The 8 Biggest Signs He's Serious About You

The 8 Biggest Signs He’s Serious About You

You’re here because you want to know the biggest signs that he’s serious about you.

Maybe you’re starting to get fluttery feelings in your stomach that remind you of butterflies that maybe, just maybe, he could be the real deal.

Maybe you’re really catching feelings for him, but you’re worried about getting your heart broken, so you’re looking for signs that he could be as serious about you as you feel about him.

Maybe you just don’t know where the relationship is going, and you want to know how to tell if a guy is serious.

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No problem – I’ve got you covered.

In this article I’m going to give you the biggest signs that a guy is serious about you – and by extension serious about the relationship.

So no matter if you’re worried you’re in too deep and don’t know how he feels; we’re going to figure it out together.


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Here’s The Top Signs To Tell Whether A Guy Is Serious About You

1. You’re A Priority To Him

If a guy is serious about you, and serious about making you a bigger part of his life, he’s going to make you a priority.

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What does that look like? It means that he treats you like an important part of his life, and not like an afterthought.

What does that not look like? Him making you a priority doesn’t mean he’s going to put you first in every situation. It doesn’t mean that he’s going to drop everything in order to spend all his time with you.

It means that he’s going to treat you as important to him – that he’s going to make time for you even when time is tight.

So if you can tell he’s making an effort to make time for you, even when he’s got a lot going on – that’s a very good sign that he’s serious about you.

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2. He’s Genuinely Curious About You

An easy way to tell how a guy really feels about a woman is in the depth of his curiosity about her.

If a guy is serious about a woman, he’s wondering whether she’s the real deal – whether she’s someone he can really see himself being with long term.

Guys aren’t stupid. In a situation like that, he’s going to first and foremost try to find out more about her.

Is she kind? What kind of things does she like to do? What’s her true personality like? What are her goals, her dreams, the things she wants to do with her life? Are we compatible?

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Any guy who’s really serious about you is going to be curious to find out more about you – for good reason.

3. He Listens To Your Opinion

The foundation of any successful relationship is respect.

Respect grows out of mutual admiration and trust in each other. It grows when each partner sees things to admire in the other.

So if he’s asking you your opinion on decisions he has to make, that’s a very good sign. And if he’s taking your opinion into consideration and changing his own because of it, that’s even better.

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We all have things we’re good at, so he’s going to count your opinion more on something he knows you’re passionate about that he’s not – same as you would discount his opinion a little on something you’re passionate about and you know he’s not… but would take his opinion seriously on something you know way less about.

So watch to see whether he takes your opinion seriously. If he does, it’s a good sign he’s serious about you.

4. He’s Open And Honest With You

#3 in this list is all about respect. This one is all about trust.

Without trust, a long term relationship cannot work. A relationship without mutual trust will fall apart every time.

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The way you earn someone’s trust isn’t all at once – it’s a gradual process. It happens when you come through over and over again.

Coming through for someone means something different to everyone and in every different situation. In this one what it means is that he’s able to be open with you, and trust you to accept his honesty – even if it’s something you might not want to hear.

When a guy can trust a woman enough to be open and honest with her, it’s a big, big deal. It instantly makes him feel way more serious about you and about the relationship – because guys know how rare that is.

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5. You Feel Like He’s Being His Genuine Real Self Around You

This ties in with #4.

The best relationships that last the longest work because both partners are able to be their true, genuine selves around each other… and really like each other for who they truly are.

If you feel like you can’t be yourself around him (or vice versa), eventually the relationship is going to fall apart when the strain of being who you think he wants you to be becomes too much.

That’s why it’s so important to get comfortable being genuine around each other – and seeing if you like who your partner is when he’s being genuine.

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If he’s able to show you his true self and you really enjoy that person, it’s a massive sign that you’re really compatible – and it will make him very, very serious about you.

6. He Wants To Share His Passions With You

A guy who’s serious about a woman is going to be feeling out whether there’s long term potential there.

One important aspect of long term potential in a relationship is whether both people are interested in or enjoy the same things.

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Obviously – this isn’t a complete dealbreaker: I’ve known couples where they don’t really like each other’s hobbies, but their connection is so good that they don’t mind.

But in most cases, a guy who’s serious about you is going to share the things he’s passionate about with you, because he’s going to want to show you more of who he really is.

A man’s passions help define who he is (just like the things you’re passionate about help show people who you really are). If he’s sharing them with you, it means he wants to share who he truly is with you… because he’s serious about you.

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7. He Keeps His Promises To You And Doesn’t Flake

This ties right in with being a priority in his life.

When a guy is serious about a woman, he doesn’t want to disappoint her. She becomes more and more important to him.

How does a guy show you that you’re important to him? He makes sure to come through for you when he promises something, and he does his absolute best not to flake on you.

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So if you can tell that your man makes a huge effort to never flake on you and keeps his promises to you… it’s because he’s serious about your relationship.

8. He Wants You To Meet His Friends And Family

When you get into a really serious relationship with a guy, you become integrated into his life – just like he becomes integrated into yours.

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That means that his relationships with his friends and family now include you – which is a huge step.

So if a guy wants to introduce you to his friends and family, he’s trying to figure out how well you get along, and how well you integrate into his life.

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It’s a big step towards a serious, committed relationship, so if he’s making a point of getting you to meet his friends and family, it’s because he’s thinking about you seriously and getting serious about your relationship.

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In summary…

8 Telltale Signs He’s Serious About You

  1. You’re a priority to him.
  2. He’s genuinely curious about you.
  3. He listens to your opinion.
  4. He’s open and honest with you.
  5. You feel like he’s being his genuine real self around you.
  6. He wants to share his passions with you.
  7. He keeps his promises to you and doesn’t flake.
  8. He wants you to meet his friends and family.

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44 comments… add one
  • joe July 1, 2021, 8:52 pm

    If his older like way older he dont care

  • sarah May 10, 2021, 6:57 am

    you must both learn each other to truly trust each other over a period of time. simply put – if you see red flags and your gut is telling your something run for the hills girls / guys….. it may take a few to find the 1 – do not settle for less

  • Yehoda December 8, 2020, 3:27 pm

    I just don’t know but a guy can show all these but wouldn’t go no where with you am in a situation and I can’t describe it

  • KandyLv March 29, 2020, 1:29 pm

    A man can possess all of these things and still be a player, liar, con artist or dog! See, the internet teaches men how to be more deceitful with itemized things he must do to prove he’s truly into you , then he will become all theses things from reading articles like this and then present to you as a facsimile of the man of your dreams and before you know it you are giving your all and are too blind to see that you are being played. It’s not about any of these listed characteristics at all, it’s about your gut feeling, your reality and Your comfort zone with a guy! The things you expect from a man , your list, not a list of everybody in the worlds ideal man. If you think and feel something Is just not right with this dude, hell you are probably correct! Trust your second mind not your first! Stay woke girl!

    • Luna March 9, 2021, 12:16 pm

      I think you’re right y’know … A guy can actually read this article takes it so serious and then uses it as a step to play a girl

  • Vera January 16, 2020, 7:04 am

    Those things all apply to him. Specifcally him being totally himself around me. This showed me also his nasty sides.

  • chicascapalot December 2, 2019, 3:00 pm

    what if he meet most of these but can’t make up his mind whether or not he wants a committed relationship?

  • Esther November 26, 2019, 5:39 am

    I’m confused I don’t know if is truly love me or not

  • Esther November 26, 2019, 5:34 am

    I’m in a relationship with the other man he share his future plan with me does this means that he took our relationship seriously

  • Doris March 11, 2019, 8:42 am

    My guy don’t know much about me yet,but how will I know that is serious with me

  • Babalwa February 4, 2019, 3:42 am

    Me and my boyfriend had most of these biggest signs but we are not married,he married other woman why?

  • tweety bird September 20, 2018, 2:27 am

    the guy im talking to and building something with he does all those and more does that mean he is serious about us

  • breathingWordz May 23, 2018, 9:18 am

    This is indeed a propeller…thnx a lot.

  • Cutie Virgie March 11, 2018, 2:18 pm

    My guy meets,six of these. Does it mean he still serious about me or does he have to meet all?

  • josephine June 20, 2017, 12:05 am

    when he’s open and honest with you, he must be really serious about you because this is something a man won’t normally do

  • leona June 14, 2017, 7:48 pm

    if he’s open and honest with you, he must be really serious!

  • nancy June 12, 2017, 12:00 pm

    you’re not just a priority, but a TOP priority in his life

  • kalina June 9, 2017, 4:22 am

    these are very accurate, look for these in a man.

  • lydia June 6, 2017, 11:38 pm

    if he always keep his promises to you and never flake on you, he is definitely serious about you

  • valerie June 5, 2017, 11:34 pm

    if he’s genuinely curious and concerned about you, he must be really serious.

  • victoria June 4, 2017, 10:56 pm

    if you’re priority to him, this should be your number 1 sign! =)

  • julienne June 1, 2017, 8:07 pm

    when you meet this guy, don’t ever let go!

  • hyacinth May 31, 2017, 7:49 pm

    a man who listens and values your opinion is someone really serious about you

  • nikka May 25, 2017, 4:02 pm

    a serious man would never flake on you. he will always try to keep his promises to you too.

  • peyton May 24, 2017, 11:59 pm

    an open and honest guy is what you’re looking for

  • jessica May 23, 2017, 3:07 pm

    he would want you to meet his family and friends if he was serious about you.

  • annika May 22, 2017, 3:17 pm

    a man who understands how women needs time and love is someone serious and the marrying type.

  • cory May 21, 2017, 6:49 pm

    making you a priority and being open with you are big factors

  • kasey May 18, 2017, 2:28 pm

    when he’s constantly curious about you and very interested with you, he is indeed serious

  • terry May 16, 2017, 4:40 pm

    if he can be open and comfortable around you, that might mean he’s serious

  • courtney May 15, 2017, 10:22 am

    if he’s curious and values your opinion, he’s surely serious about you

  • keanna May 11, 2017, 6:02 pm

    you know he’s serious about you when he can be open and honest with you about anything

  • andrea May 10, 2017, 7:22 pm

    a man who can be himself around you and makes you feel comfortable too, that means he is serious.

  • pat May 9, 2017, 5:29 pm

    when he’s always curious about you and what you’re doing, he’s really being serious. a man who isn’t wouldn’t even care and won’t be asking you your whereabouts, your likes, hobbies, etc

  • kenny May 8, 2017, 7:38 pm

    these are absolutely all true. a man that is attentive to your needs is definitely serious about you

  • cherylyn May 3, 2017, 8:34 pm

    this is awesome! all true and very nice!

  • sybil May 2, 2017, 1:09 pm

    all these signs are true. i hope you’re with the guy who’s serious and would really want to commit.

  • lily April 27, 2017, 1:26 pm

    when he can act genuinely around you and you think he’s really genuine with his feelings with you, you’re sure he is serious about you

  • sharinette April 25, 2017, 3:07 pm

    #relationshipgoals i want this kind of man!

  • ging April 24, 2017, 11:37 pm

    agreed! men who are serious and very curious about you are keepers

  • blake April 23, 2017, 2:21 pm

    a man eager to bring you along with friends and family is definitely serious about you

  • blaire April 20, 2017, 3:40 pm

    i love this post. the things you mentioned here are actually accurate! keep it up!

  • wendy April 19, 2017, 5:52 pm

    i believe these are all correct. i would love to be with a guy who will treat me seriously

  • fantasia April 18, 2017, 2:20 pm

    these are great signs to look forward to from a lover

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