Here’s how I made the man of my dreams obsess over me and beg to commit to me forever…
After years of suffering, I finally figured out what makes a man eagerly devote himself and loyally commit to me using this unusual trick.
In case you don’t know, I’m Rebecca and I’m a middle-aged woman living in the United States.
I used to be terrible with men. terrible. I just didn’t understand them. Picture the clueless, frustrated woman who always thinks she has a great connection with the guy she wants – only to be forced to watch him lose interest, pull away or disappear from her life forever. That was me.
I had one boyfriend who broke up with me because I was overly clingy. I was always afraid he would leave me and guess what… he did.
It seemed to me that men only wanted pretty, skinny girls or the super flirtatious type of woman. Neither of those describes me so I just assumed I would spend my life alone or settle for than less than I deserve.
I remember watching women who really didn’t seem like anything special get high quality, successful, funny handsome men who were very obviously head-over-heels in love with them. Some of these women weren’t even good people…
Those women would be treated like royalty and meanwhile I would just suffer through the same pattern: Things would start out well with a guy, then soon enough he’d pull away, lose interest and leave… I couldn’t understand it.
I figured that all I would ever be to men was a “good short-term girlfriend”. I pretty much gave up on dating entirely…
…Until a random morning of searching the internet changed everything for me.
It was Sunday morning and I was terrified…
Once again, I had begun dating a man who I was really excited about – this finally seemed like the relationship I had been waiting for.
But after we had been together for a while, I started seeing those familiar signs again that he was starting to pull away… and I was terrified I was going to lose him.
So I began to search out the best advice on what to do…
I would need to find a real expert.
Not someone who talked the talk but couldn’t walk the walk. I had to find someone who had it all. Someone who had a unique perspective on what men really wanted.
And then I found him.
I found a man named Nick Bastion claiming he knew “what every man needed,” and he had some unique advice on exactly what to do if the man you want is pulling away…
The Biggest Mistake Women Make That Makes A Man Pull Away
Nick has been a professional relationship counselor for over 10 years, and he’s studied love like a doctor studies medicine…
And that day he shared with me the most important thing he discovered:
“If a man feels like you’re trying to get him into a relationship, 90% of the time his male defenses get activated.”
“He won’t consciously realize it, but his instincts will tell him that you are not “the one”, and he will feel an overwhelming urge to push for his “freedom”, “independence” and avoid connecting with you on an emotional level at all costs.”
This must be why my man was pulling away. The more I tried the further it seemed I was from what I wanted. Nick had a further insight that changed my life…
He said: “A man will unconsciously start to feel like he’s under attack when you ‘try to get him into a relationship.’ It forces him to instinctually put his guard up, emotionally withdraw, and go cold… and it kills any chance for love to take hold in the relationship.”
“This is why when you want love the most, you unknowingly sabotage your chances with the man you really want. Before you know it, you find yourself desperately chasing his love…or worrying that he’s not fully invested in the relationship.”
It was as if a light bulb had gone off in my brain.
What I learned next was life changing.
Nick said: “On the other hand, if a man sees you as ‘the one’, then everything works in your favor and he ends up chasing you. Instead of seeing you as a woman who is trying to ‘lock him down’ and trap him, he sees you as his other half… the part of him that he’s been missing his whole life.”
He continued… “When he sees you as ‘the one’, his ‘soul mate’, instead of worrying about having his ‘freedom’, he’ll feel like his life would be empty and meaningless without you.”
“Instead of him wondering if he’s settling or if he could do better, he’ll know with total certainty that his search is finally over. That he’s finally complete.”
I finally knew what I had been doing wrong. I had been chasing after love… and unknowingly driving every man I wanted away. Instead, I had to make my man see me as ‘the one’ and he would chase after me because he saw me as his soulmate.
I wanted more… How could I guarantee my man would see me as “the one”, his soulmate?
You can guess that I was super excited to see what else Nick had to say. And when I saw he was having a seminar in Los Angeles the following week I knew I needed to go to learn what to do next. I didn’t want to mess this up.
I was skeptical, of course. It’s really easy to say you know how to do all these things, but actually knowing them? And more than that, knowing how to teach them? That’s much more rare.
He offered a seminar where he would teach his secret to make any man see you as “the one” to a select group of women. I decided to go.
On the one hand, he offered a complete refund to anyone not satisfied with his seminar, so there was no risk to me. And if he was a joke, at least I could get a laugh out of it. But…if he really knew his stuff, if he wasn’t all talk, this seminar would be worth many many times the price that he charged.
I walked into the seminar and took a seat at one of the tables.
The information I learned that weekend was like drinking from a fire hose of knowledge. It left me dizzy with all the wonderful possibilities.
Nick had all kinds of useful relationship techniques to share. He also shared deep psychological theories on…
- How to make a man put you first in his life
- Why men fall in love
- How to make him chase you
- #1 thing men really want
- How to make a man beg to be with you forever
- How to bypass his emotional defenses and touch his heart
- Why he isn’t committing to you and exactly how to make him say “yes” now
- What he needs from you to eagerly commit forever
- How to make him desire you even if you think he’s slipping away
- How to reach even the most distant man
- What makes a man see you as the one
It was an amazing event that really opened my eyes to the possibilities.
Since I’ve attended the seminar here are just a few of the incredible results I’ve experienced that I consider a miracle:
1. I’m now happy in a relationship filled with passion and romance
2. He actually just brought me flowers yesterday for no reason
3. I feel I am finally being heard and my needs are getting met
4. For the first time in my life I feel loved and cherished
It’s as if my love life changed completely. Now you might be wondering why I’m sitting here writing this article. The reason is that something awesome has happened and I think you should know about it…
Nick is a great guy who honestly cares about helping people. He travels all over the world teaching these secrets to women of all ages and backgrounds. He really has helped thousands of women have the relationship and love they deserve.
Nick has created a very unusual video that I think every woman should see. It’s based on the seminar that I attended and it has a lot of the same information I learned. If you are a woman who doesn’t have the perfect relationship you owe it to yourself to watch.
(Be sure your speakers are on and click the play button to watch)
This information has transformed the way I understand men and my relationship forever. In fact, I honestly believe it will change your life. It definitely has changed my life. I finally have the happy, passion-filled fun relationship that gives me butterflies and I have this information to thank for it.
Thanks for reading. I hope you like the video and take action today to change your life.
All the best!
P.S. If you want to finally have the man in your life pursue you, chase after you, and devote himself to you then you owe it to yourself to watch this unusual video that Nick created. I think it’s the best resource out there. I am living proof this works.