Can You Get Your Ex Back Or Is He Gone Forever?

Can You Get Your Ex Back Or Is He Gone Forever?

The problem with trying to get your ex back is this: every situation is different.

After all, the woman trying to get her boyfriend of 6 months to come back to her is in a lot different situation than the woman who’s trying to get her husband of 6 years to come back to her.

That’s why if you want to find out how to truly get your ex back, you need specific advice tailored to your specific situation.

And that’s where this quiz comes in.

This quiz will obtain all the necessary information in order to give you the best possible advice on whether or not you’ll be able to get your ex back (plus exactly how to get him back).

No more generic advice. No more vague instructions that are meant to work for both a woman just out of an 8 week relationship and a woman just out of a marriage of 20 years.

The fact is, you need specific advice specific to you and your situation, so that you can have the best possible chance of getting your ex back… and keeping him afterwards.

The truth is, it’s really not all that hard to get your ex back. There are a number of different tactics you can use to get him to come back to you after a breakup.

Much harder is getting your ex to come back to you… and keeping him – having him want to stay by your side forever.

The truth is, if you get your ex back without fixing the underlying causes that destroyed your relationship in the first place, history is bound to repeat itself.

But when you have specific advice tailored to your specific situation and relationship, you can fix those issues that destroyed your relationship before you even get back together with him…

So that when you two do get back together, he wants to stay with you for good.

Take this quiz right now and find out whether you and your ex have a chance of getting back together, and staying together forever…

109 comments… add one
  • Quinn Denny July 16, 2024, 5:24 pm

    I broke up me without any reason so do I do now

  • Kren January 12, 2022, 9:47 am

    I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago I am over jealous of myself. I ask his girlfriend if she is dating him but she said No he went and tell him about it. He got angry with me and did that we are not dating anymore but we can be friends. He love me but he need a break apologize in so many ways but no . Please what will I do now to get him back

  • George December 1, 2021, 1:56 am

    My girlfriend broke up with me because she found out i kissed her friend, i really didn’t mean to hurt her now i’m sorry. How can i get her back?

  • Kaysia October 2, 2021, 1:30 pm

    My boyfriend broke up with me and said he is not ready to be in relation but he want me to be his bestfriend, will he come back for me

  • Jayem July 3, 2021, 2:03 am

    I love my boyfriend dearly. He argued and tell me he don’t care any more and told me untrusted. How can I text him to him to fall for me again

  • K June 28, 2021, 2:58 am

    He breakup with me a few days ego he said he dont want me he dont like me now he has some dreams his parents dont agree for love and let’s move on dont call and msg me again what can I do he is bring back to me

  • Micah April 6, 2021, 8:36 am

    My girlfriend broke up with me on her birthday

  • Sheshe March 10, 2021, 8:19 am

    He broke up with me after 3 years because he said he is not interested on me and he doesn’t like or love me.

  • GG February 24, 2021, 1:05 am

    My ex and I have been seperated for 4.5 years. I finally answered his calls and told him that he hurt me. He gave a general apology. We were supposed to meet and my sister’s house to take a shower in her spa shower together Valentine’s Day. I overslept and forgot. Two hours after the appointed time, he sent me a text expressing his disappointment. I felt very badly and promised to reschedule for the following Sunday. We met. He was 35 minutes late, but he advised he would be 30 minutes late. He sat on one end of the sofa, and I on the other. He talked for 2.5 hours mainly about classmates. We may have talked about 30 about us, we never got in the shower and there was no physical connection. Why

  • Sharon February 2, 2021, 8:29 am

    I broke up with my ex cause he didn’t really like me and only wanted me so he could get rid of the feelings he had for my friend and our relationship was just 1 month and I still love him

  • Lauren December 28, 2020, 2:46 pm

    My boyfriend broke up

  • Rondell December 14, 2020, 12:39 am

    I broke up wit my ex well she ended us and 10 years later i still love her spoke to her anf i felt this feeling inside thats how i know i still love her smfh

  • Leila November 23, 2020, 1:47 pm

    My ex broke up with me cause he thought I was having a affair with his besy friend and his friend ams his friend loves me and I don’t even know what to do Not so sure if the get your ex back quiz will work but I hope I can get him back

  • Favour November 13, 2020, 9:17 am

    I broke up with my boyfriend becos u dosnot care he hardly calls most of d time I do d calling I loves him so much am so confuse right now when he charted me he said I left him becos of money I really need him back I broke up with him so how do I handle dis

    • Leila November 23, 2020, 1:49 pm

      Dont worry things will fall in place one day.just wait he might realize how his life will be without you

  • Yandie November 8, 2020, 1:58 am

    I just broke up with my boyfriend because he proved to be drifting away and giving me less attention than he used to..he started posting things indirectly speaking to me, saying that nobody can change the way he love coz he loves the way he wants to love. Couldn’t hold back so i replied to one of those posts and called him a coward for not telling me straight up that he was feeling that way. I’ve cut all ties with him and blocked him everywhere, immediately after that he sent me two texts messages at about different saying that if i really loved him there was no need to block him, and the other one saying I’m driving him insane because I’ve cut all ties..he hasn’t apologized in any of those texts he just hit me up to tell me i mishandled the situation. It’s made me really mad!! I love him but i just want him to see his fault because i don’t want the same mistakes to happen, should we hook up again..

  • Anastasia October 6, 2020, 11:00 pm

    Hi, we just have a fight with my boyfriend boyfriend. I find out he was cheating, now i don’t know he is gone forever or what. I miss him so much please help

  • Peace October 2, 2020, 10:02 am

    I break up with my boyfriend but I love him and miss him so badly and I don’t know what to do I want him back

  • Boitumelo January 11, 2020, 4:34 pm

    will I get my ex back ?

  • Karen December 27, 2019, 7:57 pm

    My ex asked me to send money to his daughters has he worked away I told him I will try but then my daughter had money problems so i helped her .then because i couldnt help his daughters he thinks i dont care for them but i do .hes called me selfish i only love my self and I play games in which I wasnt I tried to explain but hes told me it’s over

  • Nosipho October 2, 2019, 4:24 pm

    I just broke up with my bf of 5 yrs , he just find a gf of his town @ Free State. If i ask my ex that is he over me his busy saying i still luv you and miss you is he playing with my feelings or he is serious about missing me, when we saw each other on the street he hugs and kiss me I’m confused because he don’t show up to meet me so we can talk because I’m still in love with him

  • sisi September 13, 2019, 7:23 pm

    The no contact rule,i might not be able to do that because we are in the same department

  • Cass July 25, 2019, 11:48 am

    My boyfriend and I broke up and this is not good I’m lonely now. I need to fun a way how to get him back and be with him again. I just want things to be back to normal and the reason why this happened was that he says that I tell him a bunch of lies and I will not lie to him ever again I need to find a way to get him back by taking this quiz.

  • Dominic July 9, 2019, 5:05 pm

    I met a certain guy with whom I fell in love with .but he kept on pissing me off by saying all I felt is lust and after sex I won’t feel anything for him anymore…..den I suggested we dropped evitin if dats how he gonna treat my emotions and he agreed he has been cold to my chats afterwards…..truth is I really miss this guy like crazy I can’t stop thinking of him ….bt he is not reaching out to me I don’t know his State of mind now and I don’t wanna b like crazy trying to connect to him… please what do I do …am really disturbed …..SOS

  • SANDRA July 1, 2019, 4:40 pm

    I’m still in love with my EX n i want him back

  • happiness June 9, 2019, 6:33 pm

    me and ex boyfriend broke up, he said he doesn’t have any feelings for me and that our relationship doesn’t flow at all, that am boring and not fun to be with, please i need help i still love love him so much. he don’t even call me or chat with me

  • Maddie April 23, 2019, 11:35 pm

    Does anyone know what it means when your Ed wants to be best friends cuz we just broke up today and I don’t know what he means by that like does he still have feelings

  • jamira January 13, 2019, 1:03 pm

    i still love my boyfreind but he told me to let him alone because he doesn’t love me anymore

  • Pat December 19, 2018, 8:27 am

    My boyfriend left me because I complain so much about him cheating on me… I asked him to forgive me because I still love him but he said he is not in the state of relationship now again and I know he is dating another girl now what can I do to get him back

  • Justina December 9, 2018, 11:31 am

    I still love my ex so dearly

  • ricca November 26, 2018, 9:30 pm

    I had a long distance relationship we’re almost 2 month then recently he broke up with me because he said as of this moment he had no time for a gf. that he was pathetic and completely trash and he wish all the best for me and he think he can’t be the best for me. I tried to stop him and call him but he already blocked me in Imessage and facetime. He already deleted his Facebook account too. :( This is horrible. he caused me too much pain. Shall I moved on now?

  • Alex Sullivan November 6, 2018, 4:54 pm

    My ex is telling people he misses me but is ignoring me

  • Nehro August 29, 2018, 9:45 am

    I love my man by the core of my heart i dnt either he love me or not bcz sometimes i feel he is very close to me but on the other time he is just far away from me like he dont know who am i last night he called me bad he never say sorry for his words or his mistake i love him that too much that i cant breath without him he won’t to marry me i want to have him with me what should i do in this situation im totaly helpless plz guide me in the rite direction either he wil come back to me or not

  • Anonymous August 21, 2018, 10:13 am

    At the moment our situation is complicated. We have been together 2 years now. But since last month he started to care less and we talk less too. I love him more than anything in the earth. He doesn’t want to talk to me. What should I do to make him back like we used to be? I really don’t want to lose him. Please help me to get his attention again for good.

  • Lelo August 2, 2018, 5:49 pm

    Hi I was in a relationship after a year my boyfriend changed he became distanced then I confronted him,that he’s no longer the same person then he said he doesn’t feel me anymore….we then broke up but lately he’s been kind,he’s calling and check up on me,I still love him,never stopped loving him…

  • nelly July 26, 2018, 7:55 am

    he said he doesn’t love me because I don’t respect him and I never buy him bed sheets or presents I’m not doing his washing or clean his room he hates that about me and he doesn’t wanna see me anymore and he doesn’t text,call. or use
    social networks but we dated for 5years and we were on a distance relationship but we have a child now he is not working he doesn’t bother to check his daughter he is quite and I am quite as well

  • pershanti July 1, 2018, 8:41 pm

    hey how to get my ex back,i’m only 14 but still he broke up with me because he thought i liked his cousin when i didn’t

  • risica goyari July 1, 2018, 5:21 am

    My boyfriend left me yesterday without a reason but i love him so much i want him back in my life i can’t stop thinking about him

  • Xin June 30, 2018, 8:41 am

    We broke up bbc he told me he doesnt love me anymore.i dobt believw it so i stalk him on fb,it was then i notice or my instinct told me he has new gf.i ask him and he said was a week aftr we broke i dont know if its true that they just dated after our breakup or if he has been cheating to me while we were together.i dont know if its a rebound or what

    • Xin June 30, 2018, 8:42 am

      Oh and i iunfriended him on fb.then i got a notification saying he is following me on fb

  • lucy June 27, 2018, 11:30 pm

    I breake up with my boyfriend yesterday cuz he find me cheating on him. I love him so much i can’t live without him. Please help me to get him back.

  • Yandy June 4, 2018, 3:52 pm

    My bf recently dumped me n I still love I tried to send him watsap text but he won’t reply I don’t knw wat to do anymore

  • Fortunate May 22, 2018, 6:15 pm

    We’ve been dating for 5 years we have child and he cheated on me.. I got angry nd he broke up with me and told me he met a girl but he doesn’t love her… I can’t stop thinking about him..

  • cherry May 21, 2018, 4:25 pm

    My boyfriend left me because of my past issue, he blocked me in facebook and we don’t have any comminication. He wants to forget him. I miss him and I loved him. I want to be with him.. What can I do? May you help me.

  • cherry May 21, 2018, 4:21 pm

    My boyfriend left me because of my past issue, he blocked me in facebook and we don’t have any comminication. He wants to forget him. What can I do? May you help me.

  • Sophia May 8, 2018, 3:03 am

    My boyfriend left me because he has another woman in his life he has promised to be with forever and me on the other side I was left broken and with so much tears but I still love him very much what do u advice I do

  • Jennifer April 14, 2018, 8:00 am

    I left my boyfriend because I never had feelings for him after three years of Broke up from him I decided to get him back by sending whataspp messages,facebook even voice message but he never replied by to me and I think I’m really in love with him what can I do to get him back please I need a fast answer am sacred he might been seeing someone else

  • Laura March 31, 2018, 10:49 am

    Hey there , my boyfriend broke up with me just because he couldn’t bear the problems I gave him . For a couple of months he was so stressed and if there’s any single problem , he will make it big and eventually ask for a break up . After few days he will come back to me and talk normally. But this time he just left me like that . Why? Is there any chances to get back him?

  • Amy March 31, 2018, 6:19 am

    My boyfriend left me cos he feels am not caring. I didn’t visit him, when he was hospitalized and that led to our breakup.
    I ve tried to explain to him about work and school taking my time but he keep telling me he has no more feelings for me. I really love him and want him back. I ve chatted with him, text him but no way

  • Amy March 31, 2018, 6:15 am

    My boyfriend left me cos he feels am not caring. I didn’t visit him, when he was hospitalized and that led to our breakup

  • Carolyn Lamunu March 27, 2018, 6:48 am

    How do I know he still wants me

  • Victoria March 17, 2018, 8:34 am

    Please help me my ex to come back,we have been dating for 4 year,now broke up me.not supporting the byb anymore.

  • Lauryn March 10, 2018, 2:03 am

    I broke up with my boyfriend six years ago,i loved him so much but when he completed his studies thats when things started to go wrong,we talk once in a while he doesnt even tell me anything about love but talks to me like his very good friend,we havent seen each other for the past six years.Is it still possible for us to get backup

  • prachi March 2, 2018, 5:38 am

    i really hope dat he comes back we both loved each other so truly dat we r meant for each other i believe . i love you my love Pls come back :(;( i miss u raaja

    • Sheena March 16, 2018, 12:34 pm

      Hey Prachi! Im going through the same thing. My ex has already given me many chances . He pisses me off and I loose my temper and he blocks me. s. I think this time is the end to it. But I never missed him as much I do now. Can I talk to you.?

  • Dusuzile March 1, 2018, 3:34 am

    My boyfriend dumped me for no reason and now he always tells my friend that he want to get back to me but he can’t tell me.

  • Tatiana February 25, 2018, 12:09 pm

    I think my ex still loves me but I’m not sure. It’s been a week since we broke up but I’m not sure if he misses me or he’s moved on. We were together for 1 year and we were pretty serious. He said he would find me after high school because his dad doesn’t want us together. What should I do to get him back?

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  • Narie February 1, 2018, 1:26 pm

    Me and my ex were dating for a month and a half but we talked longer. The reason why we broke up was because he wanted a “good” realtionship where we could go out and do things together but me and him were always busy and couldn’t do those things together. And he said I always cane to him about drama. I tried reaching out and asking for a second chance but he simply said no. But tbh I want to keep trying until I get him sic but I don’t want to seem too desperate

  • Diane January 31, 2018, 4:50 am

    Weve been together for 11 years also have children through these 11 years also with difficult time cause there were other things involved than after he did the programm he got out and went with my supposed friend and now they are living together already 3 months but what i cant understand is that he still ask me to fo favours for him

  • Redj January 17, 2018, 12:04 am

    I sort of cheated on him. I had a new guy right after my boyfriend broke up. But during the time me and the new guy were together, I was still in love with my boyfriend and realized he was the one I want. But it is too late now I guess. He tried to get back with me but after a few weeks broke up with me again because all his trust to me is down to zero. I love him sooooo much. I tried to make things work but eventually he broke up with me after us trying to be together again.

  • Lexi December 15, 2017, 6:43 pm

    We are both still in love. We go to separate colleges and things got harder and now she’s depressed and feels like she doesn’t love herself anymore so we broke up so she could love herself and it was the hardest thing to let her go. I know that I want her and I want her back but she needs time.

  • vivi December 15, 2017, 2:19 pm

    will i get back wit my ex again??

  • Yvonne December 13, 2017, 9:16 am

    i’ve been dating this guy for 5 months but he decided to end the relationship complaining that i dont keep secrets. what do i do yet i still love him though he says he has moved on.

  • Yolanda Victor December 9, 2017, 7:09 am

    One I want to stalk them up for getting into our business to our him to move out of his mother house with me only 3 I want him to get me pregnant for I want him only focus on me V I want girls to stop calling him it only focus on me

  • Samuella December 3, 2017, 1:54 am

    My ex made me do things am not suposed to do because i could not stand is new behaviour and act towards me anymore and we lost trust for each other dor i still love him but i was the one who decide the breakup cos i had enough of it already nw he is far from me we don’t usually see on the road is there a chance of getting him back and making him beg me to come back

  • vumeka November 24, 2017, 1:20 pm

    I’m too sensitive

  • Katy November 14, 2017, 1:47 pm

    Help me get my boyfriend back please

  • Cherrie November 12, 2017, 9:53 am

    Is there a chance for me and my boyfriend getting back together

  • hamza rijji November 11, 2017, 2:20 pm

    how can i get my lover married to another person

  • Gisele November 11, 2017, 4:14 am

    We dated for some months then had a break,became back begging and crying,after a thought I gave in to a second chance.Everything was OK but we usually have quarrels and settle later but with the last one he said we should have some time apart so he can think.I miss him so much,we communicate at times,I told him am moving on but its not easy. I think about him everyday.I really miss him.I told him I miss him and he said he was very sorry for hurting me but I don’t know what next to do.I keep concluding that he has another girl he loves though he has not told me .I just need advice on how we can get back and be happy again.I really miss him

  • hope October 30, 2017, 11:49 pm

    and so my ex just ended it all he claims is coz we are far from each other dats y he ended it he was tired of waiting I still love him and he is dating already is there any chance of me getting him back

    • Julie November 10, 2017, 6:54 pm

      Here is the same..

  • gwen October 28, 2017, 7:56 am

    wen we are together, for instance sitin out he doesnt fel comfortable.

  • Dolly October 27, 2017, 1:06 pm

    My ex boyfriend & I have dated for 1 yr 8 months.we study on same campus & we moved in together after an year of dating.on the month of August we were on evening we were chatting as usual then he happened to talk to me in a rude way.i then corrected him but he insisted tht he wasn’t rude & tht he won’t apologise.i got so angry and decided to keep quite.the following morning ,with no bad intention i called him and asked him why he wouldn’t admit his mistake.this resulted in2 the worst urguement ever.he said that i only complain abt his mistakes &only focus on his bad side, that i don’t appreciate him.we stayed without talking until the holiday was over.we reported back to sch on sep and told me he want us to break up & move on as grown ups.i insisted that he should give me a chance to correct my mistakes.he then said i didn’t do him any wrong.he gave a reason tht the r/ship wasn’t working.deep down me i knew things weren’t right & so i started working on myself.i bought him an expensive gift to show that i appreciate him.he accepted the gift bt told me that he wanted to live his life the way he want & party alone with his male friends.i let him do that &supported him by paying for the night-outs since he wasn’t well financially.i did that because I wanted him happy.that has been going on for a month.but he hasn’t changed his mind about the break up.he said that we should live separately and actually he has started looking for his own house.yesterday he went ahead & deleted my photos from his instagram.i got angry & asked him about it.he became rude & bitter saying that we r nt dating anymore &told me to move on.when i ask him for a second chance to become a better girlfriend he insists that I’ve not done him any wrong.he says he don’t want to date,he don’t want any girl in his life,he don’t want anything to do with love.he says there are many things he want with his life &that he wants to be on his own.i feel so much pain.i’ve given up on him.actually I’ve hurt so much while fighting for him &convincing him to so broken and I’ve told him that he will never hear again from me.why is he doing this?whats happening? Will he ever come back or want to be in a relationship with me again?help me please.thanks

  • linda October 4, 2017, 2:52 am

    my boyfriend angry with me he told me not trust me anymore. how I get him back

  • Lonely September 11, 2017, 2:42 pm

    Hi I’m lonely!! I moved outta state 2 yrs ago and just a couple of days ago my ex tells me out the blue he has a women but I’m still his friend.. I called him this a.m and he tells me he’s been with his nephew’s Auntie for 5 months and he cares for her…. Shud I move on or kp trying

  • Cat September 5, 2017, 6:01 pm

    Swthrt, you’re dating someone’s boyfriend.

  • Shay August 23, 2017, 8:00 am

    I also feel like he’s not giving our children and myself time because he’s busy giving his time to someone else. I ask myself all of the time did I lose him or will he fix these issues and come back to his family?

  • Shay August 23, 2017, 7:55 am

    I’ve been with my children’s father for 7 years. I broke up with him 4 months ago because he is not doing what he need to do for his children and for me. I’ve spoke to him about these issues tons of times and he still did not try to fix anything. He claims he loves us but he is not showing us. We don’t go out ,he don’t come visit the kids or even ask to take them. When he has free time he don’t bother to let me know so he can spend time with us. I feel like for your family theres always time, your kids come first and he doesnt understand that. At this point I felt worthless, weak and I’m beyond hurt because at least give your children your time. I’m doing everything that I can for my children and I try to stay strong because of them. I love him and want him to realize he have something good and it seems like he doesn’t care. Even though I broke up with him,I still want him, he’s the only guy I want in my life and I know he can be better because he wasn’t this person that he is now. idk who he is, but he’s not the guy that I fell in love with. I try so hard to move on though. I’ve even ignored his texts, have not came around, even acted like idc just so he knows how it would feel to lose his family and it didn’t work at all. I feel it’s hard to move on because I have children with him,but I just need to find a way to move on. Any suggestions?

  • Pearl August 10, 2017, 10:45 am

    Hello I’m a 21 year old and been in a relationship with a 27 year old guy for 4 years. He broke up with me about 4 months back… well he didn’t really dump me , he just told me he was having problems that i wasn’t gonna be able to stand for and he then stopped contacting me.I somehow still think he was seeing someone else.!! I begged him to talk ,left hin so many messages but he never replied to any of them. I’d call him and he wouldn’t pick up My calls.. He really hurt me, that after so many times I’ve asked him to tell me where the problem was he just didn’t wann hear anything from me. He is now starting to contact me. Asking to see me and that he nevr stopped loving me, that he was just having so much problems and he can’t live without me. He’s asking me to give us a chance. I love him so much but again I don’t wann worry every day thinking he’d have problems again and decides to leave me. I just don’t trust him anymore. What should I do ..?plz help!

  • fitri July 8, 2017, 8:09 pm

    I am the one who iniated the break up. It was my fault because I did not trust him that much. I’m so needy. He’s been busy with his job recently wich we did not meet often. What should I do to get him back again?

  • Ayusha July 5, 2017, 6:43 pm

    We were dating with my boyfriend nd just ignored me for a month with no reason.then he texted me and we reconciled,lyk one or two months again he started ignoring me again on whatsapp no phone calls no anything.i asked him if he’s still interested in d relationship,he said why should i ask him that question from then he ignored me for almost a month now.what am i going to do because i still love him but i unfriend on any social many expect whatsapp.i need an advice.

    • Futhi July 6, 2017, 12:50 am

      move on…he is sick

  • phumla June 23, 2017, 4:47 pm

    Hey I’m a girl who is 29 years in love with a man who is 43 years he didn’t broke up with me He just told me that he need a break and we are working together at the same company he is my General manager and I love him I want him back what can I do to get him back to me?????

  • marie June 22, 2017, 3:48 am

    My ex boyfriend keeps hanging around our hood,he has friends there. I have a baby boy with him and hes 6months. When he sees me he looks down and doesn’t talk yo us. I’ve practised no contact with him for two months and since I work I only meet with him accidentally once in a while. I still Love him. But I dont show emotions when I see him. What could be going on his mind? Is he over me? Still not talking. We datrd for a year.

  • Violet June 17, 2017, 3:26 pm

    Hlw i am 24 year and i have one child but now i am ex say to me that pragnant wll not change what we had i need advice what to do

    • Cat September 5, 2017, 5:57 pm

      It’s always gonna matter. But we choose our battles. If you can handle it, fine. But you need to go back to school.

  • luniko May 2, 2017, 9:14 am

    Hey guys please help!

    I am a 23 year old and a mother to 5 years old, two boys they are twins their father broke up with me it’s been almost six years together.
    We had a fight and I insulted him I know I was wrong but just that I couldn’t control myself.
    I did apologise but he keeps saying he loves me but he’s not sure about me.
    Later this week I was talking to him trying to sort things out he said it out that I should move on any men would love to have me.
    I am so hurt and confused I don’t know what to do I love Him . It’s been 5 months now ever since he broke up with me and I never saw him again but we chat on watsaap.

  • jasmine watson April 25, 2017, 4:13 pm

    i had a ex bf and he said he loves a girl so he broke up with me and got with her so he dates her and she said he still loves me what sould i do?

    • Jane Doe July 22, 2017, 9:19 pm

      for your own sake, do not talk to both of them. move on and build your life. he will do the same thing to her after a while. MEN NEVER CHANGE !
      and if u ever go back to him. he will never respect you again, because u didn’t respect yourself and walked away from him when he did u wrong.

  • Shine April 8, 2017, 2:29 pm

    I started talking to a guy online and there was a spark if interest and the some chemistry and connection. We shared how both him and I liked each other very much and planned to meet after 4 months of talking everyday and night. Basically, he courted me after two montgs of talking on the phone and because I liked him I accepted him as my boyfriend. The day came when we finally got to see each other after 4 months of being in a call and texts relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend. We made love was happy but we had so much indifferences about little things. We spent 3 days together. After 3 days I went back home and so did he. But I noticed changes in him already. Few days after more changes I see. He dI’d not call or text me anymore nor call me pet names. Then, I sweetly asked what’s wrong and he replied ” Look…we are not going to get along, so let’s just leave it at that and part ways. Take care and God bless.” My heart was broken even now. I cried and still crying…and my responds ” you’re right, I agree. Goodbye.” I still want him. I don’t know what to do and even how to move on..please help.

    • Livy April 8, 2017, 9:12 pm

      Oh my goodness. You’re literally in the same position I’m in!!! I, too, met this guy online and he was so incredibly sweet the first few times we talked. We had crazy chemistry and almost each time we talked it was so loving and affectionate. He also wrote love songs about me. For literally three months I’ve been planning to visit him. And it never worked out right away. Well, recently he wanted me to see him because he was going to be leaving the country soon for work, and I couldn’t see him due to my overprotective family trying to prohibit me from seeing him because he’s someone I met online. Well, shortly after our phone call…he texted me saying, “Better to have your support from a distance. Lots of love.” I completely broke down. I wish I could just go back in time and change e everything. He blocked my number after I sent him so many loving texts and emails. I just have a feeling he might miss me but I doubt he will ever want me back…but I still believe there could be hope for us. I’m praying everything works out if it’s truly meant to be.

  • Alexis h. March 30, 2017, 9:03 pm

    So my ex is being a jerk to my bf and he wont get off my gmail so what should i do or say and he called my bf a rebound, well he isn’t. so help please

  • Alexis h. March 30, 2017, 9:02 pm

    So my ex is being a jerk to my bf and he wont get off my gmail so what shoul i do or say and he called my ex a rebound, well he isn’t. so help please

  • kenny March 1, 2017, 4:23 pm

    we were in love all of sudden he is quiet and does not take my calls nor reply my texts

  • Daron February 15, 2017, 6:29 am

    My ex girl friend left me twice an this time we gotch enguage but she said my fault we broke up because me talking her harsh but she cheeky do you think we gevback together

  • caren January 20, 2017, 12:14 am

    I had a guy whom we dated for 8 months then all over a sudden he started saying that I was cheating on him.he broke up with me saying that he never wanted anything to do with me.I pleaded with him to hear me out but he refused…I begged him to no avail,so I decided that I will never contact him….after 2 months of no contact we meet on a certain place….at first he didn’t talk to me then after like 20 min he came to where I was n started to talk to me….we talked for like 30 mins then he was supposed to attend to something. So he asked me for my contact and told me that we will communicate bt its now the third day and he haven’t contacted me… should I contact him or not??? Pliz advice

    • stephanie October 30, 2017, 6:23 am

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  • Angela Oakley December 12, 2016, 10:47 am

    Hi my name is Angela and my bipoler boy friend told me how much is luvs me and he can’t do with me and be for u no it we go in to a big arguement and the next morning u life with tell me good bye.he left me for his ex wife and his 21 year old he left me and gone back to nj and sence that i nerver herd from him any more so what should i do now.I can’t get hold of him he change his phone number on me i don’t have his email address I Dont have anyway of contacting him.he tatoo my name on his nick.can some body please help me.

  • Dyamond November 9, 2016, 5:17 pm

    Your ex might not love you,but he probably has’nt found a bestfriend like you yet

  • Barbara November 4, 2016, 8:36 pm

    When your ex boyfriend tells you “i think about you alot ” but has moved on after 11 years i will never love her the way i loved you . And he wishes he didn’t have a girlfriend sometimes just when i try to move on . He tells me he lives me .i am so confused back up plan or ego trip ?

  • Sylvernia Harps October 30, 2016, 12:36 pm

    When your exboyfriend continues to reiterate the fact that he loves the new woman but continues to want to see or talk to me.What is the true meaning of that and what must i do

  • Saty October 23, 2016, 11:05 pm

    When i tell to my boy friend in message if u want to break up with me than break up and reply me yes or no but he did not give me reply and we stop to talk .

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  • Janice September 26, 2016, 6:49 am

    He left me and went back to his ex he told me he would never date anyone with kids again but he’s like a father figure to my kids.i asked him if he missed me and he said sometimes.he starts to think if things would work out if we get back together but then he remembers the bad times which he says are more than good.i don’t think it was that way but who knows he only calls once or twice a day and always asks me if I’m with someone and what I’m he really over me already..

  • Brittany September 10, 2016, 12:20 am

    I know my ex loves me. He broke up with me and said he does t want to date me because I have kids. He tells his friends and family it will never be again and if he dates anyone again it will not be anyone who had kids but tells me when he does date again that it would be me. He jokes with me sometimes and flirts but says I should move on. He then seems hesitate when someone asked me out. Does he love and refuses to embrace it because family or has he realized he doesn’t love me at all

  • Luthando June 30, 2016, 6:04 am

    I’ve an understanding now thanx a lot

  • Nula April 15, 2016, 1:30 pm

    Why did he do this

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