Outside of obvious romantic comedy movies, how can you tell if there’s a magnetic attraction between two people? Are you feeling chemistry with a guy but wondering if you’re reading the signs all wrong?
Mutual attraction is easy to spot once you know how to identify the signs that mean something and disregard the things that don’t matter.
If you pay attention, I can help you spot the truth about whether the guy you like feels the same connection you do.I will reveal the most important sign to always look for, so you can stop worrying and overanalyzing every single sign. However, it’s ultimately best that you know all the signs because the more you can spot, the more likely that there is relationship chemistry.
This topic has been requested so many times so I’ve put together a list of 12 intense chemistry signs to look for with the guy you like.
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1. He Notices Things About You
When a guy likes you, he makes an effort to be in the present moment and engaged with you. He pays attention to what you’re saying and stores things away in his memory to bring up later.
A guy who doesn’t care will not bother to listen or remember anything you tell him. You will feel like you’re talking to a brick wall all the time.
On the other hand, a guy who’s into you will bring up things that you mentioned at a previous point in time. For example, he brings up something you mentioned the other week about how you were nervous about an interview and he asks how everything went. He might even surprise you with some of the random things he remembers.
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2. Mutual Eye Contact
He makes eye contact with you and you make eye contact with him. It’s a body language cue and mutual attraction behaviors that indicates a strong connection between two people. If you catch him continuing to look at you and holding eye contact (in a not creepy way!), it’s a good sign.
Just keep in mind that some guys are shy so if he’s not making a lot of eye contact, it’s doesn’t automatically mean he doesn’t like you. Pay attention to any other signs in addition to this one.
3. You Lean Into Each Other
This physically movement shows you are comfortable with each other and are letting your guards down. Instead of pulling away, he’s leaning in closer to you and closing the gap as much as possible.
It’s a subtle sign but an important one, especially if he’s also listening intently to you and maintaining eye contact.
4. He Initiates Contact With You
This sign has to go both ways. If you’re the only one initiating contact, it doesn’t matter if he doesn’t pull away. He’s not doing the same back to you.
A guy who feels chemistry with someone will find excuses to be physically close to them. If he’s not into you or feeling that connection, he’s not going to make any effort to touch, nudge, or make contact with you.
5. He Playfully Touches You
Going off of the last sign, this is one of those signs of mutual attraction between a man and a woman. Even if he’s just a guy friend, if he’s finding ways to physically interact with you and playfully touch you, it’s a pretty clear sign of chemistry between friends.
He’s doing this to see how you respond, whether you’re feeling any kind of connection with him. He’s trying to test the waters in a playful way first before putting himself out there for possible rejection.
6. He Makes An Effort For The Parents Around You
If you’ve met his parents, he’s met yours, or both, he’s making some sort of effort to be on his best behavior and make you feel comfortable in the situation. He’s letting you know without saying anything that you are important enough to him to bring you around his family and he’s making an effort to be good with your own parents.
To go off on this, pay attention to how he gets along with your friends. Is he making an effort to get to know them and be polite? If he is, and they approve of him, it’s a good sign that there’s a lot of good energy connection between you two.
7. He Asks Questions About You
This is one of those chemistry signs that indicate he really values you and sees something with you. Guys don’t waste time making chit chat and asking questions if they don’t care about something.
If he’s feeling a connection with you, he’s going to be curious to know more about you and spend the time asking you questions to dig deeper into what makes you you. This is one of the strongest signs you can spot.
8. He Comments On Your Appearance
Men are visual creatures and when they’re attracted to you, they’re going to comment on it. They won’t be over the top or say something weird but they’ll compliment you or make a comment about something you’re wearing or how you look.
Unless a guy is super shy and afraid of rejection or embarrassment, he’s going to make a comment at some point about your appearance.
9. He Gets Jealous If You Mention Another Guy
If you’re casually talking about another guy and he seems annoyed or ticked off, he probably has feelings for you. It’s important to state here that this is not you making up some guy in order to manipulate him into being jealous. It just happens to be casual.
He won’t even realize when he’s doing it by trying to one-up the other guy or crack a joke to make fun of him, even if he’s never met him. He’s trying to establish himself as the better pick in your eyes. He’s trying to impress you and make sure he wins you over instead of the other guy.
This is one of the most obvious and powerful signs of male attraction.
10. He Makes It Obvious He’s Not Dating Anyone
He wants to make it super obvious to you that he is open and available for you to possibly date. He wants you to know that he’s single and “ready to mingle” by getting rid of any doubt that he might already have someone.
If he’s doing this, you now know it’s because he is clearly interested in you or dating you. He’s feeling undeniable chemistry and wants to make sure you know you have a chance with him.
11. He Likes Your Pictures On Social Media
While most guys are not really into social media, some are and if he’s the type and is liking your photos, it’s a pretty good sign that he’s attracted to you. When he’s liking your selfies, photos that you’re in, pictures where you look good, it’s because he finds you attractive.
Keep in mind that this is not a strong indicator on its own but when combined with a lot of other signs, it’s a good signal that he’s feeling some sort of mutual attraction.
12. He Sends You Flirty Emojis
Now, I’m not saying this has to happen or even that it will happen because a lot of men hate texting. He might be super into you but not even text you very often at all.
However, if he has any level of Interest it is very likely that he actually will reach out to you via text in some way or another. It’s generally pretty obvious when a guy is flirting over text. He’s sending you cute, funny texts and throwing in flirty emojis to demonstrate his feelings towards you.
The Absolute Biggest Sign of Mutual Attraction
And now for the biggest of the signs of intense mutual chemistry: if you pull away fully, he will contact you. I’m not talking about being manipulative and ignoring him on purpose. I just mean going about your life as if he doesn’t exist. You’re not reaching out to him, texting him all day, or asking what he’s up to.
You simply live your life and he’s out of sight, out of mind. Once you stop initiating contact, he won’t be able to keep away. He’ll have to know what you’re up to, how you’re doing, etc.
This is one of the strongest actions you can take to see if there are signs of mutual attraction and it gives him space to pursue you. It creates an air of mystery around you and he’s going to put in the effort to make sure he doesn’t lose you to another guy.
So there you go. I hope these 12 signs help you see for yourself if there’s strong chemistry between you two. Now in any relationship I’ve found there are 2 pivotal moments that determine if your relationship ends in heartbreak or you get to live happily ever after so it’s vitally important that you take the next step and read this right now, because at some point the man you want is going to ask himself: Is this the woman I should commit to for the long term? That answer determines everything… Do you know how men determine if a woman is girlfriend material (the type of woman he commits himself to) or if he sees you as just a fling? If not you need to read this next: The #1 Thing Men Desire In A Woman…
The second problem almost all women experience: At some point he starts to lose interest. He doesn’t call you back or he becomes emotionally closed off. He seems like he’s losing interest or pulling away – do you know what to do? If not you’re putting your relationship and the future of your love life in great danger, read this now or risk losing him forever: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This…
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