How do you know if you’re attractive? Do people think you’re hot? Here’s how to know for sure.
Unfortunately, it’s not at all unusual for women to feel insecure about the way they look or carry themselves. It seems that we find more and more things to feel self-conscious about every day – we’re too thin, too fat, we don’t dress “right”, we don’t laugh cute enough, we’re not feminine enough, we’re not interesting enough… we really put ourselves down a lot.
And because we’re so used to underestimating ourselves and straight-up undermining our own qualities, it is entirely possible to grow up and miss the memo that all of your old teenage insecurities are not relevant anymore and that not only are you not a hideous social outcast… but you’re actually hot! And you probably don’t even notice it! Here are 9 signs that men want you way more than you think they do.
Are you attractive in general? This is one thing, but how about when you are in a relationship with a specific man? Take this quiz to find out if you are his type.
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1. People think you get compliments all the time
When men and women alike compliment you, they always say something like “Oh, but I’m sure you hear that all the time!” Does that confuse you? You may think that if you are not complimented on something, it means you don’t deserve to be, but the truth is that people often assume that you hear compliments all the time and there is no use bugging you with the same thing again.
No man wants to be the cheesy one who goes to the intimidatingly beautiful woman in the room and tells her she’s pretty, as if she doesn’t already know. But rest assured they’ve all noticed that you’re striking, and they’re probably psyching themselves up in their heads waiting to come and start up a conversation…
2. You’re always dating someone
You keep hearing people complain of dry spells, but you’ve… never really had one? Just lucky, you guess. Wrong! It’s because you’re a catch! You think this happens to everyone? Not likely. If you have men buzzing around you at all times and you never find yourself single, it’s because they think you’re beautiful, intelligent, and interesting; someone they want to have a relationship with.
That doesn’t happen to all of us, otherwise we wouldn’t have all the jokes about sad spinsters with lots of cats. Open your eyes to your power!
3. Men are attracted to your confidence
Men like it when a woman is self-assured and in charge of herself and her life. You may think that your no-bullsh*t attitude is not scoring you points with the men around you, but the truth is that they love it! A powerful, independent woman turns them on, because you know what you want and you have the confidence to get it.
As a person with shaky self-esteem and zero confidence in her appearance, this may come as shocking, but you’ve gotta look at yourself objectively and realize what a great package you bring to a relationship.
4. You always get told what a good kisser you are or how good you are in bed
Men don’t often go around telling every woman what a great lover she is. In fact, a lot of women have negative experiences related to intimacy. But you, for you it’s normal to be told how good sex with you is. That’s because men really appreciate a skilled and committed lover. They love it when you love sex and when you put yourself into it, because they love it, too! It’s important to them. So, when they meet a woman who is interested in great sex, they cherish her.
5. You literally turn heads
Have you ever walked into a room and had people look up, or follow you with their gaze? Do they turn their heads to look at you? Listen, we’re all beautiful in our own right and all, but we’re hardly turning heads. If you achieve that effect, it’s because you’ve got a demanding presence. Something about you, about who you are, and the way you carry yourself obviously gives off some kind of vibe that says “Notice me!”. And notice, they do. They want you, girl.
6. Your inner beauty shines through
More important than how beautiful you are, and how hot your body is, or anything else like that, is your attitude, your mind, and the way you go about life – genuinely, honestly, and true to yourself. It may be hard to believe, but that is rarely encountered nowadays, and meeting a genuine woman can be refreshing for a lot of men.
They find it disarming that you are your true self, without playing pretend, and just trying to be the best person you can be. A lot of guys appreciate just a good person, so it’s no wonder they fall in love with you. You have both inner beauty and outer beauty, and that, my friend, is what turns heads.
7. Men (and women) like to talk to you a lot
If you’ve ever brushed it off when men come to talk to you because you think it’s only because they want to see your lips move, think again – it’s not all about sex. Sure, that’s important, but men love being with someone who is a good listener, and who can understand and share their passion.
So, when they encounter a genuine and enthusiastic conversation partner, they want to just keep talking to you for hours. In a world of talkers, you are a good listener, which makes you a veritable gem of a woman, so they won’t want to let you go.
8. People admire the way you carry yourself
For men, your general vibe is very important. It’s what determines how they feel about you. Your vibe is the way you feel, the way you act, and the sentiments you project outwardly. That’s what the people around you pick up on, including guys. If you have a good, positive attitude towards the world and the people around you, men will want to spend time with you and they’ll want to be around you. However, if you are projecting a negative attitude, that will turn men off.
People admire you and want to be around you because you’ve got a good vibe and you carry yourself positively. You make the guys happy, and that’s all they want in a woman. It’s the ultimate attractive trait, and it looks like you’ve got it going on!
9. You seem to have a lot of guy friends who connect with you
Look, just like us, men want a partner who they can connect with on a deeper level. You know, someone who is compatible, and who shares their life pursuits and dreams, or at least understands and supports them. Unfortunately, a lot of people are very self-centered, so finding someone who is open to welcoming other people’s dreams into their life is a task in itself.
That’s why, when men encounter women who they can connect with, they tend to stick around. Counted your male friends, lately? Of course, some of them will be genuine friends, with no underlying interest, but think hard – have you had men tell you how easy you are to talk to, how nice it is that someone understands them and shares their opinions or goals? Someone who “gets” them? That is who they want, and that someone is you. Make of that what you will.
If you are not his type, then you can bypass that. I’ve found there are 2 pivotal moments that determine if your relationship ends in heartbreak or you get to live happily ever after so it’s vitally important that you take the next step and read this right now, because at some point the man you want is going to ask himself: Is this the woman I should commit to for the long term? That answer determines everything… Do you know how men determine if a woman is girlfriend material (the type of woman he commits himself to) or if he sees you as just a fling? If not you need to read this next: The #1 Thing Men Desire In A Woman…
The second problem almost all women experience: At some point he starts to lose interest. He doesn’t call you back or he becomes emotionally closed off. He seems like he’s losing interest or pulling away – do you know what to do? If not you’re putting your relationship and the future of your love life in great danger, read this now or risk losing him forever: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This…
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Signs other people find you attractive
- People think you get compliments all the time
- You’re always dating someone
- Men are attracted to your confidence
- You always get told what a good kisser you are or how good you are in bed
- You literally turn heads
- Your inner beauty shines through
- Men (and women) like to talk to you a lot
- People admire the way you carry yourself
- You seem to have a lot of guy friends who connect with you