If you’re seeing a guy (or you have a crush on a guy) and you want to know if he misses you, there are some very clear signals that he’s thinking about you and isn’t sure how to communicate in an attractive way…
When a man really falls for a woman and can’t stop thinking about her, he makes sure to keep the flow of conversation going. He tries to get her attention. He sends very small but significant signals, hoping that he’ll keep her attention.
He is hoping for another chance to get to talk to you. And yes, there is still hope for a relationship blossoming.
Yet sometimes, if he isn’t reaching out to you, he may still be thinking about you and missing you but maybe he isn’t really sure what he should say to you.
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So here are seven signs you might have missed that show he may be missing you. In fact, he may even be missing you like crazy and is just too shy to admit it!
1. He Says Just About Anything to Keep the Conversation Going… Or Try to Keep It Going
Whether it’s mundane talk about the weekend, sharing silly memes, or talking about movies or books he enjoys, he’s desperate to keep you entertained. Good sign…he doesn’t want you to forget him. He wants that open channel of communication.
2. He’s Become Your Social Media Stalker
If you the guy you like has been “stalking” you on social media, he may be trying to show just how much he misses you.
It’s not the direct approach…but then again, why else would he like every new post, or try to befriend you, or like your photos if he’s “not missing you”? Men who stalk, definitely miss!
3. He Shares Old Photos or Social Media Post From Days Gone By
Sites like Facebook have made it easy to share memories and so your smitten man continues to look to the past — namely by sharing photos, events and status messages that involve you. It may be an inside joke he once shared with you, a series of photos, or a gift you gave him. He may also ask you for pictures (past or current). Nostalgic guys (who are missing you) are extra visual. They want to recreate those past feelings with a few glimpses of how life used to be.
4. He’s Quick to Answer Messages
Men who don’t care just don’t rush after the phone! But men who are still thinking about you are very quick to reply to messages, minutes or even seconds after you start a conversation.
5. He’s Unusually Moody When You Talk to Him
If the guy in your life seems unusually angry whenever you talk, it’s possible he’s having trouble dealing with you—and in other words, missing you dearly. He takes things out on you, hoping to elicit strong emotion from you one way or another.
I know it’s not the most flattering sign in the word but it happens all the time. He may be wishing that you’d communicate more with him. So when he does end up talking to you, he’s a bit frustrated.
6. He Puts Lots of Effort Into Meeting Up
An uninterested guy would probably play it by ear. But this guy, who misses you so much, is going overboard, making sure all of your needs are met.
He plans things in great detail and spends lots of time and money making sure your next meeting is everything you hoped it would be. He wants your next meeting to be special because he misses you so much.
7. He Posts Like He’s Talking to You Without Talking to You
Well yes, he probably is sending you strange esoteric messages, especially if no one else seems to get his mysterious references either. When guys experience divided emotions they do share their feelings. It hurts to keep it inside and so they express themselves in ways that don’t always make a lot of sense.
He may not be talking directly to you…but he could be processing how he feels inside. He’s coming to terms with what’s happened and what he wants.
Which is…you guessed it… he misses you and wants you back.
When in doubt, pay attention to the more obvious signs. Don’t dream. Analyze his patterns of behavior. How hard does he work to get your attention and keep it? If he really misses you, he’s working overtime!
I hope this helps clarify things for you. One important thing is that him missing you is just one piece of the puzzle, if you want him back and you want him to stay with you forever then you need to make him see you as “the one” – the woman he couldn’t live without.
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In summary…
How to Tell If He Misses You
1. He says just about anything to keep the conversation going… or try to keep it going
2. He’s become your social media stalker
3. He shares old photos or social media post from days gone by
4. He’s quick to answer messages
5. He’s unusually moody when you talk to him
6. He puts lots of effort into meeting up
7. He posts like he’s talking to you without talking to you