Ever wonder why radio silence jolts men into taking action? Or why sometimes giving a guy the “cold shoulder” suddenly inspires him to do something?
Today we’re going to tackle the answer to “Does silence make a man miss you?”
I’m going to reveal the “silence trick” that makes it the most likely you will get a guy to miss you, whether it’s your ex, your boyfriend who seems to be pulling away in your relationship or a guy you just met and really like.
I’m so excited to share this with you because this trick will walk you through how to make him miss you. When you don’t know this trick, you could end up making things so much worse if a guy is pulling away.
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If you’ve ever tried to get an ex back, you know how frustrating and confusing it can be trying to make all the right moves. Not knowing what works can end up sabotaging your shot at getting your ex back for good. And if you just met this guy, knowing this trick can help your relationship run much more smoothly!
We’re going to cover how silence works to make him miss you after a break up, he’s simply pulling away, or a new guy suddenly seems to lose interest. Even if you’re not facing one of these scenarios right now, simply knowing this powerful silence trick will give you insight into your man’s mind and give you the clarity to know what to do in any of these situations.
You’ll understand the power of silence especially after break up. What works is not just the silence but what you DO during this silent period.
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The Power Of Silence
“Will he miss me if I don’t contact him?”, “Should I leave him alone to get him back?”.
The simple answer is generally “yes”. However, what matters more is what you are doing in the meantime. There’s one very important thing that applies whether it’s no contact (to get your ex back) or general silence within your relationship where you’re giving him space.
Work on yourself in the meantime. Fill your life with things you enjoy and spend time on yourself and your interests. Whether that’s hitting the gym or being active, reading, building something, visiting friends, learning a new skill.
When you’re focused on your own life, it kills your need to sit and pick apart every little interaction and obsess over things. You’re too busy living your own life to worry.
The reason no contact works is that it forces him to miss you because you’re not around and he realizes your absence from his life. It makes him realize he wants and needs you.
It also gives you a chance to detox and eliminate any inner negativity about the relationship that would make it harder to get back with your ex. Reuniting with an ex is not going to be a fun and smooth event if you’re still harboring anxiety, worry, and negative feelings towards him or the relationship.
What To Do If A Guy Pulls Away
This also works when a guy simply pulls away, drops his attention, or otherwise isn’t putting in the same time and effort any more.
The key is to give him space and don’t contact him. Think about it, he can’t begin to miss you or realize the hole you leave in his life if you’re always around. When you’re gone for a chunk of time, it gives him space to realize he does truly miss you and could potentially lose you.
“Will he come back if I leave him alone?” Yes. Giving him space is not only good but it’s perfectly natural. It helps the relationship flow by providing you both with opportunity to be alone and focus on your own life. It makes you stronger in the end.
Giving him space is the “pull back” technique I mentioned in the beginning. This is the process of pulling your attention and contact back so that he notices your absence and can decide to do something about it.
The answer to “When does a man start to miss you?” is when you give him space. Until then, he doesn’t know how much he wants or needs you in his life. “Absence makes the heart grow fonder” as they say.” Part of falling in love is being apart from your partner.
Being good at giving a guy space is an essential part of any good relationship, so look at it as an opportunity for him to appreciate you more and reach for more of you.
Cut Him Off To Let Him Miss You
The real problem is not the guy wanting space or giving your guy space. It’s natural for a guy to want some space to himself (especially if he’s going through something emotional). The most powerful step you can take is to give him that time and space.
This applies whether he’s pulling away, you just had an argument and he’s ignoring you, he’s going through something personal, etc. It’s easy to give a guy space unless you’re worried that giving a guy space will lead to something bad happening. So the real problem isn’t giving the guy space but your worrying about it itself!
The best thing is to cut him off and he will start to miss you, plain and simple. And if he doesn’t miss you enough to take any action, then there’s nothing you could have done.
It’s a win-win either way. He either fights to get your love and attention back or you come to realize he doesn’t care enough and you can save yourself a lot of time wasted.
One final key point is: relationships work when two “full” people show up. Showing up full creates a happy, healthy relationship. Neither of you can be full if you don’t have that time to yourselves. It’s just as important for you as it is for him.
I hope that now you know how to make your ex miss you after your breakup. One important thing is that him missing you is just one piece of the puzzle, if you want him back and you want him to stay with you forever then you need to make him see you as “the one” – the woman he couldn’t live without. To do that you need this secret formula to get your ex back in your arms for good, so don’t wait or you might miss your chance forever: Do You Want Your Ex Back? Use This To Get Them Back…
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