Should You Break Up With Him?

Quiz: Should You Break Up With Him?

Breaking up is sometimes the best possible option for the future of your love life.

And sometimes, it’s the worst mistake you could possibly make.

Sometimes it feels impossible to know if you should do it, or keep trying with him.

Take this short quiz now and find out whether you should really break up with him, or whether your relationship deserves a second chance…

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  • Lex April 15, 2018, 9:07 pm

    When Brian and I are good, we’re great. Soooo great. But when the wick gets blown out, everything sets on fire. He’s my best friend, I plan on marrying this man. So I really want us to figure it out and make it work. It probably doesn’t help that I’m a mixture of depression and stay at home mother of a overly wild toddler. I have been prescribed medication, counseling with my therapist, actively fighting my mental illness (that’s WAY easier than it sounds for those that don’t suffer from depression), make sure that my daughter and our house is in one piece and put together, keep myself up, and tend to my wifely duties. I’m exhausted! I’ve came a really long way so I know most of my triggers. I’m more determined than I ever been to become a “normal” person so I take every preventative action possible. I bite my tongue when needed, I avoid situations when needed, and I take quick breathers isolated with music when needed. He knows all this. He’s been by my side through majority of it. I’m quick to apologize when I need to, and I take full blame of things like petty arguments when I need to. Still…. it’s not good enough. He starts arguments and when he sees that I’m not giving him a reaction, he picks and picks and picks. He says certain things on purpose and stare at me to see how I’ll respond. Then when it becomes unbearable to avoid him, I lash out. HARD AND PAINFUL. Only then does he sit back and look at me like I’m completely f***ing crazy. Boom, fuel to my fire. Boom, depression kicks in overrrtimeee. In the midst of EVERY episode, I hear him “Maybe you should call your therapist.” I’M NOT SURE WHAT KIND OF SHIT HOLE HE ROLLED OUT OF BUT US DECENT PEOPLE DONT THROW SOMEONES ILLNESS IN THEIR FACE LIKE THAT!! Complete mockery. Every. Time. I’ve built a life with this man though, I’m not sure whether to walk away and heal how I’m supposed to or keep trying to get him to love me how I receive love.

  • Laura April 2, 2018, 2:12 pm

    I am so sick and tired of all of these quizzes being centered around straight couples. I’m a lesbian and I have no desire to be with a man, and I’m so sick and tired of everyone (society) assuming that all women are interested in men. I cannot take this quiz.

  • Olivia January 14, 2018, 5:46 am

    at first I was so sure he loved me but now I don’t know anymore, he tells me he dose but I find it hard to believe, he has changed so much he now lies to
    me, he no longer calls and yet he refuses to accept the break up suggestion I gave him. am confused

  • Debbie burdette December 22, 2017, 12:21 am

    I’m going crazy I gave been with Steven 6 months he was great at first but now he is bulling me he is mentally and emotionally draining me . I am so much in love with him . He has hit me 3times .he leaves and stayed out all night long I can’t believe how much I love him it is stupid. He is a drug addict . I pay all the bills he buys drugs with his money we both are on disability. Help me please I want him to get our but then I don’t want him to leave . I have been thinking about suside really alot that’s how lonely I feel i have last all hope .he calls me a stupied nobody a whore and all kinds of nasty words .tells me I’m ungrateful shellfish .please someone out there help me before I hurt him or my self . I am sick at my stomach know I’m gong to puuck. Oh my goodness . IST making me sick just all of a sudden.what do I do .I don’t deserve it.

  • Thandi November 12, 2017, 11:04 pm

    Me and partner we had 5months old son and he’s first child @52years of he’s age.We living together and he asked me to moved in with “so that we can raise our son together.”I agree “Now he is abusing me emotionally and verbal,he cheats on me with many women and he sleeps with them all.And I found out he’s addicted with date sites and porns,he’s bulling me,controlling,insult and he’s very rude ,I am 35 unemployed laidy”we will compete me with he’s girlfriends. I never cheated on him or to anything stupid and also doesn’t want hire a nanny, I clean the house,cooked for him everyday,ironing he’s clothes and looking my child.he take me out”like restaurants or resort s,on be holidays and always on home 24/7″if I go out like baby showers or be invited with something s… when I came later ,the gate are locked.Each and everywhere I go I carie my baby with”I took his foun 3 weeks back” I saw a lot and found out he’s buying gifts fr he’s girlfriends and take them out with some restaurants and also buying prostitude.He will chart with he’s girlfriend while he’s with me,rerceving nude pics frm them.When I watch movies “he will switch the tv off and tell me I am watching rubbish.He will call me names e.g rubbish from the street,useless hore,useless person sitting in he’s out finishing food”yes he give me allowance every months of R5000 and he expects to last a months,if it is finished before the Monthend ends ” I am in a deep shit.Coz he won’t give me money or by me airtime.He does not give me money @all besides this allowance or live money @home just emergency things things or the baby if gets sick.I took him to court for domestic violence.Now he sleeps @the guest room .bt I steel cookes for him and ironing he’s clothes”now found out I am pregnant again ,I showed him and he ignored everything.i don’t wat to do

  • christina kgaripane July 1, 2017, 7:01 am

    right now I am on this situation my man is cheating and he must dish up the reasons why should I go on with him and Is he serious about this relationship. I am really bored

  • Rosy June 16, 2017, 10:44 am

    I would like to know more about relationships

  • fikile April 7, 2017, 5:15 am

    Yes sometimes it gives too much stress if you are unsure about the break up of your relationship, but it needs you to stand up for yourself and say no to the thing you dont like will live without him life goes on somtimes its better to be alone and peacefull minded thn being in a frustration relationship it is even worse if relationship engages abusive situation

  • Adaeze March 4, 2017, 7:56 am

    I av been with dis guy pisces man for 7years,buh now I broke up with my ex pisces boyfriend for a a year now,bcos i feel he doesn’t knw wat he wants,he wants to be with two women at same time,which I can’t take any more and I truly love him.right now I feel like I should go back to him I don’t knw why feel dis way,wat should I do though he never wanted to break up with me,buh I took the decision breaking with him.

  • Sharon October 25, 2016, 5:56 pm

    Things can work out if the past is forgotten and forgiven

  • Matthew September 12, 2016, 5:06 am

    That’s me

  • Matthew Harwood September 11, 2016, 4:29 pm

    25 years and 3 children we need counseling but I don’t know if she will agreed to counseling

  • Matthew Harwood September 11, 2016, 4:27 pm

    I am pretty sure is like that with me but I’m giting emotionally abused.

  • Lorenzlyn April 26, 2016, 8:54 pm

    Breaking up with someone your going out with might be so easy but the question is are you really ready to let him/her go. Are you ready to move on?, Are you really ready to wonder what your life would be after you break up with him/her?, Are you ready to let go the wishes/dreams you both have decided for your future. What if you broke up with him/her and after that you realize that you really need him/her that you can leave without him/her.

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