3 Ways To Find Out Whether Someone Truly Loves You

3 Ways To Find Out Whether Someone Truly Loves You

So you want to find out whether he really truly loves you or not. Maybe he hasn’t said “I love you” yet, and you’re wondering if he ever will. Maybe he’s said it, but it doesn’t sound convincing and you’re not sure if he’s telling the truth or just stringing you along. Maybe you just want to find out where you stand.

Whatever the reason, there are a few ways to find out how he truly feels about you and whether he truly loves you or not. You’re going to want to pay attention to what he says, what he does, and how he acts when they’re around you.

After all, we’re talking about finding out whether he loves you, not just finding out whether he likes you.

Below, you’ll find the exact things to look for in those 3 situations to find out whether he loves you. Ready?

1. Pay Attention To What He Says

When you’re trying to figure out whether he loves you or not, it’s important to recognize what the things he says (1) mean about the way he feels about you.

For instance, does he talk about you two having a future together – and make it seem like it’s a given? If he’s treating your future together as a done deal, it’s safe to say that he’s already decided he wants to spend his life with you, the person he loves.

Big clues include him talking about what your lives will be like 1, 5, or 10 years into the future, what your children might look like, where he wants to retire with you, what your honeymoon will be like, etc. Does he think you’re going to be together forever?

Think carefully and pay attention to the compliments he gives you(2). Are they regular, ordinary, “you look nice in that dress” compliments? Or are they meaningful compliments that imply something deeper?

There’s a big difference between “I like your new haircut” and “you always know what to say to make me smile.” If he’s giving you compliments that are about specific parts of your personality that he loves, then he’s probably in love with the whole thing.

Remember, this is about quality, not quantity. One soul felt, heart melting compliment is better than 50 lazy ones.

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If he’s said “I love you”, you need to pay attention to how he says it – that’s going to reveal how he truly feels.

If he tosses a careless, “love youuuuuuuu” over his shoulder as he walks out the door, it’s a lot different than him looking you carefully in the eyes and telling you that he loves you.

Guys who are truly in love will tell their partners they love them without any occasion – just because they felt like saying it.

When you two have conversations, does he keep the talk light and on the surface? Or do you guys talk about deeper, more intense stuff?

If he’s willing to share secrets with you – especially the deep dark stuff he wouldn’t tell anyone else, that means that he trusts you. And since trust is the foundation for love, it’s a pretty good shot that he loves you too.

How much does he miss you when you’re apart? An easy way to figure this out is to see how often he texts or calls you while you’re not together(3).

Are you the one who has to text and call him in order to stay in touch? Or is he sending you little texts and reminders that he’s thinking about you? If it’s the latter, you’re in good shape.

One often overlooked way of finding out whether he loves you – how does he respond when you make a mistake?

If he’s not comfortable pointing it out, that means he’s probably got an idealized picture of you in his head – which means he’s not in love with you for who you truly are.

However, if he’s comfortable pointing out when you make a mistake or did something wrong, it means he knows who you truly are – and he’s willing and happy to accept when you make a mistake.

More: 20 Secrets Behind Relationships That Last Forever

How does he treat your opinion? Does he ask for it, but then ignore it when you give it to him? Does he never ask for it in the first place? Neither of those bode well.

However, if he asks for your opinion, and then shows that he truly listened and he’s truly following it – that’s a great sign that he loves you. Loved ones value each other’s opinions, and ask for advice about anything they’re struggling with, whether it’s something big or something small.

2. Pay Careful Attention To What He Does

Just as important as paying attention to what he says is paying attention to what he does. For instance – does he listen to you? More importantly, does he listen to whatever you say?

If he’s truly in love with you, it means that he’s willing to listen to anything you say – even if he’s already heard that story a million times. He’ll truly listen to you instead of just nodding and saying “mhmm,” and he’ll remember the things you say later.

Does he put in an effort to be there for you? A lot of people are “friends of convenience”, who will only help you when it’s convenient for them.

However, if he’s always willing to be there for you, even when it’s not convenient for him, it means that he cares about making you happy, and he cares about being there for you.

Remember, this is about whether he drives you to the train station at 6am, not whether he’s willing to grab a drink on a Thursday night. If he loves to hang out with you when you’re in a good mood, but disappears as soon as you get upset or unhappy – that’s definitely not the behavior of someone in love with you.

Know what people in love do for each other? They do nice things – just to make each other happy. He’ll be willing to get you your favorite food when you’re feeling down, or take care of you when you’re sick, or just do what it takes to make you smile if he’s in love with you.

Another great sign – if he does nice things to make your life easier… without you having to ask him. If he does it on his own, just to make you happy, it’s a great sign.

Someone who’s in love with you will want to be around you – like all the time. It means that he wants to be around you even if it would take a ton of effort to do it.

Guys who are in love make a special effort to be around the person they love all the time, even when it seems impractical. He doesn’t have to be there every second of every day, he just has to make a special effort to see you.

Does he know whether to give you space or not?

Even in the most loving relationship, sometimes you need a break from each other.

If he’s really in love with you, it means he wants to be around you – but he also knows when it’s time to spend some time apart.

If he can’t stand not being with you, and wants to be with you 24/7, that’s not a sign of love – it’s a sign that he’s immature and insecure. That’s all about infatuation, not love. True love means recognizing that you’re two individuals who need space to maintain your individuality.

Truly loving someone means understanding them. Your man should really “get” who you are at your core if he’s in love with you. After all, being in love means knowing someone for who they truly are and accepting that person.

He doesn’t have to know every single thing about you – in fact it’s good if there are parts of you that are still mysterious. However, he should get who you truly are, at the center of your being.

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Someone who’s in love with you is going to want what’s best for you – regardless if that’s what’s best for him. He should be willing to support you when you follow your dreams, even if that means spending less time with you.

True love means recognizing when someone is doing something to improve their life, and supporting it, even if it means time apart. Sometimes, you have to do what’s best for you, and he should support that.

Love means supporting the other person, through thick and thin. If you’re having a hard time in your life, does he disappear until things get better and you get in a better mood? Or does he stick by your side and support you.

Think back to the last time you went through something really tough. Was he there for you? Or did he disappear into the background until everything blew over? When you answer that question, you’ll know a lot more about whether he loves you or not.

3. Pay Attention To How He Acts Around You

One of the biggest signs that someone is in love with you is how he acts around you – specifically whether he’s being genuine or he’s pretending that he’s someone he’s not.

A guy who is truly in love with you will act totally natural around you – because he knows that you accept him for who he truly is and he loves being that person with you. He’s willing to show you a side of himself he doesn’t show to many people.

Does seeing you brighten up his day and make him happy – even if he’s had an awful day? A guy who’s in love will still be happy to see the woman he loves – even if he’s having a terrible, awful day.

Test this out by waiting for him to have a terrible, grumpy, bad day, and then see how he reacts when he sees you that day. Does he light up? Then chances are he’s in love.

One of the main components of being in love with someone is a heady rush of euphoria. Even being around the person can bring out this giddy, amazing feeling – it’s one of the best parts of being in love.

Does he all of a sudden get giddy around you, like he just can’t contain himself? Does he seem way more excited, lit up, animated, and giggly when he’s around you? Yup – love.

One of the ways that we support the people we love is that we stand in their corner and stick by their side. If he gets upset when you’re upset – and is upset on your behalf, it means that he really cares about how you’re doing, and he wants to make sure you’re happy.

He’ll want to mirror your emotions and empathize with you, so that he can help you with whatever’s bothering you and work towards being happy again. That’s true love.

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In summary…

How To Know If Someone Truly Loves You

  • Pay attention to what he says to you and how he talks about the future with you.
  • If he’s said “I love you”, pay attention to whether he’s being careless or genuine
  • Think about whether he puts in the effort to be there for you when you need it
  • Ask yourself whether he does nice things for you out of kindness and generosity or not
  • Ask yourself whether it feels easy to be around him or difficult
  • Think about whether it feels good to be around each other or whether it feels like a struggle

how to know if someone truly loves you

138 comments… add one
  • Gloria May 16, 2021, 10:32 am

    ma the problem am having is that I have a friend and he is a guy,whenever he his online he always said sweetheart,good morning darling even when I told him am having headache he says sorry darling but he hasn’t propose or tell me he loves me for once,please what can I do,I think maybe I should change to him maybe from there he will tells me he loves me

  • Rachel May 11, 2021, 8:22 pm

    I was friends with benefits with a guy but after a month we both admitted that we started to have feelings. After some time almost 3 months together I broke up with him our deal or whatever because we didn’t have a relationship. But after a week we started again but we said only fun. And after 1 month he broke up with me because he said he feels guilty for what he is doing and he doesn’t want to only fuck and our age difference is big. He didn’t say anything about age but before he kind of let me know it was maybe a problem for him. And while we were together he said that I am still young to marry or something. Anyways now after 5 months maybe I came back in the city we met and we started hanging out with the common friends we had. One night accidentally I saw on his phone that he searched “how to know if a girl loves you”. That searching was in the day he texted me that he needs a massage and people told him that I do good ones. And he is giving me signs lately that he wants to be together again but I don’t know if he only wants me because it is a long time he didn’t have sex or he loves me . Sometimes I feel like he loves me but sometimes I think that he just wants to have sex with me. And also even that he is giving me signs he opened an account on a dating app for our religion and he wrote it that he is looking for marriage and friendship. I really love him too but I just started to get over him a little but in the moment I think I am over him I see him and I feel all the feelings for him. I feel like I miss him, I want to hug him, cuddle and be a couple with him. Can you please help me or give me any advise.

    • Keerthana April 8, 2022, 11:49 am

      Never get into this toxic relationship again. u are serious about ur relationship but he is not.if u decide to get together again then wt if he levs u again
      Question urself and decide dear

  • Mary osazuwa November 29, 2020, 10:51 am

    My boyfriend is always happy when am with him

  • Kofoworola November 6, 2020, 2:08 am

    I have a boyfriend,we have been dating for months,so I went to Kaduna for some training and I lose connection,he probably thought I left him but no I did not,so when I got back I called him and he was surprised,so I asked him hope he hasn’t had another gf he said the truth that he had,I said okay that we can be frnds then,but he pleaded that I shd not let him go that he still loves me this and that,so I said okay ,we resumed school and we have been always together most of times,he tell me stuffs and we do things together.but he doesn’t give his gf attention like that again,when that gf wants to come visiting he looks for excuses but I will tell him she shd come that I will leave the house for them and all his brothers likes me alot.but now he even wants to get me phones and now the thing is does he loves me or am just his sex slaves..but I lov
    Him am even thinking maybe am pregnant sef..

  • Bernice October 29, 2020, 3:15 pm

    My guy and I been dating for a year and 7 months counting and my boyfriend always tells me he loves me,we do talk about our future plans sometimes and he has met my mom and siblings too but sometimes we cease to chat and talk on the phone like in some weeks or month.He’s a business minded person and I’m also working too.
    Sometimes he makes me feel loved with the “I love you” and “I miss you” its something we sometimes say to each other and my question is that Is he really really in love with me or are we both really in love with each other.

  • Faith September 23, 2020, 1:22 pm

    I’ve been dating him for past four months and I love him so much and he does the same to Buh for the past one weeks if i should call him he doesn’t pick even if he pick all is going to say is that I’m very busy pls is that true love

    • Monica October 22, 2020, 8:58 pm

      Because he is busy does not mean that he does not love you. My suggestion would be to back up from calling him and think of a more creative way to show you care and use the time away from him to focuse on you. Sometimes we lose our men when we lose yourself. Stay grounded! If you want some ideas feel free to reach out I’m willing to help!

      • Steph November 14, 2020, 6:50 pm

        Hi i broke up with my bf last year because he lied about something and through out the whole year that we weren’t bf and gf we still had contact and this year he said that he wanted to work things out. And August of this year what had happen is that i looked thru his phone and he was messaging a girl and he was inviting her to come over. (What told me to go thru his phone was because he was acting very distant with me and i would ask is everything ok ur being very distant lately.) So i took pictures of the messages and i was mad and heart broken because he had said to me that he wanted to work things out. I showed him the pictures. His response was im sorry you deserve better. I think couple days after he texted saying he was going to maybe see a counselor and i said just do it. At that point i didn’t care cause i was heartbroken. So it was one day he had texted me to come over and i did. That night he had apologized to me and that he wants to see a counselor for help, he really wants our relationship to work. But the day that he was going to see a counselor in late August his dad passed away. And these months have been hard i cant imagine the pain that he is going thru. So in September he tells me that i can move in with him. Now whole October i noticed that he wouldn’t sleep in the same room with me and we havent had sex for a month. So now that im getting all my stuff in his place i feel that he doesn’t really love me and now im feeling anxious to even move in with him.

  • Row July 28, 2020, 8:51 am

    I hav e been in a relationship for 3 months and we rarely see each other. I always initiate wanting to see him but he always busy. He txt me goodmorning and goodnight. He txt me during the day maybe 3 ro 4 times depend how busy he is. My question is..does he loves me? I dont know where I stand

  • nelvin July 5, 2020, 9:40 am

    i have been in a relation for almost four month…but since last month til know we have not been able to meet but ruther when i call him he always had complain that he has been sick and busy…so my point is shoul i move on and find another way?please i need your help

  • Videx June 28, 2020, 2:18 pm

    This is awesome,i feel relaxed and happy after finishing reading this. I really love it.

  • Chacha May 18, 2020, 10:40 am

    Men are very risk

    • Rock Smith March 25, 2021, 8:35 am

      My boyfriend didn’t care if you are happy or not

  • Priscillia February 21, 2020, 3:33 am

    He claims to love me but recently whenever m around he goes out with his friends or just go to sleep and mostly calls this particular girl telling her about what he will do d next day and having that low voice tone with her in my presence it hurting me and it’s affecting me a lot cause he never dies it with me

    • Anonymous February 21, 2020, 8:30 am

      Possibly say something like this. “I’ve noticed that we haven’t spent much time doing anything or has a date night. What do you think about choosing a place to check out this weekend.” Don’t assume anything with the other girl. Relax and step out of that fear/insecurity. That feeling can be a major downfall to a relationship.

  • Yvonne October 18, 2019, 2:57 am

    Been married for two years having a two year old baby boy but in case I raise an important issue like we open a joint account for the baby this guy keeps on assuming. When I asked him so why he tells me am nagging him so I don’t totally understand this guy and we’ve dated for three years before married. Am I really with the right person?

    • Monica October 22, 2020, 8:25 pm

      Yes. You are the right person! He is most likely feeling abandoned and so his reaction when you ask him questions is his way of trying to regain your attention but he is doing it in the wrong way. I have been known to help ppl with staying in love. We have so many things pulling and tugging at us trying to keep us from really enjoying the love we seek, find, found, have or had. If you will like to discuss this further let me know !

  • Grace September 9, 2019, 6:06 am

    I have a guy who shows me all this signs and am a virgin and I love him too but when ever he ask for sex I do denied him of it and he had never forced me for it and also when ever am fully in mood to do it there is something that keeps telling me not to do it, am so confuse here and I love him

    • Monica October 22, 2020, 8:55 pm

      Always listen to you intuition. That small voice inside that is telling you not to do it knows the true reason you shouldn’t do it. Continue to love him if him and ask your spirit guides to show you clearly if he is the one. Remember once you give yourself away that is something you can not ever get back so take your time and be still.

  • Grace September 9, 2019, 5:54 am

    My boyfriend, he keeps telling me how our future is gonna be , he shows me love, care and always gives me attention, and I love him so much too, when ever he is in mood for fun, it hardly for me to give it to him, I don’t know but something keeps telling me not to do it, and am a Virgin

  • john zaq November 8, 2018, 1:01 am

    Ahaa! thank 4 ur advice of I will be able to the perfect lover.

  • Dawn Terry November 6, 2018, 2:21 am

    I’ve been dating this guy for a little over 2 years…. I know he loves me… I’m in love head over hills for him.. I’ve held him down thru a year of it in jail/prison I was there each week for visitation. Each day on work release for I would drive to the gas station where they get lunch from I would bring whatever he asked for or even needed, etc. But the catch would be whenever the table was turn he would basically always make a point to make the problems worst, I guess the reason for it possibly, bc it wasn’t about him and his feelings is why he makes a point to make the situation a lot worst than when it started. He didn’t care bc it wasn’t about his feelings or anything.. it’s ruff on my end of the situation u runs…. But I know what I need to do but its so hard to let go for me… But on the other hand he runs for days at a time…sad stuff

  • Karen White August 22, 2018, 12:07 pm

    Love is truelly beautiful

  • meghasrikki July 3, 2018, 1:29 am

    Hi from starting days he loves me lot he is caring like small baby but past 2months he is not talking properly he is thinking negative about me from 1 month he is not called me . He is showing like not interested if I asked u need to break up say frankly he is not saying that also I cnt forget him what I hv to do now plz…give me best answer

  • James June 20, 2018, 2:39 pm

    I married to my husband for 25 years but lately I fell like he does not love me anymore. Because if I ask him if he will married me back he is like no o will stay single and get mad at me.

  • olamide May 25, 2018, 1:38 pm

    have been dating a guy for d past 8 year I knw he loves me at start but am not sure if he still love me because he is stingy and he is also a cheat I want to text him I don’t knw want to use

    • ANDREW ROWE June 26, 2018, 9:36 am

      ok STOP and think a Cheat is not a good thing for you at this moment in time as I said to others down the line don t let this man control you life you can do better don’t text him let him contact you go a head and improve your own life first that will make him think about you if he does not call then you are a better person in yourself good luck

  • Missy May 23, 2018, 12:22 pm

    This article just confused me more. My ex did the majority of things mentioned here, I never doubted his love for me. But, I found him looking for a relationship on a dating site. Now he won’t talk to me.

    • ANDREW ROWE June 26, 2018, 8:40 am

      You need to sit down and talk to him about you love for each other and go back to things that were good for each other time is on your side

  • Michelle April 2, 2018, 9:23 pm

    I was in a relationship for 4 years he looks at me eye to eye tells me how much he loved me I was his life … He had our future planned and everything ..then comes to me 4 years later tells me he’s been having affairs the whole time I was with him . Let me just say he was a good liar.. lied to me to my face over and over again and I trusted him with everything in me ..so can’t go bye none of these signs weather he loves u are not I know I can’t anyway good luck everyone

    • ANDREW ROWE June 26, 2018, 9:23 am

      yes improve your life this will give you a power back to your self which is were you need to be good luck

  • emma March 28, 2018, 3:45 pm

    i really want to know if my girl Friend really loves me we just States Dating just a week and she Has Being requesting and requesting please I need ur comment

    • ANDREW ROWE June 26, 2018, 8:52 am

      oh my god did you just say a week you can not love or ask someone that question learn to have fun first most people go all gun blazing and that’s were people go wrong time is on your side don t rush into things slow down

  • Patricia March 8, 2018, 2:55 am

    So my boyfriend, before we started dating he told me about when he travelled 9000 miles just to meet this girl he has been talking to for 8 months and was there for a week. She ended up cheating on him after 2 months and i stumbled upon some messages from him saying that he will never stop loving her amd will never forget the good times they had together. But now that we’re dating he says that he loves me and that he’s never planned on marrying anyone or starting a family with someone before. But i still wonder about what he said to that girl and it bugs me. Did he really mean that do you think? Can a man possibly still love someone even though they’ve done them wrong and is with someone else now?

    • ANDREW ROWE June 26, 2018, 9:16 am

      ok I think you should be carefully on your own feeling s here if man mess you about in anyway you should kick that person to the kerb don t bring your self down to there level your life will be to better if you as a person improve you way of life then you will find some better for who you deserve STOP and think about it do you what to be in a mess where you are confused on you love for this person you can do the no contact rule for 30 days wait for him to call then get a direct answer from him good luck

  • Loveth March 7, 2018, 1:56 pm

    I have a friend that always tells me that he loves me, that he will take me to his people. very soon but one day he said to me that he is traveling not knowing that he is with another lady within my area and I caught him but since then he has never call me pls which advice are u going to give me on this matter. Thanks

    • ANDREW ROWE June 26, 2018, 8:45 am

      you need to do the no contact zone let that person come to you if they don t its there lost improve your own life first

  • Zolanyi moreno February 27, 2018, 12:00 pm

    Can you translate this important article into Spanish please I have a lot of Spanish girlfriends with boyfriends and we like to talk about each other’s relationships and we love our men, but this information has been a very important tool for me, and know that fr my friends will be too. Thank you so much in advance I would really appreciate it.

  • ruky February 15, 2018, 4:17 pm

    Communication prob.. With him
    I have been into more than 3 relations since i have finish my o-lvl studies to unversity lvl then i nvr met my prince charm and nw i am i gues i met my mr.right he is 41yrs and am 25 buh the prob is he’s buzy man type he so crayz bzy with his work to.reach point he got no chance to evn txt me ttho he makes sure he sees me @least
    twice/3rd a week….me i dnt want him to see me i want him to show he cares i want alive
    ccommunication i dnt see the mean of him sees me if he dsnt care he has alot of communication barriers but he claims he dearly lvs me i should note that communication
    things urrgh he doenst have time for that that the answer he replays whn i askd him y is acting like communication is nt part if our so called lv…

  • Glory February 15, 2018, 3:13 pm

    I have a boyfriend we dated for so long and he used to teach me in ma studies after done teaching suddenly he started to change he used to bring me gifts before but he stopped when I ask him he say that his religion does not allow to bring gift to a girl who not married to her actually I was very surprise he was good guy but he started being hursh to me well days goes by I heard that he was dating another girl when I asked him he is answering as if am just nobody later by I was sent a video of my boyfriend and the girl on bed I got angry and abused him severely and now he starting to ask for forgiveness please help me does this guy truely love me cause I really love him so much what can I dooooo

  • Unity Mausali February 15, 2018, 6:41 am

    I have a sweet boyfriend that loves me alot and cares for me. I love him so much and I also care about him too. He calls me and text me everytime of everyday whenever he’s at home. He sings alot of songs to me when we video chat and he always wants me to sleep with him while we’re on video chat together. I guess he wants me to move in with him so we can be happy together and he also told me that he wants to have a baby with me but I told him that we have to get married first, so I told him that I wanted to get married, when I turn 25 years old which is next year. I don’t know if that will ever happen cuz he told me that he is scared that my mom might say No to him if he talks to my mom about him wanting to marry me.

  • Ayesha February 13, 2018, 3:04 pm

    I love my fiance and in few months im going to get married to him but Im not sure whether he loves me or not as he is not expressive. Like he never plan dates or surprises for me although he always keeps telling me that he loves me.He hardly calls me or texts me. I always feel Im not his priority.How to test whether he loves me a lot?

  • unique francis February 9, 2018, 9:39 am

    is so bleeding (crying)

  • unique francis February 9, 2018, 9:38 am

    Is nice some of you have true love, is fun to love but I don’t want to love and my heart is so bleeding I need advice someone to advice me on how to stop loving.

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  • berla February 4, 2018, 4:45 pm

    i love my boo dont really sure he love me

  • ABISTONE January 26, 2018, 8:40 am

    i seriously need love….. my heart need to love but what i will i see the person truly love me….

  • Jeanie Radores January 12, 2018, 12:02 am

    Hi I’m Jeanie, I feell like I’m newbie for entering into a relationship. I currently have a suitor, I like him and I always miss his calls or messages a day he doesn’t send me one. His often said, “I love you” to me which I can’t respond. It feels like I am pressured to utter those words.

    Do you think he truly loves me? Thanks.

  • anil December 25, 2017, 4:24 am

    Hey hai nice articale few months back I am fall in love with one girl.shes very awesome girl and straight forward…she shared to me all her childhood things also…..she s truly love me but I don’t know I am always get jelous.if shes talking with any boys …what can I dooooooo

  • Loret November 28, 2017, 7:46 pm

    please i love my boyfriend, he loves me tooo, buh any little thing we fight
    please are we really soul mate. can we mary?

  • Shark girl November 26, 2017, 11:30 am

    i have a boyfriend and i love him and i don’t think he loves that much as i do bcs he is a footballer and always there are girls around him, this makes me think if he loves me or not.

  • Jiyopalpal November 9, 2017, 11:41 am

    Good article….with nice information

  • Nn October 15, 2017, 1:00 pm

    I had around 2 and half years of relationship with this guy….. We were totally in love n about to get married but his financial conditions was not good hence he broke the marriage and was left me alone… After 1 and half years of this he is back though he said that u were the only one who used to listen to me and used to understand my situation…… He wants to make collage of my photo so he asked for my photos…. Though we tr in touch but I don’t know whether he wants me back or not, he loves me or not….. I love him and I don’t know what to do to get him back…. Please suggest

    • Rhonda October 18, 2017, 10:38 am

      I would pass. I think by him breaking it off, deep down he isn’t ready, regardless of the circumstances .

      • BD November 4, 2017, 10:21 pm

        sorry but all you’re saying to people is break up. why are you so bloody negative. you don’t need to tell people to end their relationships. have a positive outlook on life. all relationships have complications… that isn’t an excuse to end the relationship and it also doesn’t mean the other person doesn’t love you.

  • Babzin September 30, 2017, 5:06 pm

    Im in a relationshiop with thias guy i truly love,he always talks about the future with me,but his so frustrated he always make feel small,useless and stupid,we always fight about petty things,he gets angry easily,im always there for him to support him when he needs help but his always shutting me out,when i dont text or call he wont bother himself to text me back,we always make time for us to see each other since we in a klong distance relationship,i dont know what to do,does he love me or what

    • Rhonda October 18, 2017, 10:40 am

      No..keep it moving. Look at all the negative things you mentioned about him.
      You deserve love without a struggle.

  • Benedicta September 29, 2017, 6:24 pm

    Hello I met this guy I fell in love with, although I was the one who got his contact to call him first before he asked me out the problem is he has a gf outside the country before leaving almost a year,he says he wanna have a 50-50chance relationship with he won’t promise me anything rather he wants the emotion to grow deeper itself, but he is acting like my boyfriend takes me.out we hang out now am scared what if tomorrow he breaks my heart and leave should I leave the relationship or stay

    • Rhonda October 18, 2017, 10:43 am

      He is simply using you as a place holder. No love. And, yes..heartbreak is certain if you don’t get out. You deserve better than sharing.

  • mahi September 19, 2017, 2:41 am

    i love farhad a lot but faru is not with me bcoz i nerve see him its blind love

  • Ja July 30, 2017, 7:35 pm

    I never thought I would image my self with anyone I met my Prince charming I love him so much even though we have out ups and downs but I can honestly say is being with him though hard times makes us stronger I couldn’t asks for a better boyfriend because he makes me complete and I never want to leave he’s side I really want to marry him and start our own family when the time is right

    • Ja July 30, 2017, 7:45 pm

      I just want to let u know babes that I will always love you no matter what I will be loyal to you until I die forever together te amo xx sweetheart I mean every word I say u are my everything even when I’m not with you I get emotional because I miss you everyday of my life hun I want to spend the rest of my life with you because you make me happy

      • Ja August 2, 2017, 9:29 pm

        I hate relationship man are very dishonest and selfish I can’t wait to find the right person

        • Clarissa June 22, 2018, 11:23 am

          U make my heart melt I swear … I love u so much baby I don’t think u realize how much love and loyalty I carry for you

  • Vera July 29, 2017, 1:39 pm

    Gosh it is so obvious he’s in love with me. He gets all giddy sometimes and he also always loves to see me. Still we both are sooo… like our hands were tied behind our backs. What can i do to make things progress and not this always looking for a reason to see each other and never admitting or speaking out loud what one feels? :)

  • Maris June 10, 2017, 6:57 pm

    I really love this guy but am so unsure of myself if he does too

  • carol June 7, 2017, 3:58 am

    This men r unpredictable

  • Amogelang May 6, 2017, 7:59 am

    were is mic rite

  • MriGa Isaac G Aki fb name April 29, 2017, 6:32 pm

    this tips are Jt too true. I L❤VE it

  • Christie Bettie April 25, 2017, 10:43 am

    I love this guy but am scared to get hurt again cause am not sure if he truly mean it when he say he love me please can any one advice me on this

  • jossy taylor April 15, 2017, 4:02 pm

    please tell me wat to do coz my bf broke u wid me no gud reaso adn bu becoz i loved him i called him after lyk abt 6 months only to find out he cheated on me ad got a baby wid smone else then oof bad luck he the baby ad also da mother tho i dont knw da story behind it. i lv him bt am scared tho he says he still loves me. the problem is i find it hard to bliv coz he wasnt gud wid me bt lately he has bn so gud even tho am far frm him i dont knw wat to do coz i still find it hard to forget hw he has treated me. pls advice me

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  • Chukwubuike Juliet February 27, 2017, 7:53 am

    if he have all this qualities but he don’t call all the time should I still consider him.

    • Invisible April 1, 2017, 3:58 pm

      No.. Don’t. If he really loves you he will always make an effort and time to call you if you are not around or if u are apart that means he likes having u or he likes talking to you that talking to others.. If he loves you he always wishes having u and spending time with u. In distance he should miss you and that only he can do is to call you and text u a lot by showing u his care and love through distance.. Trust me I know because I been with one and not worth it to pursue if he can’t even always call you.. That means he will have someone else calling with aside from you.. Or others are occupying his time keeping him busy..

  • Ameliaherlock February 24, 2017, 12:25 am

    Hello i was wondering if you could give me a very helpful advice I’m actually in a state of confusion you see well he likes me but he likes someone else too im trying to forget about him but everytime i pass by him or we tend to see each other at the university he keeps his stare at me with a smile and i dont know my situation with him is very difficult and confusing

  • Yvonne wynn February 13, 2017, 5:43 pm

    I still didnt get my result. Yall didn’t send me notthing

  • Ms. Jones February 10, 2017, 7:00 pm

    Hey there Donavon Johnson, I seen your comment and wanted to reply. Sounds to me like you can at least admit your mistakes and work on them. All a woman truly wants us to feel secure in their friendships, their jobs, their home life and most of all….Their relationship! If you’re willing to show the effort of fixing the problems at hand and she’s willing to forgive, then I just can’t see why not, you know? Good luck, lil buddy!

  • Rose February 6, 2017, 5:25 pm

    Whatever i know that he loves me what about my family ? Even they don’t let me go date whit he -_- …. i feel so sad i miss he and whatever i want to take he back can i ? Pls answer

  • Turtle cheesecake November 5, 2016, 5:09 pm

    This seems like bs. Yes watch his actions and what is said but the rest is bull. When a man loves you they seem to do small things like text you during there breaks at work. Bring you little small things you enjoy. Small men aren’t verbal or even touchy feely or gitty but I have been with my love for 4 yrs and I have no question that he loves me.

  • Eleve October 22, 2016, 3:27 am

    Its really true

  • asif September 28, 2016, 10:57 pm

    I want’t to propose a girl but don’t know how to propose please can advice me someone?

  • Tashi September 19, 2016, 7:30 am

    How to overcome onesided love? I want to love a man who truely love me.

  • Martha kamara July 10, 2016, 7:06 am

    Am having an affair with this guy all along I though he loves me but he travel n leave me for two weeks now but he told me he will come soon am wondering if he truly loves me

    • Scott November 1, 2016, 9:50 am

      Stop having an affair and break it off with the man you are with….you’re asking if this cheating man loves you, the cheating women? what about your husband? you dont love him, nor are you questioning his love…so break it off already and stop cheating…

  • Dineo July 8, 2016, 9:31 am

    I will like to propose

  • Dineo July 8, 2016, 7:55 am

    I forget my password

  • caro mercy June 12, 2016, 4:41 pm

    Am avn dis guy i love so much buh i dnt noe if he does too…Buh grt tips i noe nw

  • Jay June 12, 2016, 5:41 am

    I see some of those signs but what if after moving in with him, he put you out everytime he gets mad about something . I would like a response to this question.

  • Sanjana June 10, 2016, 1:19 am

    We are in relation since 1 year now there is a bit confusion,since im more busy and i dont get time to cal him everyday,i call him in weeks or two weeks,but he is not understanding it,he thinks that im having another bf at another plac since now im far from him,xo what should i do to mk our relation strong lk be fo…..

    • SUV Ro September 26, 2016, 1:48 pm

      If he truly loved you… he would have never thought anything like that!

  • Cristina May 31, 2016, 1:52 am

    Well this article really helps me figure out if my husband really loves me and it states true and I’m glad I was able to read over and realized that he not just love me but is in love withme. Thanks.

  • Marilyn Llancia May 25, 2016, 11:44 pm

    How to prove that my FB bf is truely love with me he is young and still student how prove that he is the right guy for me

  • skylordpaddy April 25, 2016, 7:16 am

    how au sure

  • Joseph japh April 17, 2016, 8:45 pm

    Almost All these things I do for my girl. She does the same, the only thing is, I’m very busy and I hardly have her time, because I work from 8am-6pm. But we make sure we spend all sundays together. Is that enough time together?

  • Natalie Strouse January 23, 2016, 8:03 am

    Even though you can sometimes figure out what he might be hinting at, it just makes more sense to ask him outright.

  • Rose Bird January 22, 2016, 7:14 am

    In most cases we talk pretty deep and I like that. It gets my mind thinking and makes me feel closer to him.

  • Marcella Hammond January 20, 2016, 3:34 pm

    I am not one to make quick judgements on things like this, so I would have to be told outright. That I can trust.

    • Lahoma Beamon January 23, 2016, 8:12 am

      Well, you could consult a friend to see what she thinks. Sometimes that is a good way to help you decide how to feel.

      • joehath5@g.mail October 2, 2016, 11:11 am

        I realie like to spend a day with her and together and make happy and no her very well and ask her a lot question what she likes what she do not like and so many things that will make a prefect match for life partner her happines is my happines because i every success comes behind is the wife prayers that is what i can say i hope she understood my feelings from the day one till now i no what she have done to me he change my into a new life i say she is very understanding and a loving person that i dream of she should worry anymore about no matter anybody cannot touch us this god gift to me i can say she is very wonderfull person

  • Mallory Rock January 20, 2016, 2:15 pm

    I have been pretty good about picking up on compliments, however there is a guy that I work with that is keeping me on my toes.

    • Dorothy Dimattia January 22, 2016, 7:26 am

      This took me years to get and mainly that was because I did not have a very loving family. The compliments were snarky and sarcastic so I was not sure who was honest and things like that.

  • Ana Harris January 19, 2016, 6:32 pm

    I appreciate the fact that if I am in a relationship long term, that I know where we stand as a couple.

  • Joyce Willis January 18, 2016, 2:38 pm

    Just like a how a few others have mentioned that it takes more than one person’s hard work to make a relationship work, I see that these signs can go both ways.

  • Duane Hollifield January 15, 2016, 8:17 pm

    When it comes to a man showing that they really love a woman, they will know. Unless the guy is a jerk, then they will be waiting around for the “nice” guy to show up.

  • Mary Jenkins January 14, 2016, 9:00 pm

    Three very easy things to do in a relationship!

    • Jerri Pullman January 15, 2016, 8:42 pm

      That is what you think. It is not that easy!

  • Floy Salzman January 13, 2016, 11:13 am

    Pay attention period, right? So much can be learned in a relationship if you are both listening AND paying attention.

  • Simone Brewer January 12, 2016, 5:52 pm

    There are a ton of ways to make sure a person loves you before acting like a jerk and confronting them about it, right?

  • Cindy Mora January 12, 2016, 5:43 pm

    I tend to wonder about the i love yous once in a while. It just seems like a phrase that is tossed around without meaning.

    • Shirley Osteen January 14, 2016, 9:09 pm

      For young people especially. They FEEL the love, but are confused as to what love really is.

      • Jen b September 27, 2016, 10:37 pm

        You really cannot say young people because there are “young people” who are actually in love and there are adults who think they are in love and are actually just going with the flow. To love is not to give materially to love is to give all of who you are as a person to the person of your choice and if that person does not want all of who you are it is not love it’s lust. Why do people always look for love? Why not let it fall into your hands????? Is it because that’s to easy or is it because some just want something fast because they are afraid of being alone? The question will always remain a mystery to most because most have no experienced love first hand. Love does not just merely slip away love should be an unbreakable bond between two people who know what cannot get enough of each other, who can read and feel each other, who can relate in more ways phathomable. It’s a bind to not take lightly it’s meant to be cherished. And it’s sad to admit that most people use the word in vain because they are afraid of the what ifs.

  • SETH December 23, 2015, 4:05 pm

    Very true signs,I have experienced all.

    • Juana Layton January 13, 2016, 11:24 am

      Well, that is a good thing, right?

  • Edna Moyo November 19, 2015, 5:10 am

    Wow i lyk the tips

  • Delena Martin September 24, 2015, 8:54 am

    These are good signs, but I am still confused by men sometimes. They are not clear about what they want most times. Thanks!

    • Elizabeth Steiner January 19, 2016, 6:40 pm

      Great signs! I love to know where you come up with these articles. They are good reads!

  • Elizabeth Dennis September 24, 2015, 8:44 am

    My b/f is into motocross and even though I am not that into it, I should some interest and I think he likes that. It makes things better for us!

  • Grace Brown September 22, 2015, 2:07 pm

    I love this! Very good information to pass along to my friends! We are always asking each other how to tell if a guy likes you. These are great tips!

  • Enrique Zak September 18, 2015, 2:10 pm

    As a guy, I put a lot of weight on whether or not I get support from my significant other. I feel that once that has happened, there is love in the air :)

    • Stacey Muller January 18, 2016, 2:50 pm

      Good point Enrique and thank you for weighing in.

  • Emma Levin September 17, 2015, 9:46 pm

    Great post! I think we have all been in that position where we just do not know for sure. This helps.

  • Gonzalo Peachey September 16, 2015, 12:15 pm

    It looks like it comes down to paying attention, wouldn’t you say?

    • Janeen Woodley September 18, 2015, 2:30 pm

      I would have to agree with you on this one!

  • Margaret Mueller September 15, 2015, 10:14 am

    If any guy is doing the things on this list, he is going to be on my good side, that is for sure. Even if he doesn’t LOVE me yet, he is doing the right things to please his partner and that is always a good thing.

  • Amy Little September 15, 2015, 10:04 am

    If ANY guy is going to do the “little” things and I catch him doing them, he will be getting rewarded for sure!

  • Grace Williams September 14, 2015, 11:29 am

    I am not sure that just because I see signs like this that a person is in love with me. It is such a hard emotion that I would not want to miss it. I prefer to ask a person how they feel about me.

    • Clara Tuttle September 22, 2015, 12:45 pm

      Always a hard emotion to control and “figure” out.

  • Julie Arent September 14, 2015, 11:17 am

    Short of just asking them outright, I think that you can see if someone loves you. I usually look for the little things. They stand out like a sore thumb to me.

    • Robin Manning September 16, 2015, 12:24 pm

      I feel the same way. The signs are so obvious, I feel bad for those that cannot, or choose to not see them.

  • Brooke Allen September 11, 2015, 6:07 pm

    LOVE is such a hard thing to figure out. When you think you are in love, the other person is not and things like that can be very crazy.

  • Carol Piper September 11, 2015, 5:56 pm

    I make sure he is going to miss me when we are apart :) The last night together is always very, very fun.

    • Inez Oliver September 17, 2015, 9:55 pm

      Oh baby! That sounds real good. Do you have any details to share with the rest of us?

  • Marcella Bilbrey September 11, 2015, 4:16 pm

    These are great tips. I just read through these and love the fact that they are very thorough!

  • Virginia Marshall September 11, 2015, 11:11 am

    I have never been in “love” so to speak. I am going to keep looking for these signs, but if I do not feel it, what difference do the signs make?

    • MriGa April 29, 2017, 6:17 pm

      it feels real good been in love, its a feeling that each person most feel. and another thing is falling in love with the right person

  • Minnie Rubino September 9, 2015, 12:41 pm

    I think after you see a few of these signs you would have a pretty good idea what the intentions are of that other person.

  • Linda Starrett September 9, 2015, 12:32 pm

    Once again you nailed the tips perfectly. If you are getting signs like this from a guy, you are in pretty good shape :)

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