There is something about getting a text before you go to sleep at night that can put a smile on your face and make you feel warm, happy and perfect inside.
I personally love getting good goodnight texts.
There. I said it. It’s all out in the open now.
But at the same time, as much as I love getting them, I also love sending them.
That’s because when I have someone special in my heart, I like to let him know I’m thinking about him (and get him thinking about me) right before I go to bed.
What do you say in a goodnight text? How do you say goodnight to your boyfriend? What does it mean when a guy says goodnight to you? This article provides the answers to those questions. And will give you exact scripts to melt his heart.
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Now, I’m not going to lie to you – my good night text game is on point . I’ve had a lot of practice. And when it comes to the real do’s and don’ts of texting – I know what I’m talking about.
Boyfriend, lover, or crush, I’m going to let you in on my treasure trove of tested and true goodnight texts for him. I’ve split them up into 2 sections, so you know which to send to a guy you’re in a relationship with, or a guy you’re HOPING to be in a relationship with.
(And if he doesn’t text back, here’s why).
Plus, I’ll throw in some of my favorites that work well for either situation.
Before we start: some of these are going to be super candy-sweet, some are going to be romantic, some sarcastic, and some coy. There’s a good mix in here, so you can pick the good night message that fits you like a glove and send it to the man you’re thinking of
And if you’re in a long distance relationship? These also help keep you close to each other.
You ready? It’s time to draft that sweet goodnight message for him.
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Perfect Goodnight Texts For Couples
You’re already in a relationship with him – maybe you even see a long term future with him – and you want to send him the perfect goodnight message before the two of you drift off into blissful sleep (2).
Whether you want to be bold, fun, loving, or just straight-up cute, these are the perfect goodnight messages for him. They’ll remind him how you feel about him and leave him feeling loved as he falls asleep (and inspire him to send you a similar text so you can feel amazing too). How do you say cute goodnight text? You do it in a way that feels comfortable to you. Send the text that you feel good about; don’t text something that you don’t feel comfortable sending since this vibe comes off in your text.
Here are the cute goodnight quotes:
Amazing Romantic Goodnight Texts
Perfect Goodnight Texts For Soon To Be Couples
Now let’s say you know exactly who you want to fall asleep curled up against, but you’re not quite officially a couple yet. If you’re in the courting stage, then these are some tried & true ways to say goodnight.
It doesn’t matter if he’s a friend, coworker, classmate, or just a randomly dreamy guy you’ve met – these texts will be sure to melt his heart (3).
Now, listen — I know that at first glance some of these texts will going to seem a little forward or bold… but sometimes being a little forward and bold is exactly what you need to seize an opportunity in your love life.
Know that a few of these are only going to work if you’ve spent at least some time with him, so think honestly about what your relationship with him is like before choosing.
Whether you’re looking for goodnight texts for a boyfriend, lover, fling, or crush — these will work. Let the subtlety of these texts do all the work for you, and get him thinking about the fact that you’re thinking about him. Not only that, but also thinking about what being in a relationship with you would be like.
- I’m going to have dreams about you tonight…
- Are you going to think about me before you fall asleep tonight? I hope so…
- Spending today with you was absolutely perfect.
- I wish you were here next to me as I fall asleep, and when I wake up in the morning…
- Missing you as I drift off to sleep…
- Will I be in your dreams? What will we be doing together, I wonder…
- It’s cold here, I wish we could be together to warm up…
- I hope I’ll be in your dreams tonight ;)
super secret 3rd section: Texts That Work For Couples and Couples To Be
Boom. That’s right. There’s a secret 3rd section here.
You can use these texts whether you’re dating him or not – they work either way.
You’re the first thing on my mind when I wake up and the last thing when I fall asleep.
- I can’t sleep… can you? If you can’t, let’s can’t sleep together.
- Your handsome face is in my head before I fall asleep… again…
- I wish this pillow I’m curled up against was you…
- I can keep myself busy during the day… but at night I can’t stop thinking of you…
- I want to fall asleep faster so that we can be together sooner.
And if you’re not quite in a relationship, are crushing, or are married, we’ve whipped up some less serious goodnight texts to send him for every relationship status.
5 Flirty but Sweet Goodnight Texts to Send Him
- You better be dreaming of me tonight, because I’ll definitely be dreaming of you ;)
- I’m half asleep, but I just wanted to say hey & that you mean a lot to me. That’s all. Night!
- Just wanted to let you know that I’m thinking of you looking at the stars. Sweet dreams my love.
- I just noticed that my bed is a lot more comfortable with you in it.
- Really wishing that this pillow was your chest to rest my head on. Goodnight babe
10 Sexy Goodnight Texts to Send Him
- I wish you were here with now [accompanied by a selfie of you in bed]
- I’ve gotten really used to your snoring — it’s going to be hard to fall asleep tonight.
- Imagining what would be happening if you were here right now. Spoiler alert: neither of us would be sleeping. Goodnight!
- Did I ever tell you that I sleep naked? Too bad you’re not here! Sweet dreams :)
- Just wanted to let you know that you’re my favorite dirty thought … night night!
- Wrapping my body around this pillow really just isn’t doing it for me. It’s missing the best part.
- Can’t sleep for some reason. I have all this energy & no one to do with it. I mean … nothing to do with it.
- It’s a shame you’re not here right now … I should stop thinking about it or else I’ll never fall asleep.
- Wish I could give you a goodnight kiss right now…not on the lips :)
- Go to bed and dream about all the naughty things you’re going to do to me when we see each other next.
5 Funny Goodnight Texts for Him
- Goodnight, don’t let the bed bugs bite. But really, I think I saw one at your house earlier.
- I hope your dreams are filled with visits from the prettiest & loveliest angels. But don’t make it a habit because I’m not free every night.
- Even if the size of your bad isn’t as big as you, don’t stop yourself from dreaming king size. Sweet dreams.
- Goodnight babe — you better be dreaming of me.
- I was about to fall asleep, but then I remembered how much I love you. Thanks for ruining a good night of rest.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do guys like goodnight texts?
Long story short: yes! There’s nothing a guy loves more than feeling like his girl is thinking of him before going to bed. It’s sexy, gives security, and is a nice way of separate togetherness.
Cute goodnight quotes for him?
Choose a quote you think would resonate with him.
Flirty goodnight texts?
A flirty text can range from you saying anything with innuendo. You don’t have to be over the top. Say what you’re comfortable with.
What are some cute ways to say goodnight over text to your boyfriend?
Text him out of the blue to say you miss him. It’ll surprise him and keep him happy knowing you’re thinking about him. Be honest and shower your man with the love and adoration you feel! Remind him that you love him and how much he means to you. Be sure to be his number one cheerleader to make him feel like a champion to take on the next day. That being said, it’s important to keep the spice alive in any relationship, so a sexy goodnight texts could be good once in a while.
Funny goodnight texts for him?
Send him something that you guys did together. A positive memory or experience.
What are some cute ways to say goodnight over text to your crush?
Be sure to avoid use of the world “love” or anything too serious or romantic. Stay sweet, cute, mysterious and flirty. Depending on the guy and depending on the level of intimacy, you could opt for something from one of our sexy texts, sweet texts, flirty or funny texts.