You might not be in contact with your ex… But in this day and age, where everyone is constantly addicted to their phones, you might end up being startled by a random text from your ex.
Maybe they’ll text you because they miss you. (Or because they’re secretly still in love with you, read this article to get the signs).
Maybe they’re bored and want to catch up.
Maybe they want to have an argument for no reason.
Whatever the reason may be… Here are some excellent responses that you can give to your ex, depending on whether you want to get back together or not.
If you want to know how to get back together with him, read this article on Vixen Daily.
This article is organized by the types of texts and then under each category, I am going to give you the script depending on whether you want him back or don’t want him back.
The I Miss You Text
His Text: I miss you a lot.
If You Still Want Him Back:
If You Don’t Want Him Back:
Just ignore him when he texts you and don’t respond.
If he persists:
or:
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The I Am In A Relationship & Am Bored Text
His Text: Hey, i’m still with ___ but i still wanna be with you
If You Still Want Him Back:
If You Don’t Want Him Back:
The I am Bored Text
His Text: hey, what r u up to? I’m bored.
If You Still Want Him Back:
If You Don’t Want Him Back:
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The You Are A Habit Text
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His Text: Hey. how have you been? What have you been up to?
If You Still Want Him Back:
If You Don’t Want Him Back:
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The I Want a Booty Call Text
His Text: Yo, what r u up to right now, wanna chill? (at 12 am on a Saturday night)
If You Still Want Him Back:
If You Don’t Want Him Back:
The I Am Drunk Text
His Text: heyyyyyy bba=bbeee
If You Still Want Him Back:
If You Don’t Want Him Back:
The I Need Emotional Support Text
His Text: Hey. i really need you right now. Can you please talk to me I know I hurt you but I really need you right now
If You Still Want Him Back:
If You Don’t Want Him Back:
The I Am Sad And You Used to make Me Happy Text
His Text: I am so depressed about us.
If You Still Want Him Back:
If You Don’t Want Him Back:
The I Love You Still Do You Love Me Text
His Text: I’m still in love with you.
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If You Still Want Him Back:
or if you definitely still love him:
If You Don’t Want Him Back:
OK, so now at least you should have some idea of how to respond if your ex texts you out of the blue.
The truth is, if you really want to get him back, you should follow the steps outlined here.
The foundation of any effort to get your ex boyfriend back starts and ends with the no contact rule – which means you probably shouldn’t be texting with him in the first place.
If you want more information on the no contact rule, you can find everything I’ve written about it here.
But whatever you decide, remember that one of your best resources during a bad breakup is the support and help of your friends.
If you can’t stop thinking about texting him (especially if he just texted you), you can text a friend instead.
Doing what’s best for you and how you’re feeling is the best thing you can do – regardless of whether you want him back or not.
And if you do, then all you have to do is read more of my work to find out exactly how.
Now that you know exactly what to text him if he texts you, you might be wondering how to get him back and keep him for good. The good news is that if you know what to do then you can 100% get him back, but the bad news is that every day you wait makes it less and less likely that you’ll get back together. That’s why you need this secret formula to get your ex back in your arms for good, so that he sees you as “the one” and wants to stay by your side forever. Don’t miss your chance to get him back, read this right now: Do You Want Your Ex Back? Use This To Get Them Back…
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How do I respond to him texting me ” I am not saying this to get back together with you…I miss you”.
You don’t respond. Low effort = Low reward.
Cute, but I doubt an ex would be this honest. Usually, the text would be “in code”. IE: “Hey Stanger” = “I’m trying to see if you’re single and still into me”
How do I respond to my ex when he texts me saying that even though he is NOT going back with me but he’s sorry he Has hurted my feelings by his harsh words.
He broke up with me because I cheated on him online.
I still love him and I deeply regret what I have done. I really want him back!
I think in that scenario, he still cares about your feelings. So you should leverage on that and in a kind of way make him see your feelings. Once you have communicated your feelings to him and he gives you the red card, then I think you should be a normal human being and move on with life.
Pls what does yo no hablo ingles mean
I don’t soeak english
I don’t speak English
i really don’t want him back so i’ll just ignore him..he knows what i mean when i’m silent
Really?
don’t fall into the schemes of some you know is not truthful..follow your instincts.
funny when men they text you like that but when you’re with them they hate texting or being texted
oh i need these! like really, right now! will be sending these to him to give him some! lol
i really do want him back..maybe i could use some of these..
these are indeed perfect! really on point!
i like this post..thanks for the sample texts
i could definitely identify..haha this is too real
will try these text responses haha
haha..nice texts!
these responses are perfect esp those if you don’t want him back
these are really perfect! thanks!
i do some of these text messages..haha guilty!
sometimes we dont realize we’re like this..its a wake up call for us to be really aware of our situations and put ourselves in our partner’s shoes. we won’t know when the time comes we’d be the one needing these.
he’s texting just coz hes bored, nothing else. so i wont even bother messaging back
i like the “i don’t want him back” sample texts.. lol
i love these! will definitely try these tips! haha
hhmm..pretty straightforward
i dont ever wna have anything 2 do w/ him so ill tell him straight not 2 even text me
lol good responses
i will be using these tricks..thx
im definitely using these tips
its better not respond if ur really not interested anymore
that i am drunk text lol
i dnt want him back so im defo trying these responses haha
these are really perfect examples!!
nailed it..like the sample messages lol
wow..i see my pathetic self w/ those replies
lol so funny those rejection lines..i do that too
ooohh i luv these responses esp those when u dnt want him anymor hahah