The 9 Biggest Signs He Doesn't Want To Be With You Anymore (And Might Not Love You)

The 9 Biggest Signs He Doesn’t Want To Be With You Anymore (And Might Not Love You)

You’re here because you want to know the signs that a guy doesn’t want to be with you anymore – and even might not love you anymore.

Maybe you’ve been with him for a while and things just feel off lately. It doesn’t feel like he’s putting in as much energy, attention, and focus.

Maybe it feels awful when you’re together – like you can’t stop fighting and half the time you don’t even know what you’re fighting about.

Maybe he’s just gotten really distant and cold recently and it feels like he might be pulling away for good.

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Whatever the reason – things are going badly with him and you’re worried that this might be the end.

It could feel like he doesn’t even want to be there anymore – like he’s fallen out of love with you.

I know how awful that feels, and I’m here to help.

These are the biggest signs that a guy could have fallen out of love with you, and doesn’t want to be with you anymore.

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One Quick Note Before We Start

Lots of these signs mean that he’s putting in less effort or even stopped putting in effort altogether.

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Maybe that means he doesn’t want to be with you anymore, or maybe it doesn’t. It could just be that he’s gotten lazy and is taking the relationship for granted.

At the end of the day, it’s up to you to decide what you’re going to tolerate from him. If you’re not getting what you need from him, and he’s not putting in the effort that you want, you have the power to leave him.

Sometimes if he realizes that you’re not going to put up with bad behavior, a guy will shape up and realize that he needs to put in effort if he wants to keep you.

All I’m saying is that a relationship is a two way street. I’m not telling you to do anything one way or the other – only you know the specifics of your situation.

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But if he’s not providing what you need, you always have the power to find a better situation for yourself.

And now, without further intro:

The Biggest Signs He Doesn’t Want To Be With You Anymore (And Might Not Love You Anymore)

1. It Seems Like Everything You Do Annoys Him

The foundation of any great relationship is that it feels great to be with each other.

That’s how great relationships are built. Two people realize that they can be genuine and open with each other – and that they like who the other person genuinely truly is.

That’s why it’s a disconcerting sign when he starts getting annoyed at everything you do – even the little stuff.

Obviously, if he’s going through something really stressful, like losing his job or problems with his family, he might be a little short tempered.

But if he’s not going through anything specific and he doesn’t seem to snap out of it and keeps getting annoyed at you – that’s a big sign that he might be having second thoughts about your relationship.

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2. He’s Closed Himself Off From You And Stopped Sharing

You have to compare his current behavior to his past behavior for this sign.

If he used to be really open with you – talking about his feelings, or how his day went, or really anything that was on his mind – and now he’s become more closed off and aloof, it’s a bad sign.

If he was never really that open with you in the first place, then nothing really changed – and it’s not a sign that he doesn’t want to be with you anymore.

Also, this is another one that could be because of some external circumstance – if he’s having a problem he doesn’t think he can talk about he might close off rather than mention it.

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But if he used to be open with you and now he’s stubborn and closed off, and he stays that way for a long time, it could mean that he doesn’t want to share himself with you anymore, which is a very bad sign for the future of the relationship.

3. He’s Totally Stopped Texting You Back

If he’s super passive aggressive or he doesn’t like confrontation, this could be his way of telling you that he doesn’t want a serious relationship with you.

At the same time, it’s important to note that texting naturally falls off the longer you’re with someone.

At the beginning, you might have texted back and forth all the time. But as time goes on and the relationship deepens, most guys will scale back the amount of texting.

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So if you’re just texting less, that’s not necessarily a sign he’s not interested anymore.

But if he’s routinely ignoring your texts for more than a few days and just flat out not communicating with you, it could be because he doesn’t want to be with you anymore.

4. All Of A Sudden He Needs Lots Of “Space” In The Relationship

Guys need space for lots of reasons. It’s completely, 100% normal for a guy to occasionally pull back and take some space in a relationship.

The best thing you can do when a guy needs space is let him take some space – normally he’ll return refreshed and ready to be with you.

Where it stops being normal is when he’s become so distant for so long that it has you wondering whether he even wants to be in the relationship at all.

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I’m not talking about days, or even weeks here. If you were in a committed relationship and he’s pulled away and hasn’t come back for a significant period of time – it could be that he doesn’t really want to be there anymore.

There’s no use guessing – only he knows for sure. If he’s been withdrawn for way longer than a couple weeks, you’re well within your rights to ask him what’s going on in his head and whether he still wants to be with you.

5. He Doesn’t Help You When You’re Hurting

Relationships are all about supporting each other when needed.

Lots of the appeal of a relationship is having someone on your side who can help you when things are going really wrong and you feel awful.

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It’s part of the emotional bond of a relationship. So if he’s not interested in comforting you or helping you when you feel down, he’s cutting off one of the most important ways to connect emotionally in your relationship – and it’s a sign that he could be thinking of cutting ties altogether.

6. He Really Tries To Hurt You When You’re Fighting

Everyone fights differently. One rule about successful couples is that they usually fight to solve a problem, instead of hurt each other.

That’s why it’s important to compare how you fight now to how you used to fight.

If fights in your relationship with him always eventually turned dirty and had one or both people saying mean things to each other, this isn’t such a big sign since nothing has really changed.

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But if your fights used to be pretty reasonable, and have turned nasty, that’s a sign of a lot of negative emotions like anger and frustration about the relationship bubbling up in him, and that could definitely tear a relationship apart.

7. He’s Gotten Really Selfish And Stopped Putting In Effort

This is one of those signs where it’s up to you to decide what you want from the relationship.

Like I said before, this could just be him taking the relationship for granted and testing boundaries. If you make it clear that it’s not acceptable to you, he might shape up.

But if he shows no intentions of putting in more effort even after you make your needs clear, that’s a big sign that he’s not interested in doing what it takes to continue the relationship.

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8. You’ve Totally Stopped Having Sex

Obviously, in almost every relationship your sex life slows down as the relationship goes on.

Every person is different, and everyone has different needs when it comes to intimacy in a relationship. The most important thing is that both partners feel like their needs and preferences are being met.

So if you’ve stopped having sex altogether – it’s a big sign that unless neither of you really wants sex in the first place, the intimacy in the relationship could be falling apart.

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9. It Seems Like He’s In A Really Bad Mood All The Time

Like we talked about before, relationships are only as good as they feel.

If it doesn’t feel good to be with each other, the relationship doesn’t have much to stand on. After all, why choose to spend a ton of your time with another person who it doesn’t feel good to be with?

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This is another sign that might not mean things are over if he’s going through lots of tough stuff in his life. If he’s under a lot of stress then it makes total sense why he might be in a bad mood.

But if he’s not going through anything in particular and it seems like he’s always in a bad mood when he’s around you – that’s a big sign that he doesn’t really want to be with you anymore.

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In summary…

These 9 Signs Mean He Doesn’t Want To Be With You Anymore

  1. It seems like everything you do annoys him.
  2. He’s closed himself off from you and stopped sharing.
  3. He’s totally stopped texting you back.
  4. All of a sudden he needs lots of “space” in the relationship.
  5. He doesn’t help you when you’re hurting.
  6. He really tries to hurt you when you’re fighting.
  7. He’s gotten really selfish and stopped putting in effort.
  8. You’ve totally stopped having sex.
  9. It seems like he’s in a really bad mood all the time.

biggest signs he doesnt want to be with you anymore might not love you

95 comments… add one
  • Gifted October 20, 2021, 8:38 am

    It’s very painful for a man you love not to have effective communication

  • Emilia November 25, 2020, 4:49 am

    My ex and I dated for 5 months and then he just started communicating less and drinking a lot of alcohol and than I decided to dumb him. It’s 5 months now that we have been apart and I still love him and regret dumbing him. Did he loses interest? Should I go back to him?

  • Mandy May 5, 2020, 1:03 pm

    I need serious help with my relationship so I don’t before my time

    • Rose May 27, 2020, 11:57 pm

      love yourself enough ask yourself if you’re willing to go through that hardship

  • hayley April 17, 2020, 10:41 pm

    Every single one of these things checks out. I’m really upset. I’m not sure if it’s because he’s just depressed or what but I’m worried.

  • Salsa December 21, 2019, 5:01 pm

    Good luck to all including me

  • Salsabile Bousfiha December 21, 2019, 5:00 pm

    Good advice, true 100 percent, been there and still there, it really sucks, it’s damn difficult and so painful, wishing all the best of luck this coming new year

  • Ruth July 29, 2019, 3:59 pm

    I have been with my partner for 7 years now, we were high school sweethearts from the age 12 to now 20. We were each others first love and of course we lost our virginity to each other.Like most relationships, everything was perfect in the beginning. Everything we did, we did it together, we laughed all the time, we joked around, spent countless hours staying up late talking, we were just kids back then.. but now everything changed. It’s like he doesnt even wanna be around me, he lies about his whereabouts and what time he will be coming back, shows up at my house early hours of the morning and his excuse for all that is “I’m spending time with my family” “im always with you” but something tells me that he’s doing more then just spending time with his family. I feel like he’s bored of me, he wants something new and different. He still tells me he loves me and only me but I feel like the only time he does is when we’re having sex, with that being said I truly feel used… he doesnt seem happy with me anymore and sometimes I feel like he goes out of his way to do milisious things so he could hurt me and make me want to want out and end things so he doesnt have too.. hes never really around anymore and I miss him.. I miss us! Somebody help me!!

  • Fed up July 18, 2019, 8:29 pm

    I have known my bf 35 years now. I was always his dream girl. Now that he has me (5 years now) he treats me like crap. We haven’t had sex in two years. He makes excuses for it all the time..he never feels good but won’t go to Dr. I need sex and intimacy, he gvs me nothing. He sleeps on the couch and won’t even come to bed. We hardly ever talk…he prefers to be on his phone. He likes to stay at my place because it’s closer to his work than his house..he loves my dog, my dog loves him. I’m fed up! He makes me feel very unattractive! I’m done unless he tells me what the hell is up. I highly doubt he’s cheating, too lazy for that. He sleeps all the time!

  • Georgie June 26, 2019, 11:35 am

    This can happen at any age and after a long term relationship.
    He is 58 and I am 49 and we have lived together for nearly 16 years. We have split up in the past and he has moved out a couple of times, but there seemed to be that pull that kept bringing up back together.
    Now though, he is so cold and so distant and actually cruel in the last couple of years, that I no longer can hand on heart believe he has any compassion there at all, I feel our relationship, for him, is just habit.
    It has felt like he makes an effort whenever we get back together, but for less and less time and with less and less effort each time. Now, I truly think we are over but as he has never talked openly and doesnt communicate his feelings, I have never really understood if I am a convenience or loved.
    I now feel the latter is most likely true and although that hurts, deeply, at least I can come to terms with that now.
    The three last signs are all true for our relationship so that has pretty much nailed the coffin shut for me.
    Life begins at 50 for me it seems.

  • Stephanie April 3, 2019, 5:30 pm

    Its so sad that…girls invest a lot in men only to get countless of at the verge where I’ll say…its better he left…he didnt build me..neither did he provide for my basic needs..He just left me hurt and injured…I feel so numb…and I don’t even know what to do anymore..I hope I get happiness from within…I hope I get a man that loves me lots…

    • Lotaya December 7, 2019, 2:01 pm

      I felt every word , it was like I wrote that, thats how I feel. It hurts but by the end of the day, no one will save you but you, true love will never hurt this much.

  • Amiee March 30, 2019, 6:40 pm

    I’ve learned that if you’ve recently moved and you see some of these signs its not necessarily him meaning he wants to break up what it may mean is that yall need some space and time to miss one another. More than likely he’ll start to come around instead of being distant.

  • C March 29, 2019, 9:43 pm

    I have just moved In with my boyfriend and he is so angry at me whatever I do, I do everything for him and he just acts as if I’m nothing. He just expects me to run around after him now and I’ve just got upset about it and I’ve been crying downstairs for over an hour and he just shouted at me and left me here. I keep telling him I want to break up and he doesn’t let me but he’s showing near enough all of the signs, I’m so confused what to do, I have no where else to go as well so I feel so stuck in this nightmare relationship

    • Lea December 2, 2019, 12:24 pm

      I am so sorry… This must be so horrible. Bit Darling, I really think You got yourself a narcisstic man.. If YOU want to break up, that’s your Choice. Not his’!! If you are not happy, leave. He has no right to keep you in a relationship where you are not happy!

  • V March 27, 2019, 1:07 am

    I just want to know if a man doesn’t let you go this his phone he’s cheating??? I need opinions plz

    • Rose May 27, 2020, 11:55 pm

      If you get defensive most of the time maybe he’s afraid of you seen something you might not like. Possibly he’s hiding something and doesn’t know how to confront you . But each relationship is different !

  • Deka March 26, 2019, 1:05 am

    Most of the signs happened to me. And yeah, the relationship ended, a month ago. After break up, I did call him again on the 4th day. Once and that’s it. He was cold and all his words were hurtful. Never call him again. But yeah, the fight to overcome all these pain, anger, memories starts.. and still fighting, will keep fighting. I am strong.

  • Laura L Stoney March 23, 2019, 3:46 pm

    It’s hard to exept and very painful
    But I know in time if you tell yourself we had our good times and bad it’s a chapter you need to close in your life and tell yourself you are good enough for somebody else someday. Try not to feel like your not good enough just because you were not the one for him.

  • Nobody4 October 13, 2018, 3:30 am

    He gets annoyed with me easy, alot is true ,he seems more happy without me . We been happy a long time but dam…. I hope he still loves me . I love him to much to dump him. I want a long happy life with him baby’s and marriage a beautiful home , like we planned but life sucks huh its f*cked. I really hope the internet is just the god dang internet life is already screwed up enough for me right now my mom is dying I’m only 20.

    • Alisha August 9, 2022, 7:46 pm

      I’m so sorry for what you are going through and even more so with your mum. How did it end up panning out? Most importantly how is your mum? X

  • Carla September 26, 2018, 7:52 pm

    I dont understand how my man can do this to me and our 3 children.. I dont even know why I’m suprised I’ve endured 5 years of emotional and mental abuse just to be sitting here wondering why? Searching what I already know.. Devastated

  • August 18, 2018, 12:49 am

    my man doesnt call again and when i ask he tell me he had it in mind to call back or he is busy does he still love me? and he doesnt really care again

  • Botshelo July 30, 2018, 8:18 pm

    I met this guy last year October and when I met him he was still dating his baby mama,now he claims that they have broke up but he still has their pictures in his phone and whenever I borrow his phone he refuses. He doesn’t call me nor text me and this thing hurts me because I love him,he calls me whenever he needs me but when I need him the most he finds excuses,he doesn’t take efforts for our relationship and he doesn’t show that he loves me like I do.Please I don’t khow what to

    • Hellz bellz August 5, 2018, 7:01 am

      He sounds really shady. He shouldn’t have to hide anything, and you shouldn’t be the one putting in all the effort, it’s a two way street. From what you’ve written, It looks like he’s using you, and sees you as a convenience. I don’t think being in a relationship with a baby-daddy Is ever easy, but you deserve to be treated like a queen….Not like a side dish. You can’t force a man to share the same level of love you do. He should show you in some shape or form (without you having to ask). I think it’s sad he’s not there for you when you need. That’s the last straw
      Your worth more than that. I hope you find man that appreciates you like you deserve. Get the happiness and love you deserve.

  • Nameless July 15, 2018, 3:45 am

    hello there. 5 years ago I met one guy online who I catfished at the beginning(I am really sorry for that) I hid my privacy and cheated him, I used other girl’s photo and pretended not to be married, In fact I was married at that time. During years affection has increased. I felt strong affection towards him and kept cheating him drspite I felt very uncomfortable with my lies after some time, i tried many times to put an end this relationship and broke up with him and faded away buy then again got back coz couldnt resist my feelings( this is the strongest love i have ever felt in my life) then when i found out he had some feelings too i decided to tell the truth and get lost forever from his life. Despite he got the truth that i catfished him he didnt want me to leave. After that our feelings have developed more so i offered him to make our love work out but he rejected me and we broke up its been year, recently we contacted each other but our relationship is no longer the same , he has become distant and tries to avoid talking at deep level, though i found out he is dating someone else now but nothing serious. I know he has still some feelings for me , he always checks my posts photos and stalks me but no further actions from him, well there are some big reasons that backwards him and makes him lost interest in me, “different religion, different nationality, distant relationship, i am divorced woman with two kids.” These are enough reasons why i should forget him i kmow but i cany stop loving him, my life became like hell, what to do??? help please:(

  • Joe blogs July 11, 2018, 5:26 am

    I’ve been with my patner 2 and half years , I gave my home up to move in with him , we have fully refurbished his house it’s beautiful but very time we fall out he kicks me out I love him but I’m not sure he loves me , I keep asking if I can go on rent book and all I get is next year all the time , I’i just want to feel secure he never comes near me any more unless I make first move and I just feel used as I’m company for him, he don’t work but I work full time and love my job ,but it feels like it’s all me now pitting into this relationship, I’m not sure if I should cut my losses and walk awsy

    • Hellz bellz August 5, 2018, 6:53 am

      It sounds like he’s dependant on you, since your the bread maker and helped refurbish his home. You should move on, and find a man that knows your worth, and reminds you of that. You deserve better.
      I Hope in time you heal.

  • zamahlubi July 8, 2018, 10:55 am

    I met a guy i luved him for the first time he approach me ok we were cool like sister n brother he sudenly change putting her girl friend as he’s profile pic on whatsapp..i cried bt he doen’t show no interest on that wat really hurt me is he’s the 1who took my virginity now he’s pushing me away im really hurt the way i love him

  • Laura June 28, 2018, 9:28 am

    I was in my first serious relationship and the guy I liked and eventually fell in love with pursued me but after 7 months after Christmas things started to change and slowly he became unhappy but never told me anything. I tired to talk and see what would happen but nothing helped.
    He told me I deserve better and he he lost feelings for me I don’t know how .
    Any advice would be helpful

  • Ruth June 21, 2018, 6:44 am

    I’m a single woman of 55. I have been infatuated or in love with a married man for 28years. He has been attracted to me as well. He is 58.
    Recently about 8 months ago we mutually started a relationship.
    It was exciting for us both.
    He showered me with presents and beautiful love messages etc.
    Somehow about six weeks back he stopped abruptly and stopped visiting.
    My frustration is a day never passes with him texting me but mostly general topics
    It hurts but I can accept if he does not want me anymore.
    I need advice as to a way forward.
    Why doesn’t he leave me alone.
    He was the one who started the flirting and telling me how much he had always loved me.
    I turned him down when we first met because he was about to get married and his girlfriend was pregnant.

  • Lori June 16, 2018, 11:08 pm

    This man is not the man for you. He obviously doesn’t respect you or value you. You said he introduced to you another woman who is now taking your place. Only a matter of time before he does the same thing to her. Move on with your life. There is so much that life has to offer and we as women can’t allow a man to ruin all life has to give us. Go out and explore, meet new people, see the world with a different pair of glasses. You deserve better. I waited 8 years for my ex to change and he never did I’m glad I moved on with my life. I wish you the best, good luck!

  • Lori June 16, 2018, 10:56 pm

    Throw him out …it’s obviously not a healthy relationship. You are pregnant and he doesn’t even care and put any effort. Since the house is yours and car is yours it seems like he would be the biggest loser if the relationship was over. I know it hurts but move on with your life, do it for your baby. You deserve much better and who knows maybe the future holds a better man out there for you. Your child will not grow up happy to see two miserable parents. For now your biggest move should be to throw him out of your house and to have a healthy baby. I wish you the best!

  • Lee June 10, 2018, 12:06 pm

    My boyfriend and I have been together for over three years. I am over five months pregnant with his second child. I also feel used because he won’t leave. He told me this morning he didn’t want me anymore after I refused to give a BJ. He never touches me anyway! When I ask him to leave he always says he’s taking my boys then. Like they are the only reason he’s here. HE WILL NOT LEAVE! He drives my car and lives in my house. Won’t leave but says he was just mad when he said he didn’t want me anymore this’s impossible!

  • Layal June 5, 2018, 7:40 pm

    Its been one and half a year with him. I cry most of the time but it’s hard to let go. Idk why. When I cry he laughs at me. He makes fun of me. Like I am a joker. I ain’t a joker I just love him idk why.

  • Layal June 5, 2018, 7:34 pm

    Men are dogs

  • Brittany Wicker May 4, 2018, 12:47 am

    And he has also told me before he’s too good for me and he could throw a rock and find someone that respects him more than I do but he has also said it’s always about what he has said or done wrong and says he can’t do anything right. I don’t know. Up and down al the time and now he’ll just say to me do you want to fight? And then say he’s not arguing with me or he doesn’t care and it’s stupid

  • Brittany Wicker May 4, 2018, 12:41 am

    I don’t know what my husbands true intentions are anymore. We have not had a home together in a year and 4 months. He says things to me like, get over it, leave me alone, I’m not fighting with you, shut up with your conspiracy theories. We are supposedly going to get an apartment but who knows and there has been times he thought I left him and I got a lot of texts from him saying are you abandoning me now and things like what have I done to you I live you so so much. Please answer me. I don’t understand him anymore. He’s confusing and he has told me I’m obnoxious and a narcisist

  • jos April 19, 2018, 1:41 pm

    I have been there married for 18yrs.but all the years we never went out together or even shopping.we never talk about anything..the other year i was involved in an car was undrivable so was towed away..i called him he said hes busy in town..he never support or respect..the minute he oppenes his mouth is either we r arguing or he want sex from me..i devorced him

  • Me April 14, 2018, 10:38 am

    I have been with my guy for 7 years. And it has been awful for me the last week. He doesn’t text or call me ask how my day was and he did everyday. We have been living together the last 6 years. We had 2 kids together and I have 2 of my own so 4 all together. Last week he told me the feelings he has for me are not the same. When we have sex it isn’t the same for him as it is for me. He doesn’t know what to do about the relationship. And he comes home says hi to the kids and nothing to me. I’m lost heart broken it just hurts. I would have done anything for him. All I wanted was to be a family with him.

  • Nabilat April 4, 2018, 2:43 pm

    These are all true………..wish I can close my heart to all Men…….

  • Mika March 22, 2018, 5:24 pm

    I been dating a guy for a year now. We were supposed to get married in June of this year. Two months before he told me hes not ready he needs time to think. Now he has totally pull away from me. We don’t really talk on the phone anymore. We barely text as much. N when we do it takes him a while to reply back. Then when i try to leave, he finds a reason for me to stay. Thrn he will say sorry, he loves me n cant live without me. But his actions show differently. I feel so empty and lonely and even hurt inside. I can’t shake this hurt feeling off. All i want is him.

    • Priya April 13, 2018, 5:22 pm

      Leave him now or else you will regret why you did not before. These men are cowards and do not want to commit or clearly call it off. I was married to one for 15 yrs and have two kids with him. He left me finally when he got the one he had been hunting for behind my back for years…decade +. If he is not committed and loving to you now, he never will be. B strong and watch out for yourself ! These men are selfish and will leave you the moment they get what they were waiting for…You are a BACKUP plan. Do not be one !

    • Candice May 22, 2018, 12:21 am

      I know how you feel Mica. I’ve been with my boyfriend 3 years now and hes making me feel the same way you feel. I’m not even sure if he really loves me anymore.

    • Lori June 16, 2018, 11:01 pm

      Your greatest mistake would be to marry this man. Don’t be naive and run for the hills. There are plenty of fish in the sea. This man will make tour life hell in the long run if you choose to stay and wait to see if he is ready to commit or not.

  • Mandy W. March 15, 2018, 5:36 am

    IF the Man that you Love has been showing hardly any interest/ or NO interest whatsoever in you sexually for 3 – 4 years now and claims that it has absolutely “nothing” to do with the fact that your body changed a little after pregnancy … He might be lying and could also have a serious addiction to pornography.

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  • Mikaela Stewart February 12, 2018, 5:58 pm

    he says if i love him i would clean the room. or he gets mad at me when i cry

  • Thando January 21, 2018, 7:47 am

    Me to I am on the same he says he loves me but action speaks different and we have a baby daughter please help me I love him.

  • Olga January 15, 2018, 4:35 pm

    I love him. I want to be with him badly. But he don’t want me back. It hurts so much((( I really want to die. He said i’m not good enough for him.

    • Qwudasha February 17, 2018, 9:51 pm

      Never Feel Like you Want to Die Because Of A Guy I know it May not seem Like it but You will find Someone For you later in Life.

    • Priya April 13, 2018, 5:25 pm

      A man who says mean things to the woman he is supposed to love is not worth a penny ! B strong and care for someone who will reciprocate and love you back. I was there where you are and it’s a bad place of being. Distance yourself and you will feel a lot better over time… Not immediately but overtime

  • Priscilla Hye January 15, 2018, 3:51 pm

    I been with my boyfriend for almost 5yeras lately he been kinda distamce .today i followed him to room ask if i irritate him and he snap and said u always do this to me im just relaxing .i tell him i feel alone in tjis house like ur not even here and wanted to know if i did anuthing to keep u distance or if he losing entrance in me and i walked out room.10mins later he walks out in good mood like im up now .im confuse is it me or is he manipulating please

    • Priscilla Hye January 15, 2018, 3:54 pm

      And i forgot to say i always use to go places
      With him to wwatch the game we were like bonnie and clyed now its all bout him goin alone to his buddy that hoes around. .

  • Feli January 12, 2018, 3:34 am

    It really hurts to read this cause my man is not coming to see me anymore, and told me that if I went to his parents place they will chase me like a dog. It really hurts cause he doesn’t even want me to break up with him I don’t know what to do

    • Priya April 13, 2018, 5:46 pm

      My husband and his family abandoned me and our two little children. Please do not wait for him to break up with you….what else are you waiting for? My husband told me he did not want to be with me after living with me for 15 yrs . He did not divorce me, I did because these men are cowards. And do not even give the minimum dignity to say it’s over…. He has broken up with you by being mean to you and inhuman….when he said that his parents to will chase you like a dog…. You are a human being and he is not worth pursuing him. I know it will hurt but it’s better to be hurt now than like me be hurt after 15 yrs and two kids. Find a man who is kind, honest and respects women….else trust me you are better off alone

  • Denise January 9, 2018, 12:16 pm

    I have almost 90% off these actions towards me..ive been with this person for 5 yrs..time to truly ” rip off this bandaid” its gonna hurt..but ill be alright in time

  • may December 13, 2017, 8:09 am

    I was crying and he got MAD…..? I expressed my feeling and he says “you do this…”or “I hate it when you do this” I’m sad….why would he be mad while I’m crying in front of him?

    • Qwudasha February 17, 2018, 9:52 pm

      let him Go Trust me

  • Fancy November 6, 2017, 5:04 am

    Every comment on here it’s true….I recently went through a really bad break up and he just admitted he is dating another woman. signs were there but I ignored it because I love him…..
    Worst pain….thanks guys!

  • Pranita October 19, 2017, 11:52 am

    I don’t want to live :'(

    • Leelee January 13, 2018, 8:58 am

      Yes, you do want to live. I understand the feeling, however pull yourself together and work on healing. Do things you enjoy doing and keep busy. It takes time, but you will be ok.

      • Qwudasha February 17, 2018, 9:53 pm

        You Do Want to Live Sometimes Life gets so Hard that you Want to give up But you Don’t give up you keep going you push through everything will be better in time I promise

  • jennifer September 28, 2017, 5:41 pm

    when he stops caring about how you are, how your days was, and all those little things…he might not want/love you anymore.

  • sienna September 27, 2017, 2:15 pm

    when there’s no more sexy time and not even flirting, he might not be interested anymore. he might even be getting them from another woman, better be aware of his actions.

  • lucia September 7, 2017, 5:31 pm

    when he stops texting you, there must be a reason. but if does that on purpose, he might not want you anymore.

  • perla September 6, 2017, 5:14 pm

    you know he might not love you anymore when you feel like he isn’t as open anymore, or worse if he’s really closed off from you.

  • corey August 23, 2017, 6:49 pm

    if he seems to be so annoyed by everything you do, or even just your presence… he might not really be interested anymore

    • Qwudasha February 17, 2018, 9:53 pm

      I. Feel like this at Times it’s the worst

  • alisha August 20, 2017, 7:58 pm

    one thing i realized is that men can be as honest as can be when it comes to this matter. if he tells you he’s dating someone else, chances are he’s telling the truth

  • aurelia August 16, 2017, 4:09 pm

    i’ve been in this situation before. he’ll start to show very subtle signs that will escalate day by day without reason at all. my ex started showing anger and indifference and it took me a while to recognize them. this post is really good to share so we’ll all be aware before things get worse.

  • ingrid August 15, 2017, 7:13 am

    very sad but all of these are accurate and proven to be true

  • shiloh August 7, 2017, 1:23 am

    when a guy suddenly gets annoyed easily and gets all cranky with almost everything you do, it’s a sure sign he may be losing interest or even his love for you.

  • arianna August 2, 2017, 1:20 pm

    he may not love you anymore when he stops texting/calling you and he seems to not care at all anymore.

  • melanie July 30, 2017, 11:21 pm

    all of these are true, i’ve seen them all from my ex boyfriend.

  • margaret July 23, 2017, 11:58 pm

    he’ll start to be getting irritated so easily even when you didn’t do anything wrong.

  • sadie July 18, 2017, 10:52 pm

    when he doesn’t even seem to get concerned when you’re hurting, that might be it.

  • sawyer July 17, 2017, 11:55 pm

    these are all accurate. ill send this to my friends,

  • veronica July 16, 2017, 4:26 pm

    a man asking for some space does not necessarily mean he doesn’t love you. this may mean you need to talk to him and ask properly before concluding on negative things.

  • rachelle July 10, 2017, 7:23 pm

    he doesn’t want to be with you if he doesn’t care about how you feel at all

  • caroline July 9, 2017, 1:33 pm

    if a guy doesn’t love you anymore, he would stop making an effort and make sure you see and feel it.

  • amanda July 4, 2017, 4:41 pm

    i agree. if a man loves you, he won’t be able to do any of these to you.

  • pilar June 29, 2017, 1:27 pm

    if he doesn’t care nor even bother taking care of you, he must really be out of love for you.

  • avery June 28, 2017, 11:46 pm

    these are all true. too sad but definitely accurate

  • analy June 27, 2017, 10:28 am

    i appreciate what you said here. thank you.

  • florence June 25, 2017, 3:30 pm

    when you know he isn’t busy at all but he doesn’t text you back anymore, this might mean he doesn’t want you anymore.

  • julia June 22, 2017, 2:38 pm

    he’d close off himself on you and won’t want to spend time with you anymore

  • karen June 20, 2017, 3:24 pm

    when everything you do seems to annoy him, he might not love you anymore

  • amella June 19, 2017, 11:22 am

    ouch! this is just as painful reading through

  • farrah June 15, 2017, 1:53 pm

    ohmygosh..i would die!! =(

  • iris June 14, 2017, 4:27 pm

    the worst part is when he intentionally tries to hurt your feelings just so you’ll also want out.

    • Priya April 13, 2018, 5:51 pm

      I have been there… Leave with your dignity impact bcoz we do not deserve to be with someone who does not love us. Let us love ourselves first to care for our own well being.

  • sloane June 12, 2017, 11:38 pm

    when he stops texting and has gone cold..that’s it.

  • kara June 11, 2017, 11:48 pm

    he seems to be very annoyed by your presence and whatever you do aggravates the situation

  • pia June 7, 2017, 10:53 pm

    this is so sad..but women need to know these signs

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