So you’re crushing on a guy.
So obviously– you want to know how he feels about you.
I mean, c’mon. How could you not want to know?
The unfortunate part is, you’re probably the worst person to objectively figure out whether he likes you or not.
You’re just too emotionally tied up in the situation. How can you expect to get real perspective on it?
That’s where I come in.
I’m going to give you the biggest giveaways that a guy likes you.
That way, you only have to look for a few specific things to get your answer, rather than trying to figure it out while your emotions are going crazy and you’re hoping to death that he’s into you.
So let’s get into it. Here are some objective signs that your crush likes you.
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He’s Always Asking You Tons Of Questions
If a guy likes a girl, he wants to know more about her.
He wants to know what kinds of food she likes. What movies she’s into. Whether she likes to read and what books she likes most.
Where she grew up. Her dream place to live. What makes her laugh. What she loves to do.
In essence – he wants to know who she is underneath, what she’s truly like. And the best way to do that is to ask about it.
So if your crush asks you lots of questions, that’s a very, very good sign that he feels about you the same way that you feel about him.
He Touches You A Lot
Think about it this way – you want to touch your crush, right?
You want to be closer to him. You want to get more intimate with him, physically and emotionally. You want skin to skin contact.
It wouldn’t be a crush if you didn’t.
So suffice it to say that if he’s also crushing on you, he’s going to feel the same way.
That’s why it’s a huge sign that your crush likes you if he’s always finding excuses to touch you.
Whether it’s giving you a big hug whenever he sees you (that lingers a little longer than you would expect), or helping you in or out of a jacket, or reaching out a hand to steady you if you look a little wobbly on your feet – if he likes you, he’s going to take every opportunity to touch you.
He’s Always Very Curious And Attentive When Your Love Life Comes Up
If he likes you, he’s going to care about whether you’re dating someone else. That’s obvious.
I mean, think about it. If he was talking about his love life, you’d be riveted. Right?
Well, same with him – although he might try not to show it.
If the subject of your love life comes up, you can bet that if your crush likes you he’s going to be paying close attention to every word you’re saying.
He’ll especially be interested in whether you have a boyfriend, but really anything about your romantic life is going to be vitally interesting to him if he’s crushing on you.
Just like his love life is vitally interesting to you because you’re crushing on him.
You Always Catch Him Looking At You (When You’re Not Looking At Him)
C’mon. This is practically what crushes are for.
If you’re crushing on a guy, I bet you’ve caught yourself gazing absentmindedly at him, without even realizing that you’d been centering your stare on him for an uncomfortable amount of time.
Looking at someone for too long goes part and parcel with having a crush. It’s just part of the whole experience.
So if you catch him looking at you pretty often, it’s a good sign that he’s crushing on you.
Just make sure that he’s not looking at you because he’s caught you so many times looking at him.
He Makes Excuses To Spend Lots Of Time With You
Look, this one’s obvious.
I’m not going to waste time asking you whether you want to spend time with him, since the answer is so obvious. He’s your crush. Of course you want to spend time with him!
Well, turn that around. If he’s crushing on you, then he’s also going to want to spend lots of time with you.
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That might look like him cancelling plans in order to hang out with you, or him always appearing in group hangouts where he knows you’re going to be, or even him calling you up and making plans with you pretty often.
Whatever the reason, if he likes you, you can bet that he’s going to go out of his way to make sure he spends lots of time with you.
Because when you’re crushing on someone, you want to spend lots of time with them. Because you like them!
The main thing to take away from this article is this: look at your own behavior and apply the same logic to him. If you’re crushing on him, you’re already doing lots of the things that people do when they like someone else.
So take a step back and think about how you act towards him, and ask yourself whether he’s acting the same way towards you. That way, you’re likely to get the right answer, and know for sure whether your crush likes you or not.
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Exactly How To Know If Your Crush Likes You
- He’s always asking you tons of questions.
- He touches you a lot.
- He’s always very curious and attentive when your love life comes up.
- You always catch him looking at you (when you’re not looking at him).
- He makes excuses to spend lots of time with you.