Is He Interested in Me? 16 Big Signs He's Really Attracted to You

Is He Interested in Me? 16 Big Signs He’s Really Attracted to You

Everyone has insecurities, especially when it comes to figuring out if a guy is attracted to you or not. It is a question that can drive you nuts, whether you’re crushing on a guy and have no idea if he would ever view you in an “attractive” light or are just starting to date but have no idea how he feels or not yet. You might even be in a relationship where the spark has died and still ask yourself: “how does he feel? Is he not attracted to me anymore? Why?!”

No matter what your relationship (or lack of a relationship) with a guy is — whether you just met him, are just talking on Tinder or have been dating for years — wondering if a guy is attracted to you or not can bring up a lot of insecurities, questions and frustrations!

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So don’t worry! Being unsure if a guy is or isn’t attracted is a totally natural feeling and nothing to worry about, it’s more than likely you’re over thinking things.

Yet, it’s always nice to know if someone is feeling the same way as you and whilst it might not always seem obvious, there are ways to tell if he’s into you. Not everyone displays themselves so openly and talks about the way they’re feeling so sometimes you need a little push to realize that the guy you’re dating or seeing right now actually is attracted to you.

Don’t get too caught up in “figuring out” if he is attracted to you or not, but make sure you don’t fixate; wondering is normal but fixating is actually going to be a turn off.

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Try not to get yourself wrapped up in these signs and think that they’re the only signs that exist. He might not even do and say anything on this list and still be attracted!

If you are really worried and think he might not be into you then communication is the key – talk to him about how you feel, and he will do the same. Guys love honesty and there is nothing more honest than explaining how you feel to him.

Anyway, here are 16 signs that he might show if he really is into you…

1. He always has time for you

Time is a very precious thing, and everyone has a limited number of years to their life, a guy who always has time for you is definitely into you. Whether it’s only for a quick phone call on his lunch break or a long discussion at 2 A.M., if you need him and he’s there then he cares about you. If he’s interested in you he wants to show you how much you mean to him so will make time for you whenever you need it. He might even turn up at your house when you’re feeling a little sad and need someone to talk to.

2. He loves to make you laugh and smile

And he’ll do anything to make sure you’re happy. That might be playfully tripping himself up after he’s said something stupid or even making a joke about something that you’ll find hilarious. Laughing is one of life’s simplicities and whilst you’re laughing all of your worries don’t exist. If the guy you like wants to make you smile and you both laugh together regularly then trust us when we say, it’s a great partnership and you have nothing to worry about.

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3. He remembers the smaller things

Perhaps it’s the earrings you mentioned months ago when you were shopping, or the birthday of your old pet. Guys take note of the smallest of things when they like someone so if your guy is always showing how much he knows when he’s interested – without a doubt.

4. He treats you differently to everyone else

He might not treat you like a princess straight away or even shower you with tons of gifts after all, relationships and dating aren’t down to how much money you can throw at someone. Guys will always treat their ladies with respect and you will be able to see how differently you’re treated to everyone else when you’re in their presence. You are the only woman he cares about, so he should treat you a little bit more special.

5. He says nice things and compliments you

Again, this doesn’t have to happen every second of the day, but guys like to show how they feel with compliments and by showing affection, it’s more than likely that the guys who’re interested in you will be really nice to you and always tell you how beautiful you are, that’s just how it is.

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6. He gets jealous and protective

When we’re talking about jealousy and being protective this isn’t being protective or jealous too much, there is a difference between being very protective and just being jealous when you’re talking to a guy. He won’t make a big deal out of it but you’ll be able to see he’s a little jealous. This is one of the easiest ways to see a guy is interested because he doesn’t want anyone else to take you from him and is jealous when you’re with someone else.

7. He teases you playfully

Possibly a guy’s most attractive quality is when he wants to tease and play with you, we aren’t talking mind games either (we hate them!) The guy that likes you will want to be playful and have quality time with you. Even if it’s watching a goofy movie or playing with your hair whilst in bed, teasing maybe the most complex form of flirting but it works and definitely keeps you on your toes!

8. He may give you a nickname

Our favorite nicknames are ‘baby’, ‘cutie’ or even the good old ‘beautiful’. Keep any guy in your life that calls you a nickname like these, they’re always the guys worth keeping.

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9. He’s always well-groomed

Appearance is everything and the way we look makes an impression on the people around us and that’s exactly how you can tell when a guy is interested in you. He makes an effort and is always well-groomed around you.

10. He contacts you first

It might be a cute morning text or phone call, a guy who is interested will always make the first move and contact you first when you two haven’t spoken in a while. This doesn’t mean to say you can’t contact him though!

11. He makes regular eye contact with you

A guy who’s interested will barely be able to take his eyes off you so eye contact is a key here and is a way to see how much he likes you. After all, you will be the only thing he thinks about and wants to look at.

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12. He might be nervous

This is only really at the beginnings of your dating or relationship life as the more he is around you the less nervous he will be. Nerves are always an easy sign to spot when someone likes you, they want to impress and might be worried in case you don’t like them.

13. He pays attention to you

Guys who are interested want to show how nice they are, and the good ones will realise that paying attention to their lady is very important.

14. He’s honest and open about his feelings

A lot of guys aren’t honest and open 100 percent of the time about their feelings, they want to seem macho and masculine, so they don’t talk about love or even liking someone. However, you may come across a guy who is interested in you and is very open with it. Respect this by being honest and open back! If you do have a guy like this then treasure him for as long as you can.

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15. He prefers being with you

Maybe you’ll find this out when he cancels his plans with the guys to watch the football, or maybe you will just know it when he always suggests being together. A guy who is interested in you will want to be with you as much as he can and will probably prefer being with you over everyone else.

16. You know and can feel it!

Isn’t an attraction just natural? If he’s really into you, you will know it. Whether he shows it physically, through words or just the way he looks at you or not. Attraction is a magical thing and when he’s into you, you may still have insecurities, but deep down you’ll know for sure.

Hopefully, these signs have helped you realize if he’s into you or if you’re better off on your own. Guys are very confusing beings and it’s totally understandable if you’re confused about him being interested in you. Just go with the flow and try not to worry!

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This article shows you if he’s interested in you, now in any relationship I’ve found there are 2 pivotal moments that determine if your relationship ends in heartbreak or you get to live happily ever after so it’s vitally important that you take the next step and read this right now, because at some point the man you want is going to ask himself: Is this the woman I should commit to for the long term? That answer determines everything… Do you know how men determine if a woman is girlfriend material (the type of woman he commits himself to) or if he sees you as just a fling? If not you need to read this next: The #1 Thing Men Desire In A Woman…

The second problem almost all women experience: At some point he starts to lose interest. He doesn’t call you back or he becomes emotionally closed off. He seems like he’s losing interest or pulling away – do you know what to do? If not you’re putting your relationship and the future of your love life in great danger, read this now or risk losing him forever: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This…

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In summary…

1. He always has time for you

2. He loves to make you laugh and smile

3. He remembers the smaller things

4. He treats you differently to everyone else

5. He says nice things and compliments you

6. He gets jealous and protective

7. He teases you playfully

8. He may give you a nickname

9. He’s always well-groomed

10. He contacts you first

11. He makes regular eye contact with you

12. He might be nervous

13. He pays attention to you

14. He’s honest and open about his feelings

15. He prefers being with you

16. You know and can feel it!

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30 comments… add one
  • danica October 2, 2018, 4:56 pm

    you would know if a man is interested in you when he makes time for you. he will do anything to spend time with you and make you feel really special to him.

  • aaliyah October 1, 2018, 11:17 pm

    yep! i know that being unsure is natural but i want to be 100% sure that he likes me too! will take note of these signs!

  • dina September 28, 2018, 3:18 pm

    i need a little push to help me realize that the guy i am seeing right now is interested in me. will keep these signs in mind though i will also follow your advice to try not to get myself wrapped up in them.

  • klaire September 27, 2018, 5:52 pm

    when a man tries to make you smile and laugh, he’s surely interested. when a man likes a woman, he would do anything to make her happy and seeing her smile makes his day complete.

  • behati September 26, 2018, 6:13 pm

    i think the guy i am dating is not interested in me at all. i don’t see any of these signs whenever we are together. i should stop seeing him.

  • xiomara September 25, 2018, 1:49 pm

    he prefers being with you than with others even his closest friends. when a man is interested in a woman, he wants to know everything about her, he wants to be around her. and he will do all these other crazy stuff for you.

  • carrie September 24, 2018, 6:55 pm

    i am crushing on this man and i don’t know if he also finds me attractive. glad to know that there are ways to precisely find out!

  • rhonda September 21, 2018, 2:16 pm

    a man giving you nicknames is totally interested and somewhat flirty. i like it when a man does it to me, i think it’s cute and sweet.

  • ashlyn September 20, 2018, 4:39 pm

    some guys come right out and tell you they like you, some guys hide their feelings but give away signs. argh, guys can be hard to read!

  • frida September 19, 2018, 2:02 pm

    you know he is when he remembers the smallest things. only someone really likes you would be this interested.

  • bridget September 18, 2018, 3:58 pm

    a guy that proactively call and text you is absolutely interested in you, like he would only call for no other reason than to hear your sweet voice.

  • cassandra September 17, 2018, 2:05 pm

    for me, the true measure is if he really makes time for you and puts you first. most men if not all are career driven and this most of the time lead to lack in time with other things like relationships. so if your man makes time for you, he is really that interested.

  • sophia September 15, 2018, 6:42 pm

    i saw this cute guy yesterday and it got me thinking if he is interested in me or not. for me, figuring this out is really a challenge. i need to scan everything like his body movements just to be sure. i am thrilled to see this article today. will be a big help!

  • bethany September 12, 2018, 7:21 pm

    one thing i watch out for to know if a man is interested in me is when he does favors for me without any excuses. also a good indicator is when he touches my arm.

  • mariah September 11, 2018, 6:03 pm

    i really enjoy reading the articles here! i am the type of person who loves to give relationship advice to my friends and i can share some of the love advice i read here. will also tell them about your website.

  • macey September 10, 2018, 1:49 pm

    when he has time to spare for you whenever you need him there, that means he’s really interested. and when he mostly initiates seeing you, it’s positive he likes you a lot!

  • pipa September 7, 2018, 11:45 am

    a man who remembers the smallest thing about you is indeed a big sign that he is into you. like if he remembers details about your friends or family that you told him last week, then he is definitely a keeper!

  • liv September 3, 2018, 12:57 pm

    he may give you a nickname. my boyfriend used to give me different ones from cutie to beautiful..i loved it! it made me feel really good about myself. it’s just too cute!

  • emily August 30, 2018, 4:04 pm

    i would like to thank you for compiling this list! i am still uncertain if the guy i like is interested in me so i would watch out for this signs.

  • rita August 28, 2018, 7:13 pm

    if a guy becomes uncomfortable or jealous when you turn your attention from him, then he is absolutely interested in you! this was based on my personal experience. this was one of the major signs i noticed when my husband was still courting me.

  • eliza August 24, 2018, 6:27 pm

    well, i don’t worry too much about this. one thing is for sure, i would definitely find out if a guy is into me just by looking at his eyes and how he talks to me.

  • brienne August 23, 2018, 10:27 pm

    if a man compliments you almost everytime, he sends a signal that he’s really attracted to you. he won’t do that and won’t sound genuine at all if not.

  • maia August 22, 2018, 10:10 pm

    i think the best signs you can look for is if he initiates contact with you whether in person or thru phone or even social media. a guy who has interest with a woman will always make time.

  • katy August 21, 2018, 5:19 pm

    another sure sign for me to find out if a man is truly interested in you is if he never wants to disappoint you. he would say yes to anything you want or to whatever you would want him to do.

  • marion August 20, 2018, 5:18 pm

    all these are great ideas. i believe though that when a man tries to make time and makes sure you are happy when you’re with him, he is definitely into you.

  • tricia August 17, 2018, 2:42 pm

    i met a cute guy and i am not really sure how he feels about me. i am looking for a sure sign and i guess i got all i needed to find out. thank you so much!

  • crystal August 16, 2018, 6:12 pm

    when you know that he tries to you make you laugh or feel good about yourself, this is a man who is not only i terested in you, he sure likes you big time! and if he’s serious, he’s going to pursue you until he proves it to you.

  • pamela August 15, 2018, 8:15 pm

    it is very obvious that a man is into you if he treats you differently from everyone else. my partner and i have been together for almost 5 years now and he never fails on this. i feel like i am a princess whenever i am with him! i am such a lucky girl!

  • sabina August 14, 2018, 1:12 pm

    when he always has time for you, or even when he’s busy but makes time for you, you know that he’s really interested. this is the best indicator for sure!

  • lovely August 10, 2018, 8:35 pm

    knowing if a guy is attracted to me is one of my insecurities and easily makes me frustrated. this article will answer all of my questions and i am so thankful you shared this.

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