11 Surefire Signs You'll Get Your Ex Back

11 Surefire Signs You’ll Get Your Ex Back (Will We Get Back Together?)

So you’re trying to figure out how to get back together with your ex. I get asked this question all the time.

Can You Get Back With Your Ex?

The specific situations and scenarios are always different, but the core question is the same. You want to know if your ex misses you enough to go back to how things were, but better this time around.

You want to know whether it is still possible to rekindle a past relationship or whether too many things have happened that will make it impossible. You might think too much time has gone by. Or you might think too much damage has been done because of how badly things ended.

This article will give you the biggest signs you will be able to get back with your ex. So, don’t worry. You will have an answer by the end.

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The bottom line is… it is absolutely possible to get your ex back in all sorts of situations. I have personally seen it happen too many times to even count. I’ve seen couples who have been apart for a long time manage to reconnect after realizing they want to give things a shot again.

However, I have also seen a lot of situations where things just aren’t meant to be, whether it’s that the relationship was too toxic and dysfunctional to be fixed… or whether it was more of a rebound relationship or a physical relationship rather than a real, meaningful emotional connection.

How do you know getting back together will even work?

Do exes get back together? Yes. “Should I get back together with my ex boyfriend? Are we getting back together?” The answer is… you have to analyze a few things before you can decide.

You might be able to get him back but the real consideration to never ignore is: how do you know if it will work this time around or whether it will simply end in heartbreak once again?

Ask yourself the following:

1. Has anything changed since we were together?

Something has to be different this time around for it to work.

2. Analyze the reason behind the breakup and whether you can move past it. Did someone cheat? Did something happen that neither of you can move past? Think about this before jumping into something without really knowing whether things can work or not.

With all that said, I want to give you the specific signs that it is actually realistic to get back together. I have studied relationship dynamics over the years and have noticed specific patterns and trends in the couples that end up back together.

Based on all these patterns and after compiling tons of data, I have identified these key signs that you will get back together. I will take you through the most important factors to consider and describe what kind of scenario generally leads to a couple rekindling a past relationship.

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The Reason(s) Behind The Breakup

Did the relationship end with someone cheating? This one is hard to move although it is possible with DRASTIC changes.

Did you stop having physical intimacy? Was one partner more interested in sex, which left the other partner feeling unsatisfied and undesirable? Did this create a lot of tension?

Was the relationship codependent and unhealthy?

These reasons make it unlikely that you will rekindle things.

Another factor to consider is…was there financial trouble, which tore you apart? If so, you can possibly figure out a way to solve this. It really depends on the specific situation if you are willing to compromise and make changes.

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If it was something like your spending habits were out of control and he wanted to save money, which resulted in frequent arguments, chances are you shouldn’t be getting back together unless you are both willing to compromise and change.

Or was it something like long distance that tore you apart? If you can make an effort to either see each other more frequently or relocate to be nearer to each other, there’s a good chance of getting back together if the distance is what tore you apart.

Length Of Time You Were Together

How long were you together? A general rule of thumb is the longer you were together, the better the chances that you can rekindle things.

Why? Because to be together for so long, there clearly had to be a real, emotional connection.

On the other hand, even if you were not together for that long, if a deep emotional connection was established, you still have a shot at getting back together.

Of course, this has to be looked at together with the reason you broke up. It’s a good sign for your prospects at getting back together if you were together for a long time, but if you broke up because one of you cheated and the trust was broken then your chances are much worse.

On the other hand, if you dated for just a short amount of time but had an intense, passionate, kind of crazy connection, but had to break up because one of you had to move away and you didn’t want to do long distance, and now you’re back in the same city, your chances are much better.

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The Way Things Ended

Did one person break the other person’s heart or was it something that happened naturally? If it happened naturally and amicably where both people felt okay about it, this is a good thing in terms of whether getting back together.

Did it end in a vicious fight where both of you said horrible things to hurt each other, only to regret it after the fact? This makes the chances of getting back together a lot less likely unless both parties have changed dramatically and these wounds have healed.

Did it end in a nasty divorce with a custody battle? This is often hard to come back from, especially because divorce can bring out a person’s nastiest side.

A good rule of thumb is taking the time to figure out how you felt about each other at the end. If you felt real contempt, disgust, and hatred towards each other, those feelings make getting back together that much more difficult.

But if you still liked and respected each other as people, but had to break up for a different reason, it makes it much more likely that it would work out if you two decided to get back together.

Whether Both Of You Are Single

This is an obvious one, but worth considering. If one of you is in a serious relationship, it’s obviously a lot harder to rekindle an old relationship.

Then again, if he’s not single, he might be in a rebound relationship. This article will give you the signs that his relationship is a rebound and not anything serious.

How You Have Acted Post Breakup

Have you gone out of your way to “do things” in order to get back together? Have all these things failed? Have you called him a bunch of times and persistently tried to contact him? All these mean it’s a lot less likely you will get back together.

On the other hand, if you have maintained a good relationship post-breakup and been on good terms, it is much more likely that you will get back together.

If you have continued to remain close to each other, stay connected and both make an effort to stay in each other’s lives, there’s a good chance that you can get back together.

It’s hard to know what to do after a breakup if you want to get back together with your ex. A lot of the time, your instincts are going to tell you to do exactly the wrong thing.

This is my most complete article on how to get back together with your ex – a step-by-step guide that takes you from break up to making up.

Whether You Were Integrated In Each Other’s Lives

Did you meet his parents? Did he meet your parents? Did your parents like him? Did his parents like you? If you were very integrated in each other’s lives and both your parents and close friends and family approved of the relationship, this makes it much more likely you will get back together.

The real question here is: Did the people closest to you know about your relationship or was it something secretive?

If the relationship was kept in “secret” and was not publicly introduced to anyone important in your lives, this means you are probably not going to back together unless this changes.

Whether You’re Both Emotionally Ready For A Relationship

Are you willing to put yourself “out there” again even though you might get hurt? Are you truly ready to make this commitment again? Is he ready? What often happens when people are hurt is that they are not ready to jump back into the relationship again.

If he is not ready, you cannot force him to be. Same goes for you. If you are not truly ready, it’s best to wait until you are to even start thinking about something like this.

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Whether You’ve Grown As People

Is your ex the same as when you were in a relationship? Or have you grown as people? Have you made necessary changes and worked on yourselves, so that things will actually work this time around?

Common Questions About How To Get Back With Your Ex

How to get back together after a break up naturally?

Don’t try to force things to happen. If you try to force it to happen, you actually make it much worse. It becomes harder to salvage a relationship if you try to force it. The key to getting your ex back is letting it happen naturally. This gives you a legitimate chance at a fresh start.

How long after break up to get back together?

You should always wait at least a little while before you immediately jump into things and get back together. Do not rush it. You need time to grow as people.

It’s healthy to see how things are from a distance, which gives you perspective and time to both grow as people. When you come back together, you will both be better human beings and this will lead to a better relationship.

Ex says there is no chance of getting back together?

Him saying this is normal and even to be expected, but nothing is ever final if you make changes. Focus on yourself and be the kind of person that you’d want to be around. There is always a chance for things to work out. You just have to give it time.

How to get your ex back?

Do not be needy. Use the no contact rule. Do not contact him for 30 days after the break. Then, gradually reintroduce contact in a way that has a happy, positive mood. Don’t dwell on the past. This makes it impossible to create a new present and future.

Do exes get back together after years?

Yes. In fact, time heals wounds so this is even more likely than getting back together right after a nasty breakup.

How to Get Back With An Ex

The key is to look at why things did not work out last time and examine what will be different this time around.

If neither of you have changed or worked on yourselves, it’s unlikely that you will get back together (or even if you do get back together, it’s unlikely that things will work if neither of you have changed).

Just because you can get your ex back doesn’t mean you should. In other words, if neither of you have changed, what is the point of getting back together since it will end up getting to the same negative place you ended up in when you broke up? Think about what is different in either one or both of you before you decide you even want to give things another try.

Whether You’re Able To Forgive Each Other

This is important because even though relationship is “old” getting back together should be a “new,” fresh situation.

If you cannot forgive (whether it’s one of you who needs to forgive or both of you) someone will hold onto resentment. Resentment is a relationship killer. In fact, if there is any kind of resentment still, you might as well stop thinking of getting back together because this will create a negative vibe from the start and set you up for unhappiness.

Your Life Circumstances

Are you both working jobs that require you to be far away? If you live very far away from each other, this decreases chances that you will get back together.

Another factor that decreases the chances of you getting back together is if both of your lives are insanely busy.

Another factor to consider is whether children are involved. If you have children together it creates an obvious reason to get back together, but this is by no means a reason to try to force things to work that are not naturally working.

This leads me to the last factor…

How Natural It Feels

This is what it really comes down to this at the end of the day. If it feels “right” and effortless, this is a good thing. This makes it very likely that you will get back together (and that your relationship will be happy).

On the flip side, if it feels forced and awkward, this is a bad sign indicating that you will not get back together (and even if you do, things will not head in a good, happy direction).

These are the top signs that you can get your ex back, but even if you see all these signs if you don’t know exactly what to do then your chances of getting him back are almost zero. That’s why you need the secret formula to get your ex back in your arms for good. It makes him see you as “the one,” the woman he couldn’t possibly live without. Don’t wait because every day that goes by with you apart means it’s more and more likely his feelings will fade and then it will be impossible to get him back, so read this right now before it’s too late: Do You Want Your Ex Back? Use This To Get Them Back…

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In summary…

These Are The Signs You Can Get Your Ex Back

  1. The reason you broke up wasn’t something that made you hate each other
  2. You were together for a really long time
  3. You broke up amicably rather than breaking each other’s hearts
  4. You’re both single
  5. You haven’t been vindictive towards each other since the breakup
  6. You were integrated into each other’s lives
  7. You’re both emotionally ready for a relationship
  8. You’ve both grown as people since the breakup
  9. You both forgave each other
  10. Your life circumstances make it easy to be in a relationship with each other
  11. It feels natural to be together

signs you can get your ex back

47 comments… add one
  • Paula September 17, 2021, 8:23 am

    I’m looking for a sure fire way to get back with my ex, considering my new boyfriend looks like him just a little taller but I don’t think he would ever trust me again.

  • Jill November 6, 2020, 8:06 am

    My boyfriend and I are on a break. We agreed on a month and limited contact. He has a child and is going through a lot in his family life. I feel though, even after a month, we still might not be in a good spot to get back together. He doesn’t want to treat me unfairly, and told me he wants to put in so much into our relationship. Just that right now he is withdrawing because he can’t do it all. His child is his priority, and I would feel the same way if I had a kid. If in a month we don’t get back together, I almost feel like down the road, when he’s in a better spot, things could change. Am I being delusional? Am I setting myself up for misery? We love each other, that’s why things are so difficult.

  • Janet Azaare October 7, 2020, 8:46 am

    i want to get my ex back what will i do to win him back

  • BB October 13, 2019, 3:10 pm

    I recently got out of a 4 years relationship and it’s sucks. We pretty much treated as if our last date by having breakfast, went to one of our favorite place, and held hands the whole car ride until we both cried, hugged and kissed goodbye. he said “I wish you all happiness and that I love you.” He said he’ll check in later on and that he’s not oppose to getting back again but as of right now we need to focus on ourselves. Do you think we can ever be together again?

    • Arianna January 13, 2020, 1:18 pm

      I want you to know that you’re not alone. I’m going through a similar experience… my love broke up with me after 3 1/2 years of dating. He initiated it because he needs time to himself to grow, but we ended things in the most loving way we possibly could. It is clear that our connection and love for each other is still very strong, despite his need to move on for himself. He said he hopes that in the future our paths cross once more when we’re better versions of ourselves.

      It’s so hard to hear that statement, because it gives me hope for our future. However, I think to grow and healthily handle this breakup, I can’t think this way. I don’t know what the future holds for me or for you. But I hope that you find the strength to learn more about yourself amidst the pain, and to allow yourself to grow. I hope you know that you are loved.

  • Ryan August 8, 2019, 10:53 pm

    I lost my gf after 10yrs. My employment situation was unstable. As a result I wasn’t happy because of that. Her parents didnt approve of me from the start because of my childhood.
    And then I had issues with family maintenance. They wanted to garnish my pay if I worked for her dad. He didnt want to co-operate and said he would pay her instead of me. I told him I need to show proof of earnings in court so I cant do that he thought I just didnt want to work. And convinced her that i didnt want too.
    He then convinced her to move in with them and made it long distance between us. And Took our son with her.
    I visited every 3 months. We acted and did everything like a couple.
    Then this past April, I got into a car accident. Lucky to be alive. I asked her to give me 3 months and I’ll be out there to be with them.
    We two weeks later, she ended up hanging out with another guy alot, especially on my bday. No biggy right!! Wrong. They started to like each other. I didnt know this was happening.
    So two weeks ago, I got out there, we were acting like a couple. But she didnt seem right. That night, he texted her and said he loves her and our son. So the next day, she dumped me.
    3 days later, they were dating. And she told me to leave her alone. So I left her a message and said “ok, I’ll leave you alone. Thanks for the 10yrs of being together. I never though you would dump me for another guy. This will be the last time we talk. Good bye for good.’ She thought I was going to commit suicide and called the cops.
    So when I spoke to them, I told them I was just granting what she asked for.
    And now we are in no contact. Its effecting our son mentally. He wants us all back together. But the last time I spoke to Lee, last Friday, she said she doesnt want to have anything to do with me.

  • EM May 18, 2019, 3:20 pm

    I’m in a friends with benefits situation with my ex..my ex and I were together for 4 1/2 yrs. Within that time I lived with him off and on. I am 41 and he is 47. My ex has bipolar disorder and I always took that into consideration with our issues. He broke up with me 10 months ago and I moved out for good. I left on good terms. Right after that, a day to be exact, he texted and called saying he misses me. I wanted to do the no contact, but I caved in because I missed him too. I didn’t want to ignore him fearing he may get angry. And, just like that we started this FWB thing. This has been ongoing for 10 months. Although, I periodically have the outbursts and tell him this is not healthy and we need to end the sexual relations. Of course he responds with “that’s up to you, if you can handle it” I also have said I needed space and again he responds with “I will try to honor your need of space and not contact you as much as possible, if you can handle it” I carry it out for a few days and always he texts /calls within 3days or less. I try to delay getting back to him, but I always do. I find myself very sad, mad, disappointed in myself. The cycle is ongoing and it is messing with my emotions constantly..like feeling so good because we are still together but then feeling heart broken because we truly are not. I have gone out a handful of times with other men. He tells me he has no desire to see someone else or be in a relationship for a long time and added he didn’t care if he was single forever. He also told me he never wants to be in a relationship with me like that again because we already tried and it never works out. My question is how do I approach this without hurting any chance of us rekindling a relationship? He cares for me deeply and still throws the L word around, and I do as well. Please tell me how I should end this no where path and guide me to one that possibly ends with us in a relationship stronger than before. Thank you,

    • Zoe LeClair December 6, 2019, 11:12 am

      Hi. In a similar situation. The “cycle” feels like a trap but he’s not the one keeping me in it. I keep going back and trying to restart. It sucks because I know I’d benefit most by just ending it once and for all and moving on, but the heart wants what the heart wants. And I just can’t get him fully off my mind. Part of me is convinced he is the one and the other part is just exhausted by loving him. I wish I had the answers but I can only share similar feelings of frustration. Sometimes I kinda just wish he’d “accidentally” get me pregnant.. lol

      • Joanne January 10, 2020, 6:38 pm

        > Sometimes I kinda just wish he’d “accidentally” get me pregnant.. lol

        Wow, aren’t you afraid that someone will consider you a terrible, horrible human being for saying something like that?

        Because _everyone_ will consider you a terrible, horrible human being for saying that.

  • Janie May 12, 2019, 4:46 am

    Very nice!

  • Vicky December 10, 2018, 3:50 am

    My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago after being together for 6 years and engaged, because he wasn’t happy due to me not being supportive and me treating him a bit unfairly. He wanted me to be supportive of him playing football but I was more concerned about our young son. We’ve had issues in the past due to me not listening etc but in reality I just kinda got sidetracked. I’ve apologised since we’ve broken up and he’s accepted my apology and says he’ll consider stuff in the future if I sort myself out and focus on our son. But I’ve had loads of mixed messages saying that he’ll consider stuff but at the same time says that if he dates anyone else then I should leave him alone. I have acted crazy after the breakup because during this year many unpleasant things have happened and I felt that I wasn’t being supported by him. Which in turn have made me feel like he’s thrown a relationship away. I’ve said awful things and have accused him of getting together with a friend of his; my reason is that I’m jealous because he’s spoken to her rather than him talking to me about stuff. He told me that I’m immature but I do generally care about him and I love him to pieces. After me acting crazy I’ve started the no contact rule and it’s second day. I am terrified that he will find someone else during that time but I think it’s important for me to work on myself and my son. The future is a mysterious thing and we never know what it holds.

  • Kirk December 7, 2018, 3:14 pm

    She left me after 8 years. It’s been 2 months n I’m sicker then ever can’t sleep or eat. They say work on yourself to get your ex back. It’s hard when I don’t even care about myself

    • Vicky December 10, 2018, 3:52 am

      I’m in a similar situation but if you focus on yourself things will get better. Keep moving forward and take one day at a time :)

  • Theron August 5, 2018, 12:43 am

    Me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago we had a great relationship everyone my friends,family her family thought we were gonna get married and have kids. Unfortunately everyone but her.she had a hard time seeing me that same future with me which lead us to taking a break. At first I was fine with the break but as time went on I kept not being able to give her space which ultimately led to the real break up. We have since met up and try to talk about our relationship She says right now she wants to really stay freunds I agreed but then a week later tried to call and text her but she never responded so now idk what to think or do.

  • Akp June 18, 2018, 9:16 pm

    Its only for 2 months of relationship, we had a breakup because of me who cant trust my own self , and him for his lack of physical need, i keep on denying an affection that he is needed because of my post traumatic stress and ended up hurting him. Also, when we had a breakup we decided that it is out choice for the best and he doesnt want to hurt me. But i feel like this is wrong… i decided to change and see myself and i know then that i actually want him back, so bad, because of the connection we’re having… but i am too far away from him and going there to his home would be like one day long and also have to stay in, idk what to do because i know that the best is to meet up and try to ask again about if he’s happy with this choice. If he is i can let him go… but i really need to sort things out.. should i just go?

  • BARRY June 17, 2018, 7:46 am

    My ex of 10 years left me 3 weeks ago. We have a 4 year old daughter together. I lost my dad 6 years ago and didn’t grieve so I wasn’t being myself with her. Didn’t show her how much I loved and appreciated her. She must have had enough because she said to me she wants to find someone else who will love her and she also told me after we broke up that she wanted more kids but was afraid to tell me. Does she mean she wants more kids with someone else? Wee text regularly about the child but my mind is going into overdrive every time she goes on a night out that she will find her new guy and that will be the end of our relationship period.

  • Janai Patterson May 9, 2018, 7:45 pm

    My boyfriend broke up with me because he thinks I love to start drama.When reality I just only told him what happened but he went to confront the girl. He blames me for her back lashing abt the situation when he didn’t have to contact her in the first place. He also wanted to be done because I usually vent to my friends and try to get guidance. My friend became angry because he mentions her everytime we argue. So she confronted him but he blames me for wt she did when all I did was tell what happened. Everybody says I’m not in the wrong and that he is I know this. We are not talking, he took me off all social media. what could that mean? Just him wanting to see what I’m doing or not losing all of his feelings for me? We spent time together all the time and he spoiled me. He has cheated on me more than once by talking to multiple girls and received oral from 2 girls while we were together, but I forgave him and was willing to work on it with him. But he dumps me for something little? So we’ve been broken up for a week now and come to find out he’s w another girl. That must been why he tried so hard to push me away and end the relationship.

  • alicia February 7, 2018, 9:15 pm

    this is something all women should consider before wanting to get back with an ex.

  • lorena February 6, 2018, 1:03 pm

    for me, i would think about and consider most the reason why we broke up the first place. if it was cheating then i don’t think i would want him back. but if it was something we can maybe try to work on then i should consider.

  • becky February 4, 2018, 10:33 pm

    hmmm, my ex and i are still both single so i think there is still a chance for us to get back together and have the relationship we deserve.

  • liza January 29, 2018, 9:37 pm

    glad to know that there is still a chance for my ex and me to be together again.

  • rachel January 25, 2018, 4:58 pm

    i want my ex back but he doesn’t feel the same way.

  • madison January 23, 2018, 6:01 pm

    i can relate to this. i really want him back but i guess we are not both ready.

  • Wesley November 21, 2017, 10:11 am

    Hi there,
    I don’t know if you’ll respond to me but if you do could you tell me what your views on this my ex broke up with me 2 weeks before I used NC and 1 week into my NC she sent me a message saying “Hey, just wanted to check in on how you’re doing. I hope you’re doing okay, after this I won’t be responding anymore but I want to thank you for everything. I read your letter and it made me cry, a lot. And I’m still really sorry about how things worked out. But I think we both just need time. Someday, maybe we’ll end up together again? But for now, strictly friends. Thank you for all the gifts, the laughs, and the smiles. Till we meet again?, And remember, you’ll always have a special place in my heart and I love you” i sent her gifts I bought for her before she broke up with me with a letter that i wrote during after the break up, what are you takes on this?

    • Jp September 30, 2018, 5:52 am

      Did u get your ex back?

  • kimberly October 10, 2017, 1:45 am

    this just made me realize i can’t be with my ex anymore. our relationship wasn’t at all healthy.

    • SARAH October 13, 2017, 4:16 pm

      what makes you say it as unhealthy?

  • nikka September 30, 2017, 4:58 pm

    thank you for enlightening me, i’ll try to consider this.

  • mylene September 27, 2017, 2:46 pm

    wow, this is a good read indeed. i wasn’t expecting the content to be this helpful.

  • sherlane September 25, 2017, 12:50 pm

    these are good ideas to really think about and consider before making steps.

  • jenny September 18, 2017, 7:02 am

    i love the contents of this post, really nice!

  • arlene September 14, 2017, 11:54 pm

    such a good read for me who can definitely relate.

  • james September 11, 2017, 11:53 pm

    this is an awesome post..very good insights.

  • irma September 8, 2017, 7:17 pm

    this is a good checklist before thinking about really trying to get your ex back

  • allona September 7, 2017, 3:46 pm

    i love this..thanks for the tips!

  • ciara September 5, 2017, 5:32 pm

    this just made me think about a lot of things i need to consider. thanks for sharing this.

  • rhianne August 29, 2017, 1:28 pm

    great reminders and things to consider before even taking steps to getting your ex back.

  • cherry August 23, 2017, 4:56 pm

    this is actually an awesome guideline before doing something.

  • fatima August 22, 2017, 11:52 pm

    you’re right. before even doing things to make him come back to you, you need to consider things like why and how thing ended up for you.

  • hannah August 21, 2017, 2:44 pm

    i am really troubled at the moment, so thankful that i found this article.

  • divine August 20, 2017, 6:08 pm

    i’m sure my bestfriend will love this!

  • ziti August 16, 2017, 3:36 pm

    if you’ve established a strong bond then it will be easier for you to get him back.

  • lourdes August 15, 2017, 12:49 pm

    very important pointers to know indeed!

  • leah August 14, 2017, 8:25 am

    i like this. thanks for enlightening me.

  • danica August 14, 2017, 8:03 am

    my ex and I were together two years and the breakup was kinda needed. he had always been the more loving and passionate one in the relationship and I will admit I sometimes was unsure but I have always loved him and vice versa. we argued a lot but over silly things but when ever I was unsure about being together he would cry and beg me not to and so I never did because I was happy overall. after a huge argument he sent me a long message saying how I’m the best thing thats ever happened to him and that hes scared of loosing me and he loves me , and then a few days later he ended it but was very emotional about it. he rang the day after claiming it was a mistake but then later that day started to doubt what he actually wanted to do again. we went on a break for two weeks and then I lost my mind so I had to speak to him, he then confronted me about rumours of me being unloyal which were not true and then ended it with me as he said he wanted to be on his own and that he didn’t want it anymore but this time with no emotion and I also did not cry or show any emotion as I was so shocked, we hugged and then parted separate ways, I tried the no contact for 30days but only managed two weeks due to a really bad circumstance where I asked to talk to him about that as he was also my best friend and I needed him, I swore I didnt want to talk about our relationship. when I rang him we spoke and he comforted me etc and then continued to have a conversation with me about how I was and what I was getting up to and we stayed on the phone just talking about random things for 44 minutes in which I then ended the phone call. its been a day since I spoke to him and he hasn’t got in touch, was he just being friendly on the phone or could this phone call mean he misses me but needs to be sure about what he wants before he contacts me. do I keep waiting and start the no contact phase again or should I give up

  • sherlie August 10, 2017, 1:59 pm

    as long as you both still love each other and willing to work things out

  • Neha Yadav August 10, 2017, 12:39 pm

    I want my ex back , and i want to do anything. but how to start and what can i do to do things…please give me some ideas or suggestions that my ex want to me to get back

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