Can You Get Your Ex Back Or Is He Gone Forever?

Can You Get Your Ex Back Or Is He Gone Forever?

The problem with trying to get your ex back is this: every situation is different.

After all, the woman trying to get her boyfriend of 6 months to come back to her is in a lot different situation than the woman who’s trying to get her husband of 6 years to come back to her.

That’s why if you want to find out how to truly get your ex back, you need specific advice tailored to your specific situation.

And that’s where this quiz comes in.

This quiz will obtain all the necessary information in order to give you the best possible advice on whether or not you’ll be able to get your ex back (plus exactly how to get him back).

No more generic advice. No more vague instructions that are meant to work for both a woman just out of an 8 week relationship and a woman just out of a marriage of 20 years.

The fact is, you need specific advice specific to you and your situation, so that you can have the best possible chance of getting your ex back… and keeping him afterwards.

The truth is, it’s really not all that hard to get your ex back. There are a number of different tactics you can use to get him to come back to you after a breakup.

Much harder is getting your ex to come back to you… and keeping him – having him want to stay by your side forever.

The truth is, if you get your ex back without fixing the underlying causes that destroyed your relationship in the first place, history is bound to repeat itself.

But when you have specific advice tailored to your specific situation and relationship, you can fix those issues that destroyed your relationship before you even get back together with him…

So that when you two do get back together, he wants to stay with you for good.

Take this quiz right now and find out whether you and your ex have a chance of getting back together, and staying together forever…

55 comments… add one
  • Yolanda Victor December 9, 2017, 7:09 am

    One I want to stalk them up for getting into our business to our him to move out of his mother house with me only 3 I want him to get me pregnant for I want him only focus on me V I want girls to stop calling him it only focus on me

  • Samuella December 3, 2017, 1:54 am

    My ex made me do things am not suposed to do because i could not stand is new behaviour and act towards me anymore and we lost trust for each other dor i still love him but i was the one who decide the breakup cos i had enough of it already nw he is far from me we don’t usually see on the road is there a chance of getting him back and making him beg me to come back

  • vumeka November 24, 2017, 1:20 pm

    I’m too sensitive

  • Cherrie November 12, 2017, 9:53 am

    Is there a chance for me and my boyfriend getting back together

  • hamza rijji November 11, 2017, 2:20 pm

    how can i get my lover married to another person

  • Gisele November 11, 2017, 4:14 am

    We dated for some months then had a break,became back begging and crying,after a thought I gave in to a second chance.Everything was OK but we usually have quarrels and settle later but with the last one he said we should have some time apart so he can think.I miss him so much,we communicate at times,I told him am moving on but its not easy. I think about him everyday.I really miss him.I told him I miss him and he said he was very sorry for hurting me but I don’t know what next to do.I keep concluding that he has another girl he loves though he has not told me .I just need advice on how we can get back and be happy again.I really miss him

  • hope October 30, 2017, 11:49 pm

    and so my ex just ended it all he claims is coz we are far from each other dats y he ended it he was tired of waiting I still love him and he is dating already is there any chance of me getting him back

    • Julie November 10, 2017, 6:54 pm

      Here is the same..

  • Stephanie October 30, 2017, 6:10 am

    I have a person that will do all things for you he is good in all this if you want to get your ex or you want your husband to love you more than anything.I will link you to somebody that will do it for you in less than no time

    • Katy November 14, 2017, 1:47 pm

      Help me get my boyfriend back please

  • gwen October 28, 2017, 7:56 am

    wen we are together, for instance sitin out he doesnt fel comfortable.

  • Dolly October 27, 2017, 1:06 pm

    My ex boyfriend & I have dated for 1 yr 8 months.we study on same campus & we moved in together after an year of dating.on the month of August we were on holiday.one evening we were chatting as usual then he happened to talk to me in a rude way.i then corrected him but he insisted tht he wasn’t rude & tht he won’t apologise.i got so angry and decided to keep quite.the following morning ,with no bad intention i called him and asked him why he wouldn’t admit his mistake.this resulted in2 the worst urguement ever.he said that i only complain abt his mistakes &only focus on his bad side, that i don’t appreciate him.we stayed without talking until the holiday was over.we reported back to sch on sep and told me he want us to break up & move on as grown ups.i insisted that he should give me a chance to correct my mistakes.he then said i didn’t do him any wrong.he gave a reason tht the r/ship wasn’t working.deep down me i knew things weren’t right & so i started working on myself.i bought him an expensive gift to show that i appreciate him.he accepted the gift bt told me that he wanted to live his life the way he want & party alone with his male friends.i let him do that &supported him by paying for the night-outs since he wasn’t well financially.i did that because I wanted him happy.that has been going on for a month.but he hasn’t changed his mind about the break up.he said that we should live separately and actually he has started looking for his own house.yesterday he went ahead & deleted my photos from his instagram.i got angry & asked him about it.he became rude & bitter saying that we r nt dating anymore &told me to move on.when i ask him for a second chance to become a better girlfriend he insists that I’ve not done him any wrong.he says he don’t want to date,he don’t want any girl in his life,he don’t want anything to do with love.he says there are many things he want with his life &that he wants to be on his own.i feel so much pain.i’ve given up on him.actually I’ve hurt so much while fighting for him &convincing him to stay.im so broken and I’ve told him that he will never hear again from me.why is he doing this?whats happening? Will he ever come back or want to be in a relationship with me again?help me please.thanks

  • prudece October 23, 2017, 6:23 am

    I ALSO HAD A BOYFIE THAT WE WERE NO LONGER SEEING EACH OTHER FOR 13 YEAR, BUT SUDDENLY I GOT HIS NUMBER TEX HIM BACK,HE RESONDED AFTER A WEEK TELLING ME THAT HE WAS BUSY, WE SPOKE AND HE PROMISED ME TO VISIT ONE DAY, HE TOLD ME THAT HE HAS A FAMILY, AND ASK ME DO I HAVE, BUT I TOLD HIM I DO HAVE BUT WE HAVE SOME HICCUPS. I CALL HIM AGAIN AND HE SAID HE WILL CALL ME BACK, HE DIDINT, AFTER A WEEK I CALLED HIM BACK THE PHONE WAS OFF. I NEED HIM IN MY LIFE AS MY BOYFRIEND

  • linda October 4, 2017, 2:52 am

    my boyfriend angry with me he told me not trust me anymore. how I get him back

  • Lonely September 11, 2017, 2:42 pm

    Hi I’m lonely!! I moved outta state 2 yrs ago and just a couple of days ago my ex tells me out the blue he has a women but I’m still his friend.. I called him this a.m and he tells me he’s been with his nephew’s Auntie for 5 months and he cares for her…. Shud I move on or kp trying

  • Shay August 23, 2017, 8:00 am

    I also feel like he’s not giving our children and myself time because he’s busy giving his time to someone else. I ask myself all of the time did I lose him or will he fix these issues and come back to his family?

  • Shay August 23, 2017, 7:55 am

    I’ve been with my children’s father for 7 years. I broke up with him 4 months ago because he is not doing what he need to do for his children and for me. I’ve spoke to him about these issues tons of times and he still did not try to fix anything. He claims he loves us but he is not showing us. We don’t go out ,he don’t come visit the kids or even ask to take them. When he has free time he don’t bother to let me know so he can spend time with us. I feel like for your family theres always time, your kids come first and he doesnt understand that. At this point I felt worthless, weak and I’m beyond hurt because at least give your children your time. I’m doing everything that I can for my children and I try to stay strong because of them. I love him and want him to realize he have something good and it seems like he doesn’t care. Even though I broke up with him,I still want him, he’s the only guy I want in my life and I know he can be better because he wasn’t this person that he is now. idk who he is, but he’s not the guy that I fell in love with. I try so hard to move on though. I’ve even ignored his texts, have not came around, even acted like idc just so he knows how it would feel to lose his family and it didn’t work at all. I feel it’s hard to move on because I have children with him,but I just need to find a way to move on. Any suggestions?

  • Pearl August 10, 2017, 10:45 am

    Hello I’m a 21 year old and been in a relationship with a 27 year old guy for 4 years. He broke up with me about 4 months back… well he didn’t really dump me , he just told me he was having problems that i wasn’t gonna be able to stand for and he then stopped contacting me.I somehow still think he was seeing someone else.!! I begged him to talk ,left hin so many messages but he never replied to any of them. I’d call him and he wouldn’t pick up My calls.. He really hurt me, that after so many times I’ve asked him to tell me where the problem was he just didn’t wann hear anything from me. He is now starting to contact me. Asking to see me and that he nevr stopped loving me, that he was just having so much problems and he can’t live without me. He’s asking me to give us a chance. I love him so much but again I don’t wann worry every day thinking he’d have problems again and decides to leave me. I just don’t trust him anymore. What should I do ..?plz help!

    • Honey September 16, 2017, 9:43 pm

      I HAVE READ ENOUGH OF THESE POSTS. PAY ATTENTION! I STILL EXPERIENCE SAID HEARTACHES. Going on 40 years now. But I know that you will find yourselves in a place of much happiness, contentment, and a good night’s sleep. Best advice Ever:

      Y’all talked yourselves into it…
      TALK YOURSELVES OUT OF IT!!!

  • fitri July 8, 2017, 8:09 pm

    I am the one who iniated the break up. It was my fault because I did not trust him that much. I’m so needy. He’s been busy with his job recently wich we did not meet often. What should I do to get him back again?

  • Ayusha July 5, 2017, 6:43 pm

    We were dating with my boyfriend nd just ignored me for a month with no reason.then he texted me and we reconciled,lyk one or two months again he started ignoring me again on whatsapp no phone calls no anything.i asked him if he’s still interested in d relationship,he said why should i ask him that question from then he ignored me for almost a month now.what am i going to do because i still love him but i unfriend on any social many expect whatsapp.i need an advice.

    • Futhi July 6, 2017, 12:50 am

      move on…he is sick

  • phumla June 23, 2017, 4:47 pm

    Hey I’m a girl who is 29 years in love with a man who is 43 years he didn’t broke up with me He just told me that he need a break and we are working together at the same company he is my General manager and I love him I want him back what can I do to get him back to me?????

  • marie June 22, 2017, 3:48 am

    My ex boyfriend keeps hanging around our hood,he has friends there. I have a baby boy with him and hes 6months. When he sees me he looks down and doesn’t talk yo us. I’ve practised no contact with him for two months and since I work I only meet with him accidentally once in a while. I still Love him. But I dont show emotions when I see him. What could be going on his mind? Is he over me? Still not talking. We datrd for a year.

  • Violet June 17, 2017, 3:26 pm

    Hlw i am 24 year and i have one child but now i am pragnant.my ex say to me that pragnant wll not change what we had i need advice what to do

    • Cat September 5, 2017, 5:57 pm

      It’s always gonna matter. But we choose our battles. If you can handle it, fine. But you need to go back to school.

  • luniko May 2, 2017, 9:14 am

    Hey guys please help!

    I am a 23 year old and a mother to 5 years old, two boys they are twins their father broke up with me it’s been almost six years together.
    We had a fight and I insulted him I know I was wrong but just that I couldn’t control myself.
    I did apologise but he keeps saying he loves me but he’s not sure about me.
    Later this week I was talking to him trying to sort things out he said it out that I should move on any men would love to have me.
    I am so hurt and confused I don’t know what to do I love Him . It’s been 5 months now ever since he broke up with me and I never saw him again but we chat on watsaap.

  • jasmine watson April 25, 2017, 4:13 pm

    i had a ex bf and he said he loves a girl so he broke up with me and got with her so he dates her and she said he still loves me what sould i do?

    • Jane Doe July 22, 2017, 9:19 pm

      for your own sake, do not talk to both of them. move on and build your life. he will do the same thing to her after a while. MEN NEVER CHANGE !
      and if u ever go back to him. he will never respect you again, because u didn’t respect yourself and walked away from him when he did u wrong.

  • Shine April 8, 2017, 2:29 pm

    I started talking to a guy online and there was a spark if interest and the some chemistry and connection. We shared how both him and I liked each other very much and planned to meet after 4 months of talking everyday and night. Basically, he courted me after two montgs of talking on the phone and because I liked him I accepted him as my boyfriend. The day came when we finally got to see each other after 4 months of being in a call and texts relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend. We made love was happy but we had so much indifferences about little things. We spent 3 days together. After 3 days I went back home and so did he. But I noticed changes in him already. Few days after more changes I see. He dI’d not call or text me anymore nor call me pet names. Then, I sweetly asked what’s wrong and he replied ” Look…we are not going to get along, so let’s just leave it at that and part ways. Take care and God bless.” My heart was broken even now. I cried and still crying…and my responds ” you’re right, I agree. Goodbye.” I still want him. I don’t know what to do and even how to move on..please help.

    • Livy April 8, 2017, 9:12 pm

      Oh my goodness. You’re literally in the same position I’m in!!! I, too, met this guy online and he was so incredibly sweet the first few times we talked. We had crazy chemistry and almost each time we talked it was so loving and affectionate. He also wrote love songs about me. For literally three months I’ve been planning to visit him. And it never worked out right away. Well, recently he wanted me to see him because he was going to be leaving the country soon for work, and I couldn’t see him due to my overprotective family trying to prohibit me from seeing him because he’s someone I met online. Well, shortly after our phone call…he texted me saying, “Better to have your support from a distance. Lots of love.” I completely broke down. I wish I could just go back in time and change e everything. He blocked my number after I sent him so many loving texts and emails. I just have a feeling he might miss me but I doubt he will ever want me back…but I still believe there could be hope for us. I’m praying everything works out if it’s truly meant to be.

  • rispamarion April 4, 2017, 7:39 am

    he doesn’t like it when i post his pictures

    • Cat September 5, 2017, 6:01 pm

      Swthrt, you’re dating someone’s boyfriend.

  • Alexis h. March 30, 2017, 9:03 pm

    So my ex is being a jerk to my bf and he wont get off my gmail so what should i do or say and he called my bf a rebound, well he isn’t. so help please

  • Alexis h. March 30, 2017, 9:02 pm

    So my ex is being a jerk to my bf and he wont get off my gmail so what shoul i do or say and he called my ex a rebound, well he isn’t. so help please

  • mbali March 27, 2017, 7:11 am

    I been strting this guy for one year n than he went through my phone and sow that i was chatting to this other guy bt nothng was goin on betwn me and the other guy…i begged him so many times after our break up he goes back to his ex galfriend and they dating again…we stil chat on whatsapp and facebook but everytime this galfriend comes over his place he would tell me n than block me…he says he stil loves me bt love the other gal more…i love him so much but dnt know what to do…plz adive me plz

  • kenny March 1, 2017, 4:23 pm

    we were in love all of sudden he is quiet and does not take my calls nor reply my texts

  • Daron February 15, 2017, 6:29 am

    My ex girl friend left me twice an this time we gotch enguage but she said my fault we broke up because me talking her harsh but she cheeky do you think we gevback together

  • Waqar Haider February 11, 2017, 4:05 pm

    Sir I need help I can’t understand anything what is happening to me sometime I thought about to die sometimes I think to die front of her so she understand I was not wrong I need help please help me

  • caren January 20, 2017, 12:14 am

    I had a guy whom we dated for 8 months then all over a sudden he started saying that I was cheating on him.he broke up with me saying that he never wanted anything to do with me.I pleaded with him to hear me out but he refused…I begged him to no avail,so I decided that I will never contact him….after 2 months of no contact we meet on a certain place….at first he didn’t talk to me then after like 20 min he came to where I was n started to talk to me….we talked for like 30 mins then he was supposed to attend to something. So he asked me for my contact and told me that we will communicate bt its now the third day and he haven’t contacted me…..so should I contact him or not??? Pliz advice

    • stephanie October 30, 2017, 6:23 am

      Be fast about it there is no more time message me so I can link you with a person that will help me I have done it before it work for me that why I am telling you guys to join me

  • Angela Oakley December 12, 2016, 10:47 am

    Hi my name is Angela and my bipoler boy friend told me how much is luvs me and he can’t do with me and be for u no it we go in to a big arguement and the next morning u life with tell me good bye.he left me for his ex wife and his 21 year old son.so he left me and gone back to nj and sence that i nerver herd from him any more so what should i do now.I can’t get hold of him he change his phone number on me i don’t have his email address I Dont have anyway of contacting him.he tatoo my name on his nick.can some body please help me.

    • stephanie October 30, 2017, 6:17 am

      Baby girl don’t worry just message me I will link you with a person that will bring your ex your husband close to you more than any body in this wide world

  • Dyamond November 9, 2016, 5:17 pm

    Your ex might not love you,but he probably has’nt found a bestfriend like you yet

  • Barbara November 4, 2016, 8:36 pm

    When your ex boyfriend tells you “i think about you alot ” but has moved on after 11 years i will never love her the way i loved you . And he wishes he didn’t have a girlfriend sometimes just when i try to move on . He tells me he lives me .i am so confused back up plan or ego trip ?

  • Barbara November 4, 2016, 8:33 pm

    When your ex boyfriend tells you “i think about you alot ” but has moved on after 11 years i will never love her the way i loved you . And he wishes he didn’t have a girlfriend sometimes just when i try to move on . He tells me he lives me si confused

  • Sylvernia Harps October 30, 2016, 12:36 pm

    When your exboyfriend continues to reiterate the fact that he loves the new woman but continues to want to see or talk to me.What is the true meaning of that and what must i do

  • Saty October 23, 2016, 11:05 pm

    When i tell to my boy friend in message if u want to break up with me than break up and reply me yes or no but he did not give me reply and we stop to talk .

  • Janice September 26, 2016, 6:49 am

    He left me and went back to his ex he told me he would never date anyone with kids again but he’s like a father figure to my kids.i asked him if he missed me and he said sometimes.he starts to think if things would work out if we get back together but then he remembers the bad times which he says are more than good.i don’t think it was that way but who knows he only calls once or twice a day and always asks me if I’m with someone and what I’m doing.is he really over me already..

  • Brittany September 10, 2016, 12:20 am

    I know my ex loves me. He broke up with me and said he does t want to date me because I have kids. He tells his friends and family it will never be again and if he dates anyone again it will not be anyone who had kids but tells me when he does date again that it would be me. He jokes with me sometimes and flirts but says I should move on. He then seems hesitate when someone asked me out. Does he love and refuses to embrace it because family or has he realized he doesn’t love me at all

  • Cynthia August 11, 2016, 2:58 am

    How. Can. I tell. My. Ex. Has. Feelings for me still

    • Stephanie October 30, 2017, 6:11 am

      I have a person that will do all things for you he is good in all this if you want to get your ex or you want your husband to love you more than anything.I will link you to somebody that will do it for you in less than no time

  • Luthando June 30, 2016, 6:04 am

    I’ve an understanding now thanx a lot

  • William May 1, 2016, 11:47 am

    Blowouts

  • Nula April 15, 2016, 1:30 pm

    Why did he do this

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