Is He Losing Interest?

“Is He Losing Interest?” Quiz

You meet a man you like, you feel a connection and like things just “click”. You’re both really interested in each other and sparks are flying. You have an intense connection and things seem extremely promising for the future you will have together.

Except, all of a sudden, something happens. The dynamic between you changes. He does not pay as much attention to you anymore. He no longer does little romantic gestures that make you smile. He does not go out of his way to make you happy. He doesn’t look at you the same way anymore. He doesn’t talk to you the same way anymore.

He’s still around, but there seems to have been a shift in what he feels about you. Things just aren’t the same anymore.

The thing is… this could go a few different ways. It’s actually possible that this change in him things are with you two actually means nothing and things are fine. It’s very possible that he’s simply busy and occupied in his life. It’s possible he has other things on his plate and on his mind and that things will go back to normal soon.

Or, this could go an entirely different direction. Sometimes the man is no longer invested in the relationship and doesn’t want to hurt you by actually saying it and ending things with you. Sometimes he’s withdrawing emotionally and you’re at risk of losing him.

The thing is, the anxiety you feel right now can create a lot of sadness and inner turmoil. It can also unknowingly sabotage your relationship.

To get rid of any and all confusion and actually help you discover the truth once and for all… and figure out whether you’re being anxious for no reason or he really is losing interest and your worst fears are correct…

Take this quiz that will ask you specific questions to analyze your situation. As long as you tell the truth when you answer, you will receive results that are shockingly accurate and you will finally know the truth and what is truly going on with him.

53 comments… add one
  • Sekai May 26, 2022, 7:55 am

    What can i do to make my boyfriend love me cause i really want him his name is Alex i really love this man so much

  • Elizabeth April 17, 2022, 11:40 am

    Im not sure if he still likes me, he only text after a day or two. Never shows interst in me on how i am. Most times i hace to be the one to say hello for is to chat. Wht does thst mean?

    • Sekai May 26, 2022, 8:04 am

      Dont warrior maybe he might be busy.

  • Munachimso January 7, 2022, 11:30 pm

    He asked for a space after we had issues Nd the family is against us been together now..he said he wants us to work on ourselves Nd with time things will get better again..but his communication life hv changed..his no more jealous or know how I’m feeling

  • Margret Nakalumbi April 16, 2021, 12:02 pm

    He texts me everyday but when I text him back,it takes some hours for him to respond what can be wrong with him?

    • Cassie leticia November 12, 2021, 7:24 am

      Nothing is wrong with him ,most men are like that but you have to just give him time ,maybe he is busy or doing something but the moment he see’s it ,he replies or just calls you

  • Ava Doyle December 23, 2020, 10:23 am

    I feel he doesn’t like me or want to be with me but I really like him

  • Joy August 18, 2020, 4:56 pm

    I feel am loosing him and i really love him so much

  • Deborah March 18, 2020, 1:39 am

    have u every ask me why he left u

  • Olashile January 29, 2020, 5:58 pm

    My boo wants me to focus just like him. I think he is loosing interest in me

  • Eric December 6, 2019, 10:27 pm

    Love seeing only females complain on this. I have for the last three years tried and denied what I knew was to be true!!! And she lied to me over and over and I ignored my guy, yet Sever guys later she finally admits it. Hmmm spend 20 years (since high school, so my whole life) she the last three years cause I provided and until my gut told me I did EVERYTHING

  • Rose September 11, 2019, 9:52 am

    Keeps begging you for what? …SEX he’s playing the both of you. Take some time to yourself and ask yourself this question ” Am I being respected, do I feel valued, am I being manipulated.” You’re giving him too much power…

  • tella August 20, 2019, 4:56 pm

    hi ..i am tella i have a boyfriend it’s long distance but he is loyal i have trust issues and i overthink alot ….this is making my relationship being difficult he is changing towards me being weird and not him self i am overprotective and i always bring myself down and he doesn’t like it at all ….i am trying hard to let my past go but it feels like hes drifting away from me ……and i don’t know what to do i am stressed and getting panic attacks and i don’t think straight can someone help me what to do and how i can handle it ?

  • Deliaheschrich July 17, 2019, 2:51 am

    Iam with a guy and we bookrd a cruise together.Now he needs space cuz i made him angry

  • Sharon June 1, 2019, 3:28 am

    We’ve been dating with my boyfriend for the past 4 years now, but what did seem clear to me after a couple of months, is that this guy had not yet got over his ex and so we’ve been having issues and little arguments about this…I came to realise that this guy was still having a thing with the ex and so I became so mad and annoyed coz all this while he’s just been lying to Me and doing things behind my back…So the last time I found the girl in my boyfriend’s house we quarrelled and later on he said that we had to take a break so that we can recollect ourselves, and when things are calm,we can come back seat down and talk things out and maybe start a fresh again…but a t the back of my mind,I seriously doubt This.

  • Laura May 2, 2019, 9:49 pm

    Nooo…. if they can’t accept a woman as she is…its their problem…. they are not worth….

  • Jocy March 23, 2019, 9:12 am

    He told me he wants us to be forever, and I believed him. But he turn so cold all of sudden, it’n it’s like I’m an irritation.. so he broke up with me. And blames it on we have been fighting a lot. Like wth??? So when things get difficult instead of sticking together, he runs like now I look so stupid.

  • Jocy March 23, 2019, 9:09 am

    Me and him started dating for 4 months, he told me that he loves me, that he will never leave or turn his back on me. And the first two months was perfect, but the other two was hell, when I say I don’t like something, he doesn’t try to change it, he barely has time for me, but for others he do. And he broke up with me because he ask me to do one thing that I didn’t want to do, but ended up doing anyways, because it would have affected me. And not only that, I was a good girlfriend, I didn’t cheat, I always text sweet stuff, when I say I love him, he responds by saying love you too, he doesn’t like talking about emotions, I think he feels like I need him to solve all the problems in my life, but I don’t, I ask him why he broke up with me, when he wanted and was telling me stuff about how he wants to be with me forever

  • Eunice July 13, 2018, 8:45 pm

    My boyfriend in the first year in university said he needs focus on God, Academics and himself. He said till 300 level before he HV any serious relationship.. I told him I would wait and he promised to come back

    • Rose September 9, 2019, 11:04 pm

      Look Eunice this may sound a bit harsh…unless he put a ring on it, youre in a fairytale….Date other people…if he comes back and wants to continue fine…Other wise don’t waste time waiting for Prince Charming…Got It Good.

  • Mamikie June 20, 2018, 11:26 am

    I have a boyfriend we’ve been together since early last year.our relationship was on fire until he started accusing me of cheating because he saw me with my male cousin and he does not know him,i tried to explain everything to him he kept pushing me away,so he decided to keep distant from and ignore my calls for couple of weeks…So i don’t know if he still love me or what should i do?

    • Rose September 9, 2019, 11:19 pm

      Im going to tell you what to do…you may not like this but hear it is. Run! Run far and Fast! He’s Jealous and that is a very distructive to any relationship. Here comes the controlling you, screening your calls, getting pissed off if you have friends or relatives that adore you or want to spend time with you. He accuses you of cheating because he’s whipped and afraid of losing you…Dont fool yourself this is not Caring or Cute. He will suck all the happiness, joy and life out of you….In a few short years you will look so old and F%#@d up you won’t recognize yourself when you look in the mirror…

    • Sekai May 26, 2022, 7:52 am

      Just have hope,i also love someone but he doesn ‘t love me and i dont know what to do

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    • Dont give up if u really love him May 26, 2022, 7:57 am

      Dont give up if u really love him

  • Terri March 17, 2018, 11:55 pm

    Well all the signs point to the relationship I just had. He engage to me for two days then boom dump me on the 3rd day. Says he isn’t feeling my energy anymore. 7 and half years on and half relationship and a son. Day 4 of my breakup. Hard as hell

    • Terri March 17, 2018, 11:58 pm

      Now I know he isn’t into me anymore I need some tips to move on. We have ro communicate for the sake of our son so it’s hard..sigh

    • Rose September 9, 2019, 11:33 pm

      Ok what more signs do you need…move on baby. Allow him to have a relationship with his son without bitterness and resentment. Keep your head up!!! Believe me you’ll meet someone that will appreciate, respect and love you. So let today be the day you remind yourself how much you love you…

  • Debbie February 3, 2018, 9:49 am

    I am in a wierd relationships…my boyfriend frinks a fifth of burbon. A day when he gets drunk he tells me he dontvwant me for me to move out .to leave now .but when he is sober .i ask him did he want me to move out and he says he like having me here…we been together for 11 years so i dont kn what to do ….

  • fiona January 24, 2018, 11:59 am

    I have taken the quiz multiple times across a time span of one month, and every single time I keyed in my email address, I receive nothing. I have checked my spam mail and even used a different email address, so now I’m left wondering whether is there something wrong with the system? (Was doing the quiz out of curiosity. It’s sad that I couldn’t see my results though!)

  • michy January 2, 2018, 4:10 pm

    love is all about our heart desires eventhough pple discourage you 1000 times follow your heart.

  • Alice October 14, 2017, 2:40 pm

    Ladys Dont Listen To What Others Say Just Follow Ur Heart

  • Alice October 14, 2017, 2:35 pm

    Just Follow Ur Heart

  • Precious September 4, 2017, 7:47 am

    We were good until he started behaving strange he even both a girls pix like 6 pix of both of them on fb then he wrote mind on mind I asked him he blocked me on fb and even wassup then I find out the girl was a prostitue later on he added me back on fb and wassup then he told me he needs space but I think he is tired and even talk to me as a stranger

  • Kell August 24, 2017, 4:12 pm

    So I’ve been dating a guy for about 3rs total now in the beginning he was perfect he was moving fast for me, he was really into me a knight in shinning armour. Found out about some secrets he had and continued a relationship with him. We have been off and on he’s been there for me and my children which mean a lot to me. We broke it off and I told him about a guy I was talking to and had feelings for.
    He was hurt I thought our relationship was completly over and he moved on from me.
    He told me I really hurt him and can’t get over it recently we started dating and I thought things were going back to were there were again I drive to his place and caught him getting out of a girl car he was talking to. I was devistated he told me she’s a friend and it’s not like that. He said he always want me as a friend he’s working on getting himself together when he’s with me he’s totally into me and destracted from everything else. He wanna take things slow now and work on his career and himself … what do I do wait on him or move on HELP I really love this man

    • Rose September 9, 2019, 9:54 pm

      You’re not as in love as you think…you started talking to someone else. When you love someone there’s nothing another man can say or do to distract you….no other man can touch you. Sounds like both of you need a break. When a man says we can be friends and I need to work on myself believe him…

  • Fahmida June 25, 2017, 5:11 pm

    Basically there is this guy we know each other from birth and we were born in italy but we weren’t tht close friends or friends because I never used to like boys when I was young so then when I was 11 he was 11 to coz we are on the same age and we moved to UK and we still know each other then I haf kind of a crusher on him when I was in year 7 so was he then he never noticed me or anything coz I was ugly and then growing up to yr 8 I told him tht i love him and I actually was deeply in love with him not coz of his looks but his personality I told him and he was suprisad and showed he couldn’t beleive me so we started talking more and more and he forgot thto I love him and in yr 9 now we became close frinds my parents and his parents are friendly relative and so we ofteneed meet and talk and now in yr 9 we became so close friends and now he loves me so we love each other and⭕ I’m just worried about one thing tht whenever we see each other he never looks at me but he says he loves me is it tht he doesn’t love me but pretending or is it his shyness because he is shy ⭕and we don’t know wht to do since we love each other please answer the questions!!

  • brianna May 21, 2017, 9:51 pm

    If you actually love someone age shouldn’t matter unless like hes really older than you then he could get in trouble, but as long as y’all dont do anything its okay

  • brianna May 21, 2017, 9:47 pm

    You or him or both shouldn’t care what other people think it only matters if y’all actully love each other thats all that matters don’t listen to other people listen to what your heart is saying

  • Bella March 30, 2017, 9:05 pm

    Oopsies I posted twice. Didn’t think it posted the first time.

  • Bella March 30, 2017, 9:04 pm

    Ok so I was outside today and this guy I really like comes out. His name is Jeffery and he’s really nice. But I’m 15 and he’s 16, but that never stopped us from liking each other, or so I thought. But when we were outside, we were for some reason talking about heights. And when I said I was only 5’0 and I was supposed to stay that way, he says, “I’m dating this girl who’s 5’1.” I really thought we had something special but now I feel like I’ve been smacked in the face. What do I do? HELP ME!

  • Bella March 30, 2017, 9:01 pm

    So we were outside today and we were for some odd reason talking about heights. So there’s this guy I really like and his name is Jeffery. So I’m 15 and he’s 16 and I really like him. And before today I thought he liked me too. But when I said I’m only 5’0 and I’m supposed to stay that way, he says that he is dating a girl who is 5’1. This really shocked me because I thought we had something special. HELP ME!

  • Libby February 12, 2017, 5:23 pm

    I’m going out with this rlly sweet guy and I’m sooo happi

    • Sekai May 26, 2022, 8:00 am

      I wish u a Good luck

  • Camryn December 22, 2016, 7:30 pm

    So there’s this guy who I can’t tell if he likes me or not. We see each other in at least 4 times a week and in person he’ll hold my hand, pick me up and kiss me, hold my waist and all of that but over text he’s rude and always ignores me. Then says stuff about how other girls are so pretty. One time he even called me “kiddo” and “pal”. The day after he said that he suprised me with a kiss and I just don’t know. It’s confusing and he’s making me feel like I did something wrong. I’ve tried confronting him about it but he never answers me. I don’t know what I’m doing and he just feels so perfect for me. Can I maybe get some answers from this?

    • brianna May 21, 2017, 9:45 pm

      Look you did nothing wrong don’t worry about that just give it time I’ve been through that before and it ended up good so just keep trying don’t give up. It will come out good

  • Sweety September 15, 2016, 3:16 am

    At First We Are Very Happy With Each Other Our Love Starts From Std.4 Now We Are In 12 Now I Feel That He Did N’t Want To Talk With Me When I Call Him Most Of The Time He Not Pick And Whenever He Pick My Phone He Talks With Me Like A Stranger Or Normal Peson Not Like My B .F I Think He Want To End This Relation . What Should I Do?

  • Sweety September 15, 2016, 3:14 am

    At First We Are Very Happy With Each Other Our Love Starts From Std.4 Now We Are In 12 Now I Feel That He Did N’t Want To Talk With Me When I Call Him Most Of The Time He Not Pick And Whenever He Pick My Phone He Talks With Me Like A Straner Or Normal Peson Not Like My B .F I Think He Want To End This Relation . What Should I Do?

  • znoe September 9, 2016, 7:09 am

    well he’s different now n we don’t get to spend much time together n I’ve heard that he has a girlfriend but he denies it to me. I’ve seen him with the girl but did not apologize and explain why he was with the girl.

  • mary July 4, 2016, 10:41 am

    there was a time that he tires to make me laugh and once he told me that i was sexy and all the sudden he stops talking to me as before can u help me pls to know what is on his mind.

  • sandy July 1, 2016, 1:47 pm

    when I click on the answer it doesn’t tick,am wondering what the problem is???please fix it for me I need to get the answers to my problem please

  • sandy July 1, 2016, 1:44 pm

    when I click on the answers,it doesn’t tick…Am wondering what the problem is???

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