“Of course not…” you indignantly mutter, “he’s not a selfish person. I wouldn’t date a selfish person.”
“Although… sometimes I wish he would actually wash the dishes that he uses instead of making me do it.”
“And he does always cancel at the last minute whenever we’re doing something I want to do, but he expects me to do all the things HE wants to do…”
“And every time we fight, I’m always the one that has to say sorry first…”
“And when we were going skydiving and my parachute didn’t work, he told me ‘I don’t have enough parachute for both of us, sorry…'”
Ok that last one probably didn’t happen.
But if I can be serious for a moment – it’s very easy to allow yourself to be blinded to someone’s true nature.
Especially if you’re in love with them (or just really like them… you know, a lot)
So if you’re being honest with yourself, is he selfish? Or does he provide for your needs?
Are you unsure?
Take this impartial (quick) quiz right now, and find out for sure whether he’s a selfish person or not…
No. He is putting his pride first before you… he needs to grow up.
My boy friend broke up with me because I call someone from his call log. But when I was on his phone plan he called every number that I called but I didn’t stop talking 2 him 4 that. So y he’s mad at me 4 calling someone from his call log from his phone??
My boyfriend and i broke up because of an argument about his mother and i told him i was not going to marry him. I think of him but dont plan to call him yea i cant beleave it i think i stil love him. I went bk n december to get my stuff we talked told him i have goten an a apartment he said he was glad then i said goodbye he said nothing wen i walked out. Also i remembered one thing he told me dont worry bout him. Before i had moved out i stayed in his bedroom he stayed in the front room when i would go in the bathroom at 4am he would still be up watching tv and would go to work late his brother had to speak to him about it. What do u think is going on in his mind do u think he is now happy after the break up ever sinse i have not heard from him?
He left me without telling me a reason.
He really changed over the past 2 months.
I want to know why!
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