How To Know When You're In Love? 25 Sure Signs You're Falling in Love

How To Know When You’re In Love? 25 Sure Signs You’re Falling in Love

Am I falling in love? How do you know you’re in love? Check for these tell-tale signs!

If you’ve never been in love, you might not know how it feels. Hell, even if you’ve been in love before, you might still be confused. Feelings are fluid and confusing, and hardly an exact science, so they can be hard to pin down. They call it “falling”, but it doesn’t necessarily have to hurt. It can, but it can also be extraordinary and engulfing. Terrifying? Yes. Amazing? Also yes. If you’re not quite sure, here are 25 sure signs you’re falling for him.

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1. Everything is so easy

One of the incontestable signs that you’re in love is that it feels “right”. It feels easy and effortless and like it’s meant to be and nothing can harm the incredible bond you have. Enjoy this feeling for as long as it lasts, it’s very special.

2. You miss him at the smallest absence

It can be incredibly obnoxious to hear people say they miss their partner when they’ve only been apart for a few hours or a couple of days, but the truth is that when you’re in that phase of overwhelming infatuation, you really do miss them all the time.

3. You want to do things for him

Nothing says “I love you” like the burning desire to do things for your guy. Making him breakfast, taking care of him when he’s tired or sick, running an errand, etc. Nothing is too inconvenient when you’re in love.

4. You want to experience things again – with him

You’ve already been to Spain, but you want to experience it again – with him. You see, you want to share with him everything good you’ve enjoyed and experience it through his eyes.

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5. You’re comfortable being weird around him

We all have our quirks and our weird, embarrassing habits that we don’t share with romantic interests…unless it’s true love. In that case, you feel comfortable letting your “weird” hang out for him to see. That includes that smelly, green mask you apply before bed and the way you talk to yourself while watching your favorite tv shows.

6. You’re sure he won’t hurt you

I know I’m in love when I’m not afraid he’ll walk out on me. I’m always guarded that way with the guys I date, but when it’s love, I’m completely confident and relaxed. Don’t settle for anything less.

7. His lack of texting doesn’t make you feel insecure

And speaking of being relaxed and having confidence in your relationship, suddenly, sporadic texting doesn’t bother you, either. A lag in communication means he’s busy, not cheating.

8. He’s your go-to guy

We all have a person, that one person you go to for everything. When you’re happy, you call them first, and when you’re down, you always want to get a hug from them. He is now your person.

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9. You don’t need to make an effort

When you’re dating, there’s a lot of planning and effort involved in keeping things interesting. But when it’s love, literally anything you do together will be enjoyable, even just plain ol’ doing nothing.

10. He makes you feel safe

There’s a feeling you get when you’re around the man you love, like nothing can hurt you, because you’re protected by his love. You feel safe, and reassured.

11. You associate everything with him

Have you ever noticed that when you fall in love, suddenly everything is related to your beloved? You keep noticing his favorite things everywhere and your friends hate you for mentioning it every time.

12. You stopped missing your ex

There was a time when your thoughts would still fly to your ex from time to time, even if just to wonder how he was doing. Now, however, he hasn’t even crossed your mind in forever. There’s a reason for that.

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13. You don’t hate things you used to anymore

You’re not a fan of hiking, but it’s ok, if you’re doing it with him. Even Adam Sandler movies are suddenly less unbearable, just because your boyfriend likes them. Ah, to be in love.

14. You can’t get enough of his silly stories

Normally, people telling rambling stories would drive you insane, but now…his are cute, ok? But that’s only because you love him.

15. You share his emotions

Lately, his feelings and emotions seem to transfer to you. If he’s upset, you are, too, and his happiness makes you happy. When he’s laughing, you are as well, and nothing makes you sad like his sadness. And it’s the same for him.

16. You talk about him way too much

They don’t tell you, but your friends hate you and the fact that you can’t seem to stop talking about him. You can’t help it if he’s so interesting, funny, sexy, intelligent, and…oh, that’s right, you’re in love with him.

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17. You make plans for the future

Next month, you’re introducing him to your parents, then you’re taking him to your cousin’s wedding next year, and next summer, you’re going hiking together. Looks like you plan on being together for a long time!

18. Even if everything else sucks, you have him and it’s enough

It would be easy to lose hope and be completely overwhelmed by all of your problems if you didn’t have him, but you do, and he’s the one thing in your life that’s always good, and always sweet.

19. You took him home to mom and dad

Are you really “with” someone, if he hasn’t met daddy yet? You don’t take all your guys home, but he is different. You’re actually excited to introduce your dad to the guy who’s sleeping with his daughter, instead of being afraid of it.

20. Every mundane task and errand is suddenly romantic

“Oh, my love, the eggplants have such a wonderful color this time of year!” “Do you want to take out the trash together?” Does this sound familiar?

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21. You go all the way back in his social media

Normally you’d be embarrassed to be caught doing that to a guy, but it’s ok, because neither of you has anything to hide. You just want to learn more about him.

22. You want to share everything you like with him

He must see your favorite movie, try the ice-cream place you used to go to as a kid, and meet your best friend. You just want to share every little part of you with him.

23. You let your guard down around him

No other time have you been comfortable showing a guy your childhood stuffed toy, or allowed yourself to ugly-cry in front of him, snot and all. It must be love.

24. It’s ok if you temporarily dislike him – you still love him

Love looks beyond the moment and is long-term, and deeper. So, even if your man may drive you crazy right now, your love for him is still the same. Now, if only he’d stop leaving his socks all over the floor!

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25. You don’t need to go out, if you can stay in with him

Eh, who needs bars and drinks, if he’s not there? And you’d much rather stay home with him in your sweats.

If you’re in love, first of all congratulations, and second of all that makes it even more important that you handle these 2 make or break moments every woman experiences in her relationships with men because if you already love him then your potential for heartbreak is as high as possible, so pay attention because this next step is vitally important. At some point he starts to lose interest. He doesn’t call you back or he becomes emotionally closed off. He seems like he’s losing interest or pulling away – do you know what to do? If not you’re putting your relationship and the future of your love life in great danger, read this now or risk losing him forever: The #1 Thing Men Desire In A Woman…

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In summary…

1. Everything is so easy

2. You miss him at the smallest absence

3. You want to do things for him

4. You want to experience things again – with him

5. You’re comfortable being weird around him

6. You’re sure he won’t hurt you

7. His lack of texting doesn’t make you feel insecure

8. He’s your go-to guy

9. You don’t need to make an effort

10. He makes you feel safe

11. You associate everything with him

12. You stopped missing your ex

13. You don’t hate things you used to anymore

14. You can’t get enough of his silly stories

15. You share his emotions

16. You talk about him way too much

17. You make plans for the future

18. Even if everything else sucks, you have him and it’s enough

19. You took him home to mom and dad

20. Every mundane task and errand is suddenly romantic

21. You go all the way back in his social media

22. You want to share everything you like with him

23. You let your guard down around him

24. It’s ok if you temporarily dislike him – you still love him

25. You don’t need to go out, if you can stay in with him

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14 comments… add one
  • penelope September 24, 2018, 7:51 pm

    you know when you just want to be with him and do things for him. personally, when i do fall in love, i tend to just want to be around and support him all the way.

  • sonia September 21, 2018, 6:44 pm

    now i know how to tell if what i am feeling is real love. with these sure signs, i can never go wrong. appreciate you sharing this.

  • clara September 20, 2018, 2:13 pm

    you won’t need so much effort when you do things out of love. same with a relationships. no overthinking, whatsoever.

  • tabitha September 19, 2018, 6:08 pm

    i knew i am in love! why? because this guy keeps on sneaking into my mind at the most random times! thinking about him always brightens my day! being in love is really an amazing feeling!

  • robyn September 18, 2018, 2:21 pm

    when you don’t need to make an effort, turns out you’re really comfortable with him. Then you might be falling in love for sure. These other signs are all good too.

  • joy September 17, 2018, 6:40 pm

    You associate everything with him – this one is very true! when you are in love, everything makes you think of him. in short, he is becoming an integral part of your life.

  • catherine September 15, 2018, 9:04 am

    you’re comfortable being you and even being weird around him. and if he’s like this with you too, then you just have the perfect match. <3

  • kiara September 13, 2018, 1:54 pm

    everything feels so easy when you are really in love. if you find yourself feeling this, then you are definitely in love with the right person. i could say that being in love is the best feeling in the world!

  • flora September 12, 2018, 2:34 pm

    you know you’re in love when you are happy, pretty basic but he seems to be your only source of happiness any time of the day. you feel really comfortable with him no matter your mood is.

  • tammy September 10, 2018, 6:45 pm

    it is not always obvious if you are falling in love with someone but if you suddenly stopped missing your ex and starts thinking about this new guy, then you are definitely falling in love!

  • maine September 7, 2018, 10:28 pm

    is this love that i am feeling? oh gosh, i get confuse all the time when it comes to love. will read this post carefully and also will remember important points. thanks!

  • mary September 5, 2018, 3:17 pm

    no. 16 is real as hell! i am really interested with this guy and i just couldn’t help but tell my friends how handsome and sexy he is! i guess i am really in love with him!

  • trina September 4, 2018, 1:10 pm

    you definitely want to experience things again with him. this time, it’s a must that you share the good memories with him than do it alone or with someone else even your family or friends.

  • kristen September 3, 2018, 1:01 pm

    i’ve been in love before and never thought i would still be confused! love is really amazing! it is very magical! i just love being in love!

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