and teases. But the prob is that 90% of his frens r girls. I’ve never really heard one of their convos so I’m wondering if he flirts with them like he flirts with me and if his personality if just naturally flirtatious and if that time he asked me to be his gf it was a joke. One time he asked what I would say if he told me he had a gf then he said he was joking. Also the friend girls that he has, they r gorgeous and I’m a potato. Also sometimes his dp on whatsapp says that “we have nothing special” or “we never had anything special” or something like that so i’m wondering if hes referring to me. Also once I said something about his dps and he ignored me. I also said something sbout him having a lot of friends that are girls and he ignored me. So in summary I’m just wondering if he truly likes me and I also want him to ask me to be his gf.

    • Francisco October 27, 2016, 7:58 pm

      You rejected him already, a guy won’t make a move if he knows he’s gonna get rejected !! their poor egos can’t take it!!! You have to tell him how you feel, otherwise nothing else is gonna happen!! It seems like he’s still into you too, and who cares if he had a lot of girls that are friends, obviously he never asked any of them to be his girlfriend, but he did Ask YOU!!

  • GW October 23, 2016, 10:06 am

    There is this guy at school who constantly stares at me and when I look at him he quickly looks away, and seems embarrassed that I caught him. I have a crush on him and I think he likes me too. I haven’t really talked to him much before so would it be weird if I just randomly went up to him and initiated a conversation with him?

    • Francisco October 27, 2016, 8:05 pm

      Just talk to him, it wouldn’t be weird at alll trust me!!!! Just say “hey, how’s it going?”
      He might be shy and awkward at first because he’s probably not expecting it so just keep saying hey because if you don’t chances are nothing’s ever gonna happen, but trust me guys love it when girls make the first move!!

  • Alicia October 22, 2016, 4:35 pm

    Ok so me and one of my best friends always call each other (but most of the time he calls me). But then one of his friends was saying that he likes me and then my friend (Nate) said no to him and then he said good because you are never going to get a gf. So then after Nate tells me that one of his friends was being rude and did not want to tell me what he said because it was embarrassing to him, but I got it out of him and he told me. But then he was saying how he doesn’t think he is ever going to have a gf and a good future. Because “his life sucks”. So then I told him he would have a gf and at one point and a good future. And Nate says how do you know and I told him because you are a nice person. Now during when this happened it felt like he was trying to make a point and want me to be his gf and he knows I’m single. We talk everyday and have a very close relationship as being friends but I am wondering if he wants to be more than just friends. What does anyone else think? PLEASE HELP!!

    • Emily November 1, 2016, 10:36 pm

      Hi. I like this boy in my class. I’ve known him sinse second grade. He always is looking at me and will look away as soon as I turn my head towards him. He makes an effort to make me laugh and if he has a question he knows I will know the answer to, now matter how far away we sit in class, he’ll ask me for help. I mean, I feel like trust is very hard for me ever since I got destroyed by a former friend (also in my class), but I also feel like we are really good at telling each other stuff while we text. His friends kept telling me he likes me but I just said,”Why would anyone like a nerd like me? And why doesn’t be tell me himself, or does ge not like me enough to tell me himself and needs to send his little messangers?” I would tell him myself, but I get nervous easily and i hate not knowing something first. If you think he likes me, well, great! But how do I tell him I like him without actually telling him? I really need advise!

  • vanessa October 16, 2016, 11:00 pm

    hi ! good day everyone ! anyway i had many questions here in my mind i have friend boy , he has a crush and im helping him out to court the girl he likes the most . then time goes by i slowly get attracted to friend which i call him my BROTHER , and its kinda awkward . we pmed almost every day there’s missed hours i get to pmed him . we always talk about our crushes . and sometime he teases me in way of saying im poor in hieght i have cute tiny nose . but the he said ” hey hahaha its just a joke don’t get it too serious you’re beautiful tho” then i get blushed when he compliment and get satisfied about what he says . he usually pmed me first and reply fast as flash like ? am i that to attracted with him ? because i don’t usually reply fast to some people , even if i know that person personally . he asked and listen in everything i share about my life my past life struggles and what i do everyday . Please i don’t want to assume please help explain whats going on . i don’t know if he likes me to because as far as i know he likes someone else . and the girl he likes is more beautiful than me :3 HELP ME PLEASE THANK YOU !

    • Francisco October 27, 2016, 8:19 pm

      i think you should let it go for now, in the future when his infatuation with the other girl is over he will probably realize he’s into you but for now as long as he’s telling you that he’s interested in someone else, you aren’t his main priority.

  • Alexandra Clarke October 14, 2016, 2:33 am

    You should most definitely wait until high school, or even after then. It won’t last if you date in primary school.

  • sierra October 12, 2016, 6:42 pm

    Ok my case is kind of a weird one…
    I have always been the friend that guys talk to just to get to my beautiful best friend. But lately there is this one guy (he’s never actually met my best friend) and I think he’s flirting with me but idk… I’ve known him since this college semester started and since about the 2nd week we’ve sat next to each other in a class. He is CONSTANTLY teasing me! Like it may sound mean, but I think its just his sense of humor, and he is always jokingly flipping me offXD It’s like he wont stop until he gets a reaction out of me lol. And he is always staring at me and play hitting me and stuff like that…
    I have just been playing along and we always walk from class together just talking. He actually gives really good advise.. today I just stopped before we split ways and was like “hey you should buy me a coffee” and of course he was like “ahaha no buy ur own coffee” but then I barely had to even joke around and he was like “you know what? I want a tea… yeah lets go.” And we just went..haha
    He also kinda slips in a bunch of little sex jokes and shit like he was like “I am not a virgin! (I could make you not a virgin…)” and then said, “ok that came out wrong..” and I just smacked him and went along with the conversation… playfighting and the like.
    I feel like he treats a few people like this and have no confidence when it comes to giys liking me… What do you think? Does he?

  • Eva Liao October 11, 2016, 10:33 pm

    This is ridiculous…
    I am a foreigner here in the States… I don’t know much about American guys due to the cultural differences?!
    At my work place I meet this guy…. well the time I met him, he had a girlfriend and they were pretty serious. Two weeks ago from today, his gf broke up with him… I was in shock but also happy (I know I am bad…) at the same time because I thought I finally got a chance. He just told me that he was getting over with his ex yesterday. The weird part is that he even gave me rides home…. for almost a month now… I don’t know if this really means something or not because guys don’t do that in my country. I am not sure if he is making any moves or not, but what he does sometimes matches some of the things that are listed up there…. I just don’t know…. He is not making a lot of moves is because he is just in the process of getting over his ex?? This is driving me crazy…. But the thing is he sometimes comments on some of the girls that are attractive…. what does that mean?? We as a work team always work together so there were always other guys… well there is time that we are alone as well…. Man!!! Men are hard to understand. Should I be more patient??

    • Francisco October 27, 2016, 8:33 pm

      I think you stick to just being friends, most likely if he’s commenting on other attractive girls he’s not interested.

  • Ella October 11, 2016, 7:27 am


    I would really like to know if he likes me, I know, I just don’t know how to tell!! So I have this crush that I’ve had ever since grade 8 (am in 10 now), and he’s one year older than me. We never talked, at all. So I went to this church group at school with my friends and he was speaking, and I noticed that he never made eye contact, while doing it with everyone else. Then after at the end of the day (we catch the same bus, every day) he walked up to me and asked me a question about whether I would be involved the year later in the group. I pretty much died. So then we talked about things, and it went on for maybe 20 minutes. At times it was awkward, but he kept continuing the conversation. I was a little flustered and didn’t take too much notice of his body language. We talked about subjects, and then he told me ‘something he didn’t normally tell other people’ which was what he would be studying, because he found that people overreacted. But he SHARED IT WITH ME. WED NEVER TALKED. I DONT KNOW IF THIS IS A GOOD SIGN??? He seemed really nice, (which is why I’ve always liked him). I just don’t know if he likes me though. He’s the quieter type, but he also seemed to put a lot of effort into the conversation. And then at the end he said ‘it was good to finally talk to you, see you at the group next time?” And of course I mumble farted away. Then the next day at the bus stop it was a bit awkward because he was with his friends, but we talked again when we got off the bus. I started the conversation, but then h e had to go as his mum was already there. He smiled when I said hi again, and I probably smiled like an idiot.

    So what’s the verdict, does he like me??? I just would really like another persons opinion. I’ve been dreaming that he’d talk to me for years now, and it finally happened.

    • Francisco October 27, 2016, 8:38 pm

      He’s definitely interested! You just gotta start flirting and turning the charm on, whenever you get the chance say hey, remember there should always be a give and take from both of you.

    • Frankie October 27, 2016, 8:39 pm

      He’s definitely interested! You just gotta start flirting and turning the charm on, whenever you get the chance say hey, remember there should always be a give and take from both of you.

  • Stephanie October 9, 2016, 1:41 pm

    Well…i have recently joined college…It has been 3 Months now..According to my observation…most of the boys in my college stares at me…i dont know why…Some even came up to talk to me….A month later we had a Program…I heard a named called out who was my Senior..He didnt show up that day when they called for a Speech…so i was curious about this guy…A few weeks later…The guy i was dying to know appeared right infront of me…At first i didnt know him…one of his friend who talks to me told me about the guy…i was so surprised…ever since that day…he has been in my mind…he never left…i’m always thinking of him…i found out his account in Facebook…i Added him…he accepted….i texted him sayim thànk u…he replyed with a happy minions sticker and said welcome…i was so happy…i soon realised i have a crush on him…Now I’m always the one who text him first…i just hope he does not get irritated…When i text him…he seems interested in me too…he has been noticing me in college..Doed that mean he like me…but hr does not text me first…Is he waiting for me to text..??
    So confused…

    • Gayathri October 12, 2016, 6:10 pm

      I faced the same situation and I had been in this phase for three years and still going on. So I suggest you not to text him all the time, ignore him for sometime, see if he approaches you. Goodluck :)

  • Elvera Walker October 7, 2016, 10:11 pm

    Sorry I mistakes hit the submit button. So I got mad at him because, it took a lot of courage for me to ask him that. But what he was thinking about was football. I don’t know of he still likes me, or if I messed thing up. Please help.

  • Elvera Walker October 7, 2016, 10:07 pm

    So there is this guy that I like. He always stare at me at least twice in class, and likes to touch me, and call me his girlfriend. His cousin is my best friend and she said he told her to tell me that he likes me. And I told her to tell him that I like him back. But then when she told him that he started acting weird the next day, so when we were walking home form school, I told my friend to ask him why he was acting so weird , because I was kind a shy to ask him. He did not answer the question. So she told him that he was sending mixed signals, is either he likes me or not. Then he said that he has been thinking, and I asked him what he has been thinking about. I thought he was going to ask me out, but then he said that he has been thinking about football. I got mad and left because

  • TinyG October 4, 2016, 6:04 am

    So I’m really into this guy he’s super chill I’ve met him online. He’s American and I’m British. We’ve chatted in main room alot.. it’s fun and light hearted in a bruh kinda way he’s not a man of many words he teases me gently. We play a drinking game just me and him. It’s silly but super cute sometimes I feel like it’s just me and him there. I do this thing where I post hm and then he does and I say hiiii and then he does and I say how’s you? He says I’m all chill and I say me too. It’s all super cheesy but I love it.we totally mirror each other and we do it alot.. He doesn’t seem to mind I call him baby or honey the amount of flirting I dare to do.trust me. But he never flirts. One fellow chatter says he likes you and he posts nah.. is he embarrassed cuz its in a public chat room? He got a bit wierd with me the other night so I left ears burning flame red. Then this happened this guy doesn’t PM and tells girls regularly that he doesn’t. And there he is pming me.. hes real sorry and I’m his friend and drinking buddy if anything dnt be mad at him he wouldn’t be pming me if he wasn’t bothered. We pmd for hours last night. But it was light and no flirting mixed signals confused!!! I don’t wanna scare him off does he like me?? How do I know how do I keep my cool? I can’t stop thinking about him…

  • ari October 3, 2016, 4:55 pm

    So there’s this guy I like for 11 months. Hes in class 9 nd I’m in 7…..I’m confused whether he likes me or not I mean he’s always staring at me we bumped a few times one day i was climbing up the stairs when I saw
    Him behind me then suddenly he bumped into me a lil nd went ahead of me… he stares at me whenever I’m around him like my frnds say when I’m laughing he stares at me when I’m talking wid someone he stares at me…. alot of other things happens I mean ALOT nd everyone says he likes me back but I’m still confused …. plz help!!

    • ella October 6, 2016, 4:59 pm

      hey , ari
      guess what ! he does like you he is showing you that he is interested in you , the same thing is happening to me now , me and him have mutual friends, and when i walk up the stairs in college he would look at me and i could see it from the corner of my eye also during lunch i sit with my group of friends and he would do the same with his friends and sit behind me .

  • Hyeji October 3, 2016, 9:45 am


    So first of all, i like this boy like super much lol, he is not that handsome, and im not that pretty too, well my friends says im pretty but i dont know i think im ugly because of my eyebrows, and boys dont talk to me that much, i think they are afraid of me, because i look rugged? What do you call that i mean i think i have a bitchy face even though im kind and funny like wtf bro.
    So again my crush, i dont know if he likes me but first of all, weare in the same table on exam then he always nag me to get answers lol he is touchy no i mean he always hold my arms haha.
    I asked my friend if he is just like that then they agreed oh my gosh, i hought he onlupy does that to me, but but, hahaha he always asks for answers and help in school works on me tho i dont know if why its always me, maybe because im kind? Maybe because he knows i like him and he uses it for that or so what ever?
    Then we are on the same table we tease each other sometimes for example he said “i did not do anything (hes not talking to me)” then ill come and say “you did” then he will look at me and smile and say “are you tripping on me huh? (With a smiling face haha)” then like that.
    We tease each other many times before i mean not always but its not the same today, i think he sometimes ask me for answers not chat with me and like that T.T he dont talk to me that often, before he always greet me once i entered the room, but now, i dont know it became awkward, but i think its only for me. I think i only exist if he needed something. But im still hoping tho

    Cuz i dont know one day he chatted me and said hello, then another day was goodmorning and goodmorning again, but we dont talk that much im awkward huhu.
    Can you tell if he likes me? If you cant please comment some questions and i will clarify it i rlly need to know!!


    • Hyeji October 3, 2016, 9:49 am

      CAN I ADD that theres this one day that his friend was my groupmate and then his other friend saidto my groupmate “what did you do to your group you did not contribute anything haahha” then my crush said “dont worry hyeji is kind, right hyeji?” He said it like that and wtf his friends shouted idk i did not listen to them anymore, so can someone tell?

    • JC October 7, 2016, 9:14 pm

      Ok I will say that this is exactly how I act when Im around girls that I like. This boy is kind of in between. He likes you but hes not sure he would date you because he doesnt know you well enough. Thats all. Ask him if he wants to go to the movies or something. If he says no, just respect it. If he says yes, just act casual, dont order a large popcorn if it costs like $15 and just have fun.

  • Izzy lolly pop October 2, 2016, 5:18 pm

    I like a boy at school he likes me but I’m in barest to ask him out what do I do ? He is so cut I love him with me but dose he lik me I don’t now ❤️❤️❤️❤️I love you har ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️I’m not putting the rest of his name okay

  • Anonymous girl September 28, 2016, 3:04 pm

    Ok so I just started secondary school and my friends made me read this (good tips) and I sit next to my crush in Spanish and I sit near him in a few classes anyway it’s been a month and i know it’s a bit early to like a guy but I do. He’s a nice guy in general at first he’s a bit quiet and shy but then he’s chatty towards me I know that’s nothing but here is what has happened to me in four weeks. So when I next to him in Spanish and he was quiet at first but then he became chatty he teased me a lot and and let’s call my friend ‘j’ she went my crushed liked me INFRONT OF HIM!!! Major mood breaker xD anyway when he sad no he blushed and smiled while saying no I was like that’s probably nothing but then he started to gently kick me in the legg for no reason so I did it back and I get warnings because we keep on talking and laughing plus i always catch him staring at me when i look away when i catch him and when he looks away i stare at him (im so weird xD) anyway so he always smiles around me with his eyebrows raised and a cute little smile apparently that’s a sign on other sites and he like NEVER smiles or talks much so I found that odd but let’s skip to Friday three weeks ago. We just entered and we got to sit wherever we want and funnily enough my crush wanted to sit next to me but unfortunately we had to go in alphabetical order ;-; so half way through class I draw on my hand a weird looking girl on my hand (don’t ask why my friend and I did it) i ask everyoen as a joke wanna kiss they all refuse and moves their face away…the lesson just ended so he speeds up to walk next to me and I joke around wanna kiss and he ends up kissing my hand……..I got so red faced I walked faster home and so in the past few weeks we stare at eachother and I act differently towards him and so does he I and he also try’s kicking me under the table and so do I and ‘j’ keeps on saying he likes me and he still blushes and smiles when he says no so I do think there is something there but I know he’s to shy to say it and I don’t want to be rejected if I do ask him because I know one of his friends like him and she HATES me for no reason I am a nice girl so tell me WHAT DO I DO!??

    • Chloe lolly pop October 2, 2016, 5:06 pm

      Okay you have tighten a lot but my edvice is just ask him out you can’t be scerd

  • Aisha September 26, 2016, 7:48 am

    I am from India.so my slang will not be perfect.

    I met him in my first day of my tuition class.once I saw him I was staring at him and I was soo caught up by a feeling.he also stares at me when he saw me.he was with his friend and brother.he then sits opposite to me like facing me.after class I am walking alone to my house.wen I turned back I saw him behind me.i was surprised.then wen I reach my house front he was still staring at me.but then only I realised that his home was after my house.next day also I saw him.then all the days he stares at me.I dunno I made up a feeling with him. Hes soo cute,gorgeous ,handsome and he got a grt smile which kills me.(I found him very humorous nd funny) wen 1 day I was sitting in a bench.he came back of me.i didn’t noticed his arrival actually.suddenly something hit on my shoulder.wen I turned back he was standing.his bag hitted me.(I dunno it was not an accident for him.I think he done it surely)he said “sorry”.I was the first word he said to me.i said ok.then he went back.many times he tried to sit behind me.and also he was following me till my house.but he doesn’t talk to me.i also.one day someone in my class said a joke.i laughed at that time wen I just pass my eyes through him I found him looking (not looking hes actually STARING like a true lover like Zayn in night changes into my eyes.he was just opposite to me.)I was so surprised by his look.then it was my last class.that was an coaching centre.I was waiting for my front in road after having my hall ticket.at that time he came near me and sang *Tum hi ho*one of the most romantic Bollywood song of that time.i was soo amazed.and wen my frnd came he went.
    Then I didn’t saw him for many days.then I saw him riding his bicycle.at that time my cousin also was standing near me with his bicycle.my cousin knows him.by seeing him my cousin tang the bell.responding to him he also rang his bell.then he continued till he went off.i was shocked.after that he always rang bell(even though my cousin is not there)(&to get my attention)whenever he pass over my house.
    There r many memorable events like this.but am not describing it now.
    I dunno whether he LOVES me.
    The main thing is we r of different caste.
    I don’t think these type of caste difference exsist now.(even I like his caste nd started to use their slang,dressed like them nd all)

    Anyway I like him…nd ……i wish he could atleast be my friend other than lover.(for my patents sake).

    Thank u for reading my story.nd u can give me some suggestions regarding this.once again thank u.

    • Courtney lolly pop October 2, 2016, 5:10 pm

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️I love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
      That’s a joke
      If you like him wait for him to ask you

  • Ana September 23, 2016, 6:50 pm

    I go to church and for 10 years sat at a different place than I do now. I think 2012 I started sitting in another place and to my surprise this lovely and mid age guy came to sit next to me and he let his elder father sit two rows in front of us, he did this about three times then he went back to sit next to his dad. Now I say hello and I’m polite to him and his dad,two weeks ago he was getting his fathers walker and his father said abruptly that his son needs a women, he got so red and embarrassed looking at me I still say hello but I think ha is a shy man that lives and takes care of his dad , I just want to assure that friends is always great . No worries.

    • Izzy lolly pop October 2, 2016, 5:14 pm

      BUT DO YOU LiKE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Vii September 22, 2016, 11:17 am

    Crushing over this guy for few mnths ago nw….buh am so confused over whether he likes me or not… i always catch him staring at me, then afta dat he looks away and any time i grit him he always sounds cold…. he even says he wanted to av a word with me some mnths ago buh he kept postponing it… jst wana knw weda he likes me?

  • Hali September 21, 2016, 3:41 pm

    Okay so there has been this guy i liked since the first day of school. I didn’t start school until the second week because i was in vacation. When I arrived, I caught him sneaking glances. When I told my friends, they just teased me about it and two days ago one of the told him. They also told him today and I just don’t know what to do. Even if I see him sneaking glances, it doesn’t seem to be as much. Please help me!!

    • jackie September 23, 2016, 10:41 pm

      this same situation happened to me. just wait. the guy i like found out too. i’ve liked him for a while and texted him a little bit but it was obvious he didnt like me. i hadnt texted him for a really long time and then a month ago he snapchatted me and has been since. this will pass over, good luck! ;)

    • Hali October 3, 2016, 2:08 am

      He loves you but he hats you as well ✌️

  • Adeline September 21, 2016, 12:19 am

    Okay there’s a guy who goes to my school who I’ve known for 10 years. I recently realized I like him. He try’s to sit next me in class whenever he can and when we can partner up for anything he chooses me and his closest friends. A friend of mine was like in love with him and he knew and he talked to me about how he didn’t like her. One time in class he left his phone on my table and he asked me to get it, but someone else got it for himself and he got mad saying he wanted me to give it to him. His best friend is my friend and he kept asking if I liked my crush (ofcourse I said no) and he kept saying I did. After his best friend did that my crush didn’t talk to me the next day. He looks at me once in a while and whenever he makes a joke I see him look if I’m looking. But sometimes he gets mad if I even say anything to him. He got mad when I liked a singer he didn’t like. He recently switched his class schedule and picked to be in class with me. Sometimes he talks to this other girl who people have been saying lots of girls like but I try and ignore that. One of my really close friends is a guy and he keeps asking me if I like him. Please reply back as soon as possible.

    Love, Adeline :-)

  • Joanne September 18, 2016, 12:25 pm

    I’ve been liking John for about 6 months. I’ve known him for nearly 5 years but it is only through the past 1 year did i really know and understand him. When we both realise our feelings are mutual, he would take me out on dates and he would kiss me like what couples would do. But in all due honesty, our status were that of normal friends. However, things haven’t been progressin just as I’ve thought. The dates stopped and he no longer ask me out. All physical affection came to a gradual stop. We don’t meet each other as often anymore. Nowadays i would only see him once in every 2 weeks? Even though we text each other everyday (even on days when I woudn’t reply for quite some time and he would text again to ask check on me, etc), there is nothing else that i could possibly find that he’s still likes me. We have mutual friends and one of them who happens to be pretty close to him told me that he is uncertain of me, hence his actions. What do I do? :(

    • Larissa September 24, 2016, 12:27 pm

      As I see this situation,the best thing is to confess that you like him. He could think you’re not interested and go hunt for some other girl. Find the guts to walk up to him like,“Hey John. I want to tell u that I really like you.”

  • ak September 17, 2016, 5:43 pm

    Ok, there’s this person who’s really cute and seems really nice. He’s called Jasper and he’s probably one of the most popular people, so he’s really confident. I’ve seen him looking at me a few times, and he’s always really shy around me (he blushes and ruffles his hair as well).
    He likes nearly all my posts on Instagram, and sometimes drops a comment. But recently, he’s not like that. I didn’t really think about it but I think before the holidays I liked him. So I’ve officially been liking him for two weeks.
    In French, we sit next to eachother (yay) and he’s always leaning towards me. He even managed to get his elbow next to mine, and neither of us pulled away.
    When I walk past him with my friends, he usually looks at me (I don’t know where, I just catch him looking).
    He doesn’t go out of his way to speak/be with me and we don’t have a lot in common, but I don’t let it get on top if me. Sometimes his friends laugh and look at him to me, but he tends usually tends to try and talk to me by himself. He doesn’t talk to me often. It’s not like we’re gonna be together anyway! xD
    I usually see him looking at other pretty popular girls and blushing a bit which is very annoying, but he’s really confident around them.
    And (I nearly fainted), in science we were bisecting flowers, and he picked one, walked up to me shy n stuff and said “anna, this is for you”, I laughed and said thanks but I’d already got one but……I thought maybe he was being sarcastic like everyone is but idk.
    Anyway, I’m gonna look out for these signs next week… fingers crossed and thankyou!

    What should I do and do you think he likes me?

    • libby September 17, 2016, 11:34 pm

      i think u might be in luck!
      his friends were probably laughing and looking at you and back to him because they know he likes you, if he gives you a flower next week accept it and maybe give him something to! if he keeps showing these signs i suggest you ask his friends and then ask him if he likes you

      :) good luck

      • Acacia September 19, 2016, 9:04 pm

        He doesn’t like me… :( I’m so sad

  • Acacia September 16, 2016, 11:23 pm

    I have no idea if my crush likes me or not, his body language is confusing, but yet whenever I look at him he starts to look all over the room and stare back into my eyes. I really like him so much, whenever I get hurt he always there for me, whenever I get remembered of my past he holds me and comforts me. I met him at my church, he’s such a sweet mannered boy! I always try to get the opportunity to ice skate with him, so far we only did it twice since school started again; whenever we do go skating he would always grab me before I fell, he wouldn’t help anyone else but me, he’d try to impress me by falling and making it seem so cool, I would start to laugh at his silly antics, we he would grab my waist or hold my hand when we ice skate, he even gave me his jacket, he asked me if I wanted him to hold my (Precious precious) baby phone, so I trusted him with it and he held it the entire time we ice skated. Whenever I would ask him if he wanted to go he would always say yes, if we try to hang out he would say yes to me. But there is this one day a few days ago I dumped my boyfriend… He was lying to me and it hurt.. So I told my crush everything he told me “if I ever have the chance I would punch that scumbag, don’t waste your tears on him, he’s not worth it if he doesn’t like you, your priceless to me, and everyone else, and most importantly God, you mean so much to us,”.. He’s always so protective of me and always makes me smile whenever I’m sad. The day I dumped my boyfriend he was there with me and had asked me if he could drive me home, of course I had to accept.. So we walked to his car and he told me “You’re some girl, I mean your stronger than any other girl I have met in my entire life,” I was crying but that made me smile and stop my tears. He gave me this peace at my mind, I felt calm. So on the way to my house he told funny stories and told me he doesn’t like this one girl he always liked, so I told him “I’m single and back on the market!!” He smiled and nodded his head at me “heck yeah you are!” I didn’t know we were flirting at that point so we continued and we got lost for a bit by that I mean like 3 minutes… I enjoyed my time with him so much… I really need to know if he likes me.. But whenever I text him he responds so quickly to me, to other people he sometimes takes a century, he would answer my calls no matter what, even if he’s in his car driving! I really like him.. Me and him been through so much…

    • libby September 17, 2016, 11:28 pm

      i really think he likes you! you just have to confront him and tell him your feelings and then ask him if he feels the same way :)

      good luck

  • avril September 16, 2016, 2:04 am

    hello! Im just a grade 5 student I noticed that my crush do Some of this tips and while were in school school (dismissal time) he was with his cousin (grade 4) then im walking w/ my friend and accidently walking beside him (as in beside him) so I dont mind him so he could not noticed that I had a feeling to him and then he doing a body language or contact and his hips will go to the left and then right so he’s bumping me but there was a time that he’s force is so strong and then me and my friend sat on the ground then ouch ouch we said but he is looking me while saying ”peace peace” and I said ”please help me get up! You bump us then you should help us” then he quickly hold my hand and then I get up but he didnt help my friend to get up…. So there I told him that he’s so naughty then he ran and I catch him on the way through the gate and then he said when I catch him ”ok I dont wanT peace” then he do the peace sign and I said ”ok were peace” then I also do the peace sign and I was shock that he just hod my hand but for a while because my mom is there so that’s a big sign… And I also noticed when he talks to me in the classroom he will hold my shoulder… Also when were in the hallway and exactly his coming he will hold my hand and push me until I will bump out the wall then a little bit of eye contact and he will leave me but I really dont know if he likes please help me find the right answer about my crush thanks!

  • Lincy September 9, 2016, 6:45 am

    This is Lincy. Hope you are fine. I am confused about my crush whether he likes me or not. He is a guitarist in our church. Can you help me find out if he is interested in me? I feel a strong vibe between us but he has not opened up to me yet though its been 2 yrs since.

    I am listing few things he has done or said. Please analyze and help me out. I really like him and want to know if he feels the same about me.

    1) Stares at me or looks at me and when I catch him looking at me he turns away.
    2) He talks to me only if we are alone. If people are around he will be like I don’t exist.
    3) We don’t talk or know each other. But waves his hand and greets with “hi” if I am alone when he enters church.
    4) Once his friend offered to drop me home in his car and before leaving, his friend teased him saying “don’t make this an issue in the future” and for that my crush smiled n blushed.
    5) I once overheard him asking another girl to drop me home.
    6) When I was down he called and texted to encourage me.
    7) Mar 2016, he was standing infront of me and I suddenly turned and saw him staring at me. I smiled and he smiled back widely and continued to stare for few more sec.
    8) He is very friendly and helps me immediately when I ask him.
    9) He always says that I should not say thanks or sorry to him.
    10) For last Christmas, I sang for the program. He took a chair far away from the crowd and sat alone where I can be seen clearly. After my song he left home in few mins.
    11) For his birthday I wished him with words “God’s Masterpiece” and he kept his whatsapp status as “admiring God’s masterpiece” for that whole month.
    12) One time he stares at me and next time we gather in church he will ignore me and act like I am not there.
    13) Now a days he is totally ignoring me.
    14) If I send him forwarded messages or any quotes, he replies with a thumbs up smiley. that’s it.

    Its been happening for past two years and still we dont talk on phone or we have not opened up. Please help me.

    what should I do?Is my crush interested in me?

    Eagerly waiting for your reply.

    Kind regards,

    • JC October 7, 2016, 9:23 pm

      Just so you know, this is how I acted around my now girlfriend/high school sweetheart of three years. What you do in the near future is crucial. When he wants to talk to you in private, just do it. He wont talk about things like homecoming or prom in front of your friends. Ask him if he likes you (IN PRIVATE!!!)lol. Or just tell him you like him and see what his response is. When he says he likes you, just ask him if he wants to go on a date. To the movies, or a restaurant or where-ever. Also, dont order a $20 steak or $15 large popcorn unless you both eat it. It is considered impolite to order expensive items off the menu, and it is a great way to blow a good date. I hope this helps, and K.I.T. on this comments section to tell me how I did. Thanks!

  • Aly September 7, 2016, 4:36 pm

    Well there is this boy named Noah and he is cute. Sometimes at school I notice him looking at me in fourth core,but in first core and homeroom and at the bathroom sometimes we make eye contact and he will look for a couple seconds then we look away at the same time so what should I do know.

  • ox12000 September 6, 2016, 2:19 am

    ok so there is this guy at school that is always smiling at me kind of……nervously? and he always talks to his friends and then they all look at me and talk again, and at pick up zone in the afternoon someone came up to me and told me that he had told the whole class he has a crush on me. idk wether he is joking around or what.

    • asdf September 13, 2016, 11:17 am

      this guy obvs likes you but think for yourself if you actually might like him too

  • omolayo September 5, 2016, 7:41 am

    like i just met this guy.he told me to come over. and i went .then he said do u want something to do with me or messing around and i told him to chill.after a while he was touching my tie.saying he likes me how do i kno he does

    • Sneha September 13, 2016, 2:42 am

      Hey I m sneha I mate a guy in my frnd circle he Is cute looking I strtd liking him bt he says tht he as gf in usual tlks bt he never behaves as he hve gf nd he dedicates most of his time to me nd even he dnt hve any taggs in any social media of tht grl nd even he dnt hve any pics of tht grl in mobile he just wants a reason to meet me nd spend time with me I m his frst priority he stares me even I refuse to do eye contct I just want to knw does he really hve gf

  • anon September 3, 2016, 1:29 pm

    Ok, now I know what not to do, great!

  • Kelly September 2, 2016, 6:49 pm

    Okay so there is this guy that I have liked for a while and during the 2-3 years I had a crush on him, I would notice these hints and I catch him staring a lot. He also always flirts with other girls right in front of me but I don’t think he’s that much of the flirting type. Today it was a half day at my school and we were at our last class( I’m a freshman) and I had a class with him. We had a whole group of people around me and my best friend and my crush also joined in. We were telling stories to each other( I forgot to mention that we were in Biology class). So 6 other people grabbed a stool and sat around me and my friend and my crush sat next to me. We sat pretty close to each other and during the whole time, he would set his feet on my bottom stool and our legs would touch but he didn’t move them. Also every time he talked he would look at me, like eye contact and a bunch of other stuff happened. That’s one of the big things that happened between me and my crush and we all talked for that entire class period because we didn’t need to do anything. I did also see him flirting with my friend and she was right next to him on the other side of him though, so I’m not really sure if he likes me. I’m a really shy person so I’m not bold enough to flirt or touch him back. I think he might like me but then again I’m not sure. Please help me and give me some advice!!

    • Kelly September 2, 2016, 6:51 pm

      Sorry but I forgot to mention that the friend he was flirting with was not my best friend but my other friend!

    • Matt September 3, 2016, 8:30 pm

      Kelly….I’m a guy, and one of the things I might do if I like a girl is stare,talk to her a lot. Just observe how he acts around u…does he talk about you? Does he always want to be partners in group activities? Does he tell jokes? Does he look into your eyes and smile?….that’s just a few things! Hope that helps :)

  • Cass August 26, 2016, 6:02 pm

    I need help. I don’t know if he likes me or if he just likes to flirt.

    Our friends always tease us when we are together or when he or I am talking to me/him. When I am doing some stuff and just sitting on a chair, he will come and simply put his arms on my shoulders and it is awkward and I look at him and then move it away and it is okay with him. When I am talking to his friends or to my friends, if he’s around he will pinch my cheeks! If I hug my friends (I do love hugging my girl friends :D) he will open his arms and say in joking way “How about me?”

    He will compliment me in a teasing way. He is also trying to barrow my phone (but he can’t use it anyway, there is a password haha) and then looks at my gallery. He likes to carress my hair and he does it like I am lost child -_- crying because she can’t find her mommy >.>

    I don’t know if I catched him looking at or he just catched it that I looked at him.

    If you ask me if he is doing this to the other girls. Yes? No? Maybe? Really, I don’t know.

    There are times that he will do this and there are times that he just looks at me and then go or walks away!

    I asked my friends if he has a crush, they said yes and it is someone else.

    I think he is doing these things to others too, I guess?

    I am completely cunfuse here.

    Do I like him? Yes, I do. But I am trying to get over it. I don’t know if he’s just playing with me or not.

    If he is, I hope he will stop. I am not a strong girl and this is the first time that I like someone.

    P.S. He is a type of person who can’t really really like someone. He’s my good friend and I know it. I am probably not his type I am chubby, only have an average face and my hair is ugly.

    P.P.S. How can get forget my feelings? How can I get over it? I need help, please?

    • Notbigonnames September 5, 2016, 12:13 am

      Hmm. Well I’m a guy and I can definitely tell ya that he has a bit of an attraction towards you. Depending on how he acts when you’re not with him you might know how much. Ask a friend to stay near him when you’re not around. If he acts the same way as when you see him it might not be the biggest but still there. If he acts different and you can tell. Then he clearly likes you in some way. Also when he “puts his arms on your shoulders” try not to let it bother you too much. See what he does before you try to stop him. I don’t know if this is any help. Try it if you want. Also don’t worry about how you look. That depends on how he is. He can either like looks or just like someone for who they are. I prefer the second one (I don’t like girls when they look like a princess and try to throw themselves at everyone for attention).

  • AP August 25, 2016, 1:53 pm

    I need your sugestion guys, I love my senior since 1,5 years ago until now. A year ago, he added my line by line id and I found out that his friend ask my friend about him. But at that time I was in relantionship with other guys. So, I thinks thats why he didnt approach me. Until he got his new gf and I continue my relantionship with my bf. And then he break up(I think)and I break up. Btw, we knew each other but we never ever talking in person or chat because we never officially knew each other, at the first I just like him and being his fans (he’s so popular)but later on when I knew that he added my line acc, I think I’m fallin in love with him.

    So the problem is today his graduation day. And for the first time we talked each other(I ask to take photo with him first! ><) and he's so niceeee and after that i give him a bucket of flower but since I'm afraid that can be gossip(our environment is gossiper's kingdom:<)so I ask my friend to give that to him, then the man I love just say "ok" thats all.

    Even he isnt say thankyou for me by chat or my friend…..
    I'm so dissapointed:(
    And the worst is he can update his socialmedia's acc…..
    And he isnt add me(socmed:path)even through he already know my acc:( whateve I already make moves all day long.
    Its awful.
    Wdyt guys, is he really not interest in me?has he ever interest in me?why he not make any moves on me now?

    Ps: I break up with my bf a several weeks ago,so not many people will know it i think.

    Thank you for ur sugestions:)

  • Coworker August 23, 2016, 11:18 pm

    So, I need some advice. I met this guy online about a year ago online. He’s Iranian. He’s wasn’t really my type and I wasn’t super attracted at first, but he was very straight forward with me. Asked me out the day after we met. He had me over for dinner. He was very affectionate and waited on me hand and foot. He asked me to the movies the next day! He is a successful business man who makes good money. He liked that I was very entrepreneurial myself and gave me tons of business advice. I began to love his mind although I wasn’t initially physically attracted to him. We saw eachother for a few weeks. I didn’t sleep with him at first but when I found out he was leaving for two weeks on business I decided to have sex with him. It was.. Good. He paid a lot of attention to what I wanted Ect. When he got home he invited me over. He was expecting sex and I was not interested. He kept making advances. I told him to stop and eventually left his house. He messaged me the next day saying he needed to see me. It was urgent. I was still turned off from the previous night. So I blew him off. Months down the road I messaged him cause I needed the services of one of his businesses. He met me the day of, he apologized for the last time we saw eachother and explained that he ended up going to the emergency room the night I blew him off.(Oops) he asked if I was seeing anyone, I said no, he was happy to hear that. He told me he was moving to Seattle for business in two weeks. I offered to help him pack. He agreed and said he’d pay me. I helped him pack a few days after that. He paid me way more than I deserved (almost $400) I was there the morning he left town. We did the final walk though and took an intimate shower together. He kissed me and left for Seattle. From time to time if get “I miss you messages” he’d tell me I was beautiful.. I found out he was back intown and needed his services again. Went to his work he helped me. He was always professional when he was at work never too flirty. We messaged eachother from time to time. I ran into him down town. He was with a STUNNING woman. Eventually I asked if they were together, he said no they were bios partners. (Few!) he ended up coming over that night. He slept in my bed but we didn’t do anything physical. Months later we were snapchat messaging. He commented on the time we took a shower together saying he wanted that again. I told him hed have to earn it this time. ☺️ The next day he asked me how work was going, I told him it wasn’t going well. He said he wanted to train me to work for him. I questioned the seriousness of the offer but I was interested. I also said I missed him. He said he missed me too and that he wanted to meet. We made plans for the next day to get ice cream. I messaged him the next day saying that I was busy until 7pm. I called, no answer.. He called at 8pm saying he just got off of work, he kept the focus of the convo on the job offer. I asked what his plan for the evening was. He said that his mother was in town until tomorrow and he was going to spend time with her. He ended the phone call by saying “okay! Let me know when you want me to put you on the schedule!”
    I messaged him asking if he intentionally blew me off or if he forgot we had plans to meet. He said he thought we were going to meet earlier, and appologized. I said to call me after his plans with his mother cause I’d love to see him even briefly. I also told him I wanted to start training the following Saturday. He said he would call but never did.
    I started training this week. He came in to train me the first day. It was strictly business. He didn’t flirt with me or even act like he knew me very well.. That night I went out with a group of friends. I met another Persian man. Turns out they know eachother! I hit it off with this new guy. He was very nice, kind of weird though. Very kissy etc.. We went On a date the following night. He bought wine. We talked about family, life, all the first date things. He is very physically attractive. but I couldn’t help but wish it was my boss the whole time.., sigh. The next few days I trained with someone else. Until today when the lady that I normally work with was sick.
    When he first got there he asked about one of this friends friend that I went on a date with the other day. He was like “so you have a new boyfriend I hear!” I was like ” no what are you talking abouT?!” Knowing fully well what he was talking about lol. He started saying really good things about the guy… “Hess not a good friend of mine but Hes very nice, I bet he’ll be good to you.. He’s a little weird” was like “I don’t have a boyfriend, I met him two days ago, Hes nice but I don’t know about that..” He was like “me neither”
    Also, there is this girl who works there who is gorgeous and very knowledgeable. He was kind of flirting with her today. She was loving it. I started to get super jealous… I made sly attempts to touch him and what not but I don’t feel like it was fully reciprocated. So basically, I know he is my boss now, but I still have feelings for him. I don’t know if he still has feelings for me or if this is strictly a business move for him. I feel as if it is inappropriate to talk to him about it sinse he is my boss.. It will probably end badly Considering he’s not necessarily in a a good place for a relationship right now. I definitely don’t like that he’s not giving me the attention I’m used to receiving from him.
    I’m not sure if I should make a move, making myself vulnerable to rejection, or if I should act as if our past never happened. Sigh. If anyone has advice please let me know. But be nice as I am sensitive lol xoxo
    The confused employee

    • Cass August 26, 2016, 6:10 pm

      Hello. You are probably older than me but here I am commenting ✌

      Try to ask him out for a dinner or lunch. You guys are friends, right? Then invite him not as your boss but as your friends.

      First just greet each other and ask if things are going well. Then, slightly talk about your relationship. A relationship is healthy when there is a communication.

      Prepare yourself to his answers and prepare yourself to the things that will happen :)

      P.S. Do you like him?

      • Coworker September 5, 2016, 2:02 am

        That’s a great idea! I do like him. He’s very kind, funny. He hasn’t been giving me a ton of attention because he is very busy (he runs multiple businesses)and when we see eachother at work we hate always so busy we only talk about work/costumers. I just don’t want to complicate things or come off too needy. I’ve decided to just focus on getting through training before I address personal stuff between the two of us. If it’s meant to be, it will happen. And if not, I’m happy for the good times we had. He’s definitely not treating me like he’s interested Rn. I’ve tried hitting him up to hangout but he really is very busy, so I only see him at work. Honestly, he may be protecting his image amogst his employees. If they hear that we used to date, they will probably judge me like I slept my way into the job, when in reality I’m very intelligent business woman. He wouldn’t have hired me if he didn’t know that. Plus, we only had sex once! I’m going to give it time, focus on gaining financially first. If something developed along the way then awesome. But if I start having non-committal sex with him now and anyone we work with finds out well both lose a lot of respect from people we both respect and trust. I’ll keep you updated ;) thank you for the suggestion.
        Btw, idk how old you are but I’m only 22

  • dhebbie August 22, 2016, 8:02 am

    there’s dis guy.