Signs he doesn't like you

10 Guaranteed Signs He Doesn’t Like You

Does he like me? Or not?

There’s nothing worse than not knowing whether a guy likes you or not.

This feeling isn’t exclusive to women, though. I used to fixate on whether women liked me or not. I would literally drive myself crazy sometimes (this is awkward to admit, but I’m doing it to help you… because I think it’s valuable to share my own experiences if it means shedding light on the great thing that’s at work here.)

And if you’re wondering, does my ex still like me, it’s even worse.

Or one of the most painful scenarios: you’re in a relationship and you’re worried he’s slipping away… and that he might not even like you anymore. If that’s what you’re worried about, you should take our quiz here and find out if he’s really losing interest in you.

The bottom line is: men are women both wonder whether the person they like feels the same about them. It’s normal to feel anxious and to worry. That’s why I am writing this article—to tell you the truth about what signs mean a guy does not like you.

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First, I want to tell you a story about a girl I met in high school. It was freshman year and we were in the same english class. I was already nervous about even being in high school, but seeing her almost instantly magnified my nerves. It was wonderful, and at the same time, it felt absolutely gut-wrenching. I liked her, and I wanted to know if she liked me… but I kept telling myself there was absolutely no way she would go for me.

She would either think I dress goofy…

Or she would think I was dumb…

Or she would not even want to talk to me.

I came up with dozens of reasons why she could never possibly like me.

That paranoid feeling that I could never be liked was terrible… Eventually I mustered up the courage to talk to her. She wound up being an amazing girl who I still talk to this day. We never actually pursued a relationship, and sometimes I wonder what it might be like, but after getting to know her I realize I’m happier with her as a friend.

The point is, it would have been a hell of a lot easier if I just had some guidebook that gave me the signs to tell me that she liked me or not. I agonized over it and fixated on it endlessly. I didn’t have an answer that gave me any kind of true indication of how she felt… so as I remember what all this felt like I want to give you the most clear, surefire signs to know if a guy doesn’t like you so you don’t have to go through this.

(And before we start – I’m going to be blunt at some points – not because I’m trying to be mean but because I want you to help you… and sometimes the most helpful thing is to be really clear.)

So here we go…

Here are 10 Signs He Doesn’t Like You:

1. He’s Not Around You And Makes No Effort To Be Around You

This is the single most important sign.

When a guy wants something – he’s going to go after it. He’s not going to sit back twiddling his thumbs.

So if he’s not spending time with you, hanging around, and making excuses to hang out with you… when is he going to have the opportunity to try to get closer to you?

The short answer is, he’s not.

Guys aren’t stupid. If he wants you, he knows that he has to spend time with you and be around you in order to get closer to you.

So if he’s not hanging around, or hanging out with you, or even showing up in your life – he’s not trying to go after you… which means he doesn’t like you.

2. He Doesn’t Really Listen When You Talk And Doesn’t Remember What You Tell Him

People remember things that are important to them.

I couldn’t tell you a single word of my trigonometry textbook from 11th grade math class – because it wasn’t important to me.

But I can tell you exactly where I was and what I was doing the first time a girl ever told me she loved me (Cindy Rosen, listening to Bruce Springsteen… funnily enough – also in 11th grade.)

The truth is – most of our days are forgettable. They’re not good, they’re not bad, they just kind of happen, and then fall by the wayside.

Your brain knows this. Since it has a limited capacity for memory (unless you’ve got an amazing photographic memory), your brain is going to edit out the parts it thinks aren’t important, while remembering the parts that are. That’s why you remember an amazing make-out session from a few years ago in detail, but can’t remember what you had for lunch last week.

That’s actually a nice trick to discover what people are really interested in deep down. Because your subconscious is controlling what you remember and don’t remember, you can get a good feel for what’s important to someone deep down in their subconscious by paying attention to what they remember and don’t remember.

Simply put: if your subconscious decides something is important, you’re going to remember it.

And if he likes you, his subconscious is 100% going to know about it – and it’s going to automatically make him remember the things you say.

If he’s not listening to you or remembering the things you say, it means you’re not important to him. Can you remember the last time you liked a guy and he wasn’t important to you (at least right then?)

Obviously, if he’s trying to learn how to juggle 3 flaming chainsaws when you tell him your favorite color – he might not remember.

But 99% of the time, if he likes you, he’s going to listen to you, and remember the things you tell him.

3. He Doesn’t Care About Your Relationships With Other Men Even In The Slightest

Let’s play pretend.

You say to him, “I saw my friend Steve last night.”

Do his ears perk up? Does his tone of voice change? Most importantly: does he ask, “Who’s Steve?”

If he’s into you – he’s gonna care about the other guys you’re hanging out with. And unless he’s the suavest man on the planet – he’s going to reveal he cares (even if he just makes a joke) about what you did with “Steve.”

Guys are hardwired to pick up on competition. It’s what we’ve evolved to do.

That’s why if you can’t get a guy to care about something, the best way to get him hooked is to make it into a competition.

He doesn’t care about doing the dishes? Bet him that you can clean the dishes faster than he can.

Point is, if there’s one thing that guys love, it’s a competition. And they’re able to sniff one out from a mile away.

So if he’s interested in you, he’s going to be hypersensitive to the idea that anyone else is interested in you… and is in direct competition with him.

Obviously, he’s not going to say something incredibly romantic because you mentioned another guy, but if he likes you, he’s definitely going to have some sort of reaction.

And if you mention another potential suitor, only to get no reaction from him – it means that you’re not grabbing the attention of even his competitive side… which is a huge sign that he’s not interested.

4. He Treats You The Same As He Treats Everyone Else – No Difference

This one is simple. When a guy is into you – he feels differently about you than other people.

When he feels different, he acts different. Simple, right?

If that doesn’t sound simple – think about it this way.

Let’s say you’re out with your friends. You’re laughing, you’re having a good time, you’re relaxed and comfortable… and then your boss shows up.

All of a sudden, the whole dynamic is probably going to change for you (unless you have the coolest boss in the world).

You’re going to reign yourself in, watch what you’re saying way more, and in general become way less relaxed.

Why? Because you care about what your boss thinks about you! You don’t want to make a mistake or lower your status in your boss’s eyes, so you act differently than normal.

It’s the same with a guy who likes you. He’s not afraid that you’re going to fire him (unless you’re his boss, which is a whole different can of worms), but he’s definitely going to care what you think of him, which is going to make him act differently.

Just like you want to know how to be cute around him, to make him like you.

If he likes you, it’s gonna show. He’ll act differently around you than other people. Unless he’s a world famous actor or a hardened spy… in which case, good luck.

5. He’s Not Really Curious About Your Life

Every single time I’ve been interested in a woman – I’ve wanted to know more about her.

Why? Read the sentence! I’m interested in her.

And I’m talking really interested – not “Let’s go back to my place and have some fun,” interested.

If a guy is interested, he’s going to want to know more about you. What makes you tick, what you like, what you don’t like, everything.

He’s going to want clues about what you’re really about – both so that he can get to know you better and also so that he can make himself more attractive to you.

And all that starts with getting to know you, which starts with being curious about your life.

If he likes you, he’ll be interested in you. He’ll want to know more about you – and he’ll care when you tell him about yourself.

This is a sign that I see all the time in relationships that are headed for trouble. If he’s not curious about your life anymore, it’s a strong sign he’s losing interest. Take our Is He Losing Interest Quiz right now to see whether he’s losing interest in you (and find out exactly what you should do to stop it).

6. He Openly Mentions Other Women He’s Interested In / He’s In A Serious Relationship

ok – let’s start out here – if he’s talking about someone else that he’s seriously interested in, not just throwing a woman’s name out there to see how you react… it means that he’s not interested.

If he’s seriously interested in someone else, and telling you about it, he’s not trying to make you jealous. He’s giving you a blatant signal that he’s not interested in dating you.

Both men and women are allowed to be interested in multiple people at the same time – no double standards here.

But if he’s talking to you about the other women he’s seriously interested in…

Well, answer me this question – would you ever do that with a guy you really liked?

Didn’t think so.

And if he’s already in a serious relationship, that’s a huge strike against him being interested in you.

Of course, he might be sending you signals just for his own thrill, but that’s pretty unlikely…

In fact, it’s way more likely that if he’s in a serious relationship with someone, he’s not looking to date anyone else… which really hurt your chances with him.

7. He Never Contacts You First

If he likes you, he’s going to want to see you. He’s going to want to be around you. And he’s going to want to talk to you.

That urge you feel in your stomach to be around a guy you like – men feel that too. And if he feels that urge, he’s going to be reaching out to you to see you again.

If he’s not calling, or texting, or making plans to be with you, then he doesn’t feel that urge.

8. He’s A Super Friendly/Super Flirty Guy In General

This ties back into sign #4 – if he’s a super flirty guy and he flirts with you – he’s not really treating you differently. He’s treating you the same as he treats everyone else.

He might make you feel really special – compliment you, make you laugh, call you pet names…

But if he does that with every girl he meets… he’s not treating you any differently, is he?

9. He’s Always Busy / He Doesn’t Put In Any Extra Effort

This is about priorities.

There are some guys out there that are really busy – and that’s ok. All good relationships are between two people that each have a full life. And if he’s too busy to see you as much as you’d like him to – it doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you.

But if he’s too busy to see you at all – it means you’re not even on his list of priorities. And even the busiest guy on the planet will make time to see you – as long as you’re a priority for him.

So it comes down to the question – are you among his priorities or not?

If you are – great. If you’re not… instead of following all these books and crazy things that tell you to try to change him and make him come around and chase after you…

You should be dropping him and spending your time with a guy who does make you his priority.

Think about it this way – let’s pretend you’re the boss of a company. One of your employees loves his job – he shows up every day, puts in 100% effort, doesn’t stop working until he’s totally satisfied with his project, and never stops trying to learn more and get better at his job.

Another employee is the opposite – it’s clear he doesn’t want to be there. All he does is try to finish his work as quickly as possible and put in as little thought and effort as possible to get it done. He doesn’t go the extra mile, he doesn’t check for mistakes, and he spends most of his time goofing off.

Now, you can spend all your time and effort and energy trying to turn a bad employee into a good employee…

Or you could fire his ass and find yourself a good employee – one who loves being there.

10. The Truth: It Will Be obvious That He Likes You

Look – guys aren’t subtle.

This is all about your gut instinct. Honestly – what do you really think in your gut about him.

Do you really think he likes you?

Listen to your gut – whether you get a sinking feeling or an excited, butterfly feeling will tell you everything you need to know.

ok – so those are the signs. Chances are, you probably got your answer from one or more of the signs above.

And before you jump down my throat with, “Oh but one time this guy didn’t call me for 3 years and it turned out he was a secret agent working deep undercover but really he liked me the whole time!” – I’m not talking about the crazy outlier cases here.

If he’s giving you 4 or more of the signs – it’s a pretty safe bet that he doesn’t like you.

If you want to know the signs that a guy does like you, you can go here for my thoughts on the subject.

Click here to take our quick (and shockingly accurate) “Does He Like You” Quiz right now and find out if he likes you…

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In summary…

The Top Signs He Doesn’t Like You

  1. He’s not around you and makes no effort to be around you
  2. He doesn’t really listen when you talk and doesn’t remember what you tell him
  3. He doesn’t care about your relationships with other men even in the slightest
  4. He treats you the same as he treats everyone else – no difference
  5. He’s not really curious about your life
  6. He openly mentions other women he’s interested in / he’s in a serious relationship
  7. He never contacts you first
  8. He’s a super friendly/super flirty guy in general
  9. He’s always busy / he doesn’t put in any extra effort
  10. The Truth: It Will Be obvious That He Likes You

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126 comments… add one
  • Moon September 8, 2017, 3:47 pm

    All guys sucks…..They r made to break hearts

  • Dew July 31, 2017, 4:54 pm

    I think these signs helped me alot. There is this guy m crushing on and its bad,he is a neighbour one day he gave me a lift to work and on the way we talked about a lot of things but he didnt ask for my number but he is super nice with me he even offered me help said whenever i need to go the shops he can take me but m really scared that he will find out i like hinnand maybe he doesnt like me an i be so dissapointed so m just scared to ask for help even when i need it and i think i will ignore him till my feelings for him are xompletely gone

  • Bebegirl June 24, 2017, 6:07 am

    So I met this guy yesterday. I’ve only talked to him once and I think he’s really cute and nice and funny. I’ve seen him look over at me a few times when I’ve been hanging around my friend and they are actually friends and she used to like him but he didn’t like her I don’t think. And now she’s got a different boyfriend. Maybe he’s jealous of her that she’s got a different boyfriend? I can’t tell if he’s looking at me or her. Please help quickly.

  • Arti June 23, 2017, 3:14 am

    Plz reply must and fast

  • Arti June 23, 2017, 3:13 am

    My boyfriend says to me he loves me.. He wants to marry me. .. But he doesn’t talk to me… Even not give a single msg in a whole day… I’m so worried about our relationship… I love him alot.. . I can’t live without him.. . I’m not happy with his this kind of behaviour.. I want his attention. .. I’m totally confused what to do now… plz tell me is he really loves me now…??

  • Anne May 22, 2017, 4:21 am

    So well I really like my best friend but he’s the half shy half flirty kind so I never knew what he really thought about me. But lately he asked me to support him in his finals for a competition and the joke among his friends was they’ld all bring their crushes and propose together if they won, I don’t really what to think now tbh…help?

  • Raintree May 7, 2017, 10:33 pm

    So I’m in 7th grade and I’m on the softball team for my school, well I like my teams catchers cousin and I think he likes me back. We are in 5 classes together and he’s always starting at me whether it’s during softball games or class and he’s always tryna be near me and always talking to me and he’s lie one of the “popular” hot boys on the football team and I guess you can say I’m the “shy cute girl with glasses”. Well one day we was at a softball game and we was talking about how he was staying after the game because he didn’t have a ride and I said so your parents aren’t here? And he said nope so I said your all alone huh? Ya know just jokin around and I kept sayin your so lonely and then out of the blue he said I have a girl friend so I tried to play it cool even tho I was freaking out on the inside because I haven’t heard of her and ive had a MAJOR crush on him since 3rd grade so like I was saying I tried to play it cool and so I said well, is she here and he said no so I said so your all alone and then hurriedly walked back to my group of friends in the dugout (the bench basically if you didn’t know) and then after the 2nd ending he came into the dugout and sat beside me and we kinda had a moment where we sat there and stared at each other for a moment and then we broke away out of gaze and I had a water bottle in my hand and I went to drink some and he playfully tilted it up some and the water went all of my face and glasses and he said of I’m soooo sorry! And he grabbed my glasses and wiped them off with his shirt and wiped my face of with his hands. I really like him and I think he likes me but idk I need yalls help plz

    • Raintree May 7, 2017, 10:36 pm

      He added me on insta and fb and he’s always asking what time the games are and saying I’ll be there. I messaged him on insta asking when his football practice was and he responded immediately

  • Mary April 23, 2017, 4:35 am

    So I told a guy that I like him, and he said “I respect that”. It was kinda confusing because I didn’t exactly know what he meant. I’m still not sure if he likes me. I just wanted to know if there’s anyway I can know for sure if there’s still a chance or if I can make him like me and how long I should take to move on. I really like him.

  • ziggy April 19, 2017, 5:45 pm

    i dont mean to be a wet blanket here but i too have walked this path of love and trust me when i say it is not worth it ..ladies love is not meant for all of us and tht is something i have come to accept i am so young but my heart has many scars …and they are all in the name of “love”. again guess. dont mean to be a wet blanket

  • Reagan W. April 6, 2017, 2:40 pm

    Okay, so there was this guy that i DID like but one day my friend texted him and she asked him if he liked me. He said no. The next day later there are rumors going around about how “I like him” or “he likes me” but we don’t. The rumors went around by him showing others the text he got..I went home from school yesterday because of it and I didn’t go to school today. What do I do?? ;-;

    • Kaitlyn Gallaher April 23, 2017, 1:26 am

      What to do is go back to school and tell all of the people about what happened. I had it not to much ago and did it. I seen this before. I talked about a different rumor. That always works. Just make sure its a top of the line rumor. Its because if you don’t change the rumor or stand up than you will be called names and picked on. It happens to people. Here’s a rumor you can use my example: find a person and ask about a random gossip than put it out to the whole school than you should be fine.

  • gomezpeter March 30, 2017, 2:57 am

    Your article helped me enough to get a clear vision about him.I don’t know how to thank you.These information gave me a huge insight and will certainly make a great difference in my career as well as personal life and also i realize what is more important to me.

  • Evie March 29, 2017, 3:46 pm

    I met a guy on a dating app, and our relationship started off weird. I don’t know whether to kick him to the curb or be more patient. He liked me first on the app. I liked him in return. The site connected us. I message first. He doesn’t say anything. 6 days go past, and I had forgotten all about him. He replies to my message. We talk for a few minutes. I ask a question. No answer. I’m baffled, but I was like whatever. The site closed the chat with the possibility of reopening. I didn’t reopen the chat, but the guy did, to my surprise. I waited for him to say something. Nothing. For 5 days. I was bored one night and I just wrote in Hi. He answered me and asked if he could give me his number. I said sure. We chatted for a day, and he’s back to his disappearing ways again. What is this? If he’s not interested in me, what is the point of this game?

  • Jannel Kobole March 26, 2017, 1:10 pm

    If a guy starres at you everyday and he tries to impress you and he often makes eye contact with you you and he has a girlfriend and he accept your requests on social media and he doesn’t reply your messages when you send him but he has a girlfriend does it mean he likes you?

  • Sne March 18, 2017, 9:18 am

    There’s this guy that I’m deeply in love with…We’re in the same History class and every single lesson I catch him staring at him and I also stare back at him which causes him to shy away..so there was this one time when we texted each other and confessed our feelings to each other and then the next day at school things were quite awkward to say the least…a few days later there were rumors about us dating- and he didn’t like that at all.so that night we texted each other and then he told me that he had a girlfriend that he was deeply in love with- that text confused me so much cause the previous day he told me that he loved me and stuff…and to justify things he gets so jealous when I talk to other guys and that ruins his entire day…I don’t know what to do….P.S (we don’t usually talk to each other on a daily basis-)

  • Kayla February 28, 2017, 11:08 am

    Okay, so there’s this guy in my bio class and hes really cute and i actually think i really like him, but hes one of those “popular” guys, and im not really “popular” but i did have a thing with one of his close basketball buddies and i heard him and his friends talk about my boobs (its really this one guy talking about it and they all listen in, its also really annoying too). But yea, i always catch him staring at me and sometimes it seems like he kinda just appears everywhere i am, anyway when i try talking to him he kinda just acts like and asshole and tries to be all cool, so i just need an opinion on this because i wanna know if i should waste my time crushing on a guy that looks at me like hes interested when he really isn’t.

  • Monique February 27, 2017, 8:37 am

    -My guy doesn’t respect me and he like to do things to piss me off we’ve been together for four years now and there’s is this other guy I like and he wants to settle down with me…How do I walk away from him?

  • Lydia February 7, 2017, 7:03 pm

    I really like this guy in my class. He’s one of the more “popular” kids and is always talking to other “popular girls”. Whenever he talks to them I get so jealous. The good news is he talks to other people besides “popular people” and doesn’t seem to like any of these girls so I do have a chance. Sometimes when I stare at him in class I see him look at me too but then we both quickly look away. I also observed he doesn’t really stare at anyone else. I need to know if he likes me but I’m not the type to just straight up say “Hey I like you!”, so how can I tell if he likes me or how can I talk to him(BTW I’m pretty shy in general)? Please help it’s breaking my heart to think of the idea he doesn’t like me back.

    • Rhea February 12, 2017, 12:32 pm

      My story is very similar to you Lydia. I like a popular guy as well plus I’m more of the shy girl with glasses who sits in class alone. Maybe (if he sits near you) you can try the “old drop the pencil trick” to see if he picks it up for you, or ask to borrow his pencil. Also, try staying away from other people in that class to see if he cones more closer to you or chooses his friends instead to hang around (even if he’s just standing next to you at your desk away from everyone else). Just play around a little and try looking at him more and maybe laugh at his class jokes but don’t make it look too obvious!

  • Shaneen February 6, 2017, 1:03 am

    Hi, I just really need your advice. i have a huge crush on this guy since i was 14. He is not my friend nor my classmate, he is the nephew of my cousin’s wife that’s why i was able to meet him 9 years ago in our family gathering and since then, i started communicating with him, i added him on friendster that time and then on facebook. i will always be the one to message him first but he will answer me right away, i will talk to him about my problems and the funny thing is i will always feel better after even if he hasn’t said anything uplifting to me, just the fact that he made time to talk to me made me feel better already and then after a while i became tired of being always the one messaging first and i stopped messaging him. But you know what even if i stopped messaging him and was not totally seeing him, my feelings for him did not go away. Every time i will start to like or have a crush on someone else, i will still think of him and at the end of the day it will still be him that was on my mind and it hurts because why do i like him so much ? After a few years, i was already in college at that time, we started talking again. but he has a girlfriend already, but you can see on his face every time we will see each other on family gatherings that he is trying to be friendly and sometimes i can sense that he is always looking at me. here is my problem, i like him but i’m tired of waiting for him, i tried so many times to stop myself from waiting for him and hoping that he will like me back, but why is my heart like this? it’s been 9 years.

    • Soccerlover⚽️ February 7, 2017, 9:41 pm

      I don’t understand he is always playfully teasing me but he shows some of these signs I still think he likes me though. Am I wrong?

  • sammie January 18, 2017, 2:11 pm

    so I have been Chating with this guy for like 10months….we never met…. thn we decided to meet… aftee we did I couldn’t helping thinking that he didn’t like what he saw… when we were Chating he was like I enjoyed being with you but I felt like he is acting differently.. he used to be opened and all and respond my texts asap mara he started talking time after we met… I questioned him.. told him his acting differently the person that m used to will confuse me mara he kept saying m insecured and his trying to give me that reassurance …he always told me how he sees a future nami mara after we met the were no talks about us….idk.. M confused as hell

    • Rhea February 12, 2017, 12:21 pm

      Maybe he just wants to be friends? Or he’s too shy to admit it or he shows weird signs of liking you… everyone is different.

  • Rianelle January 16, 2017, 3:13 am

    There’s this guy i really like. We met last year at a theater summer workshop. We became friends,.. I didnt realize i like him until the prod week of our professional show we started working on 2 months after our workshop ended. I thought he had feelings for me too cause of these silly signs: he usually needs me. he comes to me for help.. he asks me to fix his lapel on his hair, he was choking he asked for my water only (which i didnt have it then) but never asked our other friends who were sitting next to me, he asked me to fix his costume, carry his food, asks me if im okay, looks out for me if i have already preset my props , etc….
    I told him right after our cast party, i sent him a message, but it was just a casual “i have a crush on you!” kinda thing. and he only said he was flattered… tho i thought he would say the same thing :( and he said we will talk about it some time but never happened.

    i dont really know now. we’re still friends. but my feelings for him is really getting stronger and it’s driving me crazy that i dont know what he really feels. it’s breaking my heart..

    • Lydia February 7, 2017, 6:45 pm

      I think maybe if he liked you he would have told you straight up after you told him. Instead, he put it off and hasn’t mentioned it since this could be a sign he’s really not into you. Maybe he put it off cause he was in a rush and needed to take a longer time to tell you he also liked you. If you have his number ask him about the topic through a text or call. Or if you see him often then you can ask him then. If he doesn’t like you just remember there are other fish in the sea and you had a lot of confidence to tell him you liked him (I would never do that). I hope i helped.

  • Caroline January 10, 2017, 7:33 pm

    There is this guy who i think i have a crush on but hes 2 years younger than me i dont know if he likes me. He always looks at me and when i talk he pays attion to me does he like me when he looks at me i feel weird in my stomach. Can someone help me?

  • R. G. January 7, 2017, 5:26 am

    I have seen a guy at a funeral. he is my friend’s cousin. he is a shy guy though he is a personal trainer at a gum. I was serving tea and coffee at the men’s side according to our culture.
    every time I go and serve men including him, he lift up his eyelids to have a look at me stealthily. I have noticed it but did not make him feel this. at the end of the funeral, he was next to his uncle and both thanked me with a smile for doing this big service. he was lifting up his eyes to talk to me as they were looking down.
    I am not sure of this way of looking whether he is fond of me or by nature this is how he talks to people? this is the first time I see him. I was advised he is not married but may be in the past he was married then is divorced the reason that made him act that way?
    this happened at the end of November and till now I have not seen him again.
    do u think he is not interested or may be his past experience (if any) is stopping him from.taking any step? do I gave to start conversation with him via FB?
    please advise me.
    R. G.

  • Gabby January 5, 2017, 5:08 pm

    So there’s this guy I like and he found out I liked him. He says that I’m fugly, but he stares at me a lot and he always started convos with me on snapchat once in a while. He also asked me out twice over winter break but after I said ?????? Twice he said “sike”, and in school in my LA class he keeps on saying sike out loud and it’s getting on my nerve. Also my friend over heard him saying my name to his friend, and she heard him saying “what should I do with her”, in an exciting and serious way according to her. He also comes by my art table a lot in Art, but I guess that because I sit by one of his friends, but he’s not that close to the guy I sit by. What should I do?? And does he like me??

    • Rhea February 12, 2017, 12:43 pm

      It sounds like he might just be one of those guys who wants to impress his friends by being a jerk and calling you “fugly” and maybe his friends were going to give him money if he asked you out and said yes. My advice is to see if this is the real thing by showing your true colours and just being yourself, act really nice and friendly and if he starts ignoring you you’ll know what his intentions were…

  • Eva December 22, 2016, 9:02 pm

    Well basically,I’m worrying about this stupid crushie I have on this boy, we’ve never talked since level 3….In middle School we still never talked to each other but when it came to level 8,every time I sit alone or sitting with my friends I look around and I see him staring so I look away….That have happened alot TBH.
    And when hes with his friends talking and laughing and I’m with my friends talking and laughing, I see him laughing with his friends looking at me….I get Butterfly’s….But I think he’s looking at someone else…So I let that go…After our graduation for middle school.. Highschool…I take my 1 and 4 Period with him…Everytime is see him makes me want to hide…And Everytime I’m sitting in my 4 Period I see him talking to other girls He has a girlfriend that’s one year older than him..I don’t know if their still going out or something…On Facebook…Him and his girlfriend made it official….Well..His girlfriend did..I never really see him post pictures of him and her…Only his girlfriend post picture of them holding hand… That made me feel worthless..Even in highschool were not even talking…We never even had a One minute or second talk….He make me feel like I’m special but he also makes me feel Worthless at the end…..I just wish I never meant him… Please Help me….

  • Samarah November 28, 2016, 8:56 pm

    wtf, if under 18 is not allowed to receive results, do not let us take the 15 minute quiz. thank you.

    • Raintree May 7, 2017, 10:14 pm

      Yes, my point exactly!

  • Faith November 11, 2016, 4:21 am

    My boyfriend and I had been together for months now, every seems OK, but i feel way down inside that something is just not right but i cant get my hands on it.
    To a point he really show most of the signs that he is really into me, but sometime its like he just don’t care about me. I am a bit confused.
    what do i do?

    • Rikka February 25, 2017, 11:29 pm

      I feel you ..

  • sheilah Gitonga November 6, 2016, 3:04 pm

    actually I don’t know how to say, mmm my friend introduced me to his boyfriend so the boyfriend has a cousin, whom I came to like. but he wasn’t in to me and I left the situation at hand and I moved on since its like he never liked me. I met different men and there was no success in any of them. after one year since we are close with the my friend and her boyfriend so we met again with him. and actually we talked for like two days continuously and I was waiting for him to be mute as always. because when we meet he remembers I do exist, but now he is calling me several times knowing my way about and he has been taking me to dinner and back then sometimes he looses my contacts and he forgets. so he got my contacts again when my friend with his boyfriend went to the his office and he kinda remembered me and he actually asked for my contacts since he’s phone was like not good it was loosing contacts lol, he called me and I was shocked why is this dude calling me.. lol I picked up the phone and he told me we meet and it’s that we are good friends.
    what I don’t understand is when we go out together he never utters a word how he feels about me and I get confused, he never calls me to tell me how he misses me and I wonder what am I doing with this guy, no mutual feeling and if I was to date another person I see no harm coz I have never heard from him he’s intention towards me. I wonder if he is interested with me.

  • Ally October 30, 2016, 5:52 pm

    He do tease me sometimes but do make me laugh and play together or talk to each other but last we used to do pretend as if we in love when others start to talk but i was falling for him and this year i cant cause he also does touche other sexy and booty girls, does he loves me or not

    • Temi November 21, 2016, 1:55 pm

      If a guy truly likes u he will only look at u, only touch u. He might just want u for your body and want to use u. IT WILL BE OBVIOUS IF HE TRULY LIKES U!

  • Jessie October 7, 2016, 6:08 pm

    So here’s my issue… I’ve been talking to this guy for almost 2 months… We’ve had lunch once. He owns his own company. He travels almost weekly… and I’ve asked him to hang out multiple times… but hes always busy playing catch up. He tells me he likes me… and he is a super genuine guy…but when does he have time for me? He calls and texts me every day to let me know hes thinking about me…. He is literally everything I have looked for in a man… What do I do?!?

  • kayla September 13, 2016, 5:14 pm

    I had noticed a guy who kept looking my way so with the help of friends I decided to go on a see if really he is into me.Reality took it’s turn when we shared a text and all he said was he does not wana give me the wrong impression…worse feeling ever!since we work together he still smiles to greet whenever we pass on by…most awkward moment tho…life can be full of pretenses…

  • Hmm August 5, 2016, 1:38 pm

    Srsly… Well it all depends or circumstances. I find at least half of you “signs”invalid in my situation. Well it seams girl I like cares nothing about me, and we are working together. And actually she is working directly with the boss so I could get in trouble really fast and easy. So I fight back any thoughts about romance and that means:
    1) Not being around her as not to act weirdly. (Easy as she doesn’t come where I am)
    2) Avoid speaking with her or pretends I don’t care remember/know/hear what she says even thought I do. (Its easy she actually doesn’t say anything)
    3) I do my best to to show any jealously about other guys getting her attention.
    4) Hmm this one’s true… I have srsly huge difficulties acting “normally” anything near her. I think she even commented quite loud that I’m acting strange.
    5) Hell I’m curious about her life but that would be sure suicide and she doesn’t tell anything by herself.
    6) Well I may actually mention other women as disguise.
    7 and 9) Never ever… Well You can do that stuff when you are getting over unrequited love.

    The bottom line is that all what is written here is valid if the GUY actually understands that you have feelings for him! If he thinks that you DO NOT CARE and the situation is such that risking and going for it would result bad things (workplace crush and so on) he may do everything in his power to force himself to forge you. And then he may actually act exactly like he doesn’t care.
    So for some shy girl reading this:
    a) at least show some subtle hints that he can go for it and has some chance.
    b) not every man doesn’t understand women’s “No”. Some actually respect it. Especially if they LOVE you. So if you show him you want nothing with him for example avoid him, do not talk with him, run away from him, he may pick a hing between lines that you dislike/hate him or saw his low and want nothing to do with it. So be a little bit careful with what you do.

  • via July 29, 2016, 10:15 am

    Well,not just four.but most of it actually. Therefore he doesnt like be back. Slaps reality.

  • Lizzy July 27, 2016, 8:47 pm

    I broke up with him because he changed. He started talking to other girls and he’s never done that before. He put everything into our relationship when we dated and then I don’t know what happened. I thought he just lost feelings for me. But know he says he wants me back, but he doesn’t want to see me because “It’ll be awkward.” and I know he ignores me sometimes. I know I deserve better, but we dated for awhile and I really liked him. I don’t know what to do.

  • Marina July 27, 2016, 8:32 pm

    Worst article I ever read. None of these are actually any sign that a guy doesn’t like you. Get your facts straight

    • Nick Bastion July 28, 2016, 3:10 pm

      Hey there… Could you share what you believe would be the correct information? I’m curious what you think was incorrect or should have been different.

      • Marina July 29, 2016, 10:48 pm

        I just broke up with my boyfriend and am currently seeing someone who fits all of these yet he makes constant effort to always write me back even when he’s traveling and he always pays, makes effort to seems etc. And my ex boyfriend who loved me dearly never made me his priority but that never meant he didn’t love me.

        • Marina July 29, 2016, 10:49 pm

          I meant makes effort to see me*

          • Nick Bastion August 1, 2016, 5:12 pm

            OK, can you clarify something: You said that your ex loves you and that you broke up? What happened there?

  • Era July 25, 2016, 6:06 am

    Good article, thank you. The man i liked liked another woman better so yeah. I guess she is just the woman that looks like his dream woman. And I… am left with my room for a great guy to come!

  • Wendy July 24, 2016, 6:40 pm

    I need advice on what to do. I recently contacted my old lover from 20 years ago. We were so crazy and passionate with each other. But we mutually went our separate ways for years. But every time I contacted him Wed meet for lunch and just talk and talk. I saw him 4 months ago and we had an amazing night together, like we used to. He said he’d call or text and he did twice only said hi once and how r u once. That’s it. Now no matter what I say I can’t get him to answer my calls or texts. I was thinking of stopping over at his house. I’m just ending my 20 year marriage and I know he’s afraid of my husband. Is that it or does he not like me anymore? He seemed that he was still head over heels in love when I saw him. When he didn’t reply I’d texted him kind of a lot. Is that why did I come on to strong

  • Dream Evil July 23, 2016, 2:40 am

    When I don’t like a girl I always act like I do to mess with them.

    • Lexi August 4, 2016, 1:14 pm

      Hahahaha…mean. Funny. But mean.

      But funny.

    • anastasia September 10, 2016, 12:36 pm

      There’s no reason to do that.

  • Ann July 20, 2016, 2:53 pm

    I have been with a guy for 2 months. At first I just simply wanted to hook up but then we had a great date and we spent 2 nights together without having sex, only cuddled (lol). After that he said he likes me a lot and I feel that he likes me too. But then he moved to another city which is only 2 hours away from mine. We wanted to keep it casual by seeing each other once or twice a month without commitment. But then he kept cancelling on me anytime we planned to meet and I got frustrated. I told him I just wanted to see him and have sex (cause I’m so attracted to him physically) and he can do whatever he wants with other girls. So he decided to see me and said he even likes me more so let’s do it again once or twice a month, I agreed but I doubt he could do that. As expected, he kept cancelling on me 2 more times but he had his reason. He is a language teacher and has unfixed schedule, but I got so angry and I told him let’s not plan to meet again. He went completely silent since then.
    I’m feeling like he’s playing around with me, not believe that he likes me at all and I do not care very much cause I just want to get on bed with him. I texted him twice but he didn’t answer.
    Anybody experienced this case and can tell me what he wants cause I would like to know too. He doesn’t really want to simply hook up with me, seems to like me but sometimes he seems to be up to something else.

  • Deidre Patrick July 11, 2016, 8:53 pm

    Okay I’m pretty confused this guy I have a crush on we work together and I feel like he is into me, but he isn’t making any moves. We casually text (yes I usually text him), and we’ve talked about hanging out before. And whenever we see each other well talk alot. Plus we have these “moments”. So idek know what to think. Is he too nervous to hang out or is he not into me the way I feel he is?

    • Sam August 8, 2017, 12:49 am

      Hey, im in a very similar situation. Hes my classmate. And asking me to study with him apparently isnt always a move. So I dont know what to think. Since its been a while, would you care to update or share what you think looking back on it?

  • John July 11, 2016, 2:41 am

    How funny that women need articles like this to point out the obvious. Here’s the main reason he doesn’t like you: You’re a woman, and women are bad for men.

    • Rose October 10, 2016, 10:06 pm

      Oh, you’re obviously gay! If women are “bad for men”. Or asexual? Can’t handle a bra? Only bitter guys say things like this…but bitter is fun to poke fun at so…*blows horn in your ear* have fun with that negative attitude!

      • jon December 21, 2016, 3:09 am

        has nothing to do with being gay, but women are really ignorant, nasty, and full of games and issues that men don’t normally have..

        i’m really good looking, smart, funny, outgoing, have all my shit together.. nice car own home, play instruments, write music/poetry.. everybody says it, and girls play that ignore me game, the i can’t see you game, the treat him like he’s stupid game…..etc.
        only time girls check me out is when they’re with another guy, which makes it awkward for me because the dude is looking to fight me.
        i get called gay by other guys because i’m always single, and i dont want to be!
        the funniest thing is the girls i do get they all say i have no feminine qualities and they can’t believe i go single for so long..im not a beta male or anything.
        i dont have guy friends because they get threatened sexually..i know this because they turn on me or start talking shit and i’m one of those friends that has your back even if you might be wrong.

        that’s why women are kind of bad for men..you all never think about what men go through or what the games and bullshit might do to men mentally..

        i now have ptsd after years of being a recluse.. i didnt choose to be a recluse but people ostracize and sort of single me out so i have no choice..
        i also developed Social Anxiety really badly..also because im part black and i’m not into thug stuff so i catch hell for not being like them..

        i’m also really good in bed, but now I’ve had depression so long if i tell any girl i get into a relationship with, they get really cruel and nasty and tell me im stupid for being depressed etc.

        i dont have it in me mentally much longer to be around..
        i know ill never have kids or any real happiness now im 29 while i still look 18 its gonna fade and i’ll be in a really complex place as far as remembering my past.

        long story short….women make men suicidal and crazy in the end…
        this is actually a very true story.

  • Wooly July 9, 2016, 12:36 am

    This article looks like a high school girl wrote it.

  • Promise July 8, 2016, 7:29 am

    Hi
    I sort of have an issue with my boyfriend , he said he is not sure if he can still keep on loving me because he can’t see or touch me and we are into this long distance relationship thingy…He doesn’t call or text me anymore…Pls what do I do..??..I really love him

  • Lauren July 5, 2016, 1:02 am

    Leave him as a friend he’s not worth it I’ve always ended the friendship promptly once a guy who I like doesn’t feel the same he doesn’t deserve you

  • Scarlett July 2, 2016, 4:39 pm

    Why I’m I even reading this! It is so obvious he doesn’t like me! Why I still love him? Cause I’m stupid and I just can’t forget him! I think is more the furstration you feel, like, what is wrong with me? I don’t deserve to be loved?

    • claire July 4, 2016, 11:56 am

      That is utterly ridiculous; firstly you need to see your worth… if you don’t see how valuable a person you are how can you expect anyone else to? secondly, if he doesn’t like you then hes really not worth your time or energy.

      It is not you with the problem. Don’t try to please someone who wouldn’t not go out of their way to please you. He really isn’t worth it!

    • Dream Evil July 23, 2016, 2:29 am

      You are not entitled to love. See what you need to change about yourself and go into metamorphosis.

  • Mable June 12, 2016, 1:32 pm

    My boyfriend recently broke up with me, partly because he has a lot of family problems, as well as his struggle in his college classes and his busy schedule with his fraternity. He said that there is still a possibility that we will get back together, and that he just doesnt have time for a romantic relationship right now. He feels bad that I put more effort than he does, and that he can’t say that he loves me. He won’t tell me that he will only think of me as a friend, and that it is definite that we will never get back together. He also said that he treated me like one of his guy friends, not like a girlfriend. But other people outside of the relationship, and myslef personally think that he liked me more than just a friend, and that he did things that friends wouldn’t do for one another. He still wants to be friends no matter what, and comforts me when I need him in relations to the breakup. We also ended up cuddling one night. Did he really not have feelings for me, or did he lose feelings for me? Is it because he just has too much pressure on him right now? I understand that some believe that if someone truly loved you theyd stick with you no matter what, but I also see a perspective from where if there is too much on someones plate they would want to push people away and take off some of those pressures on their plate.

  • Naseer hussain June 5, 2016, 4:57 am

    if a guy does really like u he will try to impress u anyhow.
    But if he’s too busy to see you at ALL – it means
    you’re not even on his list of priorities. And even
    the busiest guy on the planet will make time to
    see you – as long as you’re a priority for him.

  • Naseer hussain June 5, 2016, 4:48 am

    I think affection is not a stupid thing it happens naturally whither a boy likes a girl or not but the serious thing is that whosoever does love will try to stay closer always…

  • Stranger. June 4, 2016, 11:41 pm

    Hi,
    Anyone wanting to fall in love, find love or even avoid love for some personal reason read this..
    I fell in love with this boy who I literally worshiped! In my eyes he was my mr. Perfect, you know them ones when you can’t find nothing wrong with him, you’re trying too, but nope he’s 100!!!
    I gave him my all, yet as time went on he became very possessive and controlling, so much to a point where I wasn’t allowed to go out, wear certain outfits, basically be me.. Girls/boys I had only realised I was being controlled when I had realised I had only 2 friends left. The amount of people I cut off just to consume enough love from the person to last me through the day:night was in itself a nightmare!! I was craving his attention, this bad boy had given me attention! This great, handsome some- what messed up boy calling me his girl was apparently enough for me in this life.. No! You can’t be blind towards mental/physical abuse just because of love. Love can turn you crazy, make you fiend for this person, make you do unthinkable things.

  • Rebecca June 4, 2016, 2:46 am

    Can anyone tell me if he likes me or not?
    – he’s looking at me alot and go wherever i go. But when his friends ask him that he like me or not. He always say ‘I DON’T KNOW’ ??

  • DJ May 30, 2016, 10:44 pm

    Well I herd that he used an example of me being his GF but I did this just to be sure and yea….. He’s still interested……

  • otto May 27, 2016, 7:43 am

    No not a broken heart. Only broken expectations. Perhaps working on yourself may help

    • Joy June 12, 2016, 6:35 pm

      Walk away thats just mind games

  • Cami May 25, 2016, 2:35 am

    Well, he didn’t make a priority for a few months or so, but now I am again, so he really was busy. Other than that, he likes me. That was the only one. I guess I don’t have to worry although those few months were tough. It’s not like we’re long distance either!

  • liza May 14, 2016, 4:24 pm

    girl i think he is a little shy, i dont think your friends would lie to you and honestly guys love it when a girl texts them first… i mean i was looking at this page because i am surrounded by fuckbuys and i was just trying to see if the guy reaching out to me actually likes me ir is just a fuckboy. plus not akk rules apply to all guys, i think you should either approach him and be straight up with him or just give him some time… well hope this helped and hope it works out for you two :)

  • lil jaen44 May 13, 2016, 1:21 pm

    you know what cheyanne I agree with you so much, I feel what you are feeling right now!!!!!!!!!!

  • Mo West May 12, 2016, 12:35 am

    So, I’m looking at this and I’m super confused by life. There is this guy that has apparently told multiple people that he likes me, but every single one of the things that is listed as he doesn’t like you apply. I’ve had two people tell me that he talks about me to them. My friends say it is because he is shy, but you would think he’d at least text me every once and a while. Should I just assume he doesn’t like me and not try to put anything into it or what?

  • American pilot May 5, 2016, 7:38 pm

    So I suppose I’ve learned plenty and plenty of lessons about guys but why do we still go back to get our hearts broken ? I still wonder. Anyways, theres this guy I know for a long time probably my life, but its only in recent years maybe we began talking as proper friends. He’s not much older than me but we get along fine. The thing is, I think we would get along to great that I’d feel pretty happy hanging around with him but at that time I could never develop feelings because of his plentyful girl scenarios …But recently I’ve moved high schools, fortunately he attends this one and at the start of the year non stop talking and hanging out all the time and yes he would be flirty but i always though thats how he was around everyone. Then the thing called ‘feelings’ kicked in, I got so frustrated knowing he was off limits, knowing of his history or what not but tbh I never cared, and sometimes the way he’d treat me I’d feel special and maybe there was some hope he felt the same. But hey I guess people chsnge their minds fast? He would tease me sometimes of my hot friends or Nudge me when he’d see me just to annoy me. But recently I feel different, I tried forgetting about those feelings for a while, it truthfully worked until now again theyve kicked in and I’m constantly wondering why because Obviously its a phase i mean I think it is. He’s acting kind of different lately, sometimes i’d have to be the conversation starter or maybe less teasing idk. Sigh, I’m so confused, Of course I don’t want it to be obvious I have feelings, it could ruin the friendship. But I guess sadly, not everything goes our way right?

  • cheyenne May 2, 2016, 2:15 pm

    i hate people and guys on this planet i learned that you will have a broken heart over and over again

  • cheyenne May 2, 2016, 1:58 pm

    the guy i like only does 3 of these i dont know if he likes me or not i wish that he did i think that i found my true love today i asked my best friend to give him a note for me and act like that it was from her she said that it was from me and now he’s talking about it all the time it realy upset me a lot ill never forget it im about to give up on trying to get him because it seems nothing works

  • Gina Gonzalez April 28, 2016, 5:41 pm

    I’m always getting hurt by men whenever I like a man it’s always a disaster they never like me back it’s obvious that my mr right man doesn’t exist

    • Kendra July 31, 2016, 7:19 am

      Me too.

    • Marry November 19, 2016, 1:12 pm

      Yeah I hav the same problm plus the guy i like myt net b intrstd in me bt hes always intrtd in my besties :(

  • Anonymous April 24, 2016, 8:03 pm

    It’s sad, because some men come and read these types of articles to either make sure to do these things to hide that they have a crush on you, or they are coming to learn to flirt, and you shouldn’t need to learn to flirt, it should be natural!!!

  • Kenny Payton April 10, 2016, 12:20 am

    Some of these signs do not make any sense. As a guy I am typically outgoing and I am told by friends that I flirt with girls I don’t really like. But the girl I like I am super nervous to talk to her, and have her Kik (texting app) but not her number. As an athlete my confidence is never low unless I try to talk to her or kik her but when I end up trying to kik her, I end up asking about an class assignment. Not to mention she is my ex from 4 years ago and I don’t want to mess up like I did in the past. We have moments where we talk and get lost in each others eyes but the moments seem to fade becuase it happens like once a month.We hug occasionally and feel like she staring at me out of the corner of my eye. But it scares me to know that many girls think this acticle is accurate becuase if the girl I like read this article she would think that I don’t like her.

    • Jeff Begantelli April 10, 2016, 6:44 pm

      I feel you, this is almost the same situation I’m in.

    • CEra July 25, 2016, 6:10 am

      Most girls instinctively know a guy is (still) interested. My guess is she isn’t interested anymore. If that’s the case… why not give other girls a chance?? Regards

  • Maysa March 29, 2016, 10:42 pm

    but the boy so cute and a adorable and ha some but he Doesn’t no anything

  • Alexa March 26, 2016, 4:25 pm

    There is a guy that Showed so many sighns of liking me this whole year, and then my fiends told his friends that I like him. I asked him about and he lied and said his friends never told him about it. Now he is acting weird and I am not sure if I should ask if he lied or just ignore him?

    • HELPING ^_^ May 15, 2017, 5:11 pm

      I think you should just leave it as it is for a while.Try talking more to him,texting,hanging out and stuff.And when it will all calm down and everyone will forget about that try casually asking or telling him stuff like compliments and other signs. If you get closer and closer, tell him the truth.

  • amina March 16, 2016, 11:16 am

    There’s a Guy that avoided your gaze and smile at others and frowns at you but when he talks to you he stammers

  • nour abdelaal February 4, 2016, 6:52 am

    first of all im an egyptian so this might sound stupid..there is this guy whom i like and honestly he showed lot of signs that he likes me for example he made likes on every photo i post on instagram …and this eye contact thing happened alot and i notice that..and when we talk i talk to him as a friend as im treating him like everyone else but you know the eye language says more..he looks to me way differently than others but he doesnt hate me..we played talked hanged out but with company but this day i found out he made unfollow to me on instagram though he liked my pictures and what bothers me he is following people he doesnt even know..i mean if he hates me why would he like my photos?!!!..please help me what shall i do ..

    • maysa March 29, 2016, 10:43 pm

      Year your right with everything that u said

    • Anne April 5, 2016, 4:54 am

      @NOUR. I have some questions to you about my Egyptian boyfriend , do you mind if I can have your email as I’m really confuse with our relationship right now

  • nour abdelaal February 4, 2016, 6:46 am

    first of all im an egyptian so this might sound stupid..there is this guy whom i like and honestly he showed lot of signs that he likes me too for example he liked every post i posted on instagram..but sometimes he just stares at me with an unpleasant face as if he is so focused on me..and other times this “eye contact” thing happens i mean alot and when we talk i talk to him as a friend as i treat everyone else..and he really looks at me alot and he makes no signs that he wanna be away from me…but this day came when i found out he made me unfollow on instagram though he liked all my photos..so what do you think about it..i mean if he hates me why would he even like my photos of me..and what bothers me that he is following peope he doesnt even know on instagram…i just dont know what to do..im thinking of not showing him interest anymore but honestly i cant..so please help me

  • Christine Cox August 17, 2015, 9:28 am

    It might be hard to admit, but sometimes this is the case. You will just have to deal with it like anything else that is not positive in your life.

  • Sarah Harris August 17, 2015, 9:16 am

    I normally am not that weird about him texting me first, but after how many months, you would think that he is waking every morning with the thought of me.

  • Willie Gray August 14, 2015, 11:52 am

    In my case, I always been straight up with a girl. If I do not like her, for whatever the reason is, I tell her. Its the more adult thing to do.

  • Dorothy Green August 13, 2015, 4:47 pm

    If I had to make a list of reasons that I guy didn’t like me, ALL of these would be included. Very easy to tell, just have to keep your eyes open.

  • Ada Nichols August 12, 2015, 9:54 am

    I am wondering if I am dealing with this right now. My b/f has been getting back to me, but sometimes taking up to 1 full day to reply. Should I really be thinking that there is something else going on? I mean, we have only been dating for a few months, should I assume we are exclusive?

  • Diane Smith August 11, 2015, 9:32 am

    Yeah, I would agree that if you are seeing any of these signs, there is a good chance it is time to move on.

  • Geneva Becker August 11, 2015, 9:22 am

    I hate having to be the first one to text. However, I do get the hint after a couple of times that maybe he just does not want to talk to me.

  • Lindsey Mccarthy August 10, 2015, 7:39 pm

    Ohh, these are sort of harsh, but they are realistic that is for sure. These are good warning signs for those that are caught up in “puppy” love.

    • Irene Mcguire August 13, 2015, 5:50 pm

      Reality is sometimes harsh and that is OK. It is better to know ahead of time, compared to knowing a little too late.

  • Lois Daniels August 10, 2015, 7:29 pm

    I have been hanging around a guy that I like for a few months now. Nothing serious just when we are all out and about with friends, but I am not sure if he shares the same feelings because we only see each other with friends, what do I do?

  • Sue Rampling August 7, 2015, 9:40 pm

    LOL, I would say these are pretty straight forward, right?

    • Hattie Gutierrez August 12, 2015, 9:41 am

      Yes. If you cannot see the writing on the wall with signs like this, I am not sure anyone can help you!

  • Belle   August 7, 2015, 9:28 pm

    LOL, yeah I would say this is quite obvious. If you cannot get it figured out after seeing signs like this, there isn’t anyone that can help you!

  • Ashlee Garris   August 7, 2015, 8:16 am

    My boyfriend never texts me first and it was really bothering me recently. Now I read it on here and I do not know what to think. Am I doomed to be with this guy?

    • Pamela Coleman August 14, 2015, 12:09 pm

      Not at all. Each relationship is different, but I would keep an eye on him!

  • Keturah   August 6, 2015, 9:38 pm

    LOL. These are signs alright. I am going to add another one to it. How about “He never even calls you back after a night in the sack together”? :/

    • Keturah   August 7, 2015, 8:29 am

      Sorry to hear that! I hope you feel better soon and find a man that does not treat you like trash.

  • Marivel Patao   August 5, 2015, 12:14 pm

    These are pretty good indicators. However, before you jump off the deep end and assume he doesn’t based on these, you should just come right out and ask.

  • Tresa Hoey   August 5, 2015, 12:01 pm

    I think this is happening to me. My b/f is never around anymore and rarely gets back to me within the same day when I call OR text. I hate this. If he is not interested, he can just tell me.

  • Su   August 3, 2015, 10:28 am

    LOL, I would say these are a pretty good start to him not liking you. All of these can be stopped with a simple question. Talk to your man, find out what he is feeling. That is better than any speculation.

  • Madaline   August 3, 2015, 10:17 am

    I wondered about this! Talking to me like I am a “guy” friend. I have a b/f that has been doing this and I started to get the feeling that we were more friends than anything else. Like, he doesn’t really like me the way I like him. Sad, I think.

  • Joyce Zeck   August 1, 2015, 12:33 pm

    Very good list of things woman should keep an eye out for. Sometimes the signs are coming from a level of immaturity, but you should be able to figure that out right away.

  • Youlanda Canty   August 1, 2015, 12:23 pm

    These are pretty obvious, too. If you are seeing these signs, just do yourself a favor and get away. There is nothing you can do at this point and you will just make a fool of yourself trying to get him to feel otherwise.

  • Nubia Hudman   July 31, 2015, 12:32 pm

    When I thought about this for the first time, I was not sure that they were very good signs. Then I was in a bad relationship that included some of these and it is now quite bothersome for me.

  • Jessica White July 31, 2015, 12:18 pm

    Great post! These are quite obvious in my opinion and should be noted as soon as possible to avoid any situation that lasts longer than it should!

  • Lynn Hart July 30, 2015, 1:34 pm

    It would suck to be on the receiving end of these signs, but they are true! If the guy does not like you, there is very little that you can to change that.

    • Ashlee Garris   August 6, 2015, 9:27 pm

      Yes it does suck. This happened to me last summer and I will never be blind to things like this again!

  • Diana Butler July 30, 2015, 1:23 pm

    It is sad, but these are very true. I have a bad habit of not believing it until it is too late. That makes dating and things like that very difficult for me.

  • Theresa Wallace July 29, 2015, 2:20 pm

    If you see signs like these and still think he likes YOU, there is another issue.

    • Belia Ehrlich   August 3, 2015, 10:27 am

      You are right. There is another issue, maybe more than one and it should be addressed as soon as possible.

  • Lillian King July 29, 2015, 2:09 pm

    I would say that if I had to hear about other girls from a guy that supposedly likes me, that would be a deal breaker!

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