Whether you’re looking for how to come on to a guy or drive your man wild with desire for you, here are the absolute best ways to turn on a guy.
If you wanna get the guy, you’ve got to know how to turn him on. We all have our natural charm and sexiness, and you might have your version of flirting and turning him on, but we can all use some tips to enhance our tricks, and learn some new moves, especially in bed. Here are some definite, surefire turn-ons for most guys.
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Outside the bedroom
Get your flirt on
Flirting isn’t just for those first few weeks while you’re dating; the fact that you’re in a long-term relationship shouldn’t mean you can’t keep being playful and flirty with your partner. Make sure to touch him in public, tease him, sneak in little kisses and touches, send him naughty texts under the table, make some racy innuendoes, etc. Anything that catches his attention and makes him smile is great.
And speaking of flirting, even flirting with other guys can be effective. Not to make your man jealous, but to show him that other men find you attractive as well, and you can very well tease them, but you’re only his and you only have eyes for him. Letting other guys flirt with you and then putting your arms around him and kissing him deeply is a huge turn-on.
Long-term couples often lose the magic of physical contact. They get used to the routine and to each other, and continue to live their separate lives and only come together physically for sex. But what if you brought back touching?
Something as tiny and simple as a hand through his hair, a kiss in the morning while you stroke his arm, a protective arm on the small of his back while he’s cooking you dinner – they’re all incredibly sexy and flirtatious. There is a sensuality to touching that is lost, but you can bring it back.
Let him know how sexy he is
It can be easy to fall into the trap of thinking that it’s not necessary to verbally express how much you love your man, how much you appreciate him, and how physically attractive you think he is. You think he already knows, and he probably does, but hearing you say it will turn him on massively. Just think of the way you feel when he tells you how sexy you are. Make him feel good about himself.
Show him you’re naughty
He knows that you’re a good person, an upright citizen, a loving and caring partner, and he loves you for that. But what about your naughty side? A good girl who goes bad from time to time is really sexy; it’s kind of like a catholic school girl complex. Good on the outside, bad on the inside. Don’t hide your wild and adventurous personality – whether it’s telling raunchy jokes, taking shots, or openly flirting with a girl in a bar, he will be glad to see this part of you.
If you want him to be so turned on that he will literally rip the clothes off you to get to you, then here’s the secret – tease him, tease him until he can’t take it any longer. Being “a tease” is not only an insult high-school boys throw at you when you won’t go all the way.
Prolong foreplay, kiss him forever, but don’t let him take your clothes off. Or simply undress, put on a striptease number, or touch yourself in front of him – but without letting him touch you. After watching you get naked, shake your ass and boobs in his face and pleasure yourself without allowing him to enjoy the goods at all, he will be roaring to take you.
Get him ready for seconds
Just because he came doesn’t mean playtime is over! You don’t need to roll off him and start getting dressed as soon as he finishes. Let him lie there, catching his breath, and remain by his side. Start innocently, by cuddling with him, still naked. Then, you can start planting kisses on his chest, shoulders, on the side of his neck, while your hand moves lower and lower on his body…catch my drift?
If you start playing with him and giving him some oral attention, I guarantee he will be turned on all over again. Plus, he’ll love that you can’t get enough and want to go again.
Guys like to take the lead – and we’ll get to that in a moment – but sometimes, being taken care of is also nice. So, why not let him take the night off and have him lie down and relax, while you work on him? Kiss his entire body slowly, touch him everywhere, and work him into a frenzy before you get on top and ride him cowgirl style. It’s a night he will never forget; and he didn’t have to lift a finger!
Let him be the guy
Of course, letting him be the “man”, so to speak, can also be a way to turn him on. It makes him feel masculine and strong when you allow yourself to be vulnerable and let him take the lead and seduce you. Especially if you play coy or pretend to be shy or just generally inexperienced. It can be really alluring to “teach” someone the sensuality of sex. A position like him holding you up against a wall, with your legs around him, achieves that maximum feeling of masculinity. He can lift you up so easily!
Have you ever tried to take control rather aggressively? Not in an offensive or hurtful way, but think of how turned on he would be if you ordered him around. Push him against a wall, press your lips against his and kiss him deeply, undress him and push him on the bed. Get on top of him, tell him how you want him to touch you, and don’t forget the dirty talk! He won’t know what hit him, but he will love it, rest assured.
There’s more than one way to turn a guy on, whether you’re just getting to know each other or you’ve been together for years. Be playful, be sexy, and don’t be afraid to try new things and step outside the ordinary, especially when it comes to sex. He will be grateful.
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Tips for turning a guy on
- Get your flirt on
- Touch him
- Let him know how sexy he is
- Show him you’re naughty
- Tease him
- Get him ready for seconds
- Pamper him
- Let him be the guy
- Be aggressive