One of the biggest dating mistakes that I constantly see people falling into has me amazed.
No, not because it’s not an easy mistake to make (it is), but because the cure for that mistake is so widely well known and accepted!
The mistake I’m talking about is the common “identity trap”, where you feel that you have to play a certain role or define yourself a certain way to attract the person you really want to date.
And the cure for that trap is one of the most commonly repeated suggestions in dating – just be yourself!
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That’s why I think so many people fall into this trap – because they’re tired of hearing “be yourself” and they’ve given up on thinking it’s good advice.
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But think about things for a second, do you really think that being someone you’re not will attract the right person to you?
If you’re honest with yourself, do you think that trying to be someone you’re not will catch up to you?
The truth is – if you want to attract the person who’s truly right for you into your life, you have to be true to yourself and honest about who you really are.
If you’re trying to be someone you’re not for someone else, eventually the chickens always come home to roost. For instance, let’s say you’re pretending to like sports because you want to be with someone who’s a huge sports fan.
Well, let’s say it works and you start dating them. Will you be happy when 5 years down the line they’re watching sports every day, and you’re getting more and more fed up with it?
Or will they be happy with you when you begin to resent them for watching sports so much?
Of course not!
It’s because that person is a bad match for you – and by pretending to be someone you’re not to attract them you’re really hurting both of you.
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