Does My Ex Still Love Me? Here's 33 Signs Your Ex Still Loves You

Does My Ex Still Love Me? Here’s 33 Signs Your Ex Still Loves You

What are the signs your ex still has feelings for you? Here’s how to know if your ex still loves you (look for these subtle clues)…

You’ve broken up, but you’re getting weird vibes from your ex. Most of the time, you’re pretty certain you two are over and done with, but then sometimes…it almost seems like he still loves you. He’s hot and cold and you can’t figure him out. He says he misses you, but then disappears for weeks. He’s dating someone new, but he’s totally jealous of your new boyfriend. He’s angry at you, but still, he keeps calling.

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Does he still love you? Is it driving you mad? Here are 33 signs to look out for!

1. He seems to be reminiscing a lot about your relationship

Has he been talking a lot about the good times lately? Does something always remind him of you together? He’s been thinking about you a lot, clearly. That’s a huge sign.

2. You keep bumping into him everywhere

Wherever you go, there he is. You may just be used to frequenting the same places, or you both have very good taste in venues, but it’s way more likely that these “random” encounters are not coincidences at all.

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3. He keeps in touch with your mom

Look, when you break up with someone for good, you cease contact with their family as well; that’s the rule. But he talks to your mom all the time and she just loooves him and keeps bugging you about breaking up with that “nice boy”. Someone’s been lobbying for himself to Mom.

4. You’ve been getting a lot of anonymous calls

Are you suddenly super popular with unknown phone numbers who keep bugging you? You don’t have a stalker, it’s just your ex who is calling to hear your voice, but doesn’t have to guts to say anything.

5. He calls on your birthday

You may think that it’s not a big deal, because after all, you were a couple once, and you stayed on good terms. But think about it like this – how often do men seriously remember special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries? Hmmm.

6. He texts you constantly

Your phone pings, rings, and buzzes all day with notifications of new text messages. Your friends? A new boyfriend? Scammers? Nope, just your ex wanting to “casually” see how you are. He is so obvious.

MORE: Top 10 Giveaway Signs Your Ex Doesn’t Want You Back

7. He asks all of your mutual acquaintances about you

This move is so 7th grade. Have multiple people told you that your ex has been asking them about you? What do you think that means? He’s not going around asking everyone you know about you for no reason.

8. He tries to make you jealous

You may think that the fact that he has a new girl means he’s moved on, but think again – is he kinda rubbing it in your face? Is he ostentatious about this relationship? Seems like he’s trying to convince himself, and not you, that he loves her? He’s trying to make you jealous, because he still cares.

9. You seem to inspire extreme emotions

Not that making your ex emotionally unstable is an achievement, but if he goes from hating you to being desperate to be around you, then you’ve successfully driven him crazy. He’s in love with you.

10. He won’t give up calling, even during your no-contact period

Mature, well-adjusted adults who are interested in moving on respect the mutually agreed-upon no-contact period. He, on the other hand, has been calling you non-stop. He is so not over you.

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11. He calls you or texts you drunk

In vino veritas, ladies, and what happens when he hits the wine a little too hard? He calls you. That should be strong enough indication of where his thoughts are.

12. He’s reevaluating his mistakes in your relationship

He seems to have had a sudden change of heart and he’s been apologizing and talking about the things he did wrong when you were together. Reevaluating, almost. He’s been thinking about you a lot.

13. He’s not indifferent, he’s angry

The opposite of love is indifference, so then anger and hatred are still in that love-sphere. It’s love adjacent, if you will. Anger, jealousy, and this apparent hatred all stem from intense feelings of love.

14. He keeps up with your online presence

It’s so much easier to stalk an ex these days, you just follow them on social media! And you know he’s been doing just that. Ever wondered why?

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15. He hates your new man

Does he suddenly turn into a bratty 12 year-old the moment your new boyfriend comes up? Does he make nasty comments? Does he hate him? He is mad jealous, because he still loves you.

16. He’s very touchy-feely

Whenever you do meet up, does he seem…overly affectionate? Too generous with the physical contact? A bit touchy? He’s just dying to be close to you.

17. He doesn’t seem ready or willing to move on

Has he had a relationship since you broke up? Is he going out to meet other women? No? He’s still hung up on you? You know why.

18. He tells you he misses you

Straight from the horse’s mouth: he misses you. That only means one thing. How many people do you miss? How many of them do you tell? Yeah, I thought so.

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19. He’s really supportive

Whenever you go through a hard time, he’s just there for you. Supporting you, making you feel better, making you laugh, taking care of you…with love.

20. He lied about having a girlfriend

He told you he’s seeing someone, but you found out he lied to you. That’s 100% to make you jealous, there is literally no other reason to lie.

21. He’s hitting you with the love songs

The poor guy is trying to tell you how he feels and you’re just not getting the hint. Every love song or lyric or quote he sends you is with you in mind and a way for him to convey his feelings.

22. He’s overly curious about your love life

He keeps asking prodding questions about your love life, and who you’ve slept with, and if you’ve dated since him…why is he so interested, unless he still loves you?

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23. He’s holding your stuff hostage

You’re bound to have forgotten some stuff at his place, only he won’t give it back! He’s not doing it to be an ass, it’s either because he wants an excuse to have you over again or because he wants to hold on to a piece of you. Both roads lead to the same conclusion: he loves you.

24. He has emotional outbursts around you

If he loves you as much as I think he does, then he’s going to get super frustrated and even angry from time to time, because he misses you so much and he just wants you to be with him.

25. He’s hot and cold

Does he go through phases where he calls incessantly, only to ignore you for days after? Does that confuse you? Well, just imagine the confusion that’s in his heart right now. He’s fighting his feelings.

26. He lights up when he sees you

You can absolutely tell that someone loves you from the way they look at you. If he lights up and smiles involuntarily when you show up, you’ll be able to see the love in his eyes.

MORE: 24 Undeniable Signs Your Ex-Boyfriend Still Has Feelings For You

27. He sneaks looks at you whenever you’re around

You know when you’re in 5th grade and you like a classmate, so you sneak looks at them during class? That’s what he’s doing to you right now. He loves you so much, he can’t help it.

28. He’s around you suspiciously often

He seems to hang out where you do a lot lately. Whether he invites himself, or he gets one of your friends to invite him, he’s only there because you are.

29. Your friends say he’s always talking about you

When you’re in love, you can’t shut up about the object of your affection, and he’s been blabbing to all of your friends. He can’t even be subtle about it, and everyone can see how much he loves you.

30. You catch him giving you tender looks or touches

It’s ok for friends to give you hugs, but stroking your cheek gently? Kissing your forehead, tucking a piece of hair behind your ear? That’s romantic territory.

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31. He still has pictures of you in his wallet or apartment

If you discover pics of yourself in his house, or that he carries one with him…do I even need to state the obvious? It’s so sweet and he is so into you.

32. He has confessed his love for you while he was drunk

In one of those drunken late-night phone calls, he uttered the L-word…only to pretend that he doesn’t remember when sober. Don’t fall for that one, girl. It was the unfiltered truth.

33. You’ve kissed or slept together since the break-up

Sure, break-up sex is one thing, but sleeping together multiple times after, or kissing, or any romantic behavior…don’t fool yourself, he’s in love with you. And you might be in love with him.

If you’re ever unsure about how he feels, just go back and check the list. Have you noticed any of these behaviors in your ex lately? And what are you going to do about it?

Now in any relationship I’ve found there are 2 pivotal moments that determine if your relationship ends in heartbreak or you get to live happily ever after so it’s vitally important that you take the next step and read this right now, because at some point the man you want is going to ask himself: Is this the woman I should commit to for the long term? That answer determines everything… Do you know how men determine if a woman is girlfriend material (the type of woman he commits himself to) or if he sees you as just a fling? If not you need to read this next: The #1 Thing Men Desire In A Woman…

The second problem almost all women experience: At some point he starts to lose interest. He doesn’t call you back or he becomes emotionally closed off. He seems like he’s losing interest or pulling away – do you know what to do? If not you’re putting your relationship and the future of your love life in great danger, read this now or risk losing him forever: If He’s Pulling Away, Do This…

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31 comments… add one
  • Karra October 19, 2020, 9:58 am


  • sabrina November 21, 2018, 6:27 pm

    does he still love me? well, i don’t care and i don’t really want to find out anymore. all i know is i’m happy with my new life without him. adios!

  • marinella November 20, 2018, 2:08 pm

    my ex once brought a date with him at a party where he knew i will attend too. it was way too awkward at first but then i realized his body language didn’t say he was comfortable at all. our common friends later on told me he was trying to make me jealous. haha, so funny i was actually enjoying watching him and the poor girl obviously not having a good time.

  • nancy November 19, 2018, 5:23 pm

    these signs are undeniable. read this article and you will easily know whether or not your ex still loves you.

  • maybell November 16, 2018, 6:15 pm

    knowing the signs that your ex still has feelings for you is a good thing. this will help you to get a clear picture of the situation and decide whether you should get back together or not.

  • alexandria November 14, 2018, 5:04 pm

    i kept on bumping into my ex everywhere and it was very weird but i felt a little bit of excitement after reading this post. i guess we still have feelings for each other.

  • candice November 12, 2018, 5:38 pm

    oh my. my ex is showing some of these signs but he already has a new girl. any advice on what i should do? my heart still longs for him sometimes…

  • louella November 8, 2018, 5:36 pm

    if you are interested in knowing exactly how your ex still feels about you then you should be reading this post. highly recommended!

  • pearly October 30, 2018, 6:41 pm

    this article is awesome! if you are wondering if your ex still loves you, you will surely find out easily by just reading this!

  • sabrina October 29, 2018, 1:24 pm

    when your ex still tries to contact you or at least want to know about you and your whereabouts, that means he still loves you. your friends would be the one he’ll be asking about you, make sure you ask them too.

  • carlene October 27, 2018, 7:32 pm

    i am still unsure of how my ex feels for me. i will check this list again. thanks for sharing.

  • princess October 24, 2018, 1:18 pm

    you’ll know when all he does is talk about you. your friends tell you he can’t stop asking and talking about you and says he misses you.

  • zoe October 23, 2018, 7:28 pm

    thinking about whether your ex still loves you or not is a natural thing after a breakup. for those who consider getting back to their exes, this article is worth reading.

  • queenie October 22, 2018, 1:15 pm

    a man can tell you outright he misses you and he wants you back. if you have this guy, give him another chance and make it really work this time.

  • xyla October 19, 2018, 1:00 pm

    when your ex tries to flirt with you by glancing at you, trying to touch you..that might mean he still loves you. be careful though, some men tend to do this only to get you in bed.

  • carenza October 18, 2018, 6:05 pm

    i am dying to find out if my ex still loves me. glad i found an article that is very informative.

  • irene October 17, 2018, 1:32 pm

    “You’ve kissed or slept together since the break-up” – this really messed me up. we did sleep together a few times and there i was, feeling like oh wow, we’re getting back together and stuff. but it turned out otherwise. i was really hurt, it took a while for me to move on. never ever do this!

  • alayna October 16, 2018, 6:14 pm

    ok, i am very confused right now. my ex always sends me text messages whenever he’s drunk but won’t pick up my calls the next day? would that be a sign that he still loves me?

  • hermione October 15, 2018, 12:39 pm

    drunk dialling is absolutely a sign that he’s still in love with you. women also use this trick, sometimes even pretending to be too drink to save themselves from shame.

  • maia October 12, 2018, 7:39 pm

    i really don’t care if he still loves me or not. i wasted so much of my time with him and i don’t want to see his face ever again!

  • ines October 10, 2018, 7:18 pm

    i knew he still have feelings for me even if he says he doesn’t anymore. should i give him another chance? i still love him but i am scared i might get hurt again.

  • merlie October 9, 2018, 12:50 pm

    when a guy still keeps your stuff, a picture of you or anything…your ex definitely still loves you.

  • jessica October 8, 2018, 6:15 pm

    i wonder if his love for me is still there even if we already ended our relationship. will carefully observe these signs. this is one of your wonderful articles that i find really helpful. thanks.

  • barbie October 5, 2018, 9:45 pm

    if your ex even tries to make you jealous, he is totally still into you. my ex did this to me..he would be everywhere with this poor girl making me jealous. sadly, it worked haha! we got back together for a short while but eventually got separated.

  • kierra October 4, 2018, 4:39 pm

    my ex keeps on texting me but he already has a new girl. i just hate guys like that. it just shows how unfaithful he really is. if he is still in love with me then i see no reason for him to find a new one. i am not being selfish, just being truthful here.

  • zari October 3, 2018, 8:37 pm

    one good sign that your ex still wants you back is when he’s holding your stuff hostage. i experienced this once before and it’s real.

  • anya October 2, 2018, 7:41 pm

    oh yes! there is no doubt that my ex is still in love with me. he just can’t stop talking to my mom! hope he’ll move on coz i already did. he is just hurting himself.

  • patty October 1, 2018, 4:14 pm

    you would know he’s not over you and might still be inlove with you when he’s still around. he does things like you never broken up. he likes to be there for you all the time.

  • kelly September 27, 2018, 4:15 pm

    yes! my ex has been talking a lot about our past and told me that he’s been thinking about me and the good times when we were still together. i guess he still has feelings for me and wants to win me back.

  • brie September 26, 2018, 12:17 pm

    hi still send me text messages and checks out my social media accounts. i’m not sure though what that means, i don’t want to expect too much because i’m too vulnerable still.

  • sam September 25, 2018, 4:30 pm

    i knew that my ex is still in love with me because he would still call me up on my birthday. too bad i never feel the same for him again. i have a new guy now, one that truly deserves my love.

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