Conversation Starters for Couples To Get Closer

Conversation Starters for Couples To Get Closer

Communication is easily the most important part of any relationship. Without it no relationship can be truly cohesive. By cohesive I simply mean… healthy, connected and successful.

Communication Is Key

Conversation obviously plays a key role in getting to know someone better; so this article is going to give you questions that will initiate some great, heart to heart talks with your significant other.

These questions will help take your relationship to the next level.

I know that I’m always more than interested to find out something new about the girl I’m dating when I’m in a relationship. You can always find out something new about someone no matter how long and well you have known them.

My goal is that some of these questions will be able to help you find out something you might never have known otherwise, and as a result, to get each other talking and sharing information that would otherwise not be shared.

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If you’re a couple, you’re most likely more comfortable with each other than you are with most people, so taking that into consideration, I’ve concocted a list of questions that will break the mold and definitely ignite some interesting communication. Check these out and you’re in for some invigorating dialogue.

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Conversation Starters for Couples:

Have you ever wished you were someone else, somewhere else?

What would be the best possible thing that could happen in your life?

Have you ever internally struggled with anything that you haven’t told me or anyone about?

What’s the biggest lie that you have ever told?

What’s one thing that you wish you never did?

What the craziest sexual experience you have ever had?

Are you secretly embarrassed about anything you or I do?

Have you ever had any serious fights with your family?

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What’s the most traumatic incident you have ever been through?

Best sex you have ever had?

Do you truly hate anyone?

If you could do anything what would you do?

Have you ever had your heart broken?

What’s the worst relationship experience you have ever had?

Do you believe people should get a second chance?

What’s the last thing in the world you would choose to do?

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What’s your phobia?

Have you ever been depressed? Why?

What’s the best time you’ve ever had?

What do you consider was the most positive period in your life?

Have you ever caught either of your parents in a sticky situation?

Have you ever had to lie for a friend or family member?

What do you think your purpose in life is?

What’s the biggest waste of time you’ve ever had?

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Have you ever been guilty of pride?

If you had to kill someone to save 5 lives would you do it?

Is there anything I do that drives you absolutely insane?

What’s your favorite thing about me?

Do you have and favorite physical features?

If you could have the answer to any question in the world what would that be?

What’s one thing you would never change about me?

What’s one thing you would change about me?

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If you became famous would you stay with me?

There you go…

I hope these questions strike up some interesting conversation and get to the heart of who the person you are with is.

Be A Good Listener

Always be a good listener when your partner is sharing; this allows them to open up more.

All you have to do is truly listen; don’t let your mind wander off just hear them, give feedback and be genuinely curious.

Ask For Clarification

If you get confused by something they said, repeat what they said back to them and clarify. Asking for clarification shows that you are paying attention and care enough to actually clarify and make sure you fully understood!

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I know that relationships can get stale sometimes, which makes this a perfect opportunity to spice things up, liven the conversation and get to know surprising things about the person you are with.

There are so many layers most people have; the saying about people being like an onion, and having to peel the layers to get to the core of the person is on point.

There is so much to discover, people change and we shift our points of view as we grow.

So, don’t be shy, and try some of these questions and you’ll more than likely get some great dialogue going and make some new discoveries about them!

If you don’t connect with your partner… he could start pulling away. When a relationship gets stale and the conversation dies down, couples fall into a rut where you stop connecting and things become boring.

Don’t let this happen to you… communicate instead! Use these questions as a starting point!

I want to ask you a question because there are 2 big turning points every woman experiences in her relationships with men and they determine if you end up in a happy relationship or if it all ends in heartbreak.

So pay attention because the next step to take is vitally important. At some point he’s going to ask himself if you are the woman he wants to commit himself to for the long term…

Do you know how men determine if a woman is girlfriend material (the type of woman he commits himself to) or if he sees you as just a fling? If not, you need to read this next: The #1 Thing Men Desire In A Woman…

And the second big problem many women face: Do you feel he might be losing interest, going cold emotionally or pulling away? If so, then you need to read this right now or risk losing him forever: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This…

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30 comments… add one
  • roselle May 22, 2018, 5:16 pm

    i always talk to my husband if someone is bothering me about our marriage. that is why we are so close to each other. there is never a thing that we do not know about each other.

  • dian May 21, 2018, 6:14 pm

    i believe that a good conversation starter can transform an awkward conversation into something enjoyable. this is the best collection of conversation starter that i have read so far.

  • didi May 18, 2018, 3:56 pm

    i just could not wait to start a fun and meaningful conversation with man with these wonderful questions. even if we are married for 5 years now, i know i will still discover something new about him.

  • flora May 17, 2018, 5:00 pm

    What’s the biggest lie that you have ever told? – this question will be at the top of my list and i hope he will answer it honestly.

  • mary jane May 16, 2018, 6:37 pm

    i always wonder what to ask my guy aside from “how was your day?” glad i came across this post. i learned a lot. my guy will not give me a one-word answer for sure if i ask him these questions.

  • meredith May 15, 2018, 9:18 pm

    my husband always has something to talk about and i love it because it keeps our relationship sparkling but i might try asking him these questions too.

  • klarisse May 14, 2018, 7:45 pm

    communication is the key to really knowing and fully loving a person and this article has helped me get the conversation with my partner flowing! can’t wait to share it with my friends too.

  • hailee May 10, 2018, 7:19 pm

    these conversation starters are perfect for date nights. the idea of asking your man these questions will let you start getting to know each other again coz he might ask you the same questions too.

  • judith May 9, 2018, 5:10 pm

    my mom told me that not all relationships are the same but all should have good communication. i will follow her advice and will take these conversations starters too so i could have a meaningful conversation with my man.

  • kiera May 9, 2018, 9:38 am

    i love ideas like this. for couples to get closer, there are sure many ways to do so, but having a great conversation beats them all.

  • chelle May 7, 2018, 5:05 pm

    sharing something personal with your partner will actually inspire him to do the same. just don’t be judgmental and ask for any clarifications if you are confused with his answer.

  • tracy May 3, 2018, 3:36 pm

    these are really good ones. if you want to become closer to your partner and start to increase your intimacy while having fun, then start asking him these questions.

  • amara May 2, 2018, 8:20 pm

    most of the time in a relationship, couples need to re-assess things and having great conversation starters can help in many ways. this can happen randomly but the intent should always be there and it should be for the better.

  • leslie May 1, 2018, 2:46 pm

    happy couples understand each other without jumping into conclusion and allows themselves to be penetrated not only by each other’s feelings but also words. these are really nice questions but don’t forget to thank your partner for sharing the answers with you.

  • sarah April 30, 2018, 10:30 pm

    whether you are having relationship issues or not, it is always good to have a strong foundation with your partner. remember that communication is key and this list is great. try it with your partner to start an awesome conversation.

  • ayesha April 26, 2018, 3:19 pm

    it is true that the more you know a person, the more you get out of things to say. communication is essential for couples and giving your partner a silent treatment is not a good thing. thank you for sharing this article. it is very helpful.

  • jackie April 25, 2018, 8:27 pm

    staying in a relationship is tougher nowadays. it is always best to have a strong foundation on your communication in order to grow together and succeed. these are great tips you can try for you and your partner.

  • czarina April 24, 2018, 2:19 pm

    i can’t remember the last time my husband and i had a meaningful conversation because most of the time, i am running out of things to say. i learned a lot from this article and i am positive that it can help me maintain a deep connection with him.

  • katie April 23, 2018, 8:25 pm

    even couples stray sometimes. it’s always best to have a good foundation specially in communication, and these conversation starters are awesome! i could use most of these with my man.

  • sarah April 20, 2018, 3:13 pm

    i was talking to my friend last night and she asked me for some advice on how she could get closer to her man and i can’t give her anything. glad i saw this amazing article. these conversation starters will absolutely build intimacy with couples. i will tell my friend about this.

  • britney April 19, 2018, 5:16 pm

    conversation starters aren’t too difficult for couples unlike for when you were still dating and getting to know each other. i’m glad i found this post, these ill really help me a lot opening up to my boyfriend.

  • keicy April 18, 2018, 6:10 pm

    when you are having a conversation with your partner and you don’t understand his responses or if you want to get more details, you can always ask for clarification. this will improve your communication and will let him feel that you are interested in what he is saying.

  • anastacia April 17, 2018, 2:28 pm

    these are perfect! i love these and i’ll definitely try them with my new boyfriend. thanks for sharing these tips!

  • beverly April 16, 2018, 2:32 pm

    thank you so much for these highly effective conversation starters and tips on how to be a good listener. now, i understand why communication is one of the most important factors in a lasting relationship.

  • olive April 13, 2018, 1:00 pm

    being with a new guy and getting to know him can be a little bit difficult at first. make sure you try these conversation starters and listen good so he knows you’re really interested and serious.

  • camille April 12, 2018, 2:25 pm

    these conversation starters are perfect! i’ve been with my guy for four years and it seems there is very little left to discover. i will use these conversation starters to get him talking and so we could learn more about each other.

  • twinkle April 11, 2018, 5:25 pm

    i love spending time with my boyfriend and sometimes we don’t really need words to communicate. but i agree that these are great tips to know him better and i’m going to try them.

  • megan April 10, 2018, 2:13 pm

    my partner and i were looking for ways on how we could learn more about each other while having fun. i saw this post and shared it with him and we both agreed that it would help us take our relationship to the next level. will share this to our friends too.

  • crystalle April 9, 2018, 2:01 pm

    i love that you only have articles about how to date and get a guy and the usual stuff we see on the net. thanks for sharing also your tips on how to continue growing and having a healthy relationship. this post is just awesome!

  • sharon April 6, 2018, 2:27 pm

    communication is very important in a relationship. there are different relationships and it won’t work out if there is no proper communication. this article is a must read. it will absolutely help you discover new things about your partner.

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