7 Tips To Make You More Attractive To Men

7 Tips To Make You More Attractive To Men

Believe it or not, the majority of men do not simply look at physical attractiveness as the end all be all when choosing a woman. Naturally, it will often be your looks that catch a guy’s attention. However, there are other factors such as personality, attitude, posture and voice tone, to name but a few, that can all have a significant influence on your level of attractiveness.

Thus, in order to be more attractive to men, you are going to want to focus on both how you look as well as various qualities, characteristics and behaviors.

Below are six of the top tips that can help to make you more attractive to the guys.

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Tips To Make Yourself More Attractive To Guys

Be Confident

This one goes for both men and women as it is a universally attractive quality to possess. A person who is confident in themselves will naturally grab the attention of the opposite sex and create some degree of intrigue much more easily that someone who is lacking in this important trait.

Being confident in both how you look and who you are as a person is vital to portray a positive self-image.

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Being more confident in the way you look can simply be improved by keeping yourself in great shape, going to the gym and eating a healthy diet. As you feel healthier, you will also start to feel better about yourself. Paying attention to your wardrobe can also help you to look great and feel more confident.

You also want to feel confidence in your abilities and who you are as a person. Spending time getting to know yourself a little better by reflecting on your values can help you to gain a deeper insight into what you have to offer. Reflecting upon your achievements and planning to strive for new ones can also contribute to boosting your sense of self-worth.

If you want to take it a step further, take up new hobbies and learn new skills. This is a great way to build your self-esteem and who knows, you may also meet some great guys at your new evening class!

Be Independent

When it comes to men, being independent is something that is very desirable. Men love women that showcase their own independence whether it be through being able to take care of themselves financially to being able to make their own decisions.

Not having to rely on other people to help you with day to day life is something that can instantly make you more desirable to men. This shows them that you are both willing and able to stand on your own two feet and are a person who can also be supportive and relied upon in situations when the going gets tough, rather than being a burden that he has to look after.

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Be Feminine

Certainly, the vast majority of guys out there are going to want a woman who is feminine. This is natural as guys are more attracted to feminine qualities in a woman. However, there is also such a thing as being too feminine so try to avoid being the girl that always dresses in pink and talks about kittens and fluffy bunnies.

Be Intelligent

This doesn’t mean you need to be a brain surgeon or a rocket scientist so don’t worry. No, it’s not necessary to be super-brainy, you just need to be a person that has her own views and opinions and takes an interest in the world. When it comes to choosing a girlfriend, most guys will want someone that then can have a meaningful conversation with and someone who will stimulate their interest.

If you think you may need to put a little work into this area, then you will want to hit the books, educate yourself, keep up with current events, and do a bit of travelling. By doing all of these things, you should be able to hold a decent conversation and also impress him with your life experiences.

Have a Personal Style

Your style should be a full on expression of your own personality. Rather than follow what is trendy or copy someone else’s style, you will want to try to develop your own personal style that you will be able to implement into your wardrobe which can really help you stand out from other women.

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Use Eye Contact

We’ve all heard that the eyes are the window to the soul, well this may certainly be true when it comes to love.

When it comes to attraction and love, how we communicate with our eyes can make a big difference in the messages that we are sending to the other person and therefore, make us more attractive to the person we are communicating with. You can find out more about this here at coopervision.com.

Allowing your gaze to linger on the other person for just a second longer than would otherwise be normal, maintaining eye contact with a soft yet slightly intense gaze and strategically allowing your gaze to pass from one eye to the other, then to the mouth and then back to the eyes again are all techniques that can convey attraction with the eyes, according to this article by femalesecrets.net.

Don’t Over-Do The Makeup

A lot of women have a tendency to wear too much makeup, thinking that it will make them more attractive to guys. However, guys don’t like too much makeup as it just doesn’t look good if it is plastered all over your face. Wearing too much makeup can also make a woman come across as shallow and insecure.

A little makeup is nice and can certainly help to enhance your features. However, less is always more when it comes to makeup. Guys do notice and appreciate a woman who can look good with-out makeup.

Reading this may have shocked you and caused you to worry if you may be wearing too much makeup. If that’s the case then take a look at this article by makeup.allwomenstalk.com to find out if you need to change how much you are wearing.


There are quite a few things that a woman can do to make herself more attractive to men, and this list is by no means exhaustive.

Some of the most important things to focus on are your self-confidence and really loving yourself. No man is going to be able to love you if you are not able to love yourself. Establishing your independence is also going to go a long way with men as it shows them that you are a mature woman who is not going to be reliant on him for financial support.

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In summary…

How To Be More Attractive To Men

  1. Be confident
  2. Be independent
  3. Be feminine
  4. Be intelligent
  5. Have a personal style
  6. Use eye contact
  7. Don’t over-do the makeup

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Article by the American Dating Society – www.asnamnat.org.

22 comments… add one
  • maricris February 3, 2017, 12:29 pm

    be feminine. men are attracted to confident but really finesse women

  • samantha January 25, 2017, 1:44 pm

    be smart in choosing the person you want to date. it doesn’t only require you to be confident and attractive. make sure you are also trying to get the attention of a worthy guy

  • barbara January 24, 2017, 7:07 pm

    i totally agree with this article. everything mentioned is very true and important to remember

  • janna January 23, 2017, 10:45 pm

    having a personal style is definitely as must. never try too hard t be someone else just to look good to a man, you wouldn’t know it doesn’t even attract him.

  • rachelle January 20, 2017, 11:28 pm

    indeed, very true! men do not only look at the physical attributes any more.

  • emilia January 18, 2017, 7:20 pm

    men do not like too much make up. they look for confident and smart women.

  • candy January 17, 2017, 3:35 pm

    attraction is not only physical. men are attracted to smart and confident women who can be independent.

  • alexa January 16, 2017, 9:07 pm

    love all these tips, they surely are helpful

  • beth January 12, 2017, 9:44 pm

    sincerity is key and using eye contact is indeed very important.

  • alexandra January 11, 2017, 1:55 pm

    i love this article, absolutely learned from it and definitely worth the try!

  • ellen January 10, 2017, 1:24 pm

    be feminine but strong and confident too.

  • ofelia January 9, 2017, 12:03 pm

    on point! real men do not look at just the physical appearance but the woman’s personality and attitude towards life.

  • prudence January 6, 2017, 2:23 pm

    confidence is key. men are easily attracted to confident and independent women.

  • fiona January 5, 2017, 9:37 pm

    this is so true..do not focus only on your outside appearance.

  • sadie January 4, 2017, 5:49 pm

    be feminine but do not put too much make up on. men are attracted to pretty ladies, not clowns

  • olivia January 3, 2017, 12:24 pm

    be independent but not arrogant as this may intimidate and push men away.

  • karmela January 2, 2017, 11:58 am

    this is awesome! not the typical tips that make you attractive but kinda slutty.

  • debbie December 21, 2016, 12:35 pm

    be independent and confident. men are easily attracted to women of these characters. they find it really sexy when a woman isn’t too needy

  • connie December 20, 2016, 12:16 pm

    more than anything, be yourself and be happy!

  • zerha December 16, 2016, 3:53 pm

    most men like feminine women. my boyfriend said this is why he was attracted to me in the first place. <3

  • emily December 15, 2016, 11:07 pm

    Wow! I used these tips to impress my crush and it worked! Later that day he came up to me and said, “you’re pretty, I like you!” I was so excited so I confessed my love for him. And We Live Happily Ever After For Today And Forever Shall We Be!

  • enya December 15, 2016, 2:03 pm

    you’re right. we cannot afford to overdo make up or even showing too much skin. this will make a guy turn away

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