Try These 20 Dirty Truth Or Dare Questions For Adults To REALLY Turn Up The Heat

Try These 20 Dirty Truth Or Dare Questions For Adults To REALLY Turn Up The Heat

So before you sit there and say, “ew! Why would anyone in their right mind, especially a mature and respectful woman ever want to engage in something so childish like truth or dare? Who does that?”

Okay, I get that it sounds strange but the fact is: truth or dare lets you say things you would never truly say out loud and do things you’d only have the nerve to do after drinking alcohol. Truth or dare lets you be free, childish in a good way and bond with a guy who you might not bond with otherwise.

If you really want to learn new things about your man – and have fun while you’re doing it, there’s no better game to play with him than truth or dare. Unleash your inner bad girl and play some sexy truth or dare with him tonight.

I mean, you could play monopoly but… you’d probably wind up breaking up and never seeing each other again.

The moral of the story is don’t play monopoly.

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No, I mean the moral of the story is that you can use these super hot questions and dares in a truth or dare game with him to make things really hot, exciting, and entertaining for both of you.

I Don’t Want To Play Truth Or Dare, It’s Stupid

No, you’re stupid.

Truth or dare is a great way to spice things up in the bedroom – because not only do you get to have a ton of sexy fun with him, you also get to learn about his deepest, most secret fantasies in a safe, sexy environment (1).

However – that does not mean you should lead off the bat with the nastiest, most raunchy thing you can possibly think of.

Remember, this isn’t you trying to direct the most x rated movie you can think of – its’ about being honest, open, and fun with each other.

You want to A) have fun with each other and B) learn more about what turns each other on (2).

If you start off with the really nasty stuff, you’ll probably wind up turning each other off, or at least making things weird. So try starting small, having fun, and working your way up from there.

Don’t Do It Before You Read This:

Before you try any of these sexy truth or dare games, you have to be clear on one thing – this is not about using truth or dare to uncover details or secrets about each other’s pasts.

Don’t try to trick your partner into telling you stuff he doesn’t want to tell you – that’s crappy and it could seriously screw up your relationship (3).

Like for instance, if you want to know if he likes to look at other women… and which women he likes to look at – that’d be a bad question to ask him if it would make you upset to find out.

Think about it this way – if you want to ask him a question, but you would get mad if he answered honestly and it wasn’t the answer you wanted to hear – don’t ask him that question .

It’s all about attitude. This is a light, fun, playful game – that has the potential to get very dirty, very fast.

Don’t bog it down with anything negative, unpleasant, or serious.

Instead, use it as an opportunity to explore the unknown with each other. A playful up for anything attitude goes a long long way.

How To Play Dirty Truth Or Dare

ok – so right off the bat, you can’t just come out and say “Hey let’s play sexy truth or dare” when he gets home from work. That’s pretty abrupt – and it’ll probably put him on guard, which is exactly what you don’t want.

So instead, drop the suggestion early that you want to play later that night… after you’ve both had a chance to have some drinks and get a little tipsy and loosened up.

Now, I’m sure everyone remembers how to play truth or dare from being a kid – but this is a little bit different. We’re going to adapt the game for two people, and we’re going to make it raunchy .

Both of you should take 20 slips of paper each and write down 10 truths and 10 dares you want to put to each other. Put all your truths in a pile, and all your dares in a pile, and have him do the same thing.

Next, you’re going to take turns drawing pieces of paper. Have him draw one of your “truth” questions – and if he doesn’t want to answer it than he has to draw a dare and do that instead.

After he goes – you go. Draw one of his truths – and then if you don’t want to answer, draw a dare and do whatever sexy dare he’s thought up for you to do.

So now, all that’s left is writing the truths and dares! Here are some sexy suggestions to liven up your game:

10 Super Sexy Truths

  • What’s the most embarrassed you’ve ever been while having sex?
  • Have you ever had sex with someone much younger or older than you? What’s the biggest age difference?
  • Have you ever been interested in trying out tying each other up?
  • Have you ever been sexually attracted to someone you mentally knew was ugly?
  • You wake up tomorrow as a woman – what dirty things do you do all day?
  • What kind of fantasies do you have while you’re having sex?
  • Quick – when’s the last time you touched yourself?
  • You can only watch one kind of x-rated movie for the rest of your life – what kind is it?
  • If you could pick one person to join us for a threesome, who would it be?
  • Have you ever experimented with another guy? If so, did you like it?

10 Crazy Naughty Dares

  • I dare you to bend over and let me spank you.
  • I dare you to use your tongue and lovingly lick my feet.
  • I dare you to play with yourself in front of me, right now.
  • I dare you to take a super raunchy, nude, sexy photo of the two of us.
  • I dare you to put on my underwear and wear it for at least an hour and see if you like it.
  • I dare you to put whipped cream on the parts of my body you want to lick and lick it all off.
  • I dare you to make a sex tape with me.
  • I dare you to get naked and play naked for the rest of this game.
  • I dare you to try out some sex toys while you’re having sex with me – right now.
  • I dare you to give me some oral attention for the next 15 minutes – or until you make me climax.


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45 comments… add one
  • Whyte silver September 26, 2021, 1:06 pm

    Ok,mr paul,what could be more intense than that

  • Paul Jones July 16, 2019, 8:54 pm

    Some of these are okay, but most of them are soooo lame – very little creativity!!!!!! Not x-rated at all. :(

    • Harvey Erwin August 14, 2019, 1:22 am

      Are you kidding me ?! These are INTENSE.

  • grey and ember July 19, 2018, 5:57 am

    tuth or date is the bestest game to pay, expecally when wit uor bestest friends. and SPICY tuth or date is the bestest ever!!!!!!!!! :p

  • Rylen April 21, 2018, 4:12 am

    Oml Me and my girl friend did t or d
    and it went mad she wanted me to lick her v ;-;

  • Aidan January 4, 2018, 2:20 am


  • Guddy November 22, 2017, 6:39 pm

    i just want to learn how to play truth or dare without searching for questions
    Am shy to be naughty

  • nii October 27, 2017, 10:40 am

    Truth or dare is always the game I look our for when i go for a party

  • shaun jackson August 20, 2017, 12:00 pm

    i tired it and my mother walked in and started playing it with me and my friends*

    • Pretham December 24, 2017, 10:48 pm

      Lucky guy

  • Abdifatah July 28, 2017, 6:15 pm

    I want the questions

  • Bob June 19, 2017, 2:50 pm


  • Bob June 19, 2017, 2:50 pm

    What was the driest time of your life

  • Michaelayyyy May 11, 2017, 10:51 am

    Truth or dare is awesome especially if even number of both sexes

  • Kara March 1, 2016, 11:17 pm

    Pamela you are so righ! The reason I wouldn’t play truth or dare is because I was afraid of what I would have to do…

  • Eva Caballero October 13, 2015, 9:30 pm

    Can be so scary!

  • John Serrato October 12, 2015, 3:02 pm

    I do not think that woman like to play truth or dare that much. Every time I suggest it, I usually don’t get any takers.

    • Josaphene April 10, 2017, 9:22 pm

      I love T or D.

  • Lee Sanfilippo October 12, 2015, 2:52 pm

    Some of the best times I ever had in high school included a good game of Truth or Dare :)

  • Pamela Fenner October 10, 2015, 6:41 am

    Anyone that thinks that Truth or Dare is stupid, is just afraid of what might happen during the game.

  • Pearl Davis October 9, 2015, 2:01 pm

    The first time that I played truth or dare I was quite young and did not know what I was getting myself into. For the most part, I ended up in a closet with a boy and that was also the first time I ever kissed anyone.

  • Apolonia Michalec October 8, 2015, 2:49 pm

    I always like the look on a person’s face when you first mention Truth or Dare to them :)

    • Constance Dean October 10, 2015, 6:48 am

      LOL, me too!

  • Kenneth Lewis October 7, 2015, 11:48 am

    I LOVE truth or dare. Especially with the ladies :) The game can get to be so much fun if you have a nice group of people that are willing to tell the truth AND take a dare or two.

  • Annette Boothe October 7, 2015, 11:30 am

    At first I thought the age difference question might be something that I would ask, but then I thought I might not want to hear the answer …

  • Gerry Watson October 6, 2015, 12:00 pm

    LOL. Most people do NOT want to play truth or dare because they are scared. Depending who you play with, it is not really that bad. It just comes down to whether you have a bad apple in the group that is going to exploit your truths.

  • Brenda Young October 2, 2015, 10:43 am

    truth or dare is a lot of fun as long as you have someone that is really willing to play along.

    • nii October 27, 2017, 10:42 am

      Yeah I always got exciting people seeing to play

  • Stacy Sherrill October 1, 2015, 9:26 pm

    Truth or dare is one thing. Usually the folks that I play it with chicken out when the real fun starts to creep up on them. All of the dare questions become real easy to do.

  • Janet Hale October 1, 2015, 9:06 pm

    Monopoly? I would be all over playing Truth or Dare Monopoly :)

    • Kimberly Lowery October 6, 2015, 1:31 pm

      I have and would do it again. Very much fun with the right people. I like truth or dare because NOBODY is safe. The game allows people to open up and be wild at the same time.

  • Donna Montoya September 29, 2015, 9:09 pm

    LOVE dirty truth or dare. The last time that game came out I was with a long time friend and some others and it was very fun!

    • Bonnie Routh October 8, 2015, 3:01 pm

      Me too! The game can go so many different ways, as well as be a lot of fun to do with a hunky guy :)

  • Marcia Savage September 28, 2015, 9:10 pm

    You do not have to tell me how to play truth or dare. I have been doing that since I was in middle school and would drop everything to play it today if asked!

  • Joann McRae September 27, 2015, 11:12 am

    I love truth or dare. In the past, most people have stopped playing it with me because I can dig deep sometimes.

  • Anna Ellis September 27, 2015, 11:01 am

    Oh man, some of these questions might be some that I wouldn’t even want the answer to!

    • Terry Henry October 2, 2015, 10:33 am

      Anna, I thought the same thing. I might ask, but cringe when it is time to hear the answer.

  • Mary Broughton September 26, 2015, 9:22 am

    Truth or dare is for children or young adults, don’t you think?

    • Yoshiko Bowen September 28, 2015, 9:20 pm

      Not really. It can be fun at an older age as well. Something to bring the fire back into a long lasting marriage.

    • Adela Marcus October 9, 2015, 2:13 pm

      I would say that you could play this game as a young adult and have some fun with it, right?

  • Gloria Duquette September 26, 2015, 9:06 am

    I have no issue with truth or date, but I do agree that the game should not be used to get some secrets from the past. We all know how that will turn out for those involved.

    • Brady Phillips June 19, 2018, 6:06 pm

      I haven’t gotten anyone to play it with cause they all to chicken to

  • Elsie Smith September 25, 2015, 8:49 am

    Truth or dare can be bad if you have a person that has to know everything, or you are doing it with a person that gets real jealous if you answer a truth question in such a way they cannot handle.

  • Charlotte West September 25, 2015, 8:37 am

    I never really liked truth or dare, but that was because I did not trust my friends. With my man, I guess I could give that try since it is just the two of us.

    • Jodie Poplar October 1, 2015, 9:16 pm

      That is because there are things that can come up that you don’t want others to know about.

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