Relationship experts reveal how to get your ex back quickly!

Relationship experts reveal how to get your ex back quickly!

Going through a breakup is never easy! Most people never expect to get dumped by the man or woman that they’ve shared projects or dreams or even built a life and a family with. Many people that we coach to get back with the one they love compare being broken up with to mourning a loved one.

As relationship experts specialized in helping people like you figure out how to get your ex back we look to share some of our best tips and advice in order to help those that are still in love find the tools and resources to meet their goals and find happiness in love!

Understand your mistakes to ultimately get back with the one you love

Most people that get broken up with are in a state of shock following a breakup. This leads them to not take the time to understand where things went wrong and to try to rush to convince an ex to take them back. So many of the people that we coach during private one on one coaching sessions have pleaded and begged their ex to take them back. This type of behavior is probably the last thing you should do if you are hoping to get back together with an ex!

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In order to ensure that you don’t do any more mistakes after a separation, we urge you to take a step back and not reach out to your ex by enacting a radio silence or no contact period! This time away from the one you love will enable you to understand what went wrong by analyzing your relationship and to regain control over your emotions.

Most breakups occur for one of two reasons: either the person getting broken up with was too needy and thus pushed their partner away because they put them on a pedestal and stopped being attractive; or the person being broken up with was not invested enough in the relationship and neglected their ex by failing to provide their former partner with the love and attention that they needed and deserved.

I am not trying to put all of the blame on the person being broken up with; both parties have their share of responsibility! On the contrary I am empowering the person that was dumped by highlighting their part of responsibility and by enabling them to change in order to once again become attractive to their ex!

Being able to clearly identify the mistakes that you’ve made will enable you to not repeat the same errors and to work on yourself in order to evolve and shift the dynamic in your favor. Would it be realistic to change your ex’s mind if you haven’t changed since the breakup? Can you really prove to him or her that you have really understood and evolved a few hours after a separation? Once you make a commitment to become a better you, or to get back to being that person that inspired your ex at the beginning of your relationship you will be more than half way there!

How to get your ex back once you have reestablished contact?

Once you have decided to undergo a process of personal development and truly evolve on some of the things that caused your previous relationship to fail; figuring out how to get your ex back will be really easy! But we wanted to provide you with a blueprint nevertheless.

First you will need to prove your change through actions and not through words. Telling your ex that you are no longer selfish or that you have decided to be a better person won’t cut it! You have to showcase your evolution through concrete pre-planned actions that you will then have to implement.

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For example, if your ex broke up with you because you were too selfish, you can start to devote more time to doing community service during the weekends; while also being more mindful of helping others in your daily life. Speaking to your ex about actions that you have been undertaking will be a lot more powerful and relatable than simply acknowledging a character trait that you need to improve upon!

Once you have been able to prove your change, the process of re-seducing your ex will be done almost organically. You will be that person that they wished you would have been throughout the entire relationship and they will be very much drawn to this new you!

Again remember to control your emotions and not let your ex know that you are trying to get back together. If you put your ex on a pedestal at any point or if you give them too much attention, you will push them away.

You will ultimately be able to seal the deal and a create a new and improved relationship by finding the right balance between focusing on you and your process of personal development while maintaining a healthy communication flow with your ex. Stay positive with them, avoid conflicts at all times, don’t bring up your past relationship or a future one and watch them doubt their decision as you regain your self-esteem and confidence!

When you get to this point it is not uncommon for the ex to be the one to flinch or to make the first move by talking about their feelings and emotions, expressing regret or remorse over their decision, talking about potential future projects together, or even simply professing their love for you!

We recognize that every relationship is unique and that some cases require a tailored game plan or approach. For instance if you were broken up with during a long distance relationship, if your ex left you for someone else or if you were broken with after a very short term relationship for instance, you most likely need tailored support.

If you find yourself in one of those unique situations or for more information on how to get an ex back I urge you to check out this article in order to discover powerful tools that could make your ex miss you and want to get back together right away!

Sincerely,

Adrian

Relationship Expert from WithMyExAgain.com

About WithMyExAgain.com

A Team of relationship experts who specialize in helping people get back with their ex. In business since 2007, we have helped more than 10,000 men and women bring back their ex into their lives by changing people’s bad habits and negative behaviors.

Alex and Adrian follow a unique approach and philosophy to love and relationships, one that has proven to be successful worldwide, and tailored to the specificities of each individual.

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34 comments… add one
  • suzan April 21, 2018, 11:08 am

    Hi ineed your help pls help me to get my husband back its being 5months knw nd we had a one year 7 months boy im also 5months pregnant knw with another baby of him pls help

  • esther September 13, 2017, 8:28 am

    my ex boyfriend broke up with me last month and I was doing the no contact rule but I was only able to do it for eight days because an urgent thing happened and I had to break the no contact though we are friends and we talk everyday and he told me what I did wrong for the relationship to end but he has started ignoring my messages recently and I don’t know if there is still hope of getting him back and how to do it

  • john June 14, 2017, 5:39 pm

    hi my girlfriend broke up with me but i need her back please i need your help

  • beatrice June 14, 2017, 5:37 pm

    hi i need your help please

  • beatirice wanjiru June 12, 2017, 1:10 pm

    hi i need a coach to teach me how to get my ex girlfriend back

  • Lakeisha February 8, 2016, 6:23 pm

    That hits the target peefrctly. Thanks!

  • Marcell Kane November 24, 2015, 9:43 am

    Its tricky, right? It can also be a major issue if your ex has moved on already. These tips are steps that need to be taken right away.

  • Edward Bean November 23, 2015, 7:52 am

    will these tips work for the guy and the girl? I really messed up and would like to get my girlfriend back. it has only been 1 month.

  • Charity Wilson November 23, 2015, 7:44 am

    Nobody is going to deny these are good tips. Getting your ex back is something that needs to be done ASAP. You cannot wait a month and hope he is still sitting around waiting for you.

  • Laura Henderson November 20, 2015, 9:21 am

    We all know that it can be tricky, but it can be done. These are good starting points.

  • Jessie Bailey November 19, 2015, 9:23 pm

    Do you think that you always have a chance with ANY ex?

  • Cindy Edwards November 19, 2015, 9:13 pm

    These are very good suggestions and even ones that I think will allow me to get back into my groove.

  • Nichole Smith November 18, 2015, 12:01 pm

    I broke up with my b/f a few months ago and it has been hard. I didn’t think we were going in the right direction, but now that I miss him, I feel I made a mistake. Do you think there is still a chance, even with your tips?

  • Ruth Moorhead November 18, 2015, 11:53 am

    If you are able to get back to communicating with your EX, that is half the battle. Then you just have to turn on the charm that won him over to begin with and you’re all set!

  • Dorothy Spiller November 17, 2015, 8:25 am

    Great tips! I have been looking for ways to change things around so that he notices me again even though I cheated on him and I feel bad about it.

  • Jennifer Taylor November 17, 2015, 8:13 am

    Whether it was you or him that broke things off, there are ways to get it to work again. Depending on what the end all was, these tips seem like a great way to start the process.

  • Roscoe Wright November 16, 2015, 9:05 am

    Great tips. I am going to take these into consideration.

    • Michelle Maldonado November 20, 2015, 9:30 am

      You should, they are some of the best tips you are going to get about getting your ex back!

    • Constance Bigger November 24, 2015, 9:52 am

      Me too! I never really thought about things like this even though it is the easiest way to approach the situation of getting your ex back.

  • Maudie Green November 14, 2015, 4:54 pm

    I went through the process of breaking things off with my b/f like 2 months ago because he didn’t know what he wanted. I cannot wait around forever, but now I am not sure I made the right call. Can I recover from this?

  • Tina Sparks November 12, 2015, 9:54 am

    Good post! I really needed to read this because I have new hope that I can get him back now.

    • Diane Laughlin November 16, 2015, 8:56 am

      It is very motivating to think that you have a chance again, right?

  • Whitney Harris November 11, 2015, 8:34 am

    These are very good tips. As I read through them I could see how they would work and possibly get my b/f to come back with me. Thanks!

    • Ruth Thaxton November 14, 2015, 9:21 pm

      I think you will have good luck after reading through these. Good luck!

  • Alida Bullock November 10, 2015, 9:44 am

    I have broken up with a guy because he was just being jerky for a week or so and I just took it as he didn’t really care. The problem is that he really did care and I really still liked him. I had to swallow my pride and go back to him. Its all good now.

  • Chery Frady November 9, 2015, 9:51 am

    I have experience keeping an eye out for things like this. The signs are easy and if HE is the one that broke up with you, then you have the advantage and can take your time with it.

  • Charlotte Monteith November 9, 2015, 9:40 am

    I am willing to follow these rules because I want my ex b/f back so badly!

    • Francine Desroches November 10, 2015, 9:56 am

      Then you will do whatever it takes to get that done.

    • Christine Tomlinson November 12, 2015, 9:44 am

      Good luck with your task! I hope it works out for you.

  • Charlotte McLeod November 8, 2015, 12:14 pm

    First you need to ask yourself, do you really need (or want) your ex back? If you are the one that ended, don’t you think that was done for a reason?

    • Tonia Woods November 11, 2015, 8:47 am

      Yes! Too many people go into freak out mode and want everything back the way it was. Maybe it is for the best that you do not have it that way.

  • Laura Stang November 8, 2015, 12:03 pm

    This is great, I have been trying to get my ex to take me back for months. I really screwed up and I have admitted that, what is the next step?

  • Bertha Davidson November 7, 2015, 9:52 am

    Getting your ex back might not be something that you want to do. what if you just want him to go away so that you never have to see him again?

  • Doreen Sainz November 7, 2015, 9:39 am

    Great tips! In most cases, due to the fact that people break up over the dumbest things, I think an ex can be taken back.

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