Signs You're Attractive: How To Tell If People Find You Pretty Hot

Signs You’re Attractive: How To Tell If People Find You Pretty Hot

How do you know if you’re attractive? Do people think you’re hot? Here’s how to know for sure.

Unfortunately, it’s not at all unusual for women to feel insecure about the way they look or carry themselves. It seems that we find more and more things to feel self-conscious about every day – we’re too thin, too fat, we don’t dress “right”, we don’t laugh cute enough, we’re not feminine enough, we’re not interesting enough… we really put ourselves down a lot.

And because we’re so used to underestimating ourselves and straight-up undermining our own qualities, it is entirely possible to grow up and miss the memo that all of your old teenage insecurities are not relevant anymore and that not only are you not a hideous social outcast… but you’re actually hot! And you probably don’t even notice it! Here are 9 signs that men want you way more than you think they do.

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Are you attractive in general? This is one thing, but how about when you are in a relationship with a specific man? Take this quiz to find out if you are his type.

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Click here to take our quick (and shockingly accurate) “Are You His Type” Quiz right now and find out if you are really the type of the man you like…

1. People think you get compliments all the time

When men and women alike compliment you, they always say something like “Oh, but I’m sure you hear that all the time!” Does that confuse you? You may think that if you are not complimented on something, it means you don’t deserve to be, but the truth is that people often assume that you hear compliments all the time and there is no use bugging you with the same thing again.

No man wants to be the cheesy one who goes to the intimidatingly beautiful woman in the room and tells her she’s pretty, as if she doesn’t already know. But rest assured they’ve all noticed that you’re striking, and they’re probably psyching themselves up in their heads waiting to come and start up a conversation…

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2. You’re always dating someone

You keep hearing people complain of dry spells, but you’ve… never really had one? Just lucky, you guess. Wrong! It’s because you’re a catch! You think this happens to everyone? Not likely. If you have men buzzing around you at all times and you never find yourself single, it’s because they think you’re beautiful, intelligent, and interesting; someone they want to have a relationship with.

That doesn’t happen to all of us, otherwise we wouldn’t have all the jokes about sad spinsters with lots of cats. Open your eyes to your power!

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3. Men are attracted to your confidence

Men like it when a woman is self-assured and in charge of herself and her life. You may think that your no-bullsh*t attitude is not scoring you points with the men around you, but the truth is that they love it! A powerful, independent woman turns them on, because you know what you want and you have the confidence to get it.

As a person with shaky self-esteem and zero confidence in her appearance, this may come as shocking, but you’ve gotta look at yourself objectively and realize what a great package you bring to a relationship.

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4. You always get told what a good kisser you are or how good you are in bed

Men don’t often go around telling every woman what a great lover she is. In fact, a lot of women have negative experiences related to intimacy. But you, for you it’s normal to be told how good sex with you is. That’s because men really appreciate a skilled and committed lover. They love it when you love sex and when you put yourself into it, because they love it, too! It’s important to them. So, when they meet a woman who is interested in great sex, they cherish her.

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5. You literally turn heads

Have you ever walked into a room and had people look up, or follow you with their gaze? Do they turn their heads to look at you? Listen, we’re all beautiful in our own right and all, but we’re hardly turning heads. If you achieve that effect, it’s because you’ve got a demanding presence. Something about you, about who you are, and the way you carry yourself obviously gives off some kind of vibe that says “Notice me!”. And notice, they do. They want you, girl.

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6. Your inner beauty shines through

More important than how beautiful you are, and how hot your body is, or anything else like that, is your attitude, your mind, and the way you go about life – genuinely, honestly, and true to yourself. It may be hard to believe, but that is rarely encountered nowadays, and meeting a genuine woman can be refreshing for a lot of men.

They find it disarming that you are your true self, without playing pretend, and just trying to be the best person you can be. A lot of guys appreciate just a good person, so it’s no wonder they fall in love with you. You have both inner beauty and outer beauty, and that, my friend, is what turns heads.

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7. Men (and women) like to talk to you a lot

If you’ve ever brushed it off when men come to talk to you because you think it’s only because they want to see your lips move, think again – it’s not all about sex. Sure, that’s important, but men love being with someone who is a good listener, and who can understand and share their passion.

So, when they encounter a genuine and enthusiastic conversation partner, they want to just keep talking to you for hours. In a world of talkers, you are a good listener, which makes you a veritable gem of a woman, so they won’t want to let you go.

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8. People admire the way you carry yourself

For men, your general vibe is very important. It’s what determines how they feel about you. Your vibe is the way you feel, the way you act, and the sentiments you project outwardly. That’s what the people around you pick up on, including guys. If you have a good, positive attitude towards the world and the people around you, men will want to spend time with you and they’ll want to be around you. However, if you are projecting a negative attitude, that will turn men off.

People admire you and want to be around you because you’ve got a good vibe and you carry yourself positively. You make the guys happy, and that’s all they want in a woman. It’s the ultimate attractive trait, and it looks like you’ve got it going on!

9. You seem to have a lot of guy friends who connect with you

Look, just like us, men want a partner who they can connect with on a deeper level. You know, someone who is compatible, and who shares their life pursuits and dreams, or at least understands and supports them. Unfortunately, a lot of people are very self-centered, so finding someone who is open to welcoming other people’s dreams into their life is a task in itself.

That’s why, when men encounter women who they can connect with, they tend to stick around. Counted your male friends, lately? Of course, some of them will be genuine friends, with no underlying interest, but think hard – have you had men tell you how easy you are to talk to, how nice it is that someone understands them and shares their opinions or goals? Someone who “gets” them? That is who they want, and that someone is you. Make of that what you will.

If you are not his type, then you can bypass that. I’ve found there are 2 pivotal moments that determine if your relationship ends in heartbreak or you get to live happily ever after so it’s vitally important that you take the next step and read this right now, because at some point the man you want is going to ask himself: Is this the woman I should commit to for the long term? That answer determines everything… Do you know how men determine if a woman is girlfriend material (the type of woman he commits himself to) or if he sees you as just a fling? If not you need to read this next: The #1 Thing Men Desire In A Woman…

The second problem almost all women experience: At some point he starts to lose interest. He doesn’t call you back or he becomes emotionally closed off. He seems like he’s losing interest or pulling away – do you know what to do? If not you’re putting your relationship and the future of your love life in great danger, read this now or risk losing him forever: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This…

Want to find out if you are really the type of the man you like Click here to take our quick (and shockingly accurate) “Are You His Type” Quiz right now and find out if you are really the type of the man you like..

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In summary…

Signs other people find you attractive

  1. People think you get compliments all the time
  2. You’re always dating someone
  3. Men are attracted to your confidence
  4. You always get told what a good kisser you are or how good you are in bed
  5. You literally turn heads
  6. Your inner beauty shines through
  7. Men (and women) like to talk to you a lot
  8. People admire the way you carry yourself
  9. You seem to have a lot of guy friends who connect with you

signs your attractive how to know

30 comments… add one
  • wendy November 29, 2018, 12:46 pm

    i totally agree with you, 100%! these are so true and proven overtime. i just hope that women keep in mind that inner beauty attracts the most.

  • carmelle November 28, 2018, 4:53 pm

    when you literally turn heads, you are definitely one likeable person. most part of that is obviously physical, just don’t forget to be likeable as a person as well. this is way more important.

  • marcela November 27, 2018, 4:27 pm

    plus to good looks is you can get work done easily from everyone. by this, you can tell that you are attractive.

  • alaina November 23, 2018, 5:41 pm

    people will generally tell you if you are attractive. opposite gender will show interest in you and you will get compliments.

  • camilla November 22, 2018, 12:15 pm

    for me, true beauty comes from within. but people should also see that effort that you take care of yourself and that you are genuine from within. some people may admire you for what you look like physically, but soon they’ll know what beauty or ugliness you have inside.

  • helen November 21, 2018, 6:20 pm

    all i can say is that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. if you really want to know if you are attractive, then look in the mirror. haha

  • jennifer November 20, 2018, 2:12 pm

    people won’t get enough of you when you’re attractive. you would know you are attracting them towards you when they want to be near you and share some conversations with you.

  • zaira November 19, 2018, 5:30 pm

    everything i need to know about attractiveness is here in this amazing post! i make sure to visit your site every day because i love reading all your articles!

  • carlie November 16, 2018, 6:22 pm

    you’ll know that you are attractive if people treat you differently. i mean it should be obvious if someone finds you appealing.

  • charissa November 14, 2018, 5:12 pm

    a good attitude is a key. no matter how good looking you are, some people will find you unattractive if your attitude sucks.

  • lorie November 12, 2018, 5:57 pm

    this is my hotness decoder! i will also share this to my girlfriends!

  • nessa November 8, 2018, 5:43 pm

    another sign if a person is attracted to you is when he or she laughs or comments more than usual when you talk. i’ve observed this many times.

  • portia October 30, 2018, 6:56 pm

    when people keep looking at you. this certainly means you are attractive unless you have a big dirt on your face haha!

  • evita October 29, 2018, 4:43 pm

    being attractive is not only based on your looks but also on how you think about yourself. talk about confidence and love for yourself. :)

  • margie October 26, 2018, 1:38 pm

    i think the best for me is when people admire the way you carry yourself. even when you’re having a bad day, try to bring positive energy and people around you will love you.

  • kristine October 24, 2018, 8:12 pm

    i took the quiz in this post and i am so happy with the result! you guys should take it too! i am very much convinced that i am the type of the man i like!

  • alexandra October 23, 2018, 1:33 pm

    i think this is a n0-brainer question. when people find you attractive, they seem to really be drawn into you. they wanna be around you and talk to you.

  • jaylinn October 22, 2018, 4:54 pm

    i’ve been told many times by different people that i am attractive. these signs can really help me know if it is actually true. thanks.

  • salima October 19, 2018, 12:56 pm

    for me, confidence and kindness is key. people esp men, they are attracted to confident women. they don’t like girls who are too needy.

  • christabel October 18, 2018, 5:41 pm

    i think i am a good-looking person but i still want to know if others find me attractive. this article is absolutely amazing! it will help me know those i should be making an effort for.

  • elena October 17, 2018, 1:18 pm

    you know you are when people tend to want to be around you, make conversations with you and be your friends. you’ll know they’re genuine because they treat you very well.

  • yvonne October 16, 2018, 6:05 pm

    thanks for posting this. i always expend a huge amount of time and mental energy wondering if people find me attractive and this article gave me a lot of ideas.

  • jenny October 15, 2018, 12:58 pm

    i think that above all, inner beauty is most important. however pretty you may look on the outside, your character will soon reflect your whole personality and if you are messy on the outside, that will come out sooner or later.

  • drew October 12, 2018, 7:34 pm

    men don’t like women with zero confidence. i have a brother and yeah we talk about this kind of stuff and he told me that he is not attracted to girls who are not self-assured and cannot take charge of their lives.

  • lilian October 10, 2018, 7:11 pm

    i noticed that people look up when i walk by. i guess i am hotter than i think i am. i am more confident with myself now.

  • rebekah October 9, 2018, 12:41 pm

    this is really easy. when you practically turn heads, you know you’re attractive. but remember that physical attraction doesn’t last long..

  • doreen October 8, 2018, 6:07 pm

    we are all beautiful in our wonderful and unique ways. you won’t even realize but there are people out there who think you are pretty hot. being yourself is still the best way to become attractive.

  • ashley October 5, 2018, 9:39 pm

    thank you for inspiring me thru this write up. i really would like to look more presentable when i start working early next year. i want people and my colleagues to respect me and take me seriously.

  • rebecca October 4, 2018, 4:33 pm

    i always thought about what other people think about me and how they see me. sometimes i feel that i am not attractive at all. guess i need to boost my self-confidence to get other people to like me.

  • leonna October 3, 2018, 8:31 pm

    i have an officemate who always look great and i want to be like her. not only because i want to look good on the outside, but also the positive vibe that i can spread just like her. thanks for this, i know what else to do so i can achieve that.

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