These 19 Types Of Men Flat Out Aren’t Worth Wasting Time On

These 18 Types Of Men Flat Out Aren’t Worth Wasting Time On

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15. The guy who’s still living with roommates in his 30s

C’mon man. You’re 30+ years old, it’s time that you figured out how to make enough money to afford your own place. Do you really want to date a guy who’s living in what amounts to a college dorm room into his 30’s? I didn’t think so.

16. The guy who is a little too into his favorite sports team

If it’s game day Sunday, and you’re wearing your team’s jersey, that’s cool by me. But if you’re heading to brunch rocking your point guard’s jersey – maybe it’s time to grow up a little. It’s not that much to ask – just wear adult clothes.

17. The guy who “negs” you with backhanded compliments

Oh, so he tells you that you look great in all the photos you post online… with filters on them. Thanks guy, I appreciate hearing that regular me in person doesn’t stand up to my photos online. Forget that.

18. The guy who’s ready to get “so serious” with you… except if you’re talking about actually getting engaged

Oh, you think I might be “the one”? You love every second of being around me? You see a future with me? Great! Then why do you freak out when I bring up getting engaged and say we’re ‘moving too fast’. Is it because you’re full of crap? I think it’s because you’re full of crap.

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38 comments… add one
  • Bptr July 29, 2019, 3:14 pm

    Why do women keep going for the morons who run around with a hat on backwards all the time?
    Here is another one: “a buddy-a-mine…” Only idiots say that. I have “friends”.
    I am making my own list. The signs are very clear.

  • Dave April 2, 2018, 11:55 am

    Almost everyone single one of these complaints about men are based upon women trying to date out of their league. They treat you like that cause they don’t value you, they think girls like you are a dime a dozen.

    The sad truth is that almost all relationship complaints are a result of trying to date out of one’s league.

    These men also know that the kind of women who try and date out of their league are also the kind of women that have an entourage of lesser men that they keep around as “friends” so they can use them. Yet another glaring reason why you aren’t respected by guys out of your league.

    As long as all you go for is the tall good looking guy making at least six figures then you are going to get the same thing over and over again.

    • Amy July 17, 2018, 11:53 am

      Can we add Dave to the list?

      • Gi December 17, 2018, 3:45 pm

        I definitely date lower than my “shallow” standards and still run into these. I can’t think of a guy that I date that didn’t do at least two of’s cool I’ll stay single and independent Dave, because even if I “was in their league” I wouldn’t want to marry someone who’s felt this is a justified way to behave toward any other living being.

  • Chloe December 11, 2016, 6:50 am

    The last minute date guy – He always wants to go out spur of the moment as if you have no plans.

    • kenneth June 15, 2017, 10:49 pm

      This ENTIRE list is made up of things that “nice guys” avoid doing, and are lambasted for it. Women certainly get JUST what they deserve!

  • R October 16, 2016, 9:55 am

    I match with 13/14 of these “points” and its not 14/14 cuz im in my mid 20’s lmfao.
    Sorry girls i mean well.

  • Tina September 18, 2016, 3:28 pm

    To add: a guy that has a girlfriend who doesn’t put out. So is hoping you will. He has no plan or intentions of leaving her for you either Priceless

  • NAME September 16, 2016, 12:50 pm

    The author is a complete idiot. No wonder she’s a feminist.

    • Tina September 18, 2016, 3:29 pm

      I don’t agree with you.

    • Dawn April 4, 2017, 1:00 am

      Perhaps this article should be called 18 ways to keep women single.

  • Nereida August 3, 2015, 10:24 am

    Personally, I like a guy that can plan a good date. To do it right, you need to take the time and think about the person. That would be a killer for me if I was doing all the planning.

  • Donnette Rainbolt   August 1, 2015, 12:41 pm

    LOL. Some of these are very funny.

  • Clorinda Birdsong   August 1, 2015, 12:29 pm

    How about a guy that is taking selfies all the time? Besides that, he usually is the same guy that is taking the skanky club photos!

  • Carissa Pilot   July 31, 2015, 12:29 pm

    I never thought I would think it was a big deal that people only text, but that changed with my last boyfriend. I just want to hear a voice once in a while, is that so hard to ask?

  • Megan Baker July 30, 2015, 1:30 pm

    Occasionally I meet a man that does not have as much money as I, but I do not let that get in the way of dating him. He might have made some bad calls when he was young and now is getting out of a deep hole. If he is too lazy to get out of that hole, that is when I make the break.

  • Joan Langdon July 29, 2015, 2:15 pm

    This doesn’t happen very often, but I agree with the ENTIRE list! Great post..

    • Elena Austin July 30, 2015, 1:40 pm

      I feel the same way. This is a list that should live a long time online!

  • Alexandra Harris July 28, 2015, 11:32 am

    My list is much shorter. Disrespect me, cheat on me or hurt me and that is it :)

  • Andrea Powell July 28, 2015, 11:20 am

    Finding out about his “other” g/f is so crappy. Especially if you have been with this guy for a while. How disrespectful can you be?

  • Lauren Greene July 25, 2015, 6:18 pm

    100 percent a waste of your precious time!

    • Jasmine Morrison July 29, 2015, 2:27 pm

      You its funny because you still see guys like this with woman. How is that possible?

  • Jennifer Hart July 25, 2015, 6:08 pm

    I wish I could look back and say that I did NOT waste any time with losers like this, but that is not the case. If fact, I am with one right now that I wish I could just kick to the curb!

  • Grace Turner July 25, 2015, 5:45 pm

    I have been in a relationship with a “lack of commitment” type. That was a waste of my time!

  • Sarah Springer July 23, 2015, 9:23 am

    Another great list that all woman can learn from. Thank you for posting this!

    • Zoe Blake July 25, 2015, 5:56 pm

      Absolutely! These lists are great to share with friends. I usually send them through via Twitter and Facebook!

  • Natalie Forsyth July 23, 2015, 9:11 am

    At first I was like, who cares if the guy doesn’t text you back after a while, but after thinking about it, it would suck that he comes back 2 weeks later. Almost would feel like he had someone else to text during that time and you were just chopped liver.

  • Mary Paterson July 22, 2015, 9:56 am

    Yikes! You have describe a couple of men that I have been thinking about going on additional dates with. Maybe I step back and see if they are ones I really want to waste me time on. Thanks!

  • Samantha Henderson July 22, 2015, 9:23 am

    A taker and not a giver? That would not work well in my bedroom that is for sure!

    • Nedra Wolfram   July 31, 2015, 12:37 pm

      LOL, I agree!

  • Emily Pullman July 21, 2015, 9:09 am

    Just like the other posts that warn you about certain men, this is just as good!

  • Sally Ross July 21, 2015, 8:55 am

    OH yeah! I can easily say these types of guys are not worth your time any day of the week!

    • Reynalda Pettaway   August 3, 2015, 1:17 pm

      I feel like I am limiting myself a great deal if I skip these guys. What other option do I have living in a small town where everyone is similar to this?

  • Abigail Forsyth July 19, 2015, 1:08 pm

    Oh yeah, I should print this list off and keep it with me. It would save time when I am dating and see a waste of time before I spend a month with him.

  • Rose Robertson July 19, 2015, 12:57 pm

    I can deal with a guy that does not have cash, but if he is not even going to TRY once in a while to have money, that is going to be a little problem.

  • Sophie Knox July 18, 2015, 9:38 am

    If a guy that I am dating cannot keep a simple lunch plan or something like that, he would be on the “list” until he can redeem himself. I also like the fact that it is so easy to tell which guys want to just take you home at night. They think they are sneaky, but c’mon!?

  • Grace Howard July 18, 2015, 9:12 am

    I have a real problem with a man who will not use protection. That is near the top of my list for sure!

    • R October 16, 2016, 10:12 am

      good luck getting ever getting pregnant then though.

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