23 Subtle Body Language Signs That Reveal He's Into You

23 Subtle Body Language Signs That Reveal He’s Into You

Have you been losing sleep trying to figure out if he likes you?

Sometimes a guy will tell you straight out what they are thinking, but often you need to do a little observation of his subtle body language signals to know how he feels about you.

Unconscious body language may even tell you more about how he is feeling than what he says.

His gestures, posture, facial expressions, and even the width of his pupils can tell you so many things about how he feels.

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This can make figuring out what he thinks so much easier. Look for these early signs to tell if he’s thinking, “Whoa, that girl is amazing, I want to get to know her more,” or if you aren’t even on his radar.

1. His pupils are dilating. No, he isn’t high. He likes you. When his pupils dilate this is a sure sign that he is attracted to you. If you want to encourage his attraction, know that mutual eye contact can fan the flames of love.

2. He has raised eyebrows. When people open their eyes wider, thus causing the eyebrows to lift, it means that they are at least curious about you. If he gently raises an eyebrow when he’s talking to you or looking at you, it means he likes what he sees.

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3. He grins. Adults smile 380 times fewer than small children throughout the day. If he smiles at you, and actually shows his front teeth in a grin, he likes you.

4. He has a full-face smile. A true smile involves the whole face, and not just the edges of the mouth. If his eyes wrinkle when he smiles at you its genuine. He likes what he sees, and wants to be around you more.

5. He wets his lips. He should never lick his lips in an overt, creepy way, but if he licks his lips it may be because when we are attracted to another person we tend to create more saliva, and he may wet his lips in response to this physiological reaction. You may actually be making his mouth water!

6. His eyes move around your face. If he looks straight into your eyes without looking away, this can make you feel uncomfortable. It can even be interpreted as a form of aggression. However, if he looks into your eyes, and then looks at the rest of your features, like your lips, your cheeks, your forehead, etc., then he may be into you.

7. He breathes deep. Men are programmed via evolutionary biology to try to appeal to you physically. If he takes a deep breath, expanding his chest, and drawing in his stomach, it may be because he wants to look strong and fit. This is a subconscious way to try to attract you.

8. He stutters. Not every man is gifted with gab. He may really want to talk to you, but he stutters or gets hung up on what to say. If he is trying to talk to you, even if he is doing a bad job of it, he likes you.

9. He tries to make you laugh. Men subconsciously know that is they can make you laugh, they’ve got at least one foot in the door. His chances of winning you over if he can make you laugh skyrocket. If he’s telling jokes or being goofy, he may like you.

10. He shifts his weight toward you. If a man is leaning into you with his posture, or shifts his weight toward you, he likes you. This is another subconscious signal that he wants to be near you.

11. He takes up more space with his body. In the same way that he might draw in a deep breath to expand his chest, if a man takes up more physical space by putting his arms on his hips with his elbows out, or even widening his stance, then he likes you. This is another subconscious body language signal indicating he wants to appear strong and viral for you.

12. He finds an excuse to touch you. He may simply let his hand grace yours or “bump” into you. He may brush a stray hair behind your ear. If he does anything like this, he wants to touch you, which means he likes you. Men are naturally tactile and visual creatures. If they like you they will try to touch you in any way that is socially acceptable. Sometimes he may touch you without even realizing he is doing it.

13. He exposes his manliness to you. Again, this should never be done in a creepy way, but if he sits with his legs wide, he may be exposing his vulnerabilities (quite literally) which means he likes you. A man’s genitals are full of bundles of nerves which can swell with blood when he is aroused. He may simply need to give them more space because he likes what he sees.

14. He angles his hips toward you. Similarly, if he angles his hips and groin toward you, then he likes you. This is a subconscious signal of sexual attraction.

15. He’s staying put. If his feet are pointed toward you, it means he feels safe and comfortable in your presence. Our feet are the first thing we engage in a fight-or-flight response, the parasympathatic nervous system’s answer to stress. If his feet are planted, and facing you, he isn’t going anywhere.

16. He crosses his legs away from you put moves his torso toward you. Sometimes guys will cross their legs because they are shy. If he crosses his legs, but still leans or twists his torso toward you he may like you. If he crosses his legs, and moves his torso away, he isn’t shy. He is disinterested.

17. He falls in step with you. A man that is interested in you won’t walk ahead of you or behind you. He will keep your pace to show his interest.

18. He looks at you while talking to you. If he talks to you, but looks away often if could signal that he is keeping his options open. If, however he looks at you – including at your eyes, face, and
body – it means he likes you and no other women get his attention right now.

19. He touches his own throat. The throat indicates communication and vulnerability. If he touches his throat, he is subconsciously signaling that he wants to talk more intimately with you and perhaps even expose his vulnerable feelings for you. He may be worried about saying the right thing, which he wouldn’t do if he didn’t care about you.

20. He touches his own face.If he touches his ears, cheeks, or lips with the back of his hand of fingers, he is definitely into you. These are all signs that a man is sexually attracted to you.

21. He plays with his glass. Though this could indicate nervousness, it can also be an indicator of attraction.

22. He gets hot and bothered (sweats). If he is sweating it is literally because you are turning up the heat in his body. When we are attracted to another person, we will often sweat or feel warm. If he’s getting hot and bothered, then he likes you.

23. He flat out tells you. He may say something polite like “It’s such a pleasure to meet you,” the first time you talk, but what he is really thinking is “damn girl you’re hot!” If he flat out tells you he likes you, even in a polite version, then believe it.

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24 comments… add one
  • emily September 24, 2018, 7:00 pm

    i also sweat or feel warm too when i am talking to the person i am attracted to. this one sign is very normal.

  • abigail September 21, 2018, 2:02 pm

    this is awesome! all of this is really nice to read and i think this man im seeing tonight will finally be the one. i can’t wait to read the signs.

  • latisha September 20, 2018, 4:45 pm

    a lot of women find it hard to tell how guys feel based on their words because they are not generally verbal. the trick here is to read their actions. you can be sure with this because body language does not lie.

  • beatrice September 19, 2018, 1:50 pm

    some of these are so common but your details on some body language and gestures are really great. i love them and it makes me wonder if this guy i’m seeing is really into me. i gotta find out!

  • eurelie September 18, 2018, 4:07 pm

    for me, the most obvious body language to know if a guy is attracted to you is when he stutter. it means he is nervous being in front of you because he wants to impress you for you to like him back. :)

  • vanna September 17, 2018, 2:01 pm

    couldn’t agree more with you. these are all awesome and i can say they’re really true, proven and tested.

  • susan September 15, 2018, 6:49 pm

    no. 15 is something that i need to observe carefully. i hope he will not notice me looking at his feet. if he does, i will just tell him that i really like his shoes! hahaha!

  • arriane September 12, 2018, 7:15 pm

    i never knew that he is signaling that he wants to talk more intimately with me when he subconsciously touching his throat. it is a good thing i found this post. now i know how to read his body languages.

  • jena September 11, 2018, 5:54 pm

    eye contact, smiling, laughter, and initiating conversation are sure signs that a man is attracted or interested in you. just notice these and you will never have a hard time figuring out if the guy you like is also into you.

  • nancy September 10, 2018, 2:00 pm

    i love #17! “He falls in step with you. A man that is interested in you won’t walk ahead of you or behind you. He will keep your pace to show his interest.”
    wow, i couldn’t agree more! i’ll try to take notice.

  • claudette September 7, 2018, 11:43 am

    body language do not lie! a man may try to hide his feelings for you for any reason but you can never be wrong with these signals. just learn how to pay close attention.

  • charmaine September 3, 2018, 12:44 pm

    he smiles, he laughs, he just can’t contain his excitement and happiness with you. you will notice he just seems to be really in good mood all the time.

  • rosie August 30, 2018, 3:56 pm

    i am not a good observer so for me, the fastest way to know if a guy is interested in me is to ask him out! hahaha!

  • daphne August 28, 2018, 7:06 pm

    i always look closely to a man’s facial reaction and body language during an interaction to know if he likes me. if he also listens to me without distraction or interruption, it means he respects me and is definitely into me.

  • ivy August 24, 2018, 6:28 pm

    for me, the most obvious body language indicating that a man is attracted to you is when he looks at you while talking to you. just what the article said, a man’s attention is 100% yours if he does this.

  • dana August 23, 2018, 10:23 pm

    pupils dilating- funny but it’s true! haha
    my boyfriend used to have that look whenever we’d meet for a date. it’s so good looking back now, and i’m as happy as i can be right now with him. <3

  • sierra August 22, 2018, 1:03 pm

    this list just made my day!i never knew that all i need to do to know if he likes me too is to focus on his body language. thanks so much for this list.

  • lailani August 21, 2018, 1:13 pm

    if he seems nervous, breathes deep and stutters…he’s definitely into you but is too shy to tell you. look out for this signs and try to be easy on him if you’re interested at all.

  • fatima August 20, 2018, 2:26 pm

    body language never lies! i always watch out for these signs whenever i want to find out if a man is into me. remember, it is very hard to tell a man’s feelings for you based on his words so just forget it! focus on these signs!

  • claudine August 17, 2018, 2:33 pm

    when a man constantly stutters when talking to you, the reason is most likely because he likes you. this is indeed a surefire signal!

  • vanessa August 16, 2018, 6:02 pm

    His eyes move around your face – this is definitely 1 great sign! When a man really likes you, he can’t take his eyes off of you as if he’s trying to memorize everything about you!

  • keisha August 15, 2018, 8:11 pm

    really? a guy is interested in you if he gently raises an eyebrow when talking to you? i am not aware of this! i must say that these signs are very easy to notice!

  • rene August 14, 2018, 12:59 pm

    i noticed that guys tend to be touchy and they just wanna be around all the time. if you’re wondering if he’s into you, these body language signs will help you determine.

  • penelope August 13, 2018, 7:48 pm

    oh yes! getting some sleep is a struggle for me since the day i met this guy! i wanted to know if he likes me and thank goodness i found this post. i didn’t know that the width of his pupils can help me determine his feelings for me.

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