Make Him Like You: 8 Incredible Ways To Get A Guy To Like You

Make Him Like You: 8 Incredible Ways To Get A Guy To Like You

So you want to know how to get a guy to like you.

Maybe you have a huge crush on him and you want him to want you back. Maybe you’ve been friends and you caught feelings – and you want to make sure he feels the same way.

Maybe you’re just into him, and you want to make him like you.

So how do you do that?

Fortunately, the answer is simpler than you might think.

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I’m going to take you through the 8 best ways to make a guy like you. When you put this list into action in your life, it will definitely give you the best chance of snaring his attention and desire.

Are you ready? Let’s jump right into it.

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The 8 Best Ways To Make A Guy Like You

1. Get Him Talking About His Passions

Do you have anything in your life that when you’re asked about it, you just absolutely light up?

A topic or interest or hobby that you can’t get enough of.That you love talking about. That you could talk to anyone for hours and hours on.

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That’s a passion of yours. And it feels good to talk about it, right?

It feels just as good for him to talk about his passions.

A running theme in this article is going to be that when you feel good around someone, you want to be around them more.

It’s simple, but it’s the underlying basis for all attraction. If he feels good around you, he’s going to want to be around you more, and he’s going to become more and more attracted to you.

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So the better that he feels when he’s with you, the more he’s going to want to spend time with you.

That’s where giving him space to talk about his passions comes in. It feels great to talk about the things you love doing, so when you give him an opportunity to do that he will light up around you (and want to spend more time around you too).

This is another great opportunity for you too. When you get a guy talking about what really lights him up inside, it gives you a pretty strong glimpse inside who he really is. So if he’s going on and on about something he really cares about and you’re starting to zone out, that’s a huge sign that you might not like him as much as you thought after all.

But if his passions line up with your passions? Watch out. Fireworks.

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2. Be Open About The Things You Love With Him

This ties directly into what I was just saying before. When you share the things you love with him, it lights you up inside. You feel great doing it.

And when you feel great, the people around you can’t help but feel great as well. It’s contagious. They share your passion and your enthusiasm.

So don’t be afraid to share what you’re really passionate about with him. When you do that, you’re giving him a glimpse at your most authentic self (and if he’s attracted to that, he’ll start to really, really like you really, really quickly).

Plus, you’ll feel great, which will make him feel great, which will make him want to be around you more, like we already talked about.

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3. Don’t Be Afraid To Flirt With Him

Let me let you in on a secret you probably already know: lots of guys are oblivious.

I mean they wouldn’t know that a woman was into them if she dropped the biggest hint onto his face.

So a lot of the time, playing it cool around him is only going to set you back. Why? Because lots of guys don’t start thinking of a woman romantically unless they realize she’s interested in them.

So don’t be afraid to flirt with him! You’ll get the sparks flowing, get him thinking about you in a ‘more than friendly’ kind of way, and you’ll see what kind of connection you two have.

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4. Body Contact Works Wonders

This goes hand in hand with flirting.

Breaking the skin to skin barrier and touching him is a great way to stoke his desire and get him thinking about you in a more intimate way.

When you touch him, you’re letting him know you’re comfortable around him – and that you want to touch him. To any guy who’s into women, that’s a huge sign that he should perk up and reciprocate.

So don’t be afraid to touch him on the arm if he makes you laugh or otherwise take any excuse to put your hands on him.

It will make him want to return the favor.

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5. Make Sure To Look Your Best

So far, we’ve focused on a lot of psychological/flirting ways to get him to like you.

But one that I’d be wrong to skip is the visual aspect of attraction.

It’s been written over and over and over again, and that doesn’t make it any less true: guys are very visual creatures. Many men become attracted through their eyes first.

So if you want to make him like you, be sure to look your best. I’m not asking you to do the impossible, and I’m also not saying you have to look like a model – far from it.

What I’m saying is that a guy is going to notice if you put effort into your appearance, no matter what you look like. As long as you put in your best effort, it’s more than good enough, and it’s more than enough to make him sit up and notice.

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6. Live Your Own Life Outside Of His Orbit

When you’re really into a guy, it’s tempting to want to drop everything for the chance to hang out with him.

But that’s not how attraction works. Both men and women are attracted to people who seem like they have their lives together – and who seem like they have a lot going on that makes them happy.

So cancelling plans at the drop of a hat because your phone buzzes and it’s him? Not the best strategy to get him to like you.

Instead, focus on enjoying your life – even the parts of it that he’s not in. Spend time with your friends and doing the things you love to do, and don’t cancel plans just for the chance to hang out with him.

The fact that you have your own life will make him like you more.

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7. Don’t Commit To Him If He Hasn’t With You

This applies more if you have something casual with him and you want it to get a little more serious, so you’re hoping to get him to like you more and more.

But it’s a good rule to remember no matter what and it can be applied to most any situation with a guy.

Simply stated, the rule is to be exactly as committed to him as he is to you.

If he isn’t exclusive with you, you’re not exclusive with him and you’re both free to see other people.

If he’s wishy washy about plans with you, then you are not locked into those plans and you’re free to make whatever other plans you want.

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It’s all about putting your self-respect and your well being ahead of trying to do everything in your power to appease him. It’s about showing him that you have your own life, and that if he wants to be with you, he has to step up, or else you’re going to be somewhere else with someone else.

If he realizes that you’re not a sure thing – that he has to step up if he wants to be with you, it will instantly make him much more serious about pursuing you.

8. Try To Be As Relaxed, Comfortable, And Happy As You Can Be When You’re Together

We talked about this at the top of the article, but it bears repeating because it’s so important.

People like to be around other people that make them feel good. It feels good to be around someone who’s happy, relaxed, and comfortable – just like it feels bad to be around someone who’s irritable, uncomfortable, and on edge.

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If you want him to like being around you (which will make him like you), then you want him to feel good around you. The easiest way to do that is to focus on your mood and make sure you’re as relaxed, happy, and comfortable around him as you can be.

That way, he’ll feel good around you and want to be around you more, and like you more and more all the time.

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In summary…

The 8 Best Ways To Make Him Like You

  1. Get him talking about his passions.
  2. Be open about the things you love with him.
  3. Don’t be afraid to flirt with him.
  4. Body contact works wonders.
  5. Make sure to look your best.
  6. Live your own life outside of his orbit.
  7. Don’t commit to him if he hasn’t with you.
  8. Try to be as relaxed, comfortable, and happy as you can be when you’re together.

ways to make a guy like you

31 comments… add one
  • Grace September 3, 2020, 1:57 pm

    Your advice is amazing!!!! heres mine: be as natural as you can be, don’t try so hard, it’ll immitate your crush, have courage, if you invite him to hang out with you, make sure to invite other friends, you don’t want it to get to awkward, smile and brush your hair behind your ears once in a while, and lastly, laugh to his jokes :)

  • sydney May 24, 2017, 11:36 pm

    definitely make sure you look your best all the time.

  • addison May 23, 2017, 6:17 pm

    be open to about the things you love and same way, be open to listen to him say about the things he love.

  • amara May 22, 2017, 2:49 pm

    i know it’s pretty awkward for us, women to talk to a man about how we feel for them, this is where body language and flirting comes in. ;)

  • sharon May 21, 2017, 9:28 pm

    get him talk about his passions, his desires and dreams and make sure you LISTEN. this is very important with men.

  • eloisa May 18, 2017, 7:08 pm

    ok, i think i can do these. gaaaah.. pls make them work! haha

  • aubrey May 16, 2017, 4:33 pm

    most importantly, be yourself and be genuine.

  • ellen May 15, 2017, 1:29 pm

    get him to talk about his passions and make sure you are willing to listen. this will mean a lot to him

  • jerah May 10, 2017, 4:47 pm

    be natural and real. when you’re comfortable, he’d feel the same way too.

  • vivian May 9, 2017, 6:07 pm

    it is very important that your man knows you care about him and his passions. make him feel you are there to listen and support him.

  • tiana May 8, 2017, 11:50 pm

    flirt and use body contact with him, this always work

  • frances May 3, 2017, 2:34 pm

    don’t be afraid to share your world to him. if you are fun, be fun and let him see that.

  • nadja May 2, 2017, 5:11 pm

    men like confident and smart women. be as natural as you can be.

  • rose May 1, 2017, 2:17 pm

    be as honest., open and natural and he’ll definitely love that about you.

  • maybelle April 26, 2017, 2:31 pm

    definitely awesome tips to try! thanks for sharing!

  • mariett April 25, 2017, 8:14 pm

    thank you for these awesome tips, i love them all! (:

  • tahlia April 24, 2017, 4:10 pm

    get him to talk about his passions, but make sure you’re listening and be involved and into the conversation as much as possible

  • libby April 23, 2017, 4:05 pm

    body contact is really effective!

  • moira April 20, 2017, 3:57 pm

    i think your ideas are brilliant! thanks for sharing again!

  • anna mae April 18, 2017, 2:45 pm

    men are into natural women. if they feel comfortable with a woman, they will love it and will stay

  • nelia April 17, 2017, 2:25 pm

    these are really great tips for women struggling in their dating game

  • sophia April 13, 2017, 12:33 am

    just act normal & be yourself… i think that’s the best way!

  • marcia April 12, 2017, 12:22 am

    be a good conversationalist and he’ll find himself loving your company

  • kate April 10, 2017, 5:19 pm

    look your best and act in your most natural ways

  • paloma April 9, 2017, 10:35 pm

    be as natural and don’t really like pretentious gals

  • roxanne April 6, 2017, 5:54 pm

    i love this article! so many great tips to really be successful

  • savannah April 5, 2017, 11:50 pm

    thanks for this awesome tips!! Loving it!

  • sylvia April 4, 2017, 5:08 pm

    try to make things about him too, not just about you..this will give him the security of having met the right person

  • klia April 3, 2017, 9:47 am

    always make him feel home when he’s with you especially after a busy day at work

  • sophie April 2, 2017, 6:22 am

    very inspiring article! will definitely follow your advice. :)

  • korinne April 1, 2017, 12:24 pm

    i love this post! thanks for your help in making our relationships better! <3

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