Have you ever wondered what it is that men find so attractive in a woman? Maybe you’re wanting to impress a particular guy and have been wondering what he finds attractive.
The truth is that different guys will find different qualities in women a turn-on. However, there are several qualities that almost all men will find attractive in a woman. If you’re ready to find out what they are then, keep reading.
Besides attraction, if you also want to discover how to make a guy fall in love with you, we have a great article here on >>The American Dating Society website.<<
1. A woman with a passion
Having a passion in life besides the person of your affections is an attractive quality in both a woman and a man. Having a passion in your life besides your partner or prospective lover lets them know that you won’t become needy in a relationship.
There’s nothing more off-putting to a guy than a needy woman, so showing him that you have other interests besides him will make him feel more at ease. He’ll also view you as a more interesting person with more depth to your character. This will likely get him to want to take the time to get to know more about you.
2. A sense of humour
Having a sense of humour helps to make the relationship more fun and shows a guy that you have an easy-going side to your personality. No men find grumpy women attractive. It’s far more appealing to spend time with a lady who can often see the funny side of things and can laugh at herself now and again.
You don’t need to be a comedy genius to have a sense of humour. Just being able to feel comfortable laughing with him and seeing the funny side of situations can go a long way.
3. Women with an adventurous side
Women with a sense of adventure are very attractive to almost all men. Having a sense of adventure gets the guy thinking of all the fun things the two of you can do together and also gets him wondering if your adventurous streak extends to the bedroom.
4. Women who notice the small things
Women love it when a guy notices that she’s had her hair done or is wearing a new pair of shoes, for example, and so too do men.
Taking the time to notice the little things about him will show that you are interested in him and not a person who just thinks about themselves.
You don’t need to reserve this for just noticing the new changes, like a new jumper or a change of aftershave. It can make an impact to comment on any little characteristic he has that you like, such as how his eyes may sparkle when he smiles or the way he his dimples pronounce when he laughs.
Many women may notice little characteristics about a guy they like, but very few will take the extra step and actually tell the guy that it is something you notice and appreciate about him. Doing so will make him think you are rare, and it shows that you are not self-obsessed. Always a good thing!
Kindness is a wonderful trait in anyone, but when a guy sees your sweet side, it can be very attractive. This goes back to the instinctive part of the attraction when a male is looking for qualities in a mate that show they will be a good wife and mother.
Showing your soft side doesn’t have to be limited and only directed towards the person you are trying to impress.
You can demonstrate this trait by sponsoring a charity that resonates with you or helping an old lady across the road when the opportunity presents.
6. Women who are cool with your friends
Most guys consider their friends important to them and appreciate it when their girlfriend is cool with them spending the time to hang out with their mates.
More so, take the time to join in with the guys if it seems appropriate to do so. Even if he has one or two friends that you don’t like, making the effort with them when you don’t need to will show your mature side.
7. Women who are unique
Women that just follow the crowd tend to blend into the crowd. Having your own unique style shows guys that you have a bit more backbone and are not afraid to be individual.
Happy, upbeat women are perceived as being far more attractive than cold, hostile, grumpy or moody women. If an otherwise highly physically attractive woman generally has a bad or grumpy attitude, her attractiveness will be significantly lower in the eyes of most guys, so leave the frown at home!
9. A sexually confident woman
Women who are sexually confident are a big turn on for men. When a man sees that a woman is confident and comfortable talking about sex, then it starts to make them wonder what she’s like in bed.
Being ‘matter of fact’ about sex can show that you are comfortable with the subject and may be a person of experience. Just don’t over-do it or you may come across as a slut!
10. Women who are good with kids
Again, this shows a guy your caring and kind side and demonstrates that you would be a good mother if ever your relationship developed that far.
11. Not wearing too much makeup
A woman who is comfortable not to feel like she needs to wear makeup in public is very attractive. This shows confidence in yourself and that you don’t need the attention or approval of men to make you feel good.
A woman who wears too much makeup can appear shallow and too into appearances. It also shows a lack of confidence and self-esteem that she would feel like she needs to over-do her appearance before leaving the house each morning.
No one likes the person who is always blowing their own trumpet. The same goes for guys when they are talking with a woman they are potentially considering asking out.
Leaving something to mystery is very intriguing and will cause a guy to want to find out more about you if he is interested.
It’s great if a guy is still finding out fresh and interesting things about you, even after you’ve known each other for a few months.
This helps to keep things interesting, and he will also think that there is depth to your character. Not telling everything about yourself straight away also shows you are confident enough in yourself not to feel the need to tell him all the wonderful things about you.
13. Women with self-respect
Guys like girls who have respect for themselves. Doing everything too early, too soon may be fun at the moment but the next day he will be wondering how many other guys you have given it up for so easily.
This will likely cause him to lose interest in pursuing anything serious with you. If he comes back for more, then chances are highly likely that’s all he’s after.
When it comes to choosing a long-term girlfriend, guys generally don’t go for the woman who put out too soon.
A woman who clearly has a good degree of intelligence are often much more appealing to men. It’s not necessarily that guys like women who got good grades in school. What’s more important is that she can hold a good, stimulating conversation and she has common sense. So don’t worry, you don’t have to be a rocket scientist or a brain surgeon!
Having an opinion on topical subjects also shows the guy that you have a wider range of interests and are not afraid to voice your point of view.
Many guys also hold the belief that intelligent women are better in bed!
15. Women who touch you when they flirt
This is a great one; guys love to flirt with a woman who is playfully touchy. A gentle touch on the arm as you explain something or a nudge on the shoulder as you laugh at his joke can come across well.
Guys also like it when a woman occasionally and playfully gives then a punch on the arm or chest when joking around with them. It’s often unexpected but received very well. Men think it’s cute when a woman does this, and it also shows your playful and perhaps slightly feisty side, which can also be a turn on.
So there are quite a few tricks and traits you can adopt to make yourself more attractive to men. It’s often not necessary to pour more attention into your physical appearance. Try a few of these tricks and watch the positive reactions you get from the guys.
These Are The Traits That Attract Men To Women
- A woman with a passion
- A sense of humour
- Women with an adventurous side
- Women who notice the small things
- Women who are cool with your friends
- Women who are unique
- A sexually confident woman
- Women who are good with kids
- Not wearing too much makeup
- Women with self-respect
- Women who touch you when they flirt
Article contributed by the American Dating Society at asnamnat.org