Get Him In The Mood With These 15 Super Sexy Text Messages

Get Him In The Mood With These 15 Super Sexy Text Messages

Okay so first of all, it can be extremely awkward trying to figure out how to “talk dirty” to a man in a way that’s going to actually turning him on without feeling awkward, embarrassed or scared.

That’s where texting comes in.

When it comes to dirty talk and getting each other turned on, one of the safest ways to do it is through text messages.

Why? Well, for one, you don’t have to come up with something to say right in the heat of the moment. You can take your time and think about what you want to say to him.

Which is huge, honestly. So many women feel awkward trying to dirty talk in the moment. If you’ve ever felt nervous about freezing up and not knowing what to say, this is for you.

And let’s face it – guys love it when a woman knows how to dirty talk. It’s a huge bad girl turn on that almost every guy shares.

Because when you’re texting with him, you’ve always got enough time to think about what you want to say. And when you have this list of 15 super sexy texts to send him, you’ll never have your mind go blank trying to think of a text again (or worry he won’t text back).

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“Sexting 101”

Sending dirty text messages, just like dirty talk, is all about what feels natural. The truth is, it doesn’t really matter what you say – as long as you’re turned on (and thinking about having a super-hot makeout with him, plus a whole lot more…)

That’s because he’s not waiting to hear magic words from you, or judging you on what you say – all he wants to know is that you’re turned on and thinking of him.

That’s it. That’s 100% of what’s going to make him feel turned on.

So you don’t have to worry about the exact words you use when you text him. Much more important is your mindset, and how you’re feeling when you’re texting him. If you’re turned on, you can’t go wrong (1).

Starting Things Off

However, if you’re trying to start a sexy text message conversation, you might feel a little bit awkward about it (2).

And that’s ok ! It’s hard to get the ball rolling, especially when you don’t know what kind of mood he’s in. But remember – if you’re feeling turned on, that’s 90% of the battle right there.

Try starting things off mysterious – you don’t want to say “Let’s have intercourse right now”, you want to say something that puts a sexy idea in his head. Like… something that makes him think of you without any clothes on (3).

Drawing a blank on how to do that? Here are 15 sexy texts to get you started.

15 Sexy Text Messages To Send Him

  1. I’m under so many blankets and I’m still cold… I guess I should put on some clothes…
  2. Guess what I’m wearing right now?
  3. I have something I have to admit – I’ve been thinking about you all day long…
  4. I’m bored and I’m lying in bed. Wanna play Simon Says with me?
  5. Tell me what you want to do with me after our date tonight.
  6. Imagine we’re alone in the bedroom together – then tell me what you’re thinking.
  7. I had a very naughty dream last night – you were definitely there…
  8. I’m so bored I’m checking out sex toys online…
  9. I can’t sleep – all I can think about is what we would be doing if you were here with me…
  10. I can’t stop thinking about some very dirty things… can you help me?
  11. If we were together, what would you want me to do to you?
  12. This new underwear feels soooo good against my skin…
  13. I’m typing this with one hand because my other hand is busy…
  14. I can’t stop sucking on lollypops today for some reason…
  15. I have a secret – I’m watching a very dirty video online right now…

sexy text messages

  • 1. I’m under so many blankets and I’m still cold… I guess I should put on some clothes…

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  • 2. Guess what I’m wearing right now?

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  • 3. I have something I have to admit – I’ve been thinking about you all day long…

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  • 4. I’m bored and I’m lying in bed. Wanna play Simon Says with me?

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  • 5. Tell me what you want to do with me after our date tonight.

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  • 6. Imagine we’re alone in the bedroom together – then tell me what you’re thinking.

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  • 7. I had a very naughty dream last night – you were definitely there…

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  • 8. I’m so bored I’m checking out sex toys online…

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  • 9. I can’t sleep – all I can think about is what we would be doing if you were here with me…

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  • 10. I can’t stop thinking about some very dirty things… can you help me?

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  • 11. If we were together, what would you want me to do to you?

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  • 12. This new underwear feels soooo good against my skin…

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  • 13. I’m typing this with one hand because my other hand is busy…

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  • 14. I can’t stop sucking on lollypops today for some reason…

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  • 15. I have a secret – I’m watching a very dirty video online right now…

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113 comments… add one
  • mash November 30, 2017, 3:08 pm

    I know how to turn a guy on
    pretty fast and it usually just
    includes removing my clothes :)

  • mash November 30, 2017, 3:06 pm

    i look for relationship

  • bong November 29, 2017, 1:22 am

    wish I had a girlfriend also

  • Barr s.k Abdulmumin November 25, 2017, 5:14 pm

    Prety am in love with you

  • Rodlin November 18, 2017, 1:42 am

    Lea you just got lucky…

  • Rodlin November 18, 2017, 1:16 am

    Let me console you with warm cosy cuddle and passionate rounds…

  • Phiz November 16, 2017, 4:39 am

    If you are interested in having good rounds of sex….take a shot.

  • Karlo kis November 4, 2017, 10:24 pm

    Wish I could see someone to keep me worm! It a man that has good sense of humor; Age of 46 to 66…

    • Johnny wilson November 21, 2017, 3:00 pm

      Am here for you now

  • Donchimex November 3, 2017, 10:07 am

    I love it so much

  • cheri November 2, 2017, 7:00 am

    I which I have a bf……that will be there for me

    • Josh November 16, 2017, 4:47 pm

      Am here for you

  • Sydney October 31, 2017, 6:38 pm

    I wish I had a bf… I’m so horny

  • Rema Lea October 30, 2017, 6:23 pm

    i want a real man.

    • stanley November 7, 2017, 12:00 pm

      i’ve also looking a woman like you

      • Love November 8, 2017, 7:58 am

        Come over

  • Tahis October 16, 2017, 1:19 am

    Looking for a guy to sext with

  • joy denis September 23, 2017, 5:22 pm

    Looking for a date . Someone to love

  • LisaLu!! August 7, 2017, 6:55 pm

    Women and men. Tell a story from the time he/she walks in the door.. a sensual trip to the shower to wash off the day and an opportunity to arouse your partner. Something simple like washing intimate places softly with wandering hands and finger tips. Hot passionate kisses but then a brief back up and eye glance that tells your partner to come to you, you want them badly. Who cares if you come out of the shower loaded with soap and you hit the floor, sliding, slippery, grinding, and teasing each other. Make it your own

  • James July 21, 2017, 11:04 am

    I love sex text

    • Andy November 17, 2017, 12:03 pm

      Me too.

  • Faith July 17, 2017, 4:21 pm

    No comments yet

  • stacy June 14, 2017, 11:07 pm

    Wish I My Late Husband Is Still Alive…

    • Gordon July 31, 2017, 10:53 pm

      Let me spoil you with some good loving honey..sorry about your loss

    • Quincy October 31, 2017, 6:30 am

      Email me

    • Rodlin November 18, 2017, 1:26 am

      Let me wipe your tears with unforgettable experiences and memories…

  • Bastiaan June 9, 2017, 7:11 pm

    also in Holland?

  • eva May 10, 2017, 3:41 pm

    There are very good messages to make u hot.

  • eva May 10, 2017, 3:39 pm

    Nice love messages

  • Pretty Peniel March 22, 2017, 3:30 pm

    I now really need a gentleman to date after reading this, oh my!!

    • Bastiaan June 9, 2017, 7:15 pm

      already had a dutch boy before
      or
      am I your first single blond gorgeous charming young gentle guy?!

    • stainerTZ September 4, 2017, 2:46 pm

      hey shawdy m really interested in you

  • Pretty Peniel March 22, 2017, 3:29 pm

    I really need a gentleman to date after reading this, oh my!

    • Rod May 12, 2017, 11:18 pm

      How are you can we text

    • Rodlin November 18, 2017, 1:24 am

      Here am I, let’s get on with it

  • William February 28, 2017, 10:07 pm

    Hey sexy girls

  • William February 28, 2017, 10:07 pm

    Hey guys mu name is william but go for will

    • nicole October 3, 2017, 7:43 am

      i like sex talk and i love sex privately

  • William February 28, 2017, 10:06 pm

    Hey

  • G.time February 21, 2017, 1:56 am

    Wow it nice way

  • Sharon February 18, 2017, 10:57 pm

    I love it, and it definitely works! My BF gets so turned on, one night I got him by surprised he had no idea… ( we’re in a long distance relationship for the moment) I started with saying… I thought something silly, why don’t we play Simon says…he had no clue where I was heading to….It got really hot in no time…I wasn’t into sexting and it was awkward and embarrassing in the beginning but afterwards I started getting more comfortable with it, I think it’s a way to help a couple open up to each other, breaking down walls …. I love dirty talk and he gets so aroused!

    • Emma February 25, 2017, 9:09 pm

      Okay so I tried the Simon says thing… yes it took him a few minutes to fetch on and I’ve never have more kinki awesome sex!!!! Truth or dare works as well but guys see that coming a mile away

  • carmen February 6, 2017, 12:35 am

    I would let him start it first. i used some of these and really he replied back nicely but i still think you should wait till he is ready

  • Sara yayo January 8, 2017, 6:41 pm

    Helps my bf in jail

    • Amir December 11, 2017, 2:33 pm

      In which case?

  • Kenzie January 6, 2017, 9:51 pm

    Do you have any condoms because my dick is hard

  • zaza alicia December 6, 2016, 3:45 am

    I love this even though he’s too shy,I wonder if he will reply

  • Avril December 1, 2016, 1:59 pm

    It really works
    My love now texts me all say

  • matthew November 18, 2016, 10:08 am

    i love girls

  • Emily October 21, 2016, 12:14 am

    It works. My boyfriend won’t leave me alone anymore.

  • Janee October 14, 2016, 1:08 pm

    OMG i love this so much used some of the words to a guy I really like and I know for sure I have got him texting me all day , thank you

  • phin October 8, 2016, 11:58 am

    i am a boy and i had sex with a boy it is fun

    • King January 2, 2017, 2:00 am

      That’s gay dude

    • Kris February 24, 2017, 6:39 pm

      I’m proud of you :)

      • Mabel September 2, 2017, 10:02 pm

        Let text on hangout dear

  • sandra October 3, 2016, 1:21 pm

    I can’t stop sucking on lollypops today for some reason…

  • sandra October 3, 2016, 1:20 pm

    i love it my bf was soooo ht

    • Kelsey November 6, 2016, 11:00 pm

      Was?

  • Adams September 13, 2016, 1:36 pm

    On point

  • chest August 18, 2016, 3:45 am

    wow when i send to my bf he didn’t leave 2 days thank u so much

  • lola August 8, 2016, 10:12 am

    These are extremely tame compared to what I send my fiance. But they are a nice starting point.

    • Melinda November 9, 2017, 2:10 am

      I thought so as well. Although, I suppose if you haven’t been sexting with a guy a few of these examples could open the door to even more explicit kinky sexting!

  • paige July 18, 2016, 8:51 pm

    I kept on texting him with these trick , we are together since 4 months and nothing worked better ..

    now we have a great night

    thanks

  • GEGA July 10, 2016, 12:18 pm

    guess what he replied ?

    ”I’ve been very bad girl lately, punishme”
    his reply: no baby, it’s okay.

    ”This new underwear feels so good against my skin”
    his reply: then buy new

    ”I am using one hand to text you”
    his reply: AHAHA are you rubbing down there with other hand? hhaha

    SIGNNNNNNN = =

    • lola August 8, 2016, 10:10 am

      Oh snap, I’m sorry. Hilarious though!

  • tuya May 16, 2016, 8:53 am

    am so scared of my b/f reaction if i talk dirty to him

  • tuya May 16, 2016, 8:53 am

    am so scared of my b/f reaction if i talk dirty to.
    first time i tried it he never replied or said anything, he just keeps quiet which worries me so much. don’t know what do

    • Junaid September 16, 2016, 7:23 pm

      i like ur sincerity

    • Tori September 21, 2016, 7:34 pm

      Oh my gosh, same with me..I almost feel like giving up like ok maybe im just not sexy and he isn’t sexually into me any more. I hear stories where people are not sexually attracted to their partners anymore. We are getting married in October. I dont bother him for sex or anything, besides kissing him, seems im the one always starting it, he seems to be always to tired or interested in tv show..

      • Shy February 13, 2017, 9:12 pm

        That’s my problem right now I want to give up….

  • Robyn Banks April 24, 2016, 3:04 pm

    Really Anna Causey and anyone else that thinks this is a bad idea. This is the one thing I can do with my boyfriend that gets his motor revving. We been doing this so long I swear this is what keeps us together. So is it a bad idea? Personally I think it’s the best thing since cell phones were invented. But it may not be for some, too bad you didn’t state that in your oh so wrong comment. Try it, you just might like it. What could possibly go wrong between 2 consenting adults. Lol

  • thando April 21, 2016, 7:47 am

    he’s not romantic

    • Carlos June 7, 2016, 10:22 pm

      But i am

  • Anna Causey January 23, 2016, 7:54 am

    When it comes to sexting, I think the first thing you should do is avoid it. There have been so many bad stories about this type of thing going wrong.

    • Kim Sesler June 30, 2016, 2:01 pm

      I’m sure there is stuff u do that others don’t. Do they let u know their opinions about it? No? U say they have respect for indifferences? That’s smart!

  • Virgie Cruz October 9, 2015, 2:15 pm

    I hope these work for me. My b/f has been working hard recently and I want to help him relax with a good “session”!

  • Judith Santiago October 9, 2015, 2:03 pm

    LOL, it is always hard for me to get a conversation like this going through text with my b/f and that is mostly because he is afraid that someone is going to find the phone and see them.

  • Florence Garcia October 8, 2015, 2:51 pm

    My advice for someone that thinks it is hard to get a conversation like this going is to start small. Hint towards naughty things and see where it goes. If he bites, then you are home free and if not, then you know to back it off a little.

    • adarkwahjoel March 22, 2016, 11:09 am

      Wonderful

    • Melinda November 9, 2017, 2:12 am

      Exactly!

  • Donna Bulluck October 7, 2015, 11:50 am

    We all act like getting him in the mood is even a hard thing to do. LOL. Have of these would get my b/f going so hard I wouldn’t even be needed the rest of the night!

  • June Smith October 7, 2015, 11:33 am

    On the outside, I am not a “bad girl” so to speak, but when it comes to things like dirty texts and things like that, I am a pro. Any guy I am with becomes a lucky one if he is around long enough to show that side of me.

  • Shonna Brown October 6, 2015, 12:04 pm

    Pfft. Turning a guy on is EASY. Text, sexting, or whatever, it does not take much to get the job done and usually the results are fun and pleasing :)

    • Katie Snow January 23, 2016, 8:09 am

      LOL, no kidding. They get all hot and bothered over the smallest attention.

      • Sven July 4, 2016, 9:30 am

        Could you sound more degrading, Katie ? Besides, not all of us get hot and bothered about the smallest attention.

    • Tori September 21, 2016, 7:38 pm

      Well with mine it isn’t lol, used to be now I go to sleep feeling unwanted. Now that I think of it he hasn’t ever put much effort into it just kinda did it

  • Anna Zimmer October 2, 2015, 10:45 am

    I am not sure how to turn on my new b/f. We have been together for a few months now and I am just not sure what will do the trick. I have tried a few things, but some of the ones you have here, I have not tried. I should see if any of these will work.

  • Antoinette Parker October 1, 2015, 9:37 pm

    Great tips. Some of us are not as skilled as we wish we would be.

    • Jenelle Gonzalez October 6, 2015, 1:34 pm

      Practice makes perfect :)

    • Melinda November 9, 2017, 2:20 am

      There is this chic on YouTube that has good advice on sexting. One of her suggestions was like.. guess what I’m going to do to u tonight or guess what I’m wearing right now. Pretty good suggestions, check it out!

  • Hazel Moore October 1, 2015, 9:08 pm

    Does anyone else always double check to make sure you are sending these types of messages to the right person?

  • Jack McGee September 29, 2015, 9:11 pm

    I will send a dirty text message every once in a while. Most of the time I catch her off guard, but otherwise she is into it!

  • Susan Lincoln September 28, 2015, 9:12 pm

    I love these! My b/f would be crawling in his pj’s if I sent him ANY of these!

    • Robert Neel October 2, 2015, 10:35 am

      I know I would be. My g/f does not really send me too many of these types of things over the texting, but she does talk dirty in the bedroom and that really turns me on.

  • Bernice Despain September 27, 2015, 11:04 am

    I like to keep it simple, but the more I read through these posts, sometimes complex is a good thing!

    • Jenny Olsen September 29, 2015, 9:21 pm

      Oh yeah baby! I love to have some complex ways of turning my husband on. That makes him appreciate what he gets a lot more!

  • Johnie Combs September 26, 2015, 9:24 am

    I think any or all of these would do the trick for me :) Now I just have to get my g/f to play her end of the deal.

  • Margaret Adams September 26, 2015, 9:15 am

    I know how to turn my guy on for sure. the problem that I have is that he does not know how to turn ME on. How do I fix that?

    • Nicole Navarro October 1, 2015, 9:18 pm

      you might have to actually talk to him and make him aware. some men are not aware of how or what to do to get a woman off. telling him might get his creative juices flowing.

  • Allene Peters September 25, 2015, 8:53 am

    I know how to turn a guy on pretty fast and it usually just includes removing my clothes :)

    • Deborah Garcia September 28, 2015, 9:22 pm

      That should do the trick for you and if it does not, you might want to check his eyesight!

  • Helen Meadow September 25, 2015, 8:39 am

    Being the “bad” girl and initiating things in the bedroom is what I am all about. These are perfect for a person like me :)

  • Jennifer Smith September 24, 2015, 8:46 am

    Oh I like these. I have been getting real hot and heavy with my new man and I think this would turn things up a notch or 11.

  • Mary Kollman September 24, 2015, 8:37 am

    I have done this. The bad thing is that we didn’t live close to one another and it got him so worked up that he just went down the hall to some slutty girl in the dorm to take care of business. They worked, but not in my advantage :(

  • Ruth Jolly September 22, 2015, 1:49 pm

    I love to turn on my b/f. He gets all antsy to get his clothes off and jump into the sack, but I put a stop to that just making him want me more :)

  • Fern Doyle September 22, 2015, 12:25 pm

    I would have to agree that men like dirty talk. My b/f and I exchange words once in a while in the sack and those are usually the most exciting times!

    • Adelia Schmidt September 27, 2015, 11:14 am

      I was thinking the same thing. Those are the more intense times that we have in bed. I love dirty talk!

  • Mariah September 18, 2015, 11:14 pm

    These are so lame.

    • Chris September 24, 2016, 5:46 am

      Then what would you use Mariah? Shoot me a text and enlighten me hehe

  • Tammy Brown September 18, 2015, 2:23 pm

    This is usually how I get my husband home early when he is out with his friends LOL.

    • Carol Wallis October 1, 2015, 9:28 pm

      LOL, that is a great idea!

    • Marlen Gasaway October 8, 2015, 3:03 pm

      LOL, great idea is right. I am going to try this soon, now that it is football season again :)

  • Shannon Rugg September 18, 2015, 1:58 pm

    THIS is an awesome post! There are some very helpful hints in here! Thank you!

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