How Do You Know Someone Loves You? 31 Easy Ways To Tell When They Do

How Do You Know Someone Loves You? 31 Easy Ways To Tell When They Do

How do you know when someone truly loves you or if they are just playing with your heart, stringing you along in order to use you for temporary fun until they move on to someone else?

I am going to give you these 31 ways to tell when someone loves you in order to really get to the heart of what you should be looking for.

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31 Easy Ways To Tell When Someone Loves You:

1. They act consistently kind to you when they are alone with you or when they are with you around their friends. No matter where you are or who you are with they are loving towards you.

2. They go out of their way to help you when you are sick, stressed, sad, or go through a major challenge in life. They never stand idly by when you are in need. They can’t stand to see someone they love suffer.

3. They champion all your successes. If you get a promotion, you meet a new friend, or learn a new skill, they are excited about it.

4. They talk you up to their friends and you hear about it through the grapevine.

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5. They walk your dog for you.

6. They get your mail for you when you need to go out of town.

7. They call you out when you’re full of it, but do it in a kind and loving way. This allows you to grow, and become a better person.

8. They don’t freak out if you don’t constantly text them because you are at work or helping a friend but they miss you when you are absent.

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9. They text you or call often without dishonoring healthy boundaries.

10. They remember silly, inconsequential things about you that you don’t even remember telling them like you always eat at a certain restaurant or you have a scar on your knee from an accident on your bike when you were ten.

11. They let you vent your frustrations without taking them personally. You can talk about the same things a million times, and the never tire of listening.

12. They bring you flowers for no reason. They also give you presents on special occasions.

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13. They give you personal space when you need it, but never ignore you.

14. They fight fair and never name-call or belittle you even in the heat of the moment.

15. They are quick to try to make up after a disagreement.

16. They pay for dinner, or at least offer to.

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17. They apologize sincerely for anything that they do to upset you, and try not to do it again.

18. They never take from you and always look for ways to give to you.

19. They move to a new city for you. They uproot their lives for you or they make major life changes to support your life’s path.

20. They never make major life decisions without getting your input.

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21. They wash the dishes or fold the clothes because they know you hate doing those chores.

22. They allow you to have a differing opinion from theirs, and even welcome it. You are allowed to have your own mind.

23. They don’t give you stress about a little retail therapy or time with your friends when you are stressed out.

24. They are physically and verbally affectionate. They hug you, kiss you, caress you, and tell you that you are beautiful. You never have to wonder about how they feel about you.

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25. They are worried about your comfort. They offer you their coat when you are cold, or give up their seat on an over-crowded bus.

26. They give you the last bite of a dessert you are sharing at dinner.

27. They publicly display their affection. They don’t hesitate to hold your hand or kiss you in front of other people.

28. They eagerly do things for you, and jump at the chance to help you out or do you a favor.

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29. They make a big deal about your birthday or anniversaries, even if you say, “Don’t get me anything or it’s not big deal.”

30. They will tell you when someone in your life isn’t honoring you. They want all your friends and family members to be kind and respectful of you.

31. They say “I love you” often and are happy when you say the same.

If you’re in love, first of all congratulations, and second of all that makes it even more important that you handle these 2 make or break moments every woman experiences in her relationships with men because if you already love him then your potential for heartbreak is as high as possible, so pay attention because this next step is vitally important. At some point he starts to lose interest. He doesn’t call you back or he becomes emotionally closed off. He seems like he’s losing interest or pulling away – do you know what to do? If not you’re putting your relationship and the future of your love life in great danger, read this now or risk losing him forever: The #1 Thing Men Desire In A Woman…

The second pivotal life moment in any relationship where it can either leave you heartbroken and alone or on the path to romance and happiness: At some point he’s going to ask himself is this woman I should commit to for the long term or not? The answer he gives himself will determine everything… Do you know how men determine if a woman is girlfriend material (the type of woman he commits himself to) or if he sees you as just a fling? If not you need to read this next: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This…

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30 comments… add one
  • maila October 8, 2018, 12:49 pm

    “They never take from you and always look for ways to give to you.” – this is what love is really about. always wanting to give..not only with material things but most importantly, time and love.

  • yara October 5, 2018, 5:24 pm

    if i love a person, i’ll be dying to let him or her know instead of waiting. one thing that holds me back is their reaction. i am afraid that it will be something that i don’t like and would hurt me.

  • trinity October 4, 2018, 7:40 pm

    i love this! i just realized how lucky i ma to have a boyfriend who makes me feel loved. thank you for sharing this, i think it’s time to also do something for him.

  • annabelle October 3, 2018, 4:33 pm

    body language is my basis on this one. i would know if a guy is into me if he acts naturally around me, like if i see a different side of him that he doesn’t show the public.

  • hellen October 2, 2018, 5:32 pm

    a real man will own up to his faults and he will apologize for doing so. And if he really loves you, he will do his best not to do the same mistake and want to only make you happy.

  • christie October 1, 2018, 11:30 pm

    i love my dog and when a man offers to walk my dog for me, then i will greatly appreciate it. i also think that i will easily fall for him if he shows love for animals.

  • laura September 28, 2018, 3:40 pm

    i just love being in love! it can be difficult to come by but is well worth the wait.

  • nalla September 27, 2018, 6:05 pm

    when you can talk about anything with a man, even you worries and disappointments and he really listens, that means he may love you. only a serious guy will take you seriously and have the time to listen to you and not take the bad negatively or personally.

  • jasmine September 26, 2018, 6:24 pm

    if you found a guy that never take from you and always look for ways to give to you, then you’ve absolutely found your soulmate!

  • fiona September 25, 2018, 1:43 pm

    when someone loves you, he will be affectionate with you. he just can’t seem to get enough of you, he wants to be with you, to hold you and kiss you. that’s usually how men show their love for a woman.

  • zoe September 24, 2018, 7:08 pm

    will keep these top 6 ways in mind. your site is definitely my favorite. i learned a lot about relationships and i can also give useful advice to my friends. looking forward for more articles like this.

  • pamela September 21, 2018, 1:48 pm

    “They give you personal space when you need it, but never ignore you.” – this is oh so true! because men usually need space from time to time, they understand the concept unlike most women. some space actually gives both men & women the time to recharge and refocus.

  • pauleen September 20, 2018, 5:02 pm

    They apologize sincerely for anything that they do to upset you, and try not to do it again. – this one is a real sign that he or she is in love with you and i am telling you, never ever take a person who does this for granted because not all are sincere when they say sorry.

  • malia September 19, 2018, 1:38 pm

    these are truly wonderful. i’ve seen a lot of articles with this topic and this is just for me, the best! thank you for putting more effort into it.

  • porchia September 18, 2018, 4:14 pm

    sometimes, i consult my friends to see what they think if i doubt that a man is interested in me. i don’t really want to make quick judgments when it comes to this.

  • brittany September 17, 2018, 1:57 pm

    i love this post and it only made me realize how lucky i am to have such a good and loving boyfriend. i hope he feels the same way.

  • madison September 15, 2018, 6:57 pm

    i always thought that it is easy to tell when someone is falling in love with you. but sometimes, the signs are not always clear as i want to believe it. people are not always predictable, you know!

  • alice September 12, 2018, 6:47 pm

    if a man has respect for things that are important to you regardless of how small it is, then he is definitely in love with you.

  • zoe September 11, 2018, 3:41 pm

    i love my guy but i need to ask for a short break from our relationship to figure something out. i can say that he truly loves me because he respects my decision and never ignore me.

  • madison September 7, 2018, 3:12 am

    you would know that someone is in love with you if he is willing to invest time into you even if he is tied up with work and other commitments. if he truly cares, he will find ways to have some alone time with you.

  • bianca September 3, 2018, 12:40 pm

    they definitely remember things that may seem small for you but to them it’s important because they want to really know you better. this only proves also that when a man loves you, he listens to you.

  • natalia August 29, 2018, 4:07 pm

    it really tough to tell is someone has feelings for you. glad to know that there are signs i could watch out for to know if a person is in love with me. i appreciate this article a lot!

  • lorraine August 28, 2018, 2:34 pm

    a man who really loves you is someone who will do anything to get near you even if it takes a whole lot of effort. he’s do anything to make you feel secured and taken care of whenever you’re with him.

  • claire August 24, 2018, 2:48 pm

    a man who is really in love with you will go miles to see you happy. he will make sure you feel special by doing small things like helping you with chores or errands, staying at home and doing nothing together, watching movies, dining out, etc. if he does these with his own initiation, then you are with a guy who loves you for real. <3

  • crissa August 23, 2018, 8:49 pm

    it is really tough to tell if someone is in love with you, especially if they don’t seem like it. some of the behaviors discussed in this article surprised me. but i am also glad to know that i don’t have to do some detective work just to find out if my special someone is also in love with me.

  • danica August 22, 2018, 1:01 pm

    these are sure signs to know if a person truly loves you. i will start paying attention to what my man is saying and also to his actions so i would know if he loves me.

  • leila August 21, 2018, 12:56 pm

    someone who values you will always show you love thru actions listed in here. i agree and these are what you should be looking for in a man, not just his physical attributes.

  • lara August 20, 2018, 2:16 pm

    They wash the dishes or fold the clothes because they know you hate doing those chores. – i agree with this. my man always does this for me because he knew i hate washing the dishes. he really loves me so very much!

  • megan August 17, 2018, 2:23 pm

    i agree with this post. if a guy is happy about your success and celebrates it with you, then he is definitely in love with you.

  • nina August 16, 2018, 2:02 pm

    a guy who truly loves you will do anything to make you happy or just see you smile. he will take time out of his busy schedule to see you and he’ll make sure you both have a good quality time.

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