Communication is easily the most important part of any relationship. Without it no relationship can be truly cohesive. By cohesive I simply mean… healthy, connected and successful.
Communication Is Key
Conversation obviously plays a key role in getting to know someone better; so this article is going to give you questions that will initiate some great, heart to heart talks with your significant other.
These questions will help take your relationship to the next level.
I know that I’m always more than interested to find out something new about the girl I’m dating when I’m in a relationship. You can always find out something new about someone no matter how long and well you have known them.
My goal is that some of these questions will be able to help you find out something you might never have known otherwise, and as a result, to get each other talking and sharing information that would otherwise not be shared.
If you’re a couple, you’re most likely more comfortable with each other than you are with most people, so taking that into consideration, I’ve concocted a list of questions that will break the mold and definitely ignite some interesting communication. Check these out and you’re in for some invigorating dialogue.
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Conversation Starters for Couples:
Have you ever wished you were someone else, somewhere else?
What would be the best possible thing that could happen in your life?
Have you ever internally struggled with anything that you haven’t told me or anyone about?
What’s the biggest lie that you have ever told?
What’s one thing that you wish you never did?
What the craziest sexual experience you have ever had?
Are you secretly embarrassed about anything you or I do?
Have you ever had any serious fights with your family?
What’s the most traumatic incident you have ever been through?
Best sex you have ever had?
Do you truly hate anyone?
If you could do anything what would you do?
Have you ever had your heart broken?
What’s the worst relationship experience you have ever had?
Do you believe people should get a second chance?
What’s the last thing in the world you would choose to do?
What’s your phobia?
Have you ever been depressed? Why?
What’s the best time you’ve ever had?
What do you consider was the most positive period in your life?
Have you ever caught either of your parents in a sticky situation?
Have you ever had to lie for a friend or family member?
What do you think your purpose in life is?
What’s the biggest waste of time you’ve ever had?
Have you ever been guilty of pride?
If you had to kill someone to save 5 lives would you do it?
Is there anything I do that drives you absolutely insane?
What’s your favorite thing about me?
Do you have and favorite physical features?
If you could have the answer to any question in the world what would that be?
What’s one thing you would never change about me?
What’s one thing you would change about me?
If you became famous would you stay with me?
There you go…
I hope these questions strike up some interesting conversation and get to the heart of who the person you are with is.
Be A Good Listener
Always be a good listener when your partner is sharing; this allows them to open up more.
All you have to do is truly listen; don’t let your mind wander off just hear them, give feedback and be genuinely curious.
Ask For Clarification
If you get confused by something they said, repeat what they said back to them and clarify. Asking for clarification shows that you are paying attention and care enough to actually clarify and make sure you fully understood!
I know that relationships can get stale sometimes, which makes this a perfect opportunity to spice things up, liven the conversation and get to know surprising things about the person you are with.
There are so many layers most people have; the saying about people being like an onion, and having to peel the layers to get to the core of the person is on point.
There is so much to discover, people change and we shift our points of view as we grow.
So, don’t be shy, and try some of these questions and you’ll more than likely get some great dialogue going and make some new discoveries about them!
If you don’t connect with your partner… he could start pulling away. When a relationship gets stale and the conversation dies down, couples fall into a rut where you stop connecting and things become boring.
Don’t let this happen to you… communicate instead! Use these questions as a starting point!
I want to ask you a question because there are 2 big turning points every woman experiences in her relationships with men and they determine if you end up in a happy relationship or if it all ends in heartbreak.
So pay attention because the next step to take is vitally important. At some point he’s going to ask himself if you are the woman he wants to commit himself to for the long term…
Do you know how men determine if a woman is girlfriend material (the type of woman he commits himself to) or if he sees you as just a fling? If not, you need to read this next: The #1 Thing Men Desire In A Woman…
And the second big problem many women face: Do you feel he might be losing interest, going cold emotionally or pulling away? If so, then you need to read this right now or risk losing him forever: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This…
Want to find out if he’s really losing interest? Click here to take our quick (and shockingly accurate) “Is He Losing Interest” Quiz right now and find out if he’s really losing interest in you…