51 Signs a Guy Likes You

51 Signs a Guy Likes You

How to Tell When He’s Really Into You

You’ve been checking him out from across the room.

Every time you bump into him he makes you feel giddy and nervous.

He’s been on your radar for a while, but you aren’t sure if he likes you. You feel a little shy about making it obvious you’re liking his style, but you don’t want to make it so difficult for him to reach out to you that he moves on to another girl.

If you are stressing about whether or not he likes you, you don’t have to.

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That desire to have a little positive feedback before you extend yourself, and take a chance on him is natural. While all attempts at initiating love can seem scary, they don’t need to be.

You’ll know exactly what he thinks about you once you’ve read the rest of this article.

Here are 51 signs that he likes you, and it’s safe to let him know you like him too.

1. Check out his body language.

When a man is interested in you his body language will reflect that. He will look at you, try to be near you, have a generally “open” stance when standing near you, or move his body to face you if you are sitting in close proximity.

2. He looks at you often.

When a guy you like is interested in you too, he’ll look at you often. You almost won’t be able to avoid eye contact.

3. He smiles at you.

If the eyes are the key to the soul, the smile is the way through the door. He’ll smile at you often if he likes you. He can’t help himself.

4. He mimics you.

There are mirror neurons in his brain that will cause him to subconsciously mimic your behavior. If he likes you, this will be particularly exaggerated.

5. He teases you.

Teasing you is a way to joke with you and get to know you better. It also lowers your resistance to more intense connection. He will try to joke with you if he likes you in order to make that initial connection.

6. He maintains eye contact with you when talking to you.

If he is always looking away or seems distracted, he likely doesn’t like you, but if he is attentive and looks at you, he likes you.

7. Somehow, someway he tries to touch you.

Men are compelled to touch a woman when they are sexually attracted to them. He will touch your arm, try to put his hand on your back when you are walking or let his leg touch yours if you are sitting closely if he likes you.

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8. He tries to make you jealous.

He may not do this overtly, but he may try to get arise out of you by flirting with other women when he is around you, just to see if you notice and show any signs of being jealous.

9. He shows interest in the things that interest you.

A man that wants to get to know you better will express interest in the things that interest you, even if that means acting like he is seriously curious about the latest beauty trends or your love of kittens.

10. If he looks away quickly when you catch his eye, he’s into you.

Although eye contact is a big indicator or interest, if he looks at you and then tries to look away if you catch him doing so, it is a sign that he is attracted to you. He’s been caught with his hand in the proverbial cookie jar and he doesn’t want to get caught.

11. He acts nervous, shy or awkward.

If he acts awkward, always says the wrong thing, or stutters when he is around you, he may be falling in love. Men can get nervous when they around a woman who really ignites a fire in them.

12. He seems to light up when he is around you.

If he just seems to perk up and light up when you are around, and his friends even joke with him about it, then he likes you.

13. He starts the conversation.

A man that wants to get closer to you will find any way possible to talk to you. He may try to make conversation about the weather, people around you or other inconsequential things, just so he has an excuse to talk to you.

14. He tries to get to know you better.

He shows signs of wanting to know who you are and what you are all about.

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15. He compliments and congratulates you, even for trivial things.

If you just aced a test or even made it to work on time, he will compliment and congratulate you.

16. He compliments your new haircut, your make-up, your new dress, or your perfume.

When you make an attempt to look extra gorgeous, he notices.

17. He seems jealous when you give your attention to others.

If he starts to sulk or withdraw when you give your attention to others (men or women) he may be jealous that he can’t have you all to himself.

18. He comments a lot on your social media channels.

If he is participating in lots of the conversations or postings you put up on Facebook or Instagram, he is trying to find a way “in.”

19. He finds a way to give you gifts.

He brings you flowers when he finds out it is your birthday. He brings you lunch unexpectedly. He tries to find ways to give you things in general. He is way into you.

20. He finds a way to be with you even if he’s busy and has lots of responsibilities.

No matter how many social engagements he has invitations to, he will refuse some of the best ones to spend time with you.

21. He calls or texts you often.

He calls. He texts. He may want to play it cool, but he can’t.

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22. He acts more generous around you.

If he wants to come off as a stand-up guy he will not only be generous to you, but also to your friends.

23. He shows signs of not wanting to disappoint you.

If you are sad, so is he.

24. He defends your honor.

No one is going to say anything bad about you in his presence. He makes sure of that.

25. He introduces you to his friends.

He is proud to be with you, and he shares you with his friends. It makes him look good.

26. He encourages you to keep something that you borrow from him.

You borrowed a sweater when it was cold and tried to give it back to him, but he says, just keep it.

27. He uses terms of endearment to address you.

Baby, honey, love, sweetie. If he is using those words, he likes you.

28. He tells you or shows you that he misses you if he hasn’t seen you for a while.

He’ll say, “Hey where’ve you been. I missed you,” even if it has only been a few days.

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29. He tries to make you laugh or stay positive even when you are down.

Nothing makes him happier than to cheer you up when you are down.

30. He has empathy for the things you are going through.

He shows empathy when things are difficult in your life. And he shows it.

31. He sacrifices his time with friends, overtime at work or other responsibilities to be with you.

There is no sacrifice too big when he really likes you.

32. He asks your friends about you when you aren’t around.

He has to know what you are doing.

33. He takes extra care in his appearance if he knows he is going to see you.

He’ll wear new clothes or get a shave or a haircut.

34. His body language changes.

He stands up taller, and looks more confident around you.

35. He looks you up and down.

He can’t help but check out all your parts, and we do mean all of them.

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36. He hovers.

If he’s supposed to be working, he’ll hover around you and your friends instead of tending to his job.

37. He asks your opinion on things.

He really wants to know what you think about things.

38. He wants to be seen with you.

He feels prideful when you are in his presence.

39. He may tell you that you are beautiful and sexy, even if you don’t feel it.

He’ll tell you that he thinks you’re an amazing woman.

40. He tries to take care of you if you are sick.

He finds out you have a cold, and brings you chicken soup and a box of tissues. He’s falling for you.

41. He offers to make your life easier in some way.

When he hears you are having a challenge, he’ll try to fix it.

42. He tries to prove to you what a great catch he is.

He talks about what he can do for you or provide for you to make himself sound like a great catch.

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43. He offers you financial assistance.

Even though you can pay your own bills, he’ll offer to help out.

44. He will spend his last dollar on you to impress you.

Don’t even think about paying for dinner. He’s got that.

45. He is there for your birthday, graduation or other important events.

If it’s important to you, it’s important to him, and he’ll be there.

46. He tries to protect you.

Men have a natural desire to protect the woman he loves.

47. He is generous with his words.

He is generous not only with his resources, but with his words.

48. He treats you better than everyone else around him.

Nobody is as much of a queen as you in his eyes.

49. He confides in you.

When he tells you his deepest desires and goals he likes you.

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50. He locks eyes.

If he can’t look away, he likes you.

51. He raises his voice to be heard.

Men will naturally raise their voice to get noticed when a woman they like is within ear shot.

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In summary…

1. Check out his body language.

2. He looks at you often.

3. He smiles at you.

4. He mimics you.

5. He teases you.

6. He maintains eye contact with you when talking to you.

7. Somehow, someway he tries to touch you.

8. He tries to make you jealous.

9. He shows interest in the things that interest you.

10. If he looks away quickly when you catch his eye, he’s into you.

11. He acts nervous, shy or awkward.

12. He seems to light up when he is around you.

13. He starts the conversation.

14. He tries to get to know you better.

15. He compliments and congratulates you, even for trivial things.

16. He compliments your new haircut, your make-up, your new dress, or your perfume.

17. He seems jealous when you give your attention to others.

18. He comments a lot on your social media channels.

19. He finds a way to give you gifts.

20. He finds a way to be with you even if he’s busy and has lots of responsibilities.

21. He calls or texts you often.

22. He acts more generous around you.

23. He shows signs of not wanting to disappoint you.

24. He defends your honor.

25. He introduces you to his friends.

26. He encourages you to keep something that you borrow from him.

27. He uses terms of endearment to address you.

28. He tells you or shows you that he misses you if he hasn’t seen you for a while.

29. He tries to make you laugh or stay positive even when you are down.

30. He has empathy for the things you are going through.

31. He sacrifices his time with friends, overtime at work or other responsibilities to be with you.

32. He asks your friends about you when you aren’t around.

33. He takes extra care in his appearance if he knows he is going to see you.

34. His body language changes.

35. He looks you up and down.

36. He hovers.

37. He asks your opinion on things.

38. He wants to be seen with you.

39. He may tell you that you are beautiful and sexy, even if you don’t feel it.

40. He tries to take care of you if you are sick.

41. He offers to make your life easier in some way.

42. He tries to prove to you what a great catch he is.

43. He offers you financial assistance.

44. He will spend his last dollar on you to impress you.

45. He is there for your birthday, graduation or other important events.

46. He tries to protect you.

47. He is generous with his words.

48. He treats you better than everyone else around him.

49. He confides in you.

50. He locks eyes.

51. He raises his voice to be heard.

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30 comments… add one
  • lillie August 6, 2018, 7:40 pm

    if a guy looks at you from across the room repetitively, then he definitely has feelings for you. we are talking about not one or twice, but three or more times he looks at you!

  • tiffany August 3, 2018, 8:18 pm

    i want to know if this guy wants to be involved in a relationship with me and not just a fling. hope these signs can help.

  • amara August 2, 2018, 4:08 pm

    most men aren’t really open in telling how they feel specially withwomen. either they’re too shy or too afraid of rejection. look out for his body language, this says it all.

  • meredith August 1, 2018, 6:47 pm

    a sure sign that a guy likes you is if he makes effort to contact you like asking how your day was. men do not usually do this so consider yourself one lucky girl if this sign is present.

  • cindy July 31, 2018, 9:24 pm

    i like shy men. i find them really cute especially if it is obvious that they have feelings for me.

  • josie July 30, 2018, 8:04 pm

    what tells me that a guy likes me is if he does all the things that only a boyfriend can do for me. you can’t go wrong with that, right?

  • melania July 27, 2018, 6:20 pm

    one obvious sign that a guy likes you is if he always sends you messages or calls up asking if you have reached home. this was my husband’s style when he was just starting to court me.

  • sicily July 26, 2018, 6:28 pm

    i knew it! my friends told me this guy was always asking for me when i am not around and i have a feeling that he likes me very much! another sign? he is very generous with me!

  • lisa July 25, 2018, 7:27 pm

    i never had a hard time knowing if a guy likes me or not. sometimes, i just pretend i don’t notice the signs for several reasons. or let us just say i really like that guy ( as a friend) and i don’t want to ruin our friendship.

  • jenny July 24, 2018, 6:29 pm

    you cannot deny that a guy is into you whenever he makes eye contact and stares at your face when talking to you. this is their simplest way to show us, girls, that they are interested in us.

  • sophie July 23, 2018, 8:52 pm

    there are many other signs that a guy likes you, but these are the very obvious ones. if you want to know how to tell if he is into you, then read this post!

  • liza July 20, 2018, 10:35 pm

    this article made my day! i always thought that guys can be such a mystery especially when it comes to knowing their feelings. this will let me know if a guy likes me more than just a friend.

  • pamela July 19, 2018, 7:09 pm

    i really found this article very helpful. i took the quiz and the result is not what i am expected but that is ok. i still believe that someday my crush will find me interesting too.

  • laila July 18, 2018, 9:04 pm

    i guess most girls have the same problem! i am also crushing on this wonderful man and i am deeply wondering if he feels the same way.. with these points, we can easily figure out the answer to our question.

  • kaylee July 17, 2018, 6:55 pm

    i like this guy at work but i am confused if he likes me too or what. our work environment is kind of unromantic. i am not even sure if he is flirting with me or just being friendly. help!!!

  • maricel July 16, 2018, 7:02 pm

    i am confused.. my guy friend always mimic me, texts me more often but is not interested in things that i like. i also catch him looking at me every time. does this mean he has feelings for me more than just a friend?

  • drew July 13, 2018, 6:57 pm

    this is what i’ve observed from men.. their body language changes if they like someone. they are all the same. well, i guess that is true for girls too!

  • isla July 12, 2018, 7:01 pm

    hmmm, i am positive that this guy is into me so much! he always starts a conversation with me even if he didn’t have to. he also finds time to ask me things that he doesn’t necessarily need to ask me.. isn’t it weird?

  • martha July 11, 2018, 6:39 pm

    i am deeply attracted to this guy and i wonder if he likes me too or not. i am happy to learn that there is an easy way to find out. i will definitely watch out for these signs. wish me luck!

  • ivy July 10, 2018, 7:06 pm

    wow! this article is really good! most men can be a bit shy when it comes to saying that they care about you. thank you for giving me ideas to tell if a guy is really into me even if he is not saying so out loud.

  • isabella July 9, 2018, 7:18 pm

    i find a guy very funny and cute whenever he does these things. i wish they could be straightforward.

  • jonalyn July 6, 2018, 10:09 pm

    hmm, i can use these signs in my dating life. my friends would love to read this too! i will share it with them now.

  • maya July 5, 2018, 7:45 pm

    i agree with all of the signs here. but what if a guy really likes you but he is trying not to show it?

  • donna July 4, 2018, 5:59 pm

    this guy laughs at my jokes even if they are not really funny. i can also see that he shares the same sense of humor with me. well, that is a sign that he feels something for me.

  • aaliyah July 3, 2018, 6:54 pm

    i feel butterflies in my stomach whenever he locks eyes with me and smiles! it is really an awesome feeling knowing that he likes me too!

  • alexi July 2, 2018, 7:36 pm

    ok. this post made me realize that the guy i really like doesn’t like me at all… he smiles at me but other than that, he never displays any more of these signs.. i guess i gotta move on.

  • tessie June 29, 2018, 6:41 pm

    i’ve never been offered a financial assistance even by guy’s who likes me. haha!

  • celine June 29, 2018, 2:18 am

    men like to tease if they have feelings for you. my guy used to tease me a lot through text and i admit that was one of the many cute things i liked about him so i said yes to him when he asked me to be his girlfriend.

  • linda June 27, 2018, 7:22 pm

    oh yes if a guy introduces you to his friends, it means he really likes you and wanted to take things to the next level. i do that too if i really like someone.

  • phoenix June 26, 2018, 8:14 pm

    my boyfriend always tells me that he misses me if he hasn’t seen me for a while. he really cares about that is why i love him so much!

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