If you’ve been in a relationship for a while and you’re starting to wonder if your new fella is falling in love with you, then this article will help you to get a clearer picture of his true feelings.
Often, it can be obvious when a guy is falling for you. However, some guys play their cards closer to their chest. Furthermore, if you are really into the guy and are hoping for things to work out the way you want, then sometimes your judgment can be clouded by your hopes and aspirations.
If you want to get a clear idea of whether he really loves you, then we highly recommend you read this article on the top signs he loves you to discover the answers.
For an insightful overview, read on to discover five clear signs that he may be falling in love.
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These 5 Signs Mean He’s Falling In Love With You
He Is Very Attentive To What You Have To Say
When a guy is really into you, he will be very tentative to the conversations the two of you share. When you are talking, does it seem that he is really into the conversation and genuinely interested in what you have to say? If so, then he could be feeling closer to you.
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A guy paying attention in this way is a great sign that he does actually genuinely care about what is important to you.
He Changes His Plans To See You
A guy who is willing to spend a lot of his spare time with you is probably into you in quite a big way. However, if he is also willing to change plans that he has already made in order to see you then this is a good sign that he may be in love with you.
It is important not to test a guy on this by trying to get him to break his plans to see you. It needs to be totally of his own accord in order to show an accurate indication of his affections. Furthermore, if you keep trying to get him to break his plans so he can see you, then he may soon get fed up and start to resent you.
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He Wants You To Meet His Family
For most guys (and girls too), introducing someone, they are seeing romantically to their families can be kind of a big deal. Most guys won’t introduce their girlfriend to family members until they feel that they are serious about her.
Often, introducing a girlfriend to the family will bring up a lot of questions from family members later when you’re not around. So if he has brought you around to meet them, then he is willing to go through the interrogation of questions like, ‘So is it serious?’ ‘How did you meet?’ ‘Do you think she is the one?’ and so forth.
When you first meet his family members, it is crucial that you do your absolute best to make a good first impression. If they like you, then they will likely be saying positive things to him about you, which will reinforce in his mind that he has made a good decision to be with you.
If you are nervous about meeting his family then here are some tips to help you avoid making mistakes when meeting his family.
Using “We” Statements
When a guy is really into you, he will naturally start to want to include you more in his plans. An obvious sign of this is when he stops considering only himself and is including you in his statements regarding things that the two of you can do together.
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If he is doing this, then it could mean that he is viewing the two of you more as a serious couple. Using the word “We” when talking about things the two of you can do together is a good sign that things are moving in the right direction.
Talking About The Future With You
If you have noticed that your man is more and more talking about future events that also involve you in some way, then he is most likely serious about you.
Talking about events like vacations, visiting friends and family members or even moving to a different area together can be a big indication that he is in love with you.
5 Signs He’s Falling In Love With You
- He is very attentive to what you have to say.
- He changes his plans to see you.
- He wants you to meet his family.
- He uses “we” statements.
- He talks about the future with you.
Article contributed by the American Dating Society – www.asnamnat.org.
when he casually talks about the future with you and you find yourself included in those plans, that’s it!
when he starts to really talk about the future with you and you’re in it, then you’ll know he’s fallen in love with you and would want to keep you.
when he’s insistent of meeting your family, you know it’s the next level kind of thing
when he gives you his undivided attention especially when you have something to say, it’s a sign he loves you and he values what you have to say
using “we” and “us” statements are a big sign he wants to spend his lifetime with you.
he’d be the one planning to meet your family
my boyfriend never flaked on me, not even once. this is how i knew he was true and that he truly loved me.
the guy will always listen to you and will make you feel comfortable with him.
when he’s very attentive to you and you know he listens because he remembers what you say, you know he loves you.
if he starts to see you as a teammate, he must be starting to fall in love for real
he tries to be with you all the time and he really takes time to listen to you
only inlove men will change plans for you
he’s as focused and attentive to you when you’re talking and he remembers.
cancelling his plan for you is definitely one way to prove this
if he’s talking about the future with you, he’s definitely falling in love
only a man who is sure to be in love with you would talk about his future together with you
he will want to introduce you to his family, this is very important to him.
when he sees himself ending up with you and can’t seem to stop talking about your future together, you know he is in love
using WE statements is a big sign
he makes an effort and would totally chnage plans for you
he is very attentive to what you say, but more importantly he remembers.
you’re right, couldn’t agree more.
if he includes you in his plans and make use of “we” and “us” <3
he may open up to you about marrying someday and stuff
talking about the future and making plans together is a giveaway sign
only a man who is in love with you would change his plans to see you or be with you
men as they mature want the more important things in life. And when he comes to a point that he uses “we” statements, that means he is really into you and would definitely be ready to commit
a man wanting you to meet his folks is seriously in love
i once dated someone who kept begging me to meet his family, i thought it was too soon, i was the one who freaked out. but now i realize, that’s something that only a seriously in love person would do.
all true, i would just add “spending quality time with you”