What is the purpose of playing the “this or that” game?
Surprisingly, this or that questions are a fun way to get to know what someone likes, and if you guys are compatible… whether it’s friendship compatibility or relationship compatibility.
It’s also a great way to burn some time. You can also turn “this or that” into a game and have some fun with it. You can play either with a group of people, or with a single person.
In order to play with a small group all you need is a coin each, and something to cover it up with. One person asks another a question. You put your coin heads up if you think it’s the first option and heads down if you think it’s the second. After the person answers the question everyone shows their coins. It a good way to see how well all the players know each other.
Another game you can play with just a single other person is super simple as well.
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Read or think of a question before you ask it and answer it to yourself. Then proceed to ask that question to the other player. if their answer is the same as yours you get to ask another question. If its different than your answer then it is the other players turn to ask the questions In the same way. This is a super way to see how compatible you are with another person, and what your similarities are.
Also, if one of the questions trails off into a conversation, that’s great! If an answer intrigues you, don’t be afraid to ask more and get a more in-depth answer.
1. Submissive or dominant?
2. Outgoing or shy?
3. Clubs or bars?
4. Beer or wine?
5. Big or small?
6. Dog or cat?
7. Netflix or hulu?
8. Streaming services or live tv?
9. Running or weight lifting?
10. Hamburgers or pizza?
11. New clothes or vintage?
12. Facebook or Instagram?
13. Ice cream or shakes?
14. Underground music or pop?
15. Party person or small gatherings?
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16. Baseball or basketball?
17. Expensive car or expensive home?
18. Walking or running?
19. Sneakers or sandals?
20. Skiing or snowboarding?
21. Audio book or real book?
22. Sweater or hoodie?
23. Eat out at a restaurant, or delivery?
24. Motorcycle or bike?
25. Fishing or hiking?
26. Mac or pc?
27. Iced coffee or hot coffee?
28. Cruise ship or resort?
29. Plane or train?
30. Vegetables or meat?
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31. Sprite or 7up?
32. Coke or Pepsi?
33. Coupe or sedan?
34. Mercedes or bmw?
35. Intelligence or humor?
36. Candy or cake?
37. Breakfast or dinner?
38. Money or love?
39. Pink or purple?
40. Cell phone or home phone?
41. Text or talk?
42. Shower or bath?
43. A sugar daddy/mamma or loyalty?
44. Rich and popular or poor and famous?
45. Couch or bed?
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46. tv or movies?
47. Beauty or intelligence?
48. Fame or true love?
49. City or countryside?
50. Work or play?
51. Android or iphone?
52. Family guy or south park?
53. Computer games or console games?
54. Live in the past or future?
55. Podcasts or radio?
56. Vacuuming or doing the dishes?
57. Sunglasses or no glasses?
58. Hat or beanie?
59. Vacation at home or international?
60. Spend or save?
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61. The truth or another’s feelings?
62. Beach or mountains?
63. Hot weather or cold weather?
64. Rain or shine?
65. Sandwich or salad?
66. Sculpture or painting?
67. Classical or modern?
68. Tea or coffee?
69. Italian food or Chinese?
70. Comforter or blanket?
71. Punch or kick?
72. Matches or lighters?
73. Cinco de Mayo or St. Patrick’s day?
74. Al Pacino or Robert De Niro?
75. Skydiving or bungee jumping?
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Try these questions out in general or make it a game to see how well you know someone, as well as how much of a match you are. These questions are fun and harmless, and I’m sure will help you break into some good conversations.
Always listen intently! One answer may lead to the next best question. Even getting an honest answer to half of these would build a very accurate profile of a person, so give them a try!
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i will not forget this game! my boyfriend proposed to me while playing this! it was really unexpected and i could not believe he was serious with it!
nice list! these questions will absolutely allow me to get to know someone better like what they want or what is something that is going on in their life, things that we do not talk about in a normal conversation.
i found these questions very interesting and i am sure it can easily start a conversation. my friends and boyfriend will definitely enjoy playing this game.
i met this guy last week and i am really attractive to him. we will be having our first date tonight and i want to get to know him by playing this game so i could get a better comprehension of what he actually feel and also his likes.
i love this game! whether i am just asking my guy this or that questions or playing it with my friends, i always ask for more details if their answers surprises me.
we will be having a party tonight and i will add entertainment by playing this game. my crush will be there and this will give me a perfect chance to get to know him better.
this or that question game is easy and fun. i remember playing this with my friends from childhood and still do until now.
will share this article to my friends so we can start having fun and have interesting conversation that we will never forget. oh yah! i can ask these questions to my guy too! perfect!
“expensive car or expensive home?” i can’t choose! these questions are really designed to work and help uncover the likes and dislikes of your friends even your loved ones.
this game can help you gauge if you and your guy are compatible. try it and see the results. you can bring out the best or even worst of each other too.
if you are bored, just play this game with your friends instead of going to the movies and spend a ton of money. nothing can beat a good laugh with your friends or loved ones especially discovering more about them.
this or that question game is definitely a classic or ma and my girl friends. i remember we used to play this growing up and we still love playing it with each other. but my favorite is when we try to get our crushes into the game. haha!
oh well, these questions will definitely make me think! if you want to burn some time with your friends and discover how well you know each other, then this is the perfect game to play.
love these ideas! thanks for always sharing your awesome tips! my relationship with my boyfriend has been doing better since i started reading your posts.
this game is the perfect pastime! i will make the this or that question in this article my ultimate list! i am so excited to play this game with my loved ones and i am sure all of us will have fun.
this or that question game is always fun to play with your crush or date. you’ll surely know a man and his interests with this so go ahead and ask these questions away!
this is a classic game we played growing up. but i didn’t do it with any of the men i dated. i think it’s also a good idea to try. thanks for the tip! (;
i’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years, but there are still questions in which i would like to know the correct answers to. i still want to get a better understanding of his likes and dislikes and asking these questions is the perfect way to start.
i grew up playing this game with my cousins and we grew older, it gets better and even naughtier. it’s so much fun and i love playing this or that questions hen we’re traveling for a weekend long drive. it keeps us from getting bored and feeling sleepy.
i love the this or that questions in this post becausen they are non-threatening and anyone can answer them. this is indeed a great way to get to know someone better.
definitely a fun way to get to know someone. if you like a person, try these with them and you’ll surely enjoy together!
this is a really nice talking game that i will never get tired of playing with my friends and my man! what i love the most is how it lets me discover what similarities we have.
this list is really helpful. this or that questions are awesome in finding more about the person you’re interested in or even your boyfriend. this questions can range from funny to serious and you’ll both enjoy for sure!
if you are looking for a great game where you and your friends can have fun talking about the things you love the most, this is the game to play. this is absolutely an excellent icebreaker that you can play with your guy too!
i love this or that game and i grew up playing this with my cousins. thanks for reminding me, this can also be fun with my hubby!
this game is so much fun! my friends and i wanted to burn some time while waiting for our food to be served so we tried it and we were surprised at some of the answers! will absolutely play this game with them again!
we tried this last night and had so much fun with some of the ideas shared here! we laughed and ended up really happy with how our day went. thanks for sharing this! (=
you can’t go wrong with these ‘this or that’ questions! i would like to discover more about my partner and this game is a good way to start. can’t wait to try it!
these game is really fun, i personally love it! and these ideas are really great, i’ll definitely use them on our next date! =)
i’ve been thinking of ways on how to know if the guy i am dating and i are compatible. i think these questions can help me unveil his likes and dislikes. what i love the most is that these questions are also very easy to remember.