24 Amazing Goodnight Texts (And How They Work To Melt His Heart)

70+ Amazing Goodnight Texts (And How They Work To Melt His Heart)

There is something about getting a text before you go to sleep at night that can put a smile on your face and make you feel warm, happy and perfect inside.

I personally love getting good goodnight texts.

There. I said it. It’s all out in the open now.

But at the same time, as much as I love getting them, I also love sending them.

That’s because when I have someone special in my heart, I like to let him know I’m thinking about him (and get him thinking about me) right before I go to bed.

What do you say in a goodnight text? How do you say goodnight to your boyfriend? What does it mean when a guy says goodnight to you? This article provides the answers to those questions. And will give you exact scripts to melt his heart.

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Now, I’m not going to lie to you – my good night text game is on point . I’ve had a lot of practice. And when it comes to the real do’s and don’ts of texting – I know what I’m talking about.

Boyfriend, lover, or crush, I’m going to let you in on my treasure trove of tested and true goodnight texts for him. I’ve split them up into 2 sections, so you know which to send to a guy you’re in a relationship with, or a guy you’re HOPING to be in a relationship with.

(And if he doesn’t text back, here’s why).

Plus, I’ll throw in some of my favorites that work well for either situation.

Before we start: some of these are going to be super candy-sweet, some are going to be romantic, some sarcastic, and some coy. There’s a good mix in here, so you can pick the good night message that fits you like a glove and send it to the man you’re thinking of

And if you’re in a long distance relationship? These also help keep you close to each other.

You ready? It’s time to draft that sweet goodnight message for him.

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Perfect Goodnight Texts For Couples

You’re already in a relationship with him – maybe you even see a long term future with him – and you want to send him the perfect goodnight message before the two of you drift off into blissful sleep (2).

Whether you want to be bold, fun, loving, or just straight-up cute, these are the perfect goodnight messages for him. They’ll remind him how you feel about him and leave him feeling loved as he falls asleep (and inspire him to send you a similar text so you can feel amazing too). How do you say cute goodnight text? You do it in a way that feels comfortable to you. Send the text that you feel good about; don’t text something that you don’t feel comfortable sending since this vibe comes off in your text.

Here are the cute goodnight quotes:

Amazing Romantic Goodnight Texts

  • I couldn’t fall asleep unless I told you how much I miss you – love you and goodnight!
  • You are the sweetest thing, and I love you.
  • Today has been a non-stop, hectic, crazy day, and I wish I had gotten time to see you… so I’m thinking about you before I fall asleep. Goodnight, sleep tight!
  • I’ve got you and only you in my heart <3 sweet dreams...
  • I wish we didn’t have to sleep apart, so I’ll be seeing you in my dreams my love…
  • Every day you give me more reasons to fall in love with you – I’m thinking of ways to make you fall more and more in love with me as I fall asleep, dreaming of you…
  • I don’t know what I’d do without you – you mean everything to me.
  • I tried counting the reasons I love you – but there were too many and now I’m falling asleep thinking of you.
  • Goodnight, man of my dreams, I’ll see you there…
  • I love, love, love you.
  • I’m going to have dreams about you tonight…
  • Are you going to think about me before you fall asleep tonight? I hope so…
  • Spending today with you was absolutely perfect.
  • I wish you were here next to me as I fall asleep, and when I wake up in the morning…
  • Missing you as I drift off to sleep…
  • Will I be in your dreams? What will we be doing together, I wonder…
  • It’s cold here, I wish we could be together to warm up…
  • I hope I’ll be in your dreams tonight ;)
  • Can’t sleep? Me neither. Let’s not sleep together?
  • Dream big, handsome. Sleep tight and dream big.
  • It’s a full moon tonight, but even that isn’t as big or bright as my love for you.
  • Only thing I hate about falling asleep is that it’s time I don’t get to spend with you!
  • I just wanted to say sweet dreams. I’ll be thinking of you <3
  • Wish I could fall asleep in your arms
  • Hope you dream some beautiful dreams tonight
  • Goodnight gorgeous
  • Take a look at the moon outside. It’s beautiful. Wish I could be looking at it with you
  • It’s hard to fall asleep because I can’t stop thinking about you :)
  • Had a really nice time tonight. Can’t wait to see you again
  • What do you think you’ll dream of tonight?
  • I bet you’re beautiful when you sleep
  • Listening to this song closing my eyes & it’s making me think of you
  • I’m about to pass out, but just wanted to say I love you.
  • I already miss you
  • I miss you more and more every night
  • Sweet dreams angel
  • Hey. Love you. That’s all
  • Perfect Goodnight Texts For Soon To Be Couples

    Now let’s say you know exactly who you want to fall asleep curled up against, but you’re not quite officially a couple yet. If you’re in the courting stage, then these are some tried & true ways to say goodnight.

    It doesn’t matter if he’s a friend, coworker, classmate, or just a randomly dreamy guy you’ve met – these texts will be sure to melt his heart (3).

    Now, listen — I know that at first glance some of these texts will going to seem a little forward or bold… but sometimes being a little forward and bold is exactly what you need to seize an opportunity in your love life.

    Know that a few of these are only going to work if you’ve spent at least some time with him, so think honestly about what your relationship with him is like before choosing.

    Whether you’re looking for goodnight texts for a boyfriend, lover, fling, or crush — these will work. Let the subtlety of these texts do all the work for you, and get him thinking about the fact that you’re thinking about him. Not only that, but also thinking about what being in a relationship with you would be like.

    • I’m going to have dreams about you tonight…
    • Are you going to think about me before you fall asleep tonight? I hope so…
    • Spending today with you was absolutely perfect.
    • I wish you were here next to me as I fall asleep, and when I wake up in the morning…
    • Missing you as I drift off to sleep…
    • Will I be in your dreams? What will we be doing together, I wonder…
    • It’s cold here, I wish we could be together to warm up…
    • I hope I’ll be in your dreams tonight ;)

    super secret 3rd section: Texts That Work For Couples and Couples To Be

    Boom. That’s right. There’s a secret 3rd section here.

    You can use these texts whether you’re dating him or not – they work either way.

    • You’re the first thing on my mind when I wake up and the last thing when I fall asleep.

    • I can’t sleep… can you? If you can’t, let’s can’t sleep together.
    • Your handsome face is in my head before I fall asleep… again…
    • I wish this pillow I’m curled up against was you…
    • I can keep myself busy during the day… but at night I can’t stop thinking of you…
    • I want to fall asleep faster so that we can be together sooner.

    And if you’re not quite in a relationship, are crushing, or are married, we’ve whipped up some less serious goodnight texts to send him for every relationship status.

    5 Flirty but Sweet Goodnight Texts to Send Him

    • You better be dreaming of me tonight, because I’ll definitely be dreaming of you ;)
    • I’m half asleep, but I just wanted to say hey & that you mean a lot to me. That’s all. Night!
    • Just wanted to let you know that I’m thinking of you looking at the stars. Sweet dreams my love.
    • I just noticed that my bed is a lot more comfortable with you in it.
    • Really wishing that this pillow was your chest to rest my head on. Goodnight babe

    10 Sexy Goodnight Texts to Send Him

    • I wish you were here with now [accompanied by a selfie of you in bed]
    • I’ve gotten really used to your snoring — it’s going to be hard to fall asleep tonight.
    • Imagining what would be happening if you were here right now. Spoiler alert: neither of us would be sleeping. Goodnight!
    • Did I ever tell you that I sleep naked? Too bad you’re not here! Sweet dreams :)
    • Just wanted to let you know that you’re my favorite dirty thought … night night!
    • Wrapping my body around this pillow really just isn’t doing it for me. It’s missing the best part.
    • Can’t sleep for some reason. I have all this energy & no one to do with it. I mean … nothing to do with it.
    • It’s a shame you’re not here right now … I should stop thinking about it or else I’ll never fall asleep.
    • Wish I could give you a goodnight kiss right now…not on the lips :)
    • Go to bed and dream about all the naughty things you’re going to do to me when we see each other next.

    5 Funny Goodnight Texts for Him

    • Goodnight, don’t let the bed bugs bite. But really, I think I saw one at your house earlier.
    • I hope your dreams are filled with visits from the prettiest & loveliest angels. But don’t make it a habit because I’m not free every night.
    • Even if the size of your bad isn’t as big as you, don’t stop yourself from dreaming king size. Sweet dreams.
    • Goodnight babe — you better be dreaming of me.
    • I was about to fall asleep, but then I remembered how much I love you. Thanks for ruining a good night of rest.

    Frequently Asked Questions

    Do guys like goodnight texts?

    Long story short: yes! There’s nothing a guy loves more than feeling like his girl is thinking of him before going to bed. It’s sexy, gives security, and is a nice way of separate togetherness.

    Cute goodnight quotes for him?

    Choose a quote you think would resonate with him.

    Flirty goodnight texts?

    A flirty text can range from you saying anything with innuendo. You don’t have to be over the top. Say what you’re comfortable with.

    What are some cute ways to say goodnight over text to your boyfriend?

    Text him out of the blue to say you miss him. It’ll surprise him and keep him happy knowing you’re thinking about him. Be honest and shower your man with the love and adoration you feel! Remind him that you love him and how much he means to you. Be sure to be his number one cheerleader to make him feel like a champion to take on the next day. That being said, it’s important to keep the spice alive in any relationship, so a sexy goodnight texts could be good once in a while.

    Funny goodnight texts for him?

    Send him something that you guys did together. A positive memory or experience.

    What are some cute ways to say goodnight over text to your crush?

    Be sure to avoid use of the world “love” or anything too serious or romantic. Stay sweet, cute, mysterious and flirty. Depending on the guy and depending on the level of intimacy, you could opt for something from one of our sexy texts, sweet texts, flirty or funny texts.

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    87 comments… add one
    • Carolvan August 16, 2020, 9:36 am

      Worked so well to my Tiger

    • Carolvan August 16, 2020, 9:34 am

      Great,,tried some and worked for my mr.babietiger

    • Lauren May 27, 2020, 5:32 pm

      I love receiving morning text and night massages but I haven’t find him yet

    • Petra Botha August 27, 2019, 2:50 pm


    • Angeljoan July 3, 2019, 5:09 pm

      This is so cute…. Lovely n tasty

    • mark June 18, 2019, 6:42 am

      Sending your girlfriend romantic good night messages is like a traditional ritual.

    • Judy May 27, 2019, 9:55 pm

      So sweet.

    • Abegunde Foluke April 30, 2019, 5:04 am

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      • joyce October 27, 2019, 6:03 pm

        So swt

    • stevv April 18, 2019, 4:43 pm

      my heart would melt every night if i had a gal who sends me such cute gudnyt texts.

    • Alicia December 4, 2018, 7:01 pm

      Nice text..I like the way you compose them

      • Ola January 11, 2019, 8:26 pm

        Yeah nice text!! Would love to send some to you and see how your pretty reaction goes…….. #Smiles

    • Darey December 3, 2018, 6:52 pm

      Where are you from?

    • michael November 10, 2018, 3:41 pm


    • Uganda November 1, 2018, 9:28 pm

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      • Angela January 3, 2020, 2:50 pm

        Here i am

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      How can we make it 2 find true love

    • Ken kugonza October 22, 2018, 1:31 pm

      It takes time to find true love .how can we make it

    • yvette August 6, 2018, 1:55 pm

      i like it

    • Hillman August 5, 2018, 7:18 pm


    • veronika July 23, 2018, 6:19 pm

      Very nice and romantic texts, I’m going to have steal this texts

    • sandra wamboye July 17, 2018, 4:51 pm

      I personally once tried it..actually its working..i find love been crazy.my boy was like daah!…i love texting him the cute goodnight texts..thats why he loves me very much.

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    • EMEM DANIEL June 19, 2018, 6:14 am

      Am In Love With Text Because, It Weeken The Heart Of My Future Wife.

    • matheus June 3, 2018, 6:15 pm


    • chimasga May 14, 2018, 7:13 pm

      Yea!. U just have to free your self of desperation . Just be happy making friends with those that approach you for friendship. Out of your friends you will see the right one. The problem could be you been selective, don’t get me wrong I didn’t say you shouldn’t choose your friends. But always be careful Wen doing that.

    • babs May 4, 2018, 5:15 pm

      Yes.. . Some thing must attract a person to another

    • Teddy bear April 7, 2018, 9:35 am

      Sane here bekee

    • Jae March 22, 2018, 11:39 pm

      With all due respect. *you’re*, I apologize, it was just bugging me.
      Jae Roux

    • Lizzie February 25, 2018, 9:12 pm

      I have an amazing good night paragraph to send your boyfriend

      Good night baby boy❤️❤️ I love you so much I can’t explain the live I have for u you always brighten my day % more when u text me in the morning how am I so luck you in my life I hope you have the best night ever sweet dreams baby boy and dream about me because I know I will be dreaming about your cute face❤️❤️ sending you good night kisses and hugs I hope u get them can I have a paragraph in the morning to wake up to❤️ see u in the morning my cute boyfriend❤️

      • Alicia December 4, 2018, 7:03 pm

        You ever read what you write ?

    • BooBear December 5, 2017, 12:05 am

      Huh and what brought you to this site…?

    • Tahite Luxman August 21, 2017, 3:55 pm

      perfect text! it works…

    • kamal June 13, 2017, 6:43 pm

      every day went I send her a lovely message she called me and said I love you and good night my future husband

    • DE JUDGE May 16, 2017, 10:12 am

      Nice and romantic! It makes relationship stronger.

    • Anne-maria May 10, 2017, 2:57 pm

      I love these messages. They’re mind blowing.

    • Adotton May 8, 2017, 4:16 pm


    • yolanda April 20, 2017, 5:34 am

      I’ll learn to text to my friend guy good lllnmnight text I want fell and think me

    • Adeodatus April 4, 2017, 7:02 pm

      is working like magic

    • Amara January 28, 2017, 1:00 pm

      Awesome text!i wish to steal some to keep on my phone for future use

    • karun mishra December 20, 2016, 3:12 pm


    • Steven November 29, 2016, 5:29 pm

      really amazing site

    • mpho November 11, 2016, 1:43 pm

      I sleep tight every time when I spoke to my boyfriend before I sleep

      • nonhlanhla January 16, 2017, 3:38 pm


    • Martin November 4, 2016, 3:28 pm

      nice goodnight texts. thenx

    • Nosipho October 22, 2016, 5:11 pm

      Nice text guys…its really working

    • Nosipho October 22, 2016, 5:10 pm

      Nice text guys…its reaally working

    • Michael July 5, 2016, 10:34 am

      I like to receive such sweetie texts before I fall asleep they’re good and makes stay in touch with ur other half

    • Sonam raj July 5, 2016, 3:31 am

      I like text and share my love

    • Moses Samuel June 25, 2016, 5:03 pm

      I normally send her a text message because I knew she love it, and she always wait for my text before sleeping

    • Eurich Selana June 18, 2016, 4:34 am

      Wooow!!! This really worked, finally l got him to reply my text
      Bravo for this piece

    • Person who knows May 19, 2016, 12:59 am

      Trust me that person wants a goodnight text from you too

    • Sharrone See March 29, 2016, 2:01 pm

      I text me bf “hug your bolster and kiss on it….and think of me…nitezzzz “

      • Sharrone See March 29, 2016, 2:04 pm

        his response is “I will” how sweet….

    • Brebda March 8, 2016, 1:48 pm

      I would like to be sent more coute so that i can impress by boyfriend

    • christy March 6, 2016, 5:39 pm

      this is nice.

    • nyiko January 25, 2016, 2:15 pm

      These are the best text reminds me of the poem points

    • Susan Turner October 30, 2015, 3:10 pm

      If you are lucky enough to get the attention of a man up until the end of your day, you might have a keeper!

    • Alison Griggs October 29, 2015, 9:29 am

      Love, Love, Love, the texts! These types of things make me happy, whether I am sending them or getting them right before bed.

    • Eusebio Austin October 24, 2015, 9:10 am

      I prefer to see a text from my partner before bed. I always feel like if I send a text I am just bothering them and I do not want to do that.

      • Brenda Nelson October 29, 2015, 9:38 am

        Yes, I always try to end the day with a short conversation that includes things like this. I am hoping that you get these texts for a long time!

    • Anna Magana October 23, 2015, 10:58 am

      A good night text is something that I have been doing for years. Even if I do not get any reply, it is the thought that counts to me.

    • Kim White October 22, 2015, 2:39 pm

      These are cute goodnight text messages! I would love to have a guy that I could shower with texts like this :/

    • Joyce Mitchell October 21, 2015, 11:12 pm

      I tend to not even contact the men that I am with. It brings us closer and I think there is a little bit of a tease there as well!

    • Dina Haywood October 21, 2015, 10:46 pm

      getting to sleep faster was one thing that i always did so i could wake up “sooner” and see the love of my life that much quicker!

    • John Spears October 20, 2015, 2:18 pm

      I find that I am somewhat of a romantic when it comes to things like this and would fully appreciate a text or two at the end of a long day. Great list!

    • Katie Bowlin October 16, 2015, 9:14 am

      I always try to end the good day with a great text that keeps my man thinking about me. If I have to send a photo along with it, I certainly do that as well :)

    • Margaret Rodriquez October 15, 2015, 7:59 am

      I am totally stealing this list! Would you say that these are texts that you send someone that you are in a serious relationship with, or are they good enough to send to someone that you are just “dating”?

    • Justin Davis October 15, 2015, 12:27 am

      I know there are not many guys that comment here, but that does not mean they do not read the posts. This is a great list of texts to end the night with and I must say that as a guy, I would be lucky to get these at the end of a long day!

      • Lisa September 5, 2019, 9:51 pm

        I’m single (divorced), met a guy but I don’t think he is interested….he is busy always or doesn’t feel good, never calls, text in Blue moon. I enjoyed going out the couple of times . I usually say good morning and good night. I like this site it has some fun ideas to express to that special person good morning or good night in a fun way!!❤️

    • Nellie Howard October 13, 2015, 9:22 pm

      I usually a save a text or two at the end of the night to tease him :) That makes me feel good that he is definitely thinking about me before bed!

      • Natalie Cano October 22, 2015, 2:49 pm

        Who doesn’t like a cute little good night text every now and again?

        • Doris Bradshaw October 30, 2015, 3:19 pm

          I am cool with that :)

    • Abbie Smith October 12, 2015, 2:55 pm

      Great points! I have sent a few goodnight texts, but usually they are not answered. Should I be worried about that?

      • Carmen Trim October 16, 2015, 9:25 am

        Well, if you have been doing this for a few nights and there is never a response, that could be concerning.

    • Brittany Preston October 12, 2015, 2:45 pm

      Awesome ways to end your day. Especially if you were not able to see the love of your life!

      • Mildred Sholes October 15, 2015, 12:38 am

        I agree. These texts would be very welcoming after a long, hard work day. Great week coming up!

      • Jimmie Pena October 20, 2015, 2:40 pm

        Good point. Since most of the communication these days is through smartphones, this is at least something that you can hold onto through the nights you are alone.

    • Luz Blevins October 10, 2015, 6:43 am

      Great list! I am going to have to steal these from you and keep them on my phone for later use :)

      • Helen Pruneda October 24, 2015, 9:22 am

        LOL, I know I stole a few of these already. They work like magic!

    • Loretta Thomas October 10, 2015, 6:32 am

      Very nice and romantic are all of these messages. Any guy would be lucky have a lady that thinks about him like this at the end of the day.

      • Cathryn Wei October 23, 2015, 10:46 am

        I think so as well. Most guys are jerks and might not even appreciate something like this. I would love to have it the other way around.

    • Norma Lockett October 9, 2015, 2:04 pm

      We always say goodnight to each other and I try to come up with clever things to say, but nothing like these. Thanks for posting!

      • Nicole Elliott October 13, 2015, 9:33 pm

        I like using some of these. It catches my b/f off guard and they DO work!

    • Marisol Sica October 9, 2015, 1:51 pm

      Awesome texts! This is a great list to copy and save for later :)

      • Alexandria Moreno October 15, 2015, 8:10 am

        I thought the same thing! These are great for when you have a blank mind on what to text next.

        • Christine November 6, 2018, 12:09 am

          Tsssk,praying for the man of my life to come soon so that I cant text him like this

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