Surefire Tips on Turning On a Guy: Exactly How to Turn a Guy On

Surefire Tips on Turning On a Guy: Exactly How to Turn a Guy On

Whether you’re looking for how to come on to a guy or drive your man wild with desire for you, here are the absolute best ways to turn on a guy.

If you wanna get the guy, you’ve got to know how to turn him on. We all have our natural charm and sexiness, and you might have your version of flirting and turning him on, but we can all use some tips to enhance our tricks, and learn some new moves, especially in bed. Here are some definite, surefire turn-ons for most guys.

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Outside the bedroom

Get your flirt on

Flirting isn’t just for those first few weeks while you’re dating; the fact that you’re in a long-term relationship shouldn’t mean you can’t keep being playful and flirty with your partner. Make sure to touch him in public, tease him, sneak in little kisses and touches, send him naughty texts under the table, make some racy innuendoes, etc. Anything that catches his attention and makes him smile is great.

And speaking of flirting, even flirting with other guys can be effective. Not to make your man jealous, but to show him that other men find you attractive as well, and you can very well tease them, but you’re only his and you only have eyes for him. Letting other guys flirt with you and then putting your arms around him and kissing him deeply is a huge turn-on.

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Touch him

Long-term couples often lose the magic of physical contact. They get used to the routine and to each other, and continue to live their separate lives and only come together physically for sex. But what if you brought back touching?

Something as tiny and simple as a hand through his hair, a kiss in the morning while you stroke his arm, a protective arm on the small of his back while he’s cooking you dinner – they’re all incredibly sexy and flirtatious. There is a sensuality to touching that is lost, but you can bring it back.

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Let him know how sexy he is

It can be easy to fall into the trap of thinking that it’s not necessary to verbally express how much you love your man, how much you appreciate him, and how physically attractive you think he is. You think he already knows, and he probably does, but hearing you say it will turn him on massively. Just think of the way you feel when he tells you how sexy you are. Make him feel good about himself.

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Show him you’re naughty

He knows that you’re a good person, an upright citizen, a loving and caring partner, and he loves you for that. But what about your naughty side? A good girl who goes bad from time to time is really sexy; it’s kind of like a catholic school girl complex. Good on the outside, bad on the inside. Don’t hide your wild and adventurous personality – whether it’s telling raunchy jokes, taking shots, or openly flirting with a girl in a bar, he will be glad to see this part of you.

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In bed

Tease him

If you want him to be so turned on that he will literally rip the clothes off you to get to you, then here’s the secret – tease him, tease him until he can’t take it any longer. Being “a tease” is not only an insult high-school boys throw at you when you won’t go all the way.

Prolong foreplay, kiss him forever, but don’t let him take your clothes off. Or simply undress, put on a striptease number, or touch yourself in front of him – but without letting him touch you. After watching you get naked, shake your ass and boobs in his face and pleasure yourself without allowing him to enjoy the goods at all, he will be roaring to take you.

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Get him ready for seconds

Just because he came doesn’t mean playtime is over! You don’t need to roll off him and start getting dressed as soon as he finishes. Let him lie there, catching his breath, and remain by his side. Start innocently, by cuddling with him, still naked. Then, you can start planting kisses on his chest, shoulders, on the side of his neck, while your hand moves lower and lower on his body…catch my drift?

If you start playing with him and giving him some oral attention, I guarantee he will be turned on all over again. Plus, he’ll love that you can’t get enough and want to go again.

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Pamper him

Guys like to take the lead – and we’ll get to that in a moment – but sometimes, being taken care of is also nice. So, why not let him take the night off and have him lie down and relax, while you work on him? Kiss his entire body slowly, touch him everywhere, and work him into a frenzy before you get on top and ride him cowgirl style. It’s a night he will never forget; and he didn’t have to lift a finger!

Let him be the guy

Of course, letting him be the “man”, so to speak, can also be a way to turn him on. It makes him feel masculine and strong when you allow yourself to be vulnerable and let him take the lead and seduce you. Especially if you play coy or pretend to be shy or just generally inexperienced. It can be really alluring to “teach” someone the sensuality of sex. A position like him holding you up against a wall, with your legs around him, achieves that maximum feeling of masculinity. He can lift you up so easily!

Be aggressive

Have you ever tried to take control rather aggressively? Not in an offensive or hurtful way, but think of how turned on he would be if you ordered him around. Push him against a wall, press your lips against his and kiss him deeply, undress him and push him on the bed. Get on top of him, tell him how you want him to touch you, and don’t forget the dirty talk! He won’t know what hit him, but he will love it, rest assured.

There’s more than one way to turn a guy on, whether you’re just getting to know each other or you’ve been together for years. Be playful, be sexy, and don’t be afraid to try new things and step outside the ordinary, especially when it comes to sex. He will be grateful.

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In summary…

Tips for turning a guy on

  • Get your flirt on
  • Touch him
  • Let him know how sexy he is
  • Show him you’re naughty
  • Tease him
  • Get him ready for seconds
  • Pamper him
  • Let him be the guy
  • Be aggressive

tips on turning a guy on

31 comments… add one
  • Richard July 18, 2019, 3:12 am

    The ex would bite me on the back of the neck when I was chilling on the computer. Send shivers down my spine EVERY TIME… WOO! She loved teasing me with it. She’d be at it like 30 mins sometimes and I’m like LET’S GO!!! and nope. She’d just keep at it.

    I’d normally never react to anything she’d do but that always got me.

  • jane December 7, 2018, 1:05 pm

    let him know he’s sexy. always always try to do this. tell him how sexy he is, or how good in bed he is, anything to boost his confidence and make him really turned on. you are absolutely in for a treat when you tell him these things! (=

  • kat December 6, 2018, 1:38 pm

    touch you man in all his weak spots. he’ll surely be turned on in just a few strokes. this always does the trick for me! =)

  • meryl December 5, 2018, 5:39 pm

    these tips will certainly push my man’s hot buttons! excited to try them tonight!

  • nancy December 4, 2018, 12:27 pm

    showing him you’re naughty will absolutely make him turned on. try doing this from time to time and you both sure will have the best time of your lives.

  • jamie December 3, 2018, 3:18 pm

    looks like you are a pro on this one! i’ve got an eye for this guy and is wondering how to turn him on. will bookmark this one! thanks

  • lori November 30, 2018, 12:47 pm

    i like pampering my boyfriend with soft massages. i just realized how much he loves massages and so this is what i do to get him turned on really quick. my advice is..look for that weakness and focus on it, use it for your advantage. hahaha! (=

  • shannon November 29, 2018, 12:52 pm

    what i’ve learned from friends who’ve been married long enough is that men crave affirmation. and this definitely applies sexually as well. so go on, tell your man how sexy he is and he’ll sure be on fire.

  • kelsey November 28, 2018, 5:38 pm

    try sending your guy dirty text messages. it will definitely turn him on! saw an article with sexting examples on this site too.

  • catie November 27, 2018, 12:34 pm

    i like pampering my boyfriend. a little bit of massage on the head then going down the back to his butt.. he just loves it and i like teasing him this way.

  • may November 26, 2018, 1:31 pm

    let him be the guy – this is what i’ll try to keep i mind always. so thankful for this website, i learn a lot from your posts.

  • sabrina November 23, 2018, 1:31 pm

    get your flirt on and touch him! these are the best ways to really turn on a guy. if you’re not physically together, send him text messages telling him what you plan on doing to him in bed.

  • leslie November 22, 2018, 6:53 pm

    you got really nice tips in here! excited to give them a try. please post more articles like this.

  • avril November 21, 2018, 1:22 pm

    touch him, caress him and run your fingers all over his body. this is my own way of making my boyfriend get turned on in an instant. i don’t say a word at all, i just touch him. it works every single time!

  • maria November 20, 2018, 7:28 pm

    talk dirty! this is one sure way to turn a man on and keep him going!

  • pilar November 19, 2018, 5:52 pm

    being aggressive sometimes really help make things more exciting in bed. be the woman on top and make him scream for more, he’ll end up asking you to do this more often.

  • ariane November 15, 2018, 5:39 pm

    it is very important to let your man know how much you value him. learn how to do it verbally. like what the post said, if a man hears this, he’ll definitely get turned on.

  • hailey November 13, 2018, 5:05 pm

    i realized that turning my man on is a lot easier than i think. thanks for the tips!

  • shannon November 9, 2018, 7:01 pm

    reading this article helped me a lot. now i have the right mindset to seduce my man. i was able to know what actions i can take to make my man really turned on.

  • milly November 7, 2018, 4:22 pm

    well, i can say that i am not really successful when it comes to turning my man on. i am glad there is an article like this that can help me.

  • christa October 31, 2018, 6:04 pm

    i think this article is dedicated to me. hahaha! i am excited to try your tips! wish me luck!

  • lauren October 31, 2018, 2:51 pm

    try being aggressive too. men crave this and you can start by talking dirty, the blindfold, handcuffs will do too!

  • joy October 29, 2018, 4:22 pm

    Touch him – this is the best tip for me if you want to make things a little bit interesting in the bedroom.

  • suzie October 26, 2018, 1:28 pm

    i would say let him know how sexy he is will be great to turn him on. and not only that, it will make him feel confident about himself and comfortable with his body.

  • leonora October 24, 2018, 7:56 pm

    being aggressive can really make things a little bit more interesting in the bedroom. i’ve already tried it and yeah, we had so much fun.

  • kaitlyn October 23, 2018, 1:21 pm

    i haven’t tried this “Get him ready for seconds” thingy since i really like just cuddling and talking a bit after making love. i guess i’ll have to try this and see how it pans out.

  • meghan October 22, 2018, 4:33 pm

    i like it when my man tells me how sexy i am and it really turns me on. i always return the favor by also telling him how physically attractive i think he is. this works all the time.

  • marla October 19, 2018, 12:43 pm

    sometimes being aggressive counts. men really like sit when a woman takes charge, my guy loves it.

  • lena October 18, 2018, 4:53 pm

    i am so ready to take our relationship to the next level so i am going to definitely try some of these. thanks for sharing.

  • jackie October 17, 2018, 12:16 pm

    pamper him. do all the work for just a night and he’ll surely be pleased. he’ll be turned on, you’ll both have the best time.

  • faith October 16, 2018, 4:58 pm

    thanks for these surefire tips. i will make sure to follow everything you’ve said about getting my flirt on to turn my guy on.

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