Real men basically don’t exist anymore. What I mean by a real man is someone who truly knows what it means to be loyal, devoted and honest.
It’s a sad but honest truth that finding a real guy in the cess pool that our dating culture has become is like finding a diamond in the rough, the holy grail of men that doesn’t seem to exist.
And the worst part is – it hurts both men and women that there are so many awful guys out there running around pretending to be decent. Why?
Well, it hurts women because we have to go through what seems like a never-ending parade of crappy dudes before we find the right one… And makes us assume all men are awful, which makes us just want to give up.
And it hurts men because the awful, scummy men who cheat on women and break their hearts just create baggage that women have to carry around (and that good, honest men have to deal with).
That’s why we need more real men in this world: they simply don’t cheat. Here are 8 reasons why:
1. Real Men Don’t Waste Women’s Time
Be honest – how many times have you heard the story of a relationship where the man was never serious about the woman in the first place, he just went along with “dating” her because it was easier.
A real man wouldn’t ever lead a woman on like that. Real men don’t get into relationships with women they don’t think they can love – and the moment they realize they can’t love that person, they end the relationship for the good of both of them.
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2. Real Men Are Honest About Their Emotions
I’m sick of the stereotype that women don’t have it together when it comes to their emotions, but men somehow do.
I can’t tell you how many relationships I’ve heard of where the woman actually lets her emotions out and addresses them – while the man sits silent and bottles his emotions up.
It’s not that he doesn’t have emotions… far from it. It’s just that he’s keeping them under wraps and sealed up inside him – until he can’t take it anymore and they explode.
And when they do, he finds the first thing that can comfort thing. Whether that’s drinking, or smoking, or sex with someone who isn’t his s/o, it hurts the relationship and it hurts him.
Real men know they have emotions, and deal with them honestly and openly. They’re stable.
3. Real Men Break Up With Women They No Longer Love
I’ve heard stories of too many guys who cheat and end a relationship because they don’t have the guts to actually break up with her.
Guys, if you’re too chicken to actually break up with someone you’re in a relationship with – I have bad news for you: you’re not a real man. Step your game up.
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4. Real Men Have The Willpower To Keep Promises They Make
Look – I know that men have the urge to sleep with beautiful women. I know that if a man sees a beautiful woman, his first thought is that he wants to sleep with her.
That’s fine. That’s part of nature.
What I can’t deal with is when a man doesn’t have the willpower to discard that urge and give thanks for what he has in the present.
If a man can’t master his urges and instead becomes a slave to his desires, he’s not a real man at all. And he’s not worth your time.
5. Real Men Don’t Base Their Confidence On The Number Of Women They’ve Slept With
Real men don’t have to point at the notches in their belt or the number of girls in their phone to feel confident in themselves.
That’s because they’re confident