21 Questions Game: Everything You Need To Know!

21 Questions Game: Everything You Need To Know!

21 questions is a classic game to get to know someone. As a matter of fact, my very first relationship at the age of fifteen began because a girl asked me to play it! It’s really simple and works best with two people. The game is as simple as the title, you have to ask twenty-one random questions as well as answer twenty-one random questions from the person you’re playing with. It’s so simple yet amazingly effective. It truly is the easiest and most harmless way to get to know another person.

It can be played in a group setting, but to me that ruins the personal level of just two people talking and it makes the game long, and boring, and actually kind of complicated. Honestly, most articles out there explaining 21 questions are unnecessarily confusing and take away from the spirit of what actually makes it a good game!

I’ve only ever heard or seen it being played by two people, or three at most. It’s generally a game you play with someone you’ve been thinking about a lot, someone you like, and want to get to know.

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Obviously, you’ll get to know someone better and most certainly a lot of these questions will break off into real conversations. If that’s the case, just let the conversation flow naturally!

The most important thing is not to lie! And don’t answer questions that are rude or uncomfortable, nor ask them. Keep it fun and light, and things will definitely start to loosen up. It’s a fun game, here are some good questions to ask while playing it!

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Good Questions to Ask When Playing 21 Questions:

1. If you had as much money as you wanted what is the first thing you would do?

2. What is your favorite tv show?

3. Which character would you be from your favorite movie or tv show? And why?

4. What would be your nightmare job, and how much would you have to get paid to do it?

5. If you could change one thing in the world, or stop one thing that is going on, what would that be?

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6. What is the most life changing event that has ever happened to you?

7. Is there anything you totally regret doing/ not doing?

8. Do you play any instruments?

9. Do you like animals? What type is your favorite?

10. Are you a dog person or a cat person?

11. If you had a time machine what era would you choose to live in and why?

12. Do you have any secrets or things you do that no one knows about?

13. What is your favorite type of food/ restaurant?

14. Do you have any cool hobbies?

15. How old were you when you had your first crush? And who was she / he?

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16. What is the craziest/ most dangerous thing you have ever done?

17. What is the most trouble you have been in either with the law or your family?

18. Do you have any social media or technology addictions?

19. Would you be able to live with no smartphone, computer or tv for a year?

20. What’s the most difficult thing you have ever accomplished?

21. What kind of car would you drive if you could have any vehicle in the world?

22. Is there anything you wish you were taught or knew at a younger age?

23. Do you have any hidden sides to your personality?

24. If you had kids what type of parent would you be?

25. What would you have to do to be “disowned” by your family?

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These are some great starter questions to get to know anyone and are totally gender neutral. One of these questions will spark up some good banter and get someone into the deeper details of who they really are on the inside. You’d be surprised by some people’s answers! Keep the questions within your comfortability level and have fun. This game is a great way to get to know anyone, regardless of the future you have in mind with that person!

21 questions can be a good way to get to know your crush more and discover if he likes you or not.

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30 comments… add one
  • jennylyn May 15, 2018, 9:33 pm

    believe it or not, i haven’t tried playing this game! this article has everything i need to know and i will make time to play it with my friends. can’t wait to experience the fun playing it with them.

  • lovi May 14, 2018, 8:01 pm

    these are good questions to ask in a 21 questions game! my favorite is “if you could change one thing in the world, or stop one thing that is going on, what would that be?” – for me, this is a perfect question to get to know a person better.

  • joey May 10, 2018, 7:29 pm

    are you looking for an a fun and easy way to get to know your crush? play this game and you won’t fail. you want to uncover your man’s greatest secret? this is also the game to play!

  • suri May 9, 2018, 5:22 pm

    when playing this game, you must prepare yourself to answer all questions truthfully and not hold back. you also have to choose your questions wise fully and for me, the questions in this post are the best and i will list them down now.

  • stacey May 9, 2018, 9:48 am

    these sample questions are a good idea. will ask them on my date with my crush next week and see if he’d love the game.

  • nympha May 7, 2018, 5:07 pm

    this is game full of fun but you should respect the privacy of the person being asked questions may it be your friend, boyfriend or loved ones.

  • gabby May 3, 2018, 3:19 pm

    i love playing this game because it let me know about an individual’s personality but i don’t have enough questions on my mind. thanks for sharing this very helpful article.

  • diana May 2, 2018, 8:38 pm

    i love these ideas! most of them i haven’t tried yet. allow me to use these and will tell you about what happens. hope it goes well! =)

  • kristel May 1, 2018, 2:31 pm

    this game has very simple rules and easy to play. honesty is very important if you want to enjoy playing this game. if you don’t spend much time with your friends and would like to improve how well you know them, then this is the perfect game to play.

  • marian April 30, 2018, 10:45 pm

    i used to play this 21 questions game with my friends but never tried it with a man i’m seeing. i guess this is another great way to learn more about him. thanks for this brilliant idea!

  • cardi April 27, 2018, 1:16 pm

    this article explains the 21 questions game clearly. i’ve read other articles about this game and i found them very confusing. thank you for sharing this post and giving tips on how 21 questions can become a good game.

  • carmina April 26, 2018, 7:04 pm

    i haven’t tried playing this with my man and i’m glad i saw this article today. i will try this game with him this weekend and hoping to find out more about him. thanks! =)

  • catherine April 25, 2018, 1:58 pm

    you will have a better relationship with someone if you know him better, regardless if it is your friend or boyfriend. 21 questions game is definitely a good way to start a conversation and the topics it can cover are amazing.

  • helga April 24, 2018, 7:37 pm

    21 questions game is a really interesting way to ask him questions and get him to talking. i love these tips and i will use them the next time i’ll hang out with my boyfriend.

  • jaiden April 23, 2018, 2:40 pm

    if you wanna have fun and learn more about your partner, then this is the perfect game to play. i tried this with my boyfriend and we were able to share our inner thoughts and feelings which i think will help keep our relationship strong.

  • ivory April 20, 2018, 5:30 pm

    this can start off as a game, but if you’re really up for it…you can drive this to a more meaningful conversation. it’s always best to start opening up a conversation lightly and as you go through ot, you both can bring more to the table.

  • stephanie April 19, 2018, 2:30 pm

    if you want to know your crush better, asking him boring basic questions won’t help. try playing this game with him and you will surely get an understanding into his mind and habits.

  • tiffany April 18, 2018, 3:40 pm

    the 21 questions game is indeed an effective tool to casually get to know someone better. it’s easy and fun at the same time, it’ll feel so comfortable asking and answering questions.

  • josephine April 17, 2018, 2:16 pm

    great! i now have a better understanding on how to play this game well to get the most fun. i thought this game is complicated but, i was wrong. it is actually simple and straightforward.

  • amelia April 16, 2018, 4:47 pm

    21 questions game is always a game we play when me and my friends are together. i realized.. this is also something fun & beneficial for you to get to know someone you like or already dating.

  • jaya April 13, 2018, 5:49 pm

    tried playing this game last night with my boyfriend and some questions led down into conversations. for me, that is the whole point of the game…to discover more about the person you are playing it with.

  • corea April 12, 2018, 5:42 pm

    there are so many ways in which you can really have a good look at how your relationship will grow and 1 important thing is thru communication. these ideas are great and will help you really gauge your compatibility and the future you might have with him.

  • alex April 11, 2018, 1:24 pm

    this game is very popular and i can’t wait to try it with my crush so i could discover more about the different aspects of his personality. i hope i could also find out what he thinks about me.

  • georgina April 10, 2018, 7:42 pm

    it’s really a whole lot of effort to get to know someone in a deeper level esp when you like the person so much. thanks to the technology, we can get all the help we need thru the internet and social media easier. I am personally thankful for this post because these are awesome ideas i can use.

  • dorothy April 9, 2018, 2:54 pm

    my friend introduced this game to me and i fell in love with it. i also played this game with my crush so i could exchange words with him and it went well! by playing this game, i found out that he also has a crush on me!

  • francine April 6, 2018, 1:38 pm

    i’ve been playing this game since childhood and it just never gets old. i grew up loving it and playing it with my pals. i haven’t tried it with this guy i just met and i think i just might use these tips. (=

  • avril April 5, 2018, 12:36 pm

    these questions are nice! i am sure that they can really break off into real conversations. just be cautious of the questions you want to ask, may it be with your friends or someone you like so they will be comfortable.

  • kei April 4, 2018, 3:06 pm

    this is absolutely the game that every couple should play to get to know each other more! it is also perfect for parties! i am sure my friends will love this game!

  • olivia April 3, 2018, 1:58 pm

    i actually love these questions! they’re really going to be helpful if you want to know someone better and have an awesome time as well.

  • ingrid April 2, 2018, 2:47 pm

    i’ve been wanting to know if my crush likes me too or not and the questions on this game are enough to help me find the answer. i am very much excited to play this game with him!

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